It’s important to note that a Pisces man is not only his Sun sign. The Sun is of utmost importance because it shines its light on every aspect of an individual’s personality, but when trying to define a Pisces man’s sexuality, it’s essential to also look at the signs of his Venus and Mars. Venus and Mars are the planets most associated with love (Venus) and sex (Mars), and their signs will add depth, breath, and nuance to a Pisces man’s sexuality.
These men are rarely happy or successful trying to adhere to a 9-to-5 schedule. More often than not, they prefer to keep odd hours, maybe as serious night owls who would always rather work the graveyard shift. The freedom of being able to create their own way of doing things is essential – because they’re just going to do it anyway.
Cancer, the cardinal water sign, represents active emotions. A Cancer woman wants to direct the flow of emotions, and a Pisces man is more than happy to take directions. Her sexuality is sensual and fervent, and, just like her Pisces man, she considers lovemaking to be a sacred thing. She believes that it heals all wounds and affirms the blessing of being alive. A Cancer woman and a Pisces Man are sexually in sync. Everything about a Cancer woman’s sexuality is to a Pisces man’s liking.
We’ll start off with the positive and negative traits of male Pisces. Their characteristics in the chart listed below also include intensity. Having this knowledge will provide a foundation for all that follows.
A Sagittarius woman can be as elusive as a Pisces man. However, she’s sexually more primal. A Sagittarian woman and Pisces man can both quickly replace reality with fantasy, so sex between them can be adventurous and exciting. But a Pisces man experiences their lovemaking on an emotional level and wants to take his time and bask in the afterglow, while she’s quickly bored with his slower pace and is ready to move on.
PISCES (Wildcard): To be blunt, Pisces can be a great match with another Pisces or it can be hell on earth. It depends upon the couples ability to negotiate their people pleasing tendencies. Most longer-term Piscean couples tend to have a high degree of codependency, which isn’t always a bad thing.
There is a unique relationship that Pisces men have with animals of all types. For reasons that seem almost supernatural, this sign forms bonds with dogs, cats and even wild creatures of nature in an uncanny way.
TAURUS: Taurus is an earth sign that is focused and balanced. The sign is also great with money, which is a good thing for Piscean people. Because Taurus can be somewhat dull in the bedroom, Pisces can liven things up and create magic.
The partnership between Pisces and a Scorpio woman is quite passionate. Opposites do attract! Understanding how different you are will magnify the things you share in common, creating the strongest bond imaginable.
A Pisces man in love will give his entire self to his partner, swooning in the dance of two souls merging as one. That’s his aim, to achieve complete harmony and unity as one being with no firm distinctions as to where his identity ends and his partner’s begins. This can be intoxicating to a fellow romantic spirit, but completely overwhelming for those who are looking to date more casually.
Based on personal observation, it is my belief that some of this is due to the Piscean ability to empathically communicate with nature. I don’t understand it and am not even sure Pisces men or women do either.
He’s eager to please and open to all forms of sexual expression. Slow and easy or raunchy and wild, he’s a chameleon by nature and can synchronize with his lover’s movements and emotions. Plus, he’s blessed with a vivid imagination and can easily blur the lines between fantasy and reality, then wrap both himself and his lover in a blissful romantic haze.
Sexuality is all about emotions for all three water signs. A Pisces man wants to become one with his lover. When he makes love with a Water sign woman, they flow into each other, and such a complete merging occurs that it’s difficult for each to know where one ends and the other begins.
This is what they most desire: for you to forget that the world outside exists, and to give yourself over to love and the vision of indivisibility. When they lose themselves in love or dissolve into a puddle of tears after a major heartbreak, Pisces men may turn to drugs or alcohol to escape from their intense emotions or to numb their pain. Casual drinking or drug use may seem fun or innocent enough at first, but be on the lookout for the psychedelic daydreamer who can’t seem to handle being sober for any aspect of day-to-day life. Often the idyllic otherworlds of their substance-stimulated imaginations are much more attractive to them than the humdrum doldrums of boring old reality.
The home of a Pisces man often feels like a magical realm, a hermit’s cave filled with wonders, far removed from the bland settings of the other homes around it. It may look unassuming from the outside, but once within his domain, prepare to be dazzled.
Pisces is also a feminine sign, which means Pisces’ soft-spoken, soft-hearted, and emotional nature is easier for a woman to express than for a man. As a result, some Pisces men will try to prove themselves as men by placing a lot of emphasis on their manliness and strength (particularly earlier in life), and most will act macho at times. Even then, you can see the tenderness and empathy in their eyes.
Sexuality is all in the heads of the three air signs. At their best, a Pisces man can inspire an Air sign woman’s desire to make a deeper emotional connection, and she can help him put his feelings into words.
Virgo is the mutable earth sign. Pisces is the mutable water sign. Both are adaptable but ever changing. Virgo is mental; Pisces is emotional. A Virgo woman strives for sexual perfection, but the perfection she seeks is technical; her emotions are secondary. A Pisces man’s sexuality is all about emotions. So while their sex could be satisfying in the beginning, it won’t be long before a Pisces man is longing for a woman who is less into the mechanics of sex and more willing to let her emotions dictate her moves.
Negotiating the push-pull dynamic of his dual natures can be a lifelong quest for Pisces. A relationship with him can take a lot of patience and understanding. This is the guy who stays with the same woman for twenty years but never marries her. Or, during a lonely spell, he calls the escort service then becomes infatuated with his call girl. Her sheer unavailability gives him so much freedom, he freaks out and tries to hold tight. What a mess.
There might be a slight envy of the Piscean personality when a Sagittarius woman starts dating a Pisces man. A Sagittarian girl wants to be wanted. Yet his charm will be in the way he worships you by doing the complete opposite of what you tell him you need.
A Pisces man doesn’t recognize any distinction between romance, love, and sex; they’re all rolled up into one and can’t be separated, as far as he’s concerned. He’s a man who opens his heart and soul to his lover. He idealizes love, and to him, sex is the ultimate expression of love. He yearns for the euphoric feeling of closeness, fulfillment, ecstasy, and losing himself in another that he experiences when making love with his beloved.
To a Gemini woman, sex is like playing. It has to be fun and nothing too serious. Love has nothing to do with it, and emotional connection isn’t even necessary for her to enjoy the experience. A Pisces man is certain to find sex with a Gemini woman emotionally unfulfilling. There’s a good chance that a Gemini woman and a Pisces man won’t even recognize each other as sexual beings.
Fixing his problems and attending to his desires will make the Capricorn woman feel needed by a Pisces man, who seems to need nothing that her world has to offer. The day he says thank you is the day you feel you have him wrapped around your finger, but it may be the other way around.
We once counseled a very driven, ambitious Capricorn woman and her Pisces boyfriend of thirteen years. Like many Capricorns, she had mapped out a plan for the rest of her life, and was meeting her goals with the precision of a military general. Except…one. She wanted to be married by 32, and her 34th birthday was approaching. The Pisces still wasn’t “ready.” Her biological clock was ticking so loudly, we thought a bomb had been planted.
I’m mentioning this because I want you to know there is no hidden agenda here. Instead, my goal is to simply share insights about Pisces men using tenants of Jungian psychology, coupled with wisdom from the ancients.
He is caring, tender and sensitive, a kind of man who nurtures his feminine side and because of this he has the ability to listen, compassionately approach his partner and understand the feelings of everyone around him. His biggest minus is his inconsistency and his unpredictable character. No one knows what he will feel tomorrow, and his relationships could fall apart in a day, without any obvious reason.
A Pisces man wants to connect with his lover in a deeply meaningful way. He’s romantic, passionate, emotional, and sensitive, and he excels at giving and receiving both pleasure and love. Far from feeling guilt, fear, or pain, he considers sex a beautiful gift from “above” that connects him to the divine.
A Libra woman is romantic and wants to be wooed, wined and dined. Sex without romance does not appeal to her; it’s the whole aesthetic experience of lovemaking that turns her on. Eventually, a Pisces man might find that she’s too light-hearted sexually, and she might find he’s not fun or light-hearted enough, but a Libra woman and Pisces man have good sexual chemistry because both are so romantic.
A Tibetan relic or a huge chunk of a crystal will probably please him to no end, earning in a place of honor on one of his altars. You might gift him a piece of black tourmaline, obsidian, or shungite, which will protect against negative energy (which he has a tendency toward being open to absorbing).
Work and career are generally aspects of a Pisces man’s life that (like the rest of him) never conform to typical ideas of what a regular job should be. Often, he will invent a career for himself that you didn’t even know could exist, doing something so intriguing and bizarre that you just want to ask him a million questions about what it’s like to be a poisonous dart frog breeder or private investigator.
Dates with a Pisces man are romantic, unplanned and magical. He will treat his partner with tenderness and respect, ready to jump into any new adventure, for as long as he is allowed to be what he is. If he starts feeling pressured and forced into anything at all, he will feel the need to run off and create incredible dates for someone else. Experiences shared with him should be treasured, for nobody knows when the time will come when he won’t feel like being a part of them anymore.
As mentioned earlier, Pisces is a water sign. In simple speak, this means people who are of this horoscopic background dive deep. Of the three water signs [Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces] the “fish” sign can dive the deepest; emotionally and spiritually.
To get a fix on a Pisces man’s sexuality, you have to understand a bit about Pisces. Pisces is a mutable water sign and the most spiritual sign of the Zodiac. A Pisces man has oceanic emotions that are vast, deep, ethereal, and constantly in flux. He’s sensitive and receptive, and he soaks up the emotions and feelings that surround him and echoes them back.
When you think of Pisces, think of creative types. Here, I’m talking about musicians, artists, writers and story tellers. Much of their creative skill sets come from their ability to feel different emotions, such as sadness and joy.
Some Pisces folks take their protection from polluting forces even further, installing water filters to get rid of contaminants and fluoride, or blocking wi-fi transmissions. Before you accuse him of wearing a tinfoil hat, remember that a Pisces man will pick up on things that other people aren’t aware of, so if it works for him, don’t knock it.
A Pisces man will have little regard for “rules for the sake of rules,” and will defy everything from dress code to issues on tardiness or taking breaks. Rather than marching to the beat of their own drummer, they tend to undulate vaguely to their own internal clarinet. This may infuriate managers, but if the people in charge of a Pisces can recognize the strange genius of the man they’ve employed and just let him do his thing (rules and regulations be damned), they’ll often be amazed by the results he produces and the inventiveness of his work.
A Scorpio woman and a Pisces man are equally fascinated by the emotional dimension of sex. Their shared sexuality is all about feelings and emotional experience. Whatever a Scorpio woman desires from a Pisces man, he’ll gladly give. She wants to control, and he’s all about surrender. There’s little doubt that this can lead to some exciting, risque, and very satisfying sex for both.
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