A Pisces man wants to connect with his lover in a deeply meaningful way. He’s romantic, passionate, emotional, and sensitive, and he excels at giving and receiving both pleasure and love. Far from feeling guilt, fear, or pain, he considers sex a beautiful gift from “above” that connects him to the divine.
The man who is ruled by the sign of the Fish is an inspiring and charismatic individual. His passion for conversation and the exchange of ideas is only surpassed by his vision of future conversations. In fact, that vision thing of his, that crystal ball into what will be, is simultaneously the most enchanting and the most frustrating thing about him. He might be able to describe what future generations will think about the world we live in now, but he will not be able or willing to function in that same world today. You might think that he is out of touch with reality, but the Pisces man is simply feeling removed from our day-to-day reality.
A Pisces man is charming and romantic, and seduction comes naturally to him. He’s a master of all things sensual. He’ll plan romantic dinners and getaways, send his lover flowers and love notes, and use his intuition to discover what tantalizes and pleases her. To a Pisces man, creating love is an art, and he is the artist.
The Pisces man who is conscious of the day-to-day reality around him understands an obligation that he has, and sets out to fulfill it. He is at his finest when he is performing a service. This may manifest as a grand vision in which he sees himself playing a part, or it might be his response to history. How he interacts with others is based on his comprehension of how we as a society functions. If your experiences or opinions about the current state of affairs differs greatly from his, expect a wild give and take. He might seem a bit ordinary when you first meet. But when given a forum to express his ideas, watch out. His charismatic intellectual analysis will burst forth.
He’s eager to please and open to all forms of sexual expression. Slow and easy or raunchy and wild, he’s a chameleon by nature and can synchronize with his lover’s movements and emotions. Plus, he’s blessed with a vivid imagination and can easily blur the lines between fantasy and reality, then wrap both himself and his lover in a blissful romantic haze.
Virgo is the mutable earth sign. Pisces is the mutable water sign. Both are adaptable but ever changing. Virgo is mental; Pisces is emotional. A Virgo woman strives for sexual perfection, but the perfection she seeks is technical; her emotions are secondary. A Pisces man’s sexuality is all about emotions. So while their sex could be satisfying in the beginning, it won’t be long before a Pisces man is longing for a woman who is less into the mechanics of sex and more willing to let her emotions dictate her moves.
This is what they most desire: for you to forget that the world outside exists, and to give yourself over to love and the vision of indivisibility. When they lose themselves in love or dissolve into a puddle of tears after a major heartbreak, Pisces men may turn to drugs or alcohol to escape from their intense emotions or to numb their pain. Casual drinking or drug use may seem fun or innocent enough at first, but be on the lookout for the psychedelic daydreamer who can’t seem to handle being sober for any aspect of day-to-day life. Often the idyllic otherworlds of their substance-stimulated imaginations are much more attractive to them than the humdrum doldrums of boring old reality.
That’s because in their quest to help others deal with emotional trauma and pain, Pisces men often attract drama. Moreover, there is a tendency to care too much, which in turn leads to an unattractive, clingy codependency.
To an Aquarius woman, sex is about experimentation and research into what makes two people tick. A Pisces man’s merging of romance, love, and sex is a riddle for her to solve. Together they are sexually experimental lovers. Their sex life is not just about experiencing love; it’s also about experimenting with each other to reach greater mental and spiritual heights. Their time together in bed will be exciting and colorful, because of their ability to experience something universal and wonderful in the other.
The sign of Pisces represents all shady, dishonest activities, adultery, lies and misconceptions. On the other hand, it is also a sign of ultimate trust and faith one has. One of the biggest challenges for a Pisces man is to stay in an awkward situation without pretending to be something he is not. His approach to truth can be quite challenging for his partner, especially if he is dating a Fire sign, proactive and straightforward. In general, he will be careful not to be dishonest about important things, and when he finds himself in a truly intimate relationship, he will have no reason to fear his partner, and it will be easy for him to be honest.
Cancer, the cardinal water sign, represents active emotions. A Cancer woman wants to direct the flow of emotions, and a Pisces man is more than happy to take directions. Her sexuality is sensual and fervent, and, just like her Pisces man, she considers lovemaking to be a sacred thing. She believes that it heals all wounds and affirms the blessing of being alive. A Cancer woman and a Pisces Man are sexually in sync. Everything about a Cancer woman’s sexuality is to a Pisces man’s liking.
A Pisces man can add an emotional nuance to a fire sign woman’s sexuality, and her vitality and enthusiasm can add spice to their lovemaking. A Pisces man and a Fire sign woman can be one steamy combination for a while and under the right circumstances.
Water has no boundaries. It can seep into even the tiniest crack and wreak havoc, melting barriers and dissolving that which was formerly solid. The power of Neptune, god of the sea, is of dissolution – that which seeks oneness. Water is our natural state, from the primordial ooze where we began to the amniotic fluid we swam in while within the womb. This is what Pisces energy is all about: fluidity, unity, and returning to our original source.
There might be a slight envy of the Piscean personality when a Sagittarius woman starts dating a Pisces man. A Sagittarian girl wants to be wanted. Yet his charm will be in the way he worships you by doing the complete opposite of what you tell him you need.
Here’s a better idea: get a life, or keep living the one you’ve got. If you bait your hook with some juicy tackle—in other words, a full, exciting life—he’ll nibble and latch right on. The Pisces man is a follower, and he needs a strong leader. Once he’s sure you’re a queen, he’ll court you like a tenderhearted prince.
PISCES (Wildcard): To be blunt, Pisces can be a great match with another Pisces or it can be hell on earth. It depends upon the couples ability to negotiate their people pleasing tendencies. Most longer-term Piscean couples tend to have a high degree of codependency, which isn’t always a bad thing.
The Pisces man and Pisces woman together could really drink the town dry or save more souls than a town full of churches. Finding the balance between excess and avoiding reality will be a great dilemma between you two. But for a temporary partnership, there are few men who will ever intuitively know what you want and how to give it to you.
A Libra woman is romantic and wants to be wooed, wined and dined. Sex without romance does not appeal to her; it’s the whole aesthetic experience of lovemaking that turns her on. Eventually, a Pisces man might find that she’s too light-hearted sexually, and she might find he’s not fun or light-hearted enough, but a Libra woman and Pisces man have good sexual chemistry because both are so romantic.
From there it’s all about lavish gifts, flowers delivered to your job, opera tickets and romantic picnics. Pisces is like a time-release romantic. He becomes more sentimental and tender the longer you’re together. It’s a trust thing. Make it safer and safer for him to be himself around you—he fears your judgment and craves your admiration more than anyone else’s. The phase of “mature love” is so much more romantic and rich with Pisces than infatuation. He does everything backwards, but that’s precisely what’s so wonderful about him. If divine timing is on your side, you could be lucky enough to experience it.
TAURUS: Taurus is an earth sign that is focused and balanced. The sign is also great with money, which is a good thing for Piscean people. Because Taurus can be somewhat dull in the bedroom, Pisces can liven things up and create magic.
We have no idea if they worked things out, but we hope so. If you’re dating a Pisces man, know that if he’s playing the “cold fish,” you’ve probably turned up the heat a little too high. Back away a step or two, and he may just swim right back to you—as long as you don’t back off too far. We realize this could sound dangerously like The Rules, and unfortunately, he does respond to being tortured and teased with mind games. Still, who needs that crap?
“You know what I think?” we asked his distraught girlfriend, while Pisces pretended he was only half-listening. “He feels like you’re trying to take away his freedom. Pisces needs space before he’ll commit. He’s afraid you’re going to try to control him. So he’s holding back until you chill out.”
Love for a Pisces man is about mind, body, and soul: the whole person. He’s a skilled lover who possesses empathic abilities that allow him to sense a woman’s every need, both in and out of the bedroom. His is the type of love that allows him to experience a spiritual oneness with his lover.
The conversation between the Pisces man and Taurus woman is endless. When it does wind down, the physical connection can easily become an addiction. There is a glamorous side to his edgy existence that attracts the bull like a moth to a flame.
Electric passion can be just the beginning between a Pisces man and the Libra woman. If things evolve into a serious relationship, beware of codependency potholes on the road to happiness. Laying a solid foundation early in the relationship makes for wonderful passion later.
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There’s an air of mysticism surrounding a Pisces man. He’s a quiet man with a rich inner world that he doesn’t share lightly. But once trust and an intimate sexual bond are created, he’ll fascinate his lover with talk about his dreams, schemes, and mystical things. He’s a quintessential romantic idealist who believes all things are possible.
As mentioned earlier, Pisces is a water sign. In simple speak, this means people who are of this horoscopic background dive deep. Of the three water signs [Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces] the “fish” sign can dive the deepest; emotionally and spiritually.
These Neptune-ruled visionaries love to dive deep and are never content to stay in shallow water – emotionally, spiritually, or intellectually. Small talk doesn’t interest them at all, and you’ll find that even upon meeting them for the first time, a Pisces man will ask you penetrating questions about yourself and your life for hours. It may take awhile before you notice that, though they know everything about you, you still know almost nothing about them.
Many Pisces men are extremely sensitive to noise and light pollution, and will often soundproof their homes or block out natural light from the windows, lending further to the sense of being in an insular womb-like cavern, a fairyland away from the normal world. You may lose track of time and forget that there’s even a world outside the beautiful one that he has created.
A Tibetan relic or a huge chunk of a crystal will probably please him to no end, earning in a place of honor on one of his altars. You might gift him a piece of black tourmaline, obsidian, or shungite, which will protect against negative energy (which he has a tendency toward being open to absorbing).
Part of the attraction to the sea directly relates to this sign’s sense of imagination. For example, other signs, like Leo, may look upon the Pacific Ocean and see beautiful shades of blues and greens.
Money can be an area of difficulty and strife for your Pisces man, who loves to spend profligately and may find that coins spill out of his hands like water. This Fish needs to learn about saving his dollars away for a rainy day.
An Aries woman is attracted to the physical act of sex itself, not feelings of intimacy. She can get impatient with courting and cuddling and push for the main event. A Pisces man might find it a formidable challenge to take their sex life beyond a quickie, but on the other hand, if he tells her what he wants and challenges her, he just might find her delightfully willing. If there’s anything that turns an Aries woman on sexually, it’s the challenge of being the best lover a man has ever had. When an Aries woman and a Pisces man hook up, the sex can be hot and steamy.
Several years ago, a major aviation incident happened that killed many people. Minutes before the news became public, a friend of mine, who happens to be Pisces (and psychologist), called me on the phone.
Because of this disparity, Pisces men often end up getting hurt and may wear their wounded hearts on their sleeves. It’s easy for them to end up feeling like the victim when their deep feelings aren’t matched, or when their partner suddenly wakes from the consuming spell of singularity to realize they haven’t been home in a week and all their houseplants are dead. It’s tempting to spend all night and day in bed with your Pisces – swimming within their embrace and getting lost in their kisses.
We’ll start off with the positive and negative traits of male Pisces. Their characteristics in the chart listed below also include intensity. Having this knowledge will provide a foundation for all that follows.
A Pisces man is unique. He’s charming, romantic, and one of the most sexually creative men you’ll ever meet. He’ll do anything and everything his lover desires, as long as he knows his heart is safe. The fact is, a Pisces man understands a woman’s sexual needs in a way that most men can’t. He wants a woman who can be his lover, friend, and lifetime companion, and that’s a tall order to fill. Ask yourself if you can give this man all that he desires. If you can, you’ll be rewarded with a sensually fulfilling relationship in every sense of the word.
To attract a Pisces man you must be like-minded. If you have fundamental lifestyle differences, this is one zodiac sign that is also a “Stop” sign. If you share some of the same interests and frequent the same establishments as this man, you will already be on his radar. Keeping him engaged intellectually means that you must always have another idea to discuss. He only wants absolutes when it comes to the consistencies in his personal life.
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There is a unique relationship that Pisces men have with animals of all types. For reasons that seem almost supernatural, this sign forms bonds with dogs, cats and even wild creatures of nature in an uncanny way.
Pisces is also a feminine sign, which means Pisces’ soft-spoken, soft-hearted, and emotional nature is easier for a woman to express than for a man. As a result, some Pisces men will try to prove themselves as men by placing a lot of emphasis on their manliness and strength (particularly earlier in life), and most will act macho at times. Even then, you can see the tenderness and empathy in their eyes.
Once you and your Pisces man are an item, keeping him faithful will require that you patrol the borders. Incoming temptation must be stopped before it can inspire him. The ultimate goal for you should be to become part of his deeply held belief system. If being faithful to you is as important to him as his artistic and spiritual pursuits, you will have him for life.
A Pisces man in love will give his entire self to his partner, swooning in the dance of two souls merging as one. That’s his aim, to achieve complete harmony and unity as one being with no firm distinctions as to where his identity ends and his partner’s begins. This can be intoxicating to a fellow romantic spirit, but completely overwhelming for those who are looking to date more casually.
He is caring, tender and sensitive, a kind of man who nurtures his feminine side and because of this he has the ability to listen, compassionately approach his partner and understand the feelings of everyone around him. His biggest minus is his inconsistency and his unpredictable character. No one knows what he will feel tomorrow, and his relationships could fall apart in a day, without any obvious reason.
Negotiating the push-pull dynamic of his dual natures can be a lifelong quest for Pisces. A relationship with him can take a lot of patience and understanding. This is the guy who stays with the same woman for twenty years but never marries her. Or, during a lonely spell, he calls the escort service then becomes infatuated with his call girl. Her sheer unavailability gives him so much freedom, he freaks out and tries to hold tight. What a mess.
A Pisces man is an enigma, an enchanter, and a physical and emotional shapeshifter, whose sexuality is subtle and seldom on display. He can be incredibly romantic, under the right circumstances and with the right woman, but he can also be elusive and evasive, which can make it difficult for a woman to know exactly where her relationship with him is going.
Every time this man falls in love, he will think that he found the love of his life. With a certain relative view, this might actually be true for each one of his loves. Every relationship in his life is very different from the previous one, and each one represents an important lesson in love. His spontaneous, changeable nature will make him fly high and live out a romance until there is nothing more in it to be happy about. He will love with a full heart, never holding back and approach his loved one with care and respect. Unfortunately, you can never know how much time will pass before he realizes that he is actually looking for someone different and better suited for his character.
These men are rarely happy or successful trying to adhere to a 9-to-5 schedule. More often than not, they prefer to keep odd hours, maybe as serious night owls who would always rather work the graveyard shift. The freedom of being able to create their own way of doing things is essential – because they’re just going to do it anyway.
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