Still, turning into Al Bundy is far from the Gemini man’s dream. He just needs relationships with a single key ingredient: space. He must have distance in order to come closer. His inner Twin needs this contrast, to switch the intimacy button on and off. “I need variety; I don’t want to talk to you all the time,” says John, a Gemini IT specialist. As much as he may seek fame or a public career, the Gemini man needs to slip into the shadows at will, retreating into his own anonymous world to recharge. When he’s not making films, Gemini Johnny Depp lives a private, idyllic life in Southern France with his Capricorn wife and children. These polar extremes are essential to his sanity (a term we use loosely with Geminis).
Are you considering dating a Gemini man? Perhaps you’ve started dating one already. Either way; here is the ugly truth about Gemini men and some things you should be aware of that he doesn’t want you to know about.
If you meet one of these Gemini men; you’ll be able to spot if he’s one of these darker side Gemini men. Again, not all of them are this way but many are. Watch out for the red flags so you don’t want your time or heart.
Due to Gemini man being so social and friendly most of the time, he can get the reputation of being a flirt and a player, which he can definitely be if he’s not serious about a woman. When Gemini man finds a woman he can see a future with though, his player status will disappear just as quickly as it came. Gemini man can commit, just with the right woman. If he senses you get him like no one else can and appreciate him, then you have just become his one and only and you shouldn’t worry about any ladies he talks to because he’s only got eyes for you sweetheart.
So often times; Gemini men do tend to tell lies. By lies, I mean making promises he never intends to keep. He has no conscious when he does lie on purpose. If it means he gets what he wants; he’ll do it.
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A Gemini man in love will always keep you guessing. This sign’s fluid disposition and dazzling intellect can be utter ambrosia for partners easily bored by earthier, more stable types. Just when you think you have your Gemini man figured out, he’ll have changed his tune – again!
They may not mean to be this way but it does tend to happen because of his dual personality. He will promise you the moon and stars then when it comes time for him to provide it; he will look at you like you’re crazy.
Usually Gemini is something like a superficial guinea pig to other people. The truth is his nature is not at all light and superficial, but very complex and hard to reach. If you are superficial yourself, you will never get beyond Gemini’s surface that everyone is allowed to see. This is a man distant from his own emotions and needs to get to the burning core of his heart, but doesn’t know how to do that. If he’s been hurt by his family, there is a great chance he will never go deep enough to understand himself and then it is even more difficult for others to actually see him. If someone recognizes the core of a Gemini man they will find that there is a root to all that childish charm and an incredible inner beauty.
Oh, did we mention that Yas is also 12 years young than Neda? Fairy-tale romances with Gemini, should they happen, always have an interesting plot twist—the more unpredictable the better. And feeling like he’s getting away with something could inspire the Gemini man’s adoration. He loves a challenge! “He knew we would get me—he just waited for me to realize it,” Neda recalls of her courtship. “He introduced me to his mom and family without me knowing what he was up to (because I was filming and in work mode). Then when he confessed to me his feelings and I responded positively. He said, ‘Well then, my last question to you is, shall I wait for you?’ I said yes and the next day, it was as if we were a married couple—that comfortable! No guesses, no games.”
That’s not to say that Gemini men don’t commit for the long haul, because they do. In fact, this man is capable of becoming the most boring, bathrobe-wearing, remote control clutching cliche of a husband ever. He may marry just to “get it over with.” Once he’s comfortable, he can stay put. The last thing he wants to do is climb the rickety rollercoaster rails of a new relationship all over again. The emotional blowups, the misunderstandings, the soul baring—ugh! He’d rather just put on his favorite sweater and go to the multiplex for the latest action movie, or burrow into a book while you entertain yourself. Sure it’s a snoozefest. But it’s better than being with a needy, attention-hungry Daddy’s girl who distracts him from his dreaming and downloading.
They’ll pretend to be the typical Gemini but then if you decide you’re not into them; they get offended and start going to retaliate by being very nasty toward you. They can become stalkers and they can read you the riot act for not liking him.
A Gemini man is one of the easiest guys in the entire zodiac to shop for. He adores novelty and technology and goes crazy for those catalogs filled with all sorts of wild new gadgets that scratch your back while making coffee and vacuuming the floor. Finding him lots of fun little doodads may prove to be more satisfying than spending a big chunk of dough on a high-dollar item. Books and music are always winners with a Gemini, and a subscription to a great magazine or gift cards to his favorite bookstore will easily delight him. Puzzles and games make for fun gifts that you can engage in together.
The older he gets, the more the Gemini man needs space—especially once he’s married. Take our friend Amanda’s Gemini dad. Every day after work, he retreats to the bedroom where, Amanda says, “He watches crime shows, reads at least eight books, and drinks a six-pack of Diet Coke. He then eats an entire package of ham, which he wraps around hot dogs and shares with the dog.” Another Gemini man built his personal playroom in the attic, where he surfs the Internet, watches TV shows and downloads video games. The Gemini man absorbs so much information that he gets easily overwhelmed. “A giant Whole Foods makes me anxious,” admits one Gemini. “I like defined spaces. I need to know where I am so I can make an informed decision. Besides, I don’t like to waste time.”
First, the disclaimer: Commitment is not a natural state for the Gemini man. He’s a mutable Air sign, which keeps him in constant flux, happiest in the cooler climate of ideas and intellect, rather than the emotional frying pan. The idea of “forever,” if it doesn’t freak him out, is laughable to Gemini. The only fairy tales he believes in are the ones he writes himself. He watches enough movies to know that just when you think you’ve found happily ever after, the sequel comes out a year later.
The first thing you should know about a Gemini man is that he’s a friendly guy. I have never met a Gemini man that I didn’t get along with. He has this easy air about him and can get along with just about anyone. He has very developed social skills and his gift of gab is like no other. A Gemini will literally talk your ear off and you won’t be able to get a word in edgewise. You’ll put up with it though, because Gemini man is just that interesting. He seems to know everything about everything. He’s like an information sponge that’s constantly learning more and more only to expel it later into your conversation. One thing you can be sure of, you will never be bored with a Gemini. That’s just not possible. No topic is off limits with Gemini and they tend to give very good advice because they can see both sides to every issue. Listen up, you just might learn a thing or two here.
Getting involved with a Gemini man means giving him plenty of solitude. If you do not, you’ll have some major issues of resentment and discord with him. Of course, he may not stick around that long if he sees dependency.
Understanding Gemini energy has more to do with appreciating our need to see and truly embrace both aspects in ourselves, which we also carry – regardless of our own zodiac sign. It’s an important lesson in life, and a Gemini is the perfect teacher (though perhaps not the most patient one). Constantly holding the juxtaposition of two opposites within the container of your own personality can be a lot to handle, both for the Gemini man himself and for those he encounters as he fleetly flits through life.
If you have chosen a life with a Gemini man, rest assured you will never be bored. On his good days he will make you laugh and talk your ear off, and on his off days he will lock himself away for a chance to really slow down and appreciate everything he’s got. Or maybe just give that mouth a break because those lips are chapped from all that talking. Two sides of the Gemini man personality come together to form an almost perfect human being. Just don’t let him know you think he’s perfect because after all he is still a man, and we must always keep a man guessing if we are to truly keep our status as a mysterious and alluring woman.
This paints us gemini men as crasy. The real problem is that Gemini loves deep and strong. Its very hard to detach from love feelings. So we need to get away from the person because we love them and its all in our head. So we have to have a stronger detach to truly get over them.
Take him somewhere he hasn’t been, buy him a book with practical instructions, give him anything that has letters on it or can be used to write, chat or take pictures. He likes different electric gadgets, strange, small things that can be used for his phone or by his finger. He wants freedom to use his present once and then throw it away. Whatever you decide to give to a Gemini man, top it all with a smile. That might be the only thing you both need.
Gemini men make for super fun dads who are not afraid to be silly with their kids. These guys are the ultimate tall tale tellers – their imaginations are rife with whoppers that gullible, innocent children may continue to believe well into adulthood. Gemini dads do this not to be mean or sneaky, but rather to instill a sense of wonder in their kids.
Truthfully, Neda may have the better end of the deal. The Gemini man is not always easy to live with. Phone relationships suit him well, since Gemini rules the voice and communication. Before he’s gonna reach out and touch someone, or let his fingers do the walking, he needs to know he can talk to you for hours without getting bored. “Back in college, I knew I was in trouble,” says Gemini Bryan, “when I realized I’d rather talk to my wife-to-be than my girlfriend on the phone.” When he noticed he was putting his hometown honey on hold, he decided to mute the relationship and put his new friend on speed dial. Fourteen years later, they’re still married.
I can’t stress this enough; not all Gemini men are this way. However; there are plenty of them out there that are. I’m just trying to help give you some ample warning so you don’t get tangled up with one of them.
The Gemini man loves to wheel and deal. He is always in action, moving forward and onto the next new thing. Technology and communications industries are natural fits for a Gemini – and you will often find the offices of new start-ups and networking mixers crowded with men born under the sign of the Twins. They love to rub elbows with the smartest people in the room and get a thrill from name dropping their well-known friends and connections. A Gemini man truly understands the maxim that it’s all about who you know – and they seem to somehow know everyone.
The restless mind of a Gemini man requires lots of information to keep him busy, so he’ll enjoy going out to see a play or film that has audiences completely perplexed. He favors mysteries and suspense thrillers with lots of double-crossing and twists and turns to keep him guessing – though he’s always five steps ahead of everyone else in sleuthing the whodunit. Travel with your Gemini man, if you can – he loves visiting new places, and will reliably research all the most interesting, off-the-beaten-path restaurants for you to try. He’ll pore thoroughly over every guidebook, making copious notes about every place you go, and loves feeling prepared to have an incredible time before making a trip. One of the rare people who truly enjoy surprises (the more elaborate the better), if you really want to impress a Gemini, pull one over on him! Or, for a present he’ll never forget, go one step further – plot a scavenger hunt with humorous clues leading to his gift as the prize.
To stay interested for the long haul, the Gemini man needs a mate who’s interested—in all kinds of stuff—and interesting by default. When (and if) things get routine, you need only ask him a smart question or solicit his opinion about something happening in the news. The Gemini man always has an opinion. If he doesn’t, he’s lying or being polite. It just means he thinks your question was inane and not worth dignifying with a thoughtful answer.
Unfortunately, sometimes they can get overly enthusiastic, and may not let anyone else get a word in edgewise. Mansplaining can be an issue for the Gemini man, so learning how to listen will help them get along. Any vocation that deals with the communication of information is ideal for this sign, especially writing, working in news or social media, or anything to do with new and exciting technology.
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