This paints us gemini men as crasy. The real problem is that Gemini loves deep and strong. Its very hard to detach from love feelings. So we need to get away from the person because we love them and its all in our head. So we have to have a stronger detach to truly get over them.
That’s not to say that Gemini men don’t commit for the long haul, because they do. In fact, this man is capable of becoming the most boring, bathrobe-wearing, remote control clutching cliche of a husband ever. He may marry just to “get it over with.” Once he’s comfortable, he can stay put. The last thing he wants to do is climb the rickety rollercoaster rails of a new relationship all over again. The emotional blowups, the misunderstandings, the soul baring—ugh! He’d rather just put on his favorite sweater and go to the multiplex for the latest action movie, or burrow into a book while you entertain yourself. Sure it’s a snoozefest. But it’s better than being with a needy, attention-hungry Daddy’s girl who distracts him from his dreaming and downloading.
The dark side of a Gemini man? Well, he hasn’t got much of one. The worst thing that a Gemini man can do is pull a disappearing act on you. You can’t get too mad though, because you probably brought it on yourself because you came on too strong and didn’t let the man have his alone time. If you want to keep a Gemini man in your life, you have to remember to let him have his time without any complaints from you. Other than pulling a Houdini act on you, being mean or vindictive is not in Gemini man’s nature. He also doesn’t have a thirst for revenge like the Scorpio. If you can tell that’s it’s just not in the cards to have a relationship with your particular Gemini man, the best thing you can do is just let him go. And he will go, peacefully.
Gemini is a paradox, because one side of him is such a social and communicative creature, while the other side is a loner who needs plenty of space. One day Gemini man just can’t shut up and wants to spend all day with you, then the next day, he doesn’t return your phone call and you don’t hear from him for a week. What gives right? Well that’s all part of his charm. With Gemini you get a two for one package. Want a social creature with a side of reclusive? You got it baby.
Quick-witted Geminis seem to wear invisible winged shoes, like Mercury, the god of their ruling planet. These brilliant, silver-tongued angel-devils can be extremely charming and entertaining. Born with a true gift for gab, they are always ready with a fascinating story to tell you. Generally jovial, good-natured, and intellectually energetic, a Gemini man will always keep you on your toes with constantly shifting attitudes and opinions. Extremely cerebral, full of ideas, and always excited about making new discoveries, a Gemini loves to learn and share his knowledge – but, he tends to know a little bit about these subjects without ever truly committing to one field of study in a deeply engaged way. It’s this sponge-like tendency to absorb bits of information that makes him lethal in a game of trivia.
Gemini Man, based off a concept by Darren Lemke, was originally slated to be produced by Walt Disney Pictures along with Jerry Bruckheimer in 1997. Tony Scott and Curtis Hanson had previously been attached to direct the film. At the time, Disney’s now-defunct animation/visual effects department The Secret Lab developed a test short, known as Human Face Project, to create visual effects for the film, which would involve creating a younger CG clone of the main actor. The film never progressed at Disney, though, as the technology wasn’t developed enough in order for the film to be produced.
Understanding Gemini energy has more to do with appreciating our need to see and truly embrace both aspects in ourselves, which we also carry – regardless of our own zodiac sign. It’s an important lesson in life, and a Gemini is the perfect teacher (though perhaps not the most patient one). Constantly holding the juxtaposition of two opposites within the container of your own personality can be a lot to handle, both for the Gemini man himself and for those he encounters as he fleetly flits through life.
There is no way of knowing where he will want to take you out. He is not one of those traditional men who has the need to make the first step, and will gladly accept someone’s invitation to any place that sounds interesting. If he develops feelings, he will surprise his partner with different places, presents and all sorts of creative spices to their dating life. It is impossible to get bored with Gemini, unless they talk too much and this is also something that can be changed with one conversation. The best way to describe the dating life of Gemini is – anywhere and anyhow, for as long as it is spontaneous and carefree.
So often times; Gemini men do tend to tell lies. By lies, I mean making promises he never intends to keep. He has no conscious when he does lie on purpose. If it means he gets what he wants; he’ll do it.
This is a man who gives little meaning to the act of sex. He has a youthful glow around him and will usually be potent for many years, but he doesn’t care about sex as much as he cares about the excitement that goes with it. He wants someone to challenge him but not dig into his insecurities. He needs someone smart enough who says the right things at the right time. He likes sex outdoors and can be quite a pervert, with no ill intention hidden. If he is in a long term relationship, he will expect change in their sexual activities all the time, almost as if he is frightened of the routine and what it represents. Gemini needs to be on the move, always changing partners, positions or locations.
He is positive, adventurous and surprising, always on the move and ready to meet any life challenge. When he is truly in love, he shows his childlike heart, pure and untouched. However, there is a lot not to like when he gets distant and simply doesn’t care anymore. He can be unreliable, acting like a spoiled child and scared of his emotions.
Due to Gemini man being so social and friendly most of the time, he can get the reputation of being a flirt and a player, which he can definitely be if he’s not serious about a woman. When Gemini man finds a woman he can see a future with though, his player status will disappear just as quickly as it came. Gemini man can commit, just with the right woman. If he senses you get him like no one else can and appreciate him, then you have just become his one and only and you shouldn’t worry about any ladies he talks to because he’s only got eyes for you sweetheart.
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If you have chosen a life with a Gemini man, rest assured you will never be bored. On his good days he will make you laugh and talk your ear off, and on his off days he will lock himself away for a chance to really slow down and appreciate everything he’s got. Or maybe just give that mouth a break because those lips are chapped from all that talking. Two sides of the Gemini man personality come together to form an almost perfect human being. Just don’t let him know you think he’s perfect because after all he is still a man, and we must always keep a man guessing if we are to truly keep our status as a mysterious and alluring woman.
The home of a Gemini man is often just a placeholder – somewhere to store his books, papers, and clothes. You may never get an invitation to come over unless he’s having an impromptu gathering – but these tend to be more about the meeting of the minds rather than an elaborate dinner party or cozy to-do.
A Gemini man may move around a lot, and even go through stints of couch surfing or staying here and there when traveling. He tends not to get attached to his possessions or even many of the traditional connotations of home – unless he’s sharing a space with someone else who does, which is often ideal.
The Gemini man thrives in a long-distance relationship for that reason. Our Aquarius friend Neda is married to a Gemini who lives almost 6,000 miles away in Iran, while she lives in New York. She met him while producing a documentary film in Tehran called Nobody’s Enemy, about Iran’s first public elections. Yas, her husband, is Iran’s first recorded hip-hop artist. Neda filmed him in the studio reciting his fiery political verses. (Only a Gemini could get away with recording conscious rap under a totalitarian government.) Both passionate about change in their native country, their intellectual chemistry sparked a romantic connection.
If you meet one of these Gemini men; you’ll be able to spot if he’s one of these darker side Gemini men. Again, not all of them are this way but many are. Watch out for the red flags so you don’t want your time or heart.
You have to indulge Gemini man’s whims as they come. If you see him being social, join in and enjoy it. If you see that he is craving his alone time, let him have that too. He wants a woman that can understand him on an intuitive level without him having to tell her. He’ll know you are different from the rest when you can give him his space but also be his partner in crime all in the span of a week. That’s when he’ll know he has found his match and you’ll be invited into his inner circle.
There is no way to ever know what he’s thinking or doing at any given time. He’s distracted very easily and this could change his behavior or mood. One minute he may be sweet to you and then another moment, he may be very sarcastic.
Because Gemini man is a such a good communicator, he might be one of the only zodiac signs who likes to talk on the phone. Most men tend to avoid phone conversations, but Gemini man actually prefers it. If you want to grab the attention of the Gemini man, all you have to do is be able to hold an intelligent conversation with him. He finds conversation more stimulating then anything else. He gets bored easily, so you have to keep his attention through the art of conversation. If you can do that, and stimulate him intellectually, you just might have a chance.
What he does have tends to be haphazardly organized in a manner that may only make sense to him and his personality, but it’s all kept fairly tidy. It’s not carelessness that makes him this way – just more of an attention focused on many other more important things, like what’s happening in the world outside the place where he sleeps and makes coffee. A Spartan, simplistic living space is ideal for this man, and he would do well inhabiting a studio apartment or tiny home.
Oh, did we mention that Yas is also 12 years young than Neda? Fairy-tale romances with Gemini, should they happen, always have an interesting plot twist—the more unpredictable the better. And feeling like he’s getting away with something could inspire the Gemini man’s adoration. He loves a challenge! “He knew we would get me—he just waited for me to realize it,” Neda recalls of her courtship. “He introduced me to his mom and family without me knowing what he was up to (because I was filming and in work mode). Then when he confessed to me his feelings and I responded positively. He said, ‘Well then, my last question to you is, shall I wait for you?’ I said yes and the next day, it was as if we were a married couple—that comfortable! No guesses, no games.”
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