No, this article is based only on sun signs. Those are a convenient and fast way to generalize, but far from conclusive at this broad level. There are many other planet placements which all affect someone’s personality.
This doesn’t mean that Virgo can’t form strong attachments. He can, but does so slowly and carefully. It usually takes him a while to fall in love. But once he’s truly smitten, he’s in it for the long haul. Once the Virgo male has committed to a relationship, he is forever loving, patient and supportive.
Are you tired of raising your boyfriends and teaching them how to act like grown men? Hang up your metaphorical nursing bra. The Virgo man needs none of your mother’s milk, thank you very much. Self-sufficient and self-directed, he’s no Oedipus or mama’s boy. However, he can dig in his heels like a headstrong child. Like all earth signs, he’s stubborn. Virgo can plant himself firmly in a position and refuse to budge. “You can’t make me!” He’ll stand by your side just as willfully.
This is where the man child part of his personality appears. If something doesn’t go his way, he’ll become critical of absolutely everything in his life. His shirt doesn’t fit right. That movie on T.V. looks lame. That actor can’t act. His soup is too hot. Ten minutes later…his soup is now too cold. It’s like a toddler that doesn’t want to eat his peas. He’ll whine and throw a fit until you give him something else. With the Virgo man, you just have to give him alone time when he behaves badly. He’ll come to his senses and realize that it’s not actually your fault that his shirt doesn’t fit right since he is the one that’s been packing on the pounds lately.
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As in all things, he will analyze love and seek perfection. This is of course a difficult area to do either, and as a result he can be particularly hesitant and stand-offish until he’s comfortable with a partner. Just to be clear, this doesn’t mean you need to be perfect as they appreciate imperfection too. For a full description of how a Virgo man acts when in love please see our article on Virgo in love
Once you’re talking to the Virgo man, try to drop into the conversation anything you might have done to help someone less fortunate than yourself, as the Virgo man is very charitable by nature. Ask him to sponsor you for some fund raising activity and not only will he gladly do so, he’ll probably ask how he can take part himself!
If you’re interested in meeting a Virgo man, forget the local bar. Virgos avoid loud, crowded places and instead prefer quiet venues where they can enhance their mind. They have an immense thirst for knowledge. Keeping this in mind, you might try libraries, museums, historical sites and planetariums for potential Virgo encounters.
You won’t win this man by playing games or trying to be someone you’re not. Be straightforward about who you are and what is important you, but have some tact and don’t try to bowl him over. Just be honest about your strengths and let him know you’re willing to work on your weaknesses.
Have an open mind with your Virgo man, and you’ll discover a lover who is dexterous and very good with his hands. This is a man that will take his time and be exceedingly exacting in his pleasure-giving.
Know that he may need reassurance. Virgos are often caught up in their heads. Because of this, they can get a little out of touch with reality, resulting in an unconscious tendency toward insecurity. When this time pops up, he may need reassurance. When he’s acting inhibited with you, let him know that that’s unneeded (not with your words, necessarily). Be overly welcoming. He may need that extra push.
A Virgo guy can be just as critical of himself as he is of others, and he may be more insecure than he lets on. You can show him you care about him by supporting and encouraging him in his endeavors, and this should really attract his attention.
Keep your conversations down to earth and direct. Excessive displays of “personality” may ultimately lead him to think you’re pretentious. What he’s really looking for is a steady partner with real depth.
He has a sharp memory and will remember even the minutest of details. You wouldn’t have to remind him about anniversary or birthdays or other important dates. He may not understand why these days are so important to you, but he will remember them nonetheless. Virgo men are not too jealous, but they are possessive in the extreme. They very loyal and will expect the same from you. It is better to burn the love letters of your ex-boyfriends. Once something gets over for them, its over. Emotional appeals and tears wouldn’t budge them an inch.
That being said, shy Virgoan men loathe being made a spectacle of, so think twice before planning that surprise party for them, or telling the waiter to make a scene with the whole restaurant loudly singing to them. Noisy, raucous parties full of messy drunks tend to make these retiring fellows nervous, so maybe consider cooking a lovely meal at home to celebrate instead. Give them their presents in private, and show them that you’ve really been paying attention to what tomes they were lingering over at the bookstore, or the goodies they’ve circled in their favorite catalogs.
A Virgo man is a boon to any workplace, where his intensely focused work ethic and exacting personality will ensure zero slacking or sloppiness in what he produces or achieves. With his analytical and critical thinking skills, Virgo tends to excel at problem-solving, planning, and organizing information. Left to their own devices, these men can be trusted to be efficient in their use of time and counted on to always strive toward perfection.
From just someone’s sun sign however we can only predict some aspects of their personality and it’s too much of a leap to try and predict behavior from just those. Astrology has fairly precise limits. This is an example of an area where sun signs are just too broad and clumsy to give an answer. A real compatibility reading is required to answer the question.
Then we woke up and smelled the smoke signals. A woman advertising online for an affair is either a) horny, b) bored, or c) (ding ding ding!) sending out an SOS. She’s crying out, “Help! I’m done with this marriage and I don’t know how to get out. Somebody save me!” Bingo. It’s the Virgo man’s sweet spot, and he rushes in for the save. In his own way, the Virgo man feels that he’s performing a public service helping a woman leave a bad marriage. He’d never fancy himself a homewrecker. After all, she was already sniffing around for a side dish. He was just being helpful.
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Virgo man judges his life by all the little pieces, rather than looking at the big picture. He’s not an all or nothing guy by any means. He examines every situation bit by bit and piece by piece much like a puzzle. In fact, he is one of those people who actually has the patience to sit down and do a 5,000 piece puzzle. He would actually find that activity fun rather than exhausting. If you want to date the Virgo man, you have to show him that you belong in his world and you won’t disrupt it in any way. Order and stability are the two most important things in a Virgo man’s life and that’s something his partner just has to understand.
He is dedicated, intelligent and capable, always ready to make the necessary moves to make more money or a better environment for those around him. He will gladly sacrifice himself for the happiness of those he loves. However, his love for his partner will often last much shorter than you would anticipate and he is not that reliable or trustworthy as Earth signs usually are.
A favorite of those who prefer the quiet, smoldering intellectual type, the Virgo man has a fantastic eye for detail and enjoys order, precision and efficiency in all things. If you find intelligence and a professional attitude to be sexy, then this is the man for you.
If you do happen to snag yourself a Virgo man, don’t fool yourself into thinking that you’ve captured his heart and now you can act like your usual neurotic self. The reality is that your work has just begun! One of the negative aspects of Virgo man’s personality is that he can become very critical of everything in his life if things aren’t going his way. That includes you. If you find yourself on the receiving end of Virgo’s criticism, just take a step back. You might be pushing him too hard and his criticism is his way of protecting himself. You need to give Virgo a lot of alone time and let him come to the realization that he needs you in his life. That only way to do that is to give him some time to himself.
When a Virgo man falls in love, he will ask himself if he is in love for real, all the time. As a mutable sign, he might claim love and discover that it wasn’t really the feeling of love, in just a couple of weeks. He can be very difficult to be with, for his emotions are as insecure as in any mutable zodiac sign, but with the element of Earth that his sign belongs to, he is somehow strict in his expectations. Even though he is quite loyal to his friends, when it comes to searching for the love of his life, he rarely lasts in a loving relationship, until he meets someone who can always give him the perfection he seeks, or until he gives up on that one perfect love.
Virgo often sees the Libra woman as someone he could never take seriously. She’s bubbly and talkative, while he’s quiet and serious. He may be much too critical and judgmental for her. The trick for this couple will be to get beyond these glaring differences.
Fine craftsmanship is their forte, and they work well with their hands – taking a special delight in fixing things that are broken or refurbishing and retrofitting antique elements into more updated and practical uses. A Virgo man genuinely wants to be helpful and enjoys making everything around him better – though this can be perceived as micromanaging by those who don’t know him well.
Know he’s more practical than poetic. When it comes to romantic gestures, your Virgo man won’t be into writing you songs about your left pinky toe. That’s just not useful. Why would he waste his time doing that? But he will offer you his sweatshirt when you’re cold; he will open the door for you; he will give you the perfect gift on your anniversary because those things actually are meaningful. That’s the good stuff, anyway. Who wants a poem about their toe?
Virgos love their work and are fiercely loyal to their professions and their employers. The Virgo man is absolutely the wrong person to have “I hate my job” or “My boss is an imbecile” conversations with. If you’re not happy with your current employer, best to say nothing for the time being because the Virgo man won’t appreciate it at all.
There is a misconception about the Virgo sign as a whole with regards to sex. Virgos are not naturally chaste and they don’t find sex distasteful. However, they do find it easier than any other sign of the zodiac to abstain, so you’re unlikely to come across a Virgo man who desperately craves sex.
If you want to grab the attention of a Virgo, it’s really quite simple. You have to show that you’re stable and grounded. He doesn’t want a woman who goes out of her way to chase him. That would only scare him further away. He just wants a woman that gets him and who is emotionally stable. If you’re loud and out there, don’t expect a Virgo to gravitate towards you. Rather he’ll avoid you because he doesn’t want to risk getting the extra attention just by being associated with you. The Virgo man is one of those people who will make a pros and cons list before deciding to date someone or not. He has extremely high standards and will not lower them for anyone. He will pay attention to every detail and take it into consideration. If you want to have any type of future with a Virgo man, you have to prove to him that you’re not going to disturb the delicate routine of his life.
When the drunk, emotionally fragile Aquarius teetered off to the smoking lounge in her seven-inch Loubitons, clutching a crystal-embellished phone to her ear, the Virgo man leaned in conspiratorially. “She’s not really my wife,” he announced matter-of-factly. “Sorry she’s such a nut job. She’s just going through a hard time. She had a baby a year ago and fell into some really bad postpartum depression. She’s married to someone else. We’re seeing each other on the side while she gets through it.”
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