When the Libra man is ready for a relationship and commitment, you will definitely know it. He’ll treat you differently right from the start. If you decide you want to take your time before you get in bed with him he will wait for you because what’s the rush? He’ll actually respect you more the longer you make him wait, because he’s used to getting everything he wants when he puts on that charm. He’ll be a little surprised that you didn’t fall for his charm which will make him want you even more because you just made him feel vulnerable. When a Libra man feels vulnerable, his needy side comes out. By denying his charms, you’ve just made him question his entire dating strategy and now he’s thinking maybe he just doesn’t have “it” anymore. In turn, he’s going to work that much harder to get your attention. Get ready for calls, texts, flowers, and dinner invitations. Libra man is now on a mission to show that he’s still got it and you better believe it.
If you want a free alternative, you could try writing him a beautiful note. Again, heavy emotions are not quite the Libra’s cup of tea, but a letter with a few scribbled verses can make a big impact as long as those verses focus on the beauty of things rather than the intensity of your feelings.
Libra is the sign of the judge, so he subjects prospective mates to a lengthy evaluation before committing. During his weighing and measuring process, he’ll examine whether he’s “settling” by being with you. This guy has a breathtaking sense of entitlement—only the best for Prince Libra! Years can pass between his relationships, and he often marries late. Unfortunately, he also has a case of verbal diarrhea, and will babble out his whole messy thought process well within your earshot. Hello, insensitive. You’ll need to develop a thick skin to tough out those times.
These same qualities can sometimes make him fickle in matters of the heart. He loves people, and they love him, so he’s often viewed as a flirt. He wants a perfect relationship. If he doesn’t have that with his partner, he’s not above finding a more suitable mate. But once he falls in love, Libra is faithful and devoted.
Libra man is interested in a partner who can hold an intelligent conversation. A good looking social butterfly is attractive to your Libra man as well. He loves to love and be loved. Activity is important to Mr. Libra. Being outdoors is usually where he is during his free time. He isn’t your ordinary couch potato; although a romantic cuddle session while watching a movie with his lady is definitely well received. He is one of the most romantic men in the Zodiac.
Libra men are usually fun-loving, interesting, and nice people. If there’s a party happening, you can bet that Libra is the life of it. Libra loves attention, but is also good at giving it to other people, especially women. That’s where that famous Libra charm comes in. Libras are known to be a bit of a flirt, even if they’re already in a relationship. It’s quite harmless really. As long as they’re serious about their partner, any flirting they do doesn’t amount to anything more. They just like the attention. Or they’re feeling extra needy that day and flirting is a way to feel better about themselves.
To find a Libra guy, you have to think like he does. Since he loves beauty and creativity, look for him at art galleries, arts and crafts fairs, and museums. Because of his altruistic spirit, you might find a Libra man volunteering at a homeless shelter or marching in a protest. The Scales also love luxury, so they tend to frequent fine restaurants, hotels and fashionable clothing stores.
He will probably want something expensive. Even if he doesn’t seem like a material type, a set of fancy headphones, an expensive professional camera or shoes that you’d never by at that price, will make him feel valued and proud. He always wants something that looks fancy, with simple lines and an even boringly moderate shape and set of colors. So go for beige, grey or black and white if you aren’t certain of his preferences. Some moderate green might come in handy too. The perfect gift for him needs to fit his size and his mind. It needs to stimulate his intellect or be truly beautiful and tasteful. It doesn’t have to be practical at all, for as long as is inspires him through beauty or real creativity.
If you do not have the finances to back Libra’s love of luxury, fear not! These men are interested in refinement, but that refinement does not necessarily need to cost you an arm and a leg. Try inviting him to a fancy restaurant for dessert only to save you the cost of a meal, or go somewhere with an elegant atmosphere but a moderate cost.
Libra loves to love, but you can scare off the Libra man by getting too sentimental. If you want to attract his attention and win his affections, try appealing to his desire for balance and appreciation of beauty. Approach him with confidence, but let him get comfortable with you at his own pace.
Equality is a big deal for Libra. He needs you to play fair, and although he denies it, he’s always quietly keeping score. When he needs to win an argument, he’ll pull out his arsenal: “Well, I did the laundry last time and the dishes, so you should take out the trash.” Or, “We went to your favorite restaurant last time, so tonight we have to go to mine.”
Anything too extreme throws Libra out of alignment, turning him into a grouchy ogre, even a tyrant. Our Libra grandfather had two favorite sayings: “Too much!” (when we served him an over-filled dinner plate) and “Q-U-I-E-T!” (he’d bellow out this warning out before taking his daily nap). He needs to retreat and refresh himself, and has a few regular routines that must not be denied. For our grandpa, it was a 1:00 nap, followed by a cup of Lipton tea and two crumbly Pecan Sandies—every single day of his 30 post-retirement years. Our friend Amanda has grudgingly accepted that at 7:00 p.m., her Libra husband will be meeting his cyber-buddies online to play World of Warcraft, a multi-player computer game. Whatever the Libra man requires to unwind and rebalance—a cold beer, a run on the beach, an hour in his model airplane studio—the wise woman learns to let him have it.
The Libran trait of indecisiveness means they tend to vacillate between three or more vocations might make this man look like a jack-of-all-trades, but read over his resume and you might find the master of none.
It can be hard for his partners to live up to the lofty pedestals he loves to place them on. The harsh angles and lessons of real life are distasteful to this prince of the air. (Curious whether or not you compatible with your Libra man? Find out here.) Decisions can be tricky for a Libra man, who constantly fears making the wrong one and committing in the long term to a lover who will eventually reveal his or her inevitable flaws and disappoint him – or worse, who will see through his superficiality and realize that sometimes there’s not much to back up all the flowery words and sweet talk.
Show him some appreciation. Libra men love to love, and they love being loved on. Little tokens of appreciation can underscore your feelings for him while making you appear more attractive in his eyes. Try giving him a small gift or note for no reason, or offer a massage at the end of a long day or week.
As the Scales symbol suggests, Libra seeks balance and harmony. He has a deep sense of fairness and justice. He often takes up causes to help right the world’s wrongs. He expects his partner to take on these lofty causes and to fully support his efforts. Libra hates confrontation, which makes him fairly easy to please. On the down side, he may be very indecisive and hard to pin down to an opinion. True to his trademark fairness, he weighs all sides carefully first, and even then he’s likely to change his mind after giving it more thought.
If ever there were a charmer in the zodiac, it would be the man born under the Libra sign. At first glance he’s got it all: he’s cool, confident, and drama-free. Only after taking a closer look do you notice that there’s so much more to him beneath that gorgeous exterior. The Libra man has got a few tricks up his sleeve, and if you’re not careful, he might just charm the pants right off you.
Libras naturally have somewhat of an airy personality, so they feel most inspired when they are allowed to move about from thing to thing. Fixating on any one topic can quickly make a Libra man feel bored.
When you extend an invitation, pick a place that your Libra man will probably enjoy, like an art gallery, arts and crafts fair, or museum. You can appeal to him even more by inviting him out during an active time. For instance, ask him to a special one-day-only exhibit instead of inviting him to the museum during a quiet “off” time.
He’ll be quite flattered by your affection and if he likes you, he’ll more than likely return the affection. Even if he doesn’t like you romantically, he’ll probably want to be friends. Just consider whether you can handle hearing about all of his conquests without having your feelings crushed.
The combination of the Aquarius woman and Libra man has the making of a wonderful relationship. Both signs love people and intellectual stimulation, along with personal freedom. They’ll both allow the other space, while reveling in each other’s company.
The commitment to know himself and achieve balance in his own life can create a personality not commonly seen in this sign: true mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual equilibrium. Without this dedication to focusing on internal balance, Libra men can wobble and teeter-totter back and forth from one extreme to another like a lopsided seesaw.
The Libra man is looking for the one who satisfies him emotionally, spiritually, intellectually and physically. For a Libra man to take notice, you need to stand out from the crowd. He’s drawn to beautiful women who have a sense of style and elegance.
Because Libra is represented by the seventh house in the Zodiac, the house of partnership, and ruled by Venus, Mr. Scales is all about romance and love. Fairness and Justice are also extremely important to your Libra. He is cordial, polite, charming, diplomatic, and peaceful. He enjoys socializing. He is a classy guy, and the perfect man to bring home to meet the parents.
For this reason, Libra men have a habit of stringing several (or more) people along at once – often without even realizing what they are doing. An artistic or mental connection can easily slide into flirtation or an emotional affair. Because many of these are conducted online or over text and are usually over long distances, most of his fleeting romances (often with several people at once) are never consummated or physically acted upon.
In the workplace, Libras are idea men, always ready to put their analytical minds to use brainstorming and delving into the world of inspiration. These guys really shine in visual fields like photography and film, or merchandising and design – areas where look-and-feel influences how the brain interprets meaning. Advertising and creative teams tend to be stacked to the gills with eager Libra men sketching out style guides a mile a minute. Often their ideas flow faster then they can tack them down, so it can be ideal if they’re in a position to have people working under them to transform the ephemeral into the actual.
Between a minimum of 10 Astrological planets, 12 constellations (or Zodiac signs), and the 12 houses that classify your identity into major areas of your life, there is much to consider when getting to know someone based on Astrology. It’s best to have a professional Astrologer interpret your birth chart to further understand your actions, priorities, emotions, and individual personality.
Once he starts to return your attraction and affection, be prepared for him to show you what he likes in the romance department. Libra is a natural-born charmer, so when he wants to charm you, he will use a range of romantic tactics to do so. Take note, and increase his attraction to you by responding with similarly romantic gestures.
The theme of refinement should also extend into your make-up and accessories. Use your make-up to enhance your natural beauty and avoid caking it on or trying out dramatic looks. Any jewelry you wear should accent your look without competing for attention.
Keep in mind that Libras rarely have favorites. Even if you attract him quickly, he might also be attracted to several other women within his social circles. If you want his budding attraction for you to win out over the attraction he feels toward other women, you need to stick things out for as long as possible.
This is a man who can be trusted. Sometimes. He is not your regular unmovable character that will never cheat. In his search for oneness he can change quite a few partners, some of them coinciding in time. The additional problem to trust for a Libra man is his low self-esteem, making him question every decision he has to make. He will sometimes give up on his principles just to get confirmation of his attractiveness and his ability to win someone’s heart. However, if he truly decides he wants to be with you exclusively, he will never break his promise of fidelity, for as long as he is given the image of a perfect love he signed up for.
Let him talk about himself. It’s not that Libra is narcissistic, but as someone with an outgoing personality, he does have a definite tendency to ramble on about himself and the things that interest him. If you want to impress him, let him talk to his heart’s content and follow along with the conversation sincerely.
Refined, tasteful gifts tend to work better than gifts packed with too much sentimentality. You might not be able to afford a designer watch or pricey cufflinks, but you could try offering him a small helping of designer candy or any beautiful yet non-designer item.
Present a pleasant, balanced personality. Within the zodiac, Libra is represented by the image of scales, and with good reason. Your Libra hunk gravitates toward balanced situations and people. When you first start talking to him, have a pleasant, mild-mannered attitude and present an overall balanced aura.
A Libra man will shamelessly flirt and cajole the object of his affection until she eventually gives in and gives him the attention he has been longing for. However, once that lovely lady gives in, she may want to keep a close eye on just how close her Libra man becomes with all the other ladies in her life; specifically her best girlfriends.
Treat him to a taste of luxury. Along with art and culture, Libra men usually have a strong appreciation for the finer things in life. When you invite him to spend time with you, choose impressive locations like trendy cafes or four-star restaurants. When you give him a gift, consider picking out something tasteful from a designer.
The Pisces woman will need to work on becoming more grounded for this match to stand the test of time. Libra hates making decisions, and it’s often impossible for the Fish to come out of her dream world long enough to do so. This could build tension.
Creating something real from his brilliant inspirations and building a concrete platform for his visions will help this optimistic Libra man commit to being a part of something that will have greater meaning for him in the long run – which can be hard to imagine for this man who tends to live completely in the moment.
Win out over the competition. Libra is friendly—sometimes, a little too friendly. Your Libra man is probably flirty with a lot of other women without necessarily meaning anything by it. For some women, this will be a turn off, but others may not consider it to be a big deal. If you have any hope of winning your Libra man’s affections, you need to belong to the latter group. Hang around long enough until the rest of his admirers lose patience with his flirtatious ways.
Although his tough love pays off in the long run, it’s also infuriating. Even though he can be a spoiled brat, he has little tolerance for you being pouty, clingy or childish. Of course, he may foster that very dependence with baby talk, silly voices and cute nicknames. It’s all about moderation and proportion with Libra. If you’re going to be a little girl today, he wants you to be a sophisticated woman tomorrow.
Engage in light debate. Most Libra men will run from direct conflict or confrontation, but at the same time, they also enjoy looking at matters from various perspectives. Bring up a topic that might be open for debate and discuss both sides with him. Just remember to keep the conversation intellectual rather than emotional.
The ultimate social butterfly, the Libra man may not spend enough time at home to really make it his own. But when you are invited into his living space, you will find it clean and tidy, with lots of clear surfaces and mood lighting. Even in a relatively simple space, this air sign will take pains to create a sense of ambiance that lends itself well to romance.
Do some volunteer work. Most Libras have a bit of an altruistic spirit, so they might be involved in volunteer work of some sort. Even if your guy does not have a charity or cause he actively takes part in, he will likely find someone who does sacrifice her time for a noble purpose exceptionally attractive.
Once you’ve snagged your prize, all you have to do is work on keeping him interested. The plan? Keep him away from all of your pretty girlfriends, co-workers and sisters, and whatever you do, never leave him alone with any of them for any length of time.
Libra men are known to love beautiful things and beautiful people. They are the types to wear designer clothes and dress impeccably. Since Libra men pay so much attention to looks, they will also notice what you are wearing and might even offer a few suggestions if they feel like you could benefit from them. Listen to their advice, if there’s one thing a Libra knows it’s how to dress well and look good. Libra men can be the type of guys who may be described as “metrosexual” because they care so much about how they look. Don’t get me wrong, it’s not a bad thing at all, but it may just motivate you to step up your style game a little.
This chart is divided into sections based on constellations or Zodiac signs. There are 12 houses that represent a specific section of your life. For example, the first house (also known as your Rising sign) represents your outward personality and the way you are viewed by others. Each Zodiac sign is ruled by a specific planet (or two in some cases). Each Zodiac sign is also assigned an element, quality, and symbol. Personality and priority adjustments are made all through life for all of us depending on many things including our age.
If you are actively volunteering your time somewhere, consider asking your Libra crush along, especially if you are supporting a cause he also happens to believe in. In doing so, you’ll become someone who helps him satisfy his own desires to do good works.
Of course, it doesn’t have to take that long. It depends on how well you complement each other. The Libra man craves an interdependent, equally balanced relationship. He wants you to be autonomous and capable of finding your own happiness, with or without him. At the same time, he likes to feel like you’re the missing piece in his romantic puzzle, to create an even higher state of bliss together. A slight contradiction, but that’s Libra. If you provide the counterweight that balances out his bad habits and shortcomings, he’ll gladly join forces.
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