With a bruised ego, a Libra man can act like a little, insulted child. It takes a lot of effort and lucky family circumstances in his life, for him to be aware that not everything is a personal insult intended to hurt him. Whatever the situation in the insult department, this is a man who will stay in a relationship for a long time if he decides to be with someone. He will not give up at the first sight of difficulty and he will trust his feelings without a doubt. In most situations he will remain calm and try to show a just way to resolve any issue in his partner’s life or their relationship. When he obsessively gives in, thinking he found the love of his life, there is a great chance he will put too much focus on his partner lacking the ability to turn to himself and build his own life.
Similarly, antiques and heirlooms may feel like too much of a heavy responsibility to them – so maybe skip passing on your grandfather’s engraved pocket watch and instead pick out a bunch of bizarre socks with pineapples and poodles. They’ll get a kick out of gifts with humor and wit – especially something that references a private running joke between the two of you.
Libra men love art and design, so beautiful, glossy coffee table books and trips to modern art museums or performance events will delight them. They always want to go see all the shows, films, and musicals that are being discussed in the news and on social media, so season passes or gift cards to their favorite movie theater are sure to please.
Keep the pressure off. Related to Libra’s distaste for emotions is his aversion to conflict. Even though he likes intellectual debate, emotionally-charged debate tends to be a big turn-off. Keep a calm, casual attitude when dealing with your Libra to avoid sending him running.
Once you’ve snagged your prize, all you have to do is work on keeping him interested. The plan? Keep him away from all of your pretty girlfriends, co-workers and sisters, and whatever you do, never leave him alone with any of them for any length of time.
An astrologer can help reveal more about what makes your Libra “tick”, and whether the two of you are meant for each other. Using custom astrological charts – specific to the dates, times and places of your births – as well as tools such as tarot cards, an astrologer can provide details about your compatibility. All it takes is a simple phone call to get your astrology reading to guide your path to love.
If you are married to a Libra man, consider yourself lucky because he’s likely to be faithful once he makes that commitment. You can keep him by looking your best, discussing things with him frequently, and constantly improving your mental capacity. This guy finds a wide range of topics interesting and if you speak intelligently on them, he will appreciate your knowledge and depth.
Anything too extreme throws Libra out of alignment, turning him into a grouchy ogre, even a tyrant. Our Libra grandfather had two favorite sayings: “Too much!” (when we served him an over-filled dinner plate) and “Q-U-I-E-T!” (he’d bellow out this warning out before taking his daily nap). He needs to retreat and refresh himself, and has a few regular routines that must not be denied. For our grandpa, it was a 1:00 nap, followed by a cup of Lipton tea and two crumbly Pecan Sandies—every single day of his 30 post-retirement years. Our friend Amanda has grudgingly accepted that at 7:00 p.m., her Libra husband will be meeting his cyber-buddies online to play World of Warcraft, a multi-player computer game. Whatever the Libra man requires to unwind and rebalance—a cold beer, a run on the beach, an hour in his model airplane studio—the wise woman learns to let him have it.
Treat him to a taste of luxury. Along with art and culture, Libra men usually have a strong appreciation for the finer things in life. When you invite him to spend time with you, choose impressive locations like trendy cafes or four-star restaurants. When you give him a gift, consider picking out something tasteful from a designer.
Bring up an eclectic mix of conversational topics. Impress your Libra crush by talking to him about a variety of subjects. Libras like to talk, and they like to express ideas and exchange opinions on as many topics as possible. If you can keep him intellectually stimulated, he will find your personality more attractive and enjoyable to be around.
Libra man is not easy to understand. His role in the world is to find general balance and you have to see how tough an assignment this is. He has to judge, show us the weight of our Souls and give in to absolute justice. Too much responsibility makes him incredibly indecisive, for he understands what many of us don’t – his responsibility for each decision he makes and the set of consequences that might follow. His ego is bruised and his priorities seem to be shuffled, while he might be lost on his own character and wishes, just out of a need to please others. In order to find peace, this man needs to break all his dependencies, be able to be alone, and leave any image or an opinion people might have about him without fear. He needs to become aware of who he is without the influence of others.
A Libra man hates to be alone and fears actually having to deal with himself and his own deeper motivations and emotions; thus, he turns to distracting dalliances with multiple partners to keep his own demons at bay. When in a committed relationship, a Libra man can be a total dream: an attentive lover who will flatter you with compliments and gestures of his deep appreciation for all that you represent to him. As long as he can iron out his own internal conflict between a passionate desire for freedom and a natural longing for partnership, marriage can endure as a true lasting union. If he can be real with himself, and honest with who (and how) he loves, romance with this lovely air sign can be a fantasy come to life.
The combination of the Aquarius woman and Libra man has the making of a wonderful relationship. Both signs love people and intellectual stimulation, along with personal freedom. They’ll both allow the other space, while reveling in each other’s company.
A Libra man will shamelessly flirt and cajole the object of his affection until she eventually gives in and gives him the attention he has been longing for. However, once that lovely lady gives in, she may want to keep a close eye on just how close her Libra man becomes with all the other ladies in her life; specifically her best girlfriends.
Libra’s can be indecisive, however. They are often easily persuaded. That is until they mature by learning from the hard knocks of life. It is important to understand that Mr. Libra upsets easily if his life isn’t balanced and harmonious. A mature Libra male will learn how to deal with this however uncomfortable it makes him.
Your Libra man is concerned about health, making his diet and exercise program priorities in his life. He is an optimist who loves life and wants to live it to the fullest. So if you want to hold on to your fun loving Libra, I recommend you share the same priorities. If you treat him well and take care of yourself, he will love you forever.
A Taurus woman may need to go against her nature to make a relationship work with a Libra man. While Libra loves going out and socializing, the Taurus woman is more of a homebody. She also may be a little too clingy for free-spirited Libra.
As much as he may take the long side roads to the altar, Libra is the sign of partnerships, contracts and marriage. Ultimately, he’s at his best when he teams up with his equal partner. The right relationship can be a wonderful canvas for him to express his finest qualities of diplomacy, love and harmony. Just don’t rush him, okay?
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To find a Libra guy, you have to think like he does. Since he loves beauty and creativity, look for him at art galleries, arts and crafts fairs, and museums. Because of his altruistic spirit, you might find a Libra man volunteering at a homeless shelter or marching in a protest. The Scales also love luxury, so they tend to frequent fine restaurants, hotels and fashionable clothing stores.
Libras naturally have somewhat of an airy personality, so they feel most inspired when they are allowed to move about from thing to thing. Fixating on any one topic can quickly make a Libra man feel bored.
Libra men are usually fun-loving, interesting, and nice people. If there’s a party happening, you can bet that Libra is the life of it. Libra loves attention, but is also good at giving it to other people, especially women. That’s where that famous Libra charm comes in. Libras are known to be a bit of a flirt, even if they’re already in a relationship. It’s quite harmless really. As long as they’re serious about their partner, any flirting they do doesn’t amount to anything more. They just like the attention. Or they’re feeling extra needy that day and flirting is a way to feel better about themselves.
Ease up on the emotions. Even though Libras love to be around people, most Libra men have a tendency to be emotionally detached. When he first starts getting to know you, avoid showing too much emotion, either positive or negative.
Libra males are the peacocks of the zodiac, foppish dandies with penchant for pretty colors and unusual prints. These stylish guys love dressing up in all the latest fashions, and will often wear hues and looks that most men wouldn’t be able to pull off – but for this mutable Venusian air sign, the unusual becomes quite usual. These adorable clotheshorses may have closets to rival even the most fashion-conscious females in their life. Hats and scarves are everyday accessories, as are eye-catching sunglasses, and since Libra men are always misplacing all of the above, they will definitely be pleased when you pick new ones for them (even if they already have a closet full).
This is a man who can be trusted. Sometimes. He is not your regular unmovable character that will never cheat. In his search for oneness he can change quite a few partners, some of them coinciding in time. The additional problem to trust for a Libra man is his low self-esteem, making him question every decision he has to make. He will sometimes give up on his principles just to get confirmation of his attractiveness and his ability to win someone’s heart. However, if he truly decides he wants to be with you exclusively, he will never break his promise of fidelity, for as long as he is given the image of a perfect love he signed up for.
The Libra man is looking for the one who satisfies him emotionally, spiritually, intellectually and physically. For a Libra man to take notice, you need to stand out from the crowd. He’s drawn to beautiful women who have a sense of style and elegance.
Quality isn’t necessarily the most important here – novelty will win out every time for a trend-obsessed Libra man, so it’s probably best not to spend a mint on something that you’re hoping they’ll keep and treasure forever.
Show him some appreciation. Libra men love to love, and they love being loved on. Little tokens of appreciation can underscore your feelings for him while making you appear more attractive in his eyes. Try giving him a small gift or note for no reason, or offer a massage at the end of a long day or week.
Fame and notoriety comes naturally to these pretty boys who can make careers based on their charm and their looks, and all the better if they have the raw talent and drive to back it up. Many famous Libra men fashion a persona for themselves to build up around the ordinary man underneath – Sting, Snoop Dogg, Flea, Divine, Meatloaf, Eminem and U2’s The Edge come to mind, men who we know by the icons they project outwardly. Who are the men behind that glittery curtain? Maybe they’re the only ones who know for sure.
Your relationship with your Libra man will be a partnership. Everything will be equal. He doesn’t do well in a relationship where one partner is dominant and one weaker. He needs a female version of himself to be truly happy.
When a Libra man falls in love, he will see the subject of his affection as a person he is going to marry. He can be quite dependent on feeling attractive and loved, but you will know he loves you when he starts talking about marriage. This can happen at the beginning of a relationship and a Libra man can move too fast, scaring his partner away with expectations that seem unreal. This is a consequence of the Air element of Libra that gives this man speed and intent, with a need to follow his ideas through. The incredible thing about him is his ability to rush into love and marriage even though his sign exalts Saturn and we would expect him to slow down and wait for the right moment. Someone would say that he wouldn’t take things that lightly, but the fact is he can’t waste his time on relationships with no future or depth. He simply thinks it is best to know where he stands right away.
Of course, it doesn’t have to take that long. It depends on how well you complement each other. The Libra man craves an interdependent, equally balanced relationship. He wants you to be autonomous and capable of finding your own happiness, with or without him. At the same time, he likes to feel like you’re the missing piece in his romantic puzzle, to create an even higher state of bliss together. A slight contradiction, but that’s Libra. If you provide the counterweight that balances out his bad habits and shortcomings, he’ll gladly join forces.
For this reason, Libra men have a habit of stringing several (or more) people along at once – often without even realizing what they are doing. An artistic or mental connection can easily slide into flirtation or an emotional affair. Because many of these are conducted online or over text and are usually over long distances, most of his fleeting romances (often with several people at once) are never consummated or physically acted upon.
Once you have his attention, you’ll have to work to keep his interest. Libra enjoys being flattered so compliment him often, especially on his taste and style. Give him small gifts once in a while, and send him little notes for no reason. Plan romantic escapes for you and your Libra guy, including candlelit dinners, massages and bubble baths for two. Surprise him with romantic getaways, even if they’re just short day trips like picnics in the forest or a sunset boat ride. Use your imagination and creativity and your Libra guy will fall helplessly in love with you!
As the Scales symbol suggests, Libra seeks balance and harmony. He has a deep sense of fairness and justice. He often takes up causes to help right the world’s wrongs. He expects his partner to take on these lofty causes and to fully support his efforts. Libra hates confrontation, which makes him fairly easy to please. On the down side, he may be very indecisive and hard to pin down to an opinion. True to his trademark fairness, he weighs all sides carefully first, and even then he’s likely to change his mind after giving it more thought.
When the Libra man is ready for a relationship and commitment, you will definitely know it. He’ll treat you differently right from the start. If you decide you want to take your time before you get in bed with him he will wait for you because what’s the rush? He’ll actually respect you more the longer you make him wait, because he’s used to getting everything he wants when he puts on that charm. He’ll be a little surprised that you didn’t fall for his charm which will make him want you even more because you just made him feel vulnerable. When a Libra man feels vulnerable, his needy side comes out. By denying his charms, you’ve just made him question his entire dating strategy and now he’s thinking maybe he just doesn’t have “it” anymore. In turn, he’s going to work that much harder to get your attention. Get ready for calls, texts, flowers, and dinner invitations. Libra man is now on a mission to show that he’s still got it and you better believe it.
Libras may enjoy stylish modern decor and collect designer goods that may look dated after a few years. White carpets or Lucite chairs may not hold up for the long run, especially if there are little ones in the household. The artful set dressing of a male Libra’s home may seem like an unlikely space to raise kids, but this dedicated air-sign papa will prepare a harmonious space for learning and growing. Libra men crave balance in their household, and find conflict and arguments extremely upsetting – so don’t be surprised when they retreat into their office or out the door when there’s tension in the air at home.
His earliest impressions of you should view you as a “mysterious beauty.” Of course, the longer you’re with your Libra, the more that mystery will fade. To pack a strong punch at the start, though, try to be an elusive, nearly inaccessible goal to strive for.
Be feminine and elegant, not frilly or flashy. Visually speaking, women with a notably feminine appearance are the most likely to catch the Libra man’s eye and attract him on a purely physical level. Your style should be classic, clean, and refined. Avoid fashion choices that are excessively bold or those that are too cutesy.
The Gemini woman has good chemistry with a Libra man. Both signs love people and social gatherings, along with the finer things life has to offer. The biggest problem will be that neither is good at making sound decisions.
The commitment to know himself and achieve balance in his own life can create a personality not commonly seen in this sign: true mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual equilibrium. Without this dedication to focusing on internal balance, Libra men can wobble and teeter-totter back and forth from one extreme to another like a lopsided seesaw.
Refined, tasteful gifts tend to work better than gifts packed with too much sentimentality. You might not be able to afford a designer watch or pricey cufflinks, but you could try offering him a small helping of designer candy or any beautiful yet non-designer item.
The Capricorn woman may seem far too serious for fun-loving Libra. The spending habits of the Scales are not likely to go over well with frugal Capricorn. There could be some serious bumps in the road for this pair.
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