As Gemini Clint Eastwood once said, “They say marriages are made in Heaven. But so is thunder and lightning.” Well, he has a point. Doesn’t the Gemini man always? And as long as he sees a point to being with you, he’s not likely to go elsewhere—at least, not unless he sees an equally valid point in that. Oh, brother.
This paints us gemini men as crasy. The real problem is that Gemini loves deep and strong. Its very hard to detach from love feelings. So we need to get away from the person because we love them and its all in our head. So we have to have a stronger detach to truly get over them.
A Gemini man is one of the easiest guys in the entire zodiac to shop for. He adores novelty and technology and goes crazy for those catalogs filled with all sorts of wild new gadgets that scratch your back while making coffee and vacuuming the floor. Finding him lots of fun little doodads may prove to be more satisfying than spending a big chunk of dough on a high-dollar item. Books and music are always winners with a Gemini, and a subscription to a great magazine or gift cards to his favorite bookstore will easily delight him. Puzzles and games make for fun gifts that you can engage in together.
The Gemini man loves to wheel and deal. He is always in action, moving forward and onto the next new thing. Technology and communications industries are natural fits for a Gemini – and you will often find the offices of new start-ups and networking mixers crowded with men born under the sign of the Twins. They love to rub elbows with the smartest people in the room and get a thrill from name dropping their well-known friends and connections. A Gemini man truly understands the maxim that it’s all about who you know – and they seem to somehow know everyone.
If you meet one of these Gemini men; you’ll be able to spot if he’s one of these darker side Gemini men. Again, not all of them are this way but many are. Watch out for the red flags so you don’t want your time or heart.
I can’t stress this enough; not all Gemini men are this way. However; there are plenty of them out there that are. I’m just trying to help give you some ample warning so you don’t get tangled up with one of them.
If you notice darker signs from your Gemini guy; you may need to go ahead and bail before things become too chaotic and you end up really hurt. Now; if you’re one of the lucky ladies that don’t have this type of Gemini then hold onto your guy.
They may not mean to be this way but it does tend to happen because of his dual personality. He will promise you the moon and stars then when it comes time for him to provide it; he will look at you like you’re crazy.
Still, turning into Al Bundy is far from the Gemini man’s dream. He just needs relationships with a single key ingredient: space. He must have distance in order to come closer. His inner Twin needs this contrast, to switch the intimacy button on and off. “I need variety; I don’t want to talk to you all the time,” says John, a Gemini IT specialist. As much as he may seek fame or a public career, the Gemini man needs to slip into the shadows at will, retreating into his own anonymous world to recharge. When he’s not making films, Gemini Johnny Depp lives a private, idyllic life in Southern France with his Capricorn wife and children. These polar extremes are essential to his sanity (a term we use loosely with Geminis).
What he does have tends to be haphazardly organized in a manner that may only make sense to him and his personality, but it’s all kept fairly tidy. It’s not carelessness that makes him this way – just more of an attention focused on many other more important things, like what’s happening in the world outside the place where he sleeps and makes coffee. A Spartan, simplistic living space is ideal for this man, and he would do well inhabiting a studio apartment or tiny home.
Gemini men make for super fun dads who are not afraid to be silly with their kids. These guys are the ultimate tall tale tellers – their imaginations are rife with whoppers that gullible, innocent children may continue to believe well into adulthood. Gemini dads do this not to be mean or sneaky, but rather to instill a sense of wonder in their kids.
This is a difficult question to answer, and the answer would most frequently be a simple “no”. You cannot trust your Gemini partner. This is not because he is a pathological liar, but because there is no way to predict what tomorrow will bring to his mind or his heart. There are many things he can say in the heat of the moment, and these are all complex mathematical equations that you have to decipher if you want to know if he meant to say what he said and understand what he actually wanted to say. However, if he shares his life with a partner with real emotional depth, able to feel his inner personality that doesn’t change overnight, he is a lucky man who will never betray his partners trust.
The home of a Gemini man is often just a placeholder – somewhere to store his books, papers, and clothes. You may never get an invitation to come over unless he’s having an impromptu gathering – but these tend to be more about the meeting of the minds rather than an elaborate dinner party or cozy to-do.
A Gemini man may move around a lot, and even go through stints of couch surfing or staying here and there when traveling. He tends not to get attached to his possessions or even many of the traditional connotations of home – unless he’s sharing a space with someone else who does, which is often ideal.
You have to indulge Gemini man’s whims as they come. If you see him being social, join in and enjoy it. If you see that he is craving his alone time, let him have that too. He wants a woman that can understand him on an intuitive level without him having to tell her. He’ll know you are different from the rest when you can give him his space but also be his partner in crime all in the span of a week. That’s when he’ll know he has found his match and you’ll be invited into his inner circle.
Truthfully, Neda may have the better end of the deal. The Gemini man is not always easy to live with. Phone relationships suit him well, since Gemini rules the voice and communication. Before he’s gonna reach out and touch someone, or let his fingers do the walking, he needs to know he can talk to you for hours without getting bored. “Back in college, I knew I was in trouble,” says Gemini Bryan, “when I realized I’d rather talk to my wife-to-be than my girlfriend on the phone.” When he noticed he was putting his hometown honey on hold, he decided to mute the relationship and put his new friend on speed dial. Fourteen years later, they’re still married.
Because Gemini man is a such a good communicator, he might be one of the only zodiac signs who likes to talk on the phone. Most men tend to avoid phone conversations, but Gemini man actually prefers it. If you want to grab the attention of the Gemini man, all you have to do is be able to hold an intelligent conversation with him. He finds conversation more stimulating then anything else. He gets bored easily, so you have to keep his attention through the art of conversation. If you can do that, and stimulate him intellectually, you just might have a chance.
So often times; Gemini men do tend to tell lies. By lies, I mean making promises he never intends to keep. He has no conscious when he does lie on purpose. If it means he gets what he wants; he’ll do it.
Sometimes too easily distractible, the Gemini dad could use the reminder to make lots of quality time for his little ones – giving them his full and undivided attention for playtime that deeply nourishes both parent and child.
First, the disclaimer: Commitment is not a natural state for the Gemini man. He’s a mutable Air sign, which keeps him in constant flux, happiest in the cooler climate of ideas and intellect, rather than the emotional frying pan. The idea of “forever,” if it doesn’t freak him out, is laughable to Gemini. The only fairy tales he believes in are the ones he writes himself. He watches enough movies to know that just when you think you’ve found happily ever after, the sequel comes out a year later.
Are you considering dating a Gemini man? Perhaps you’ve started dating one already. Either way; here is the ugly truth about Gemini men and some things you should be aware of that he doesn’t want you to know about.
Gemini is the third sign of the zodiac running from May 20 – June 20. Gemini is represented by the sign of twins and the element of air. If you come across a man born under this sign, you will immediately know he is unlike any other. Gemini men are of a different breed and it is obvious to anyone who encounters them. They are friendly, social, and communicative, but also loners who fear commitment and like to have their space. While it is true what they say, that there are two sides to a Gemini and you never know which one you are going to get, there might as well be a hundred because the Gemini possesses many different personalities and you never know which you are going to come across on any given day. Let the circus begin . . .
To stay interested for the long haul, the Gemini man needs a mate who’s interested—in all kinds of stuff—and interesting by default. When (and if) things get routine, you need only ask him a smart question or solicit his opinion about something happening in the news. The Gemini man always has an opinion. If he doesn’t, he’s lying or being polite. It just means he thinks your question was inane and not worth dignifying with a thoughtful answer.
Gemini is a paradox, because one side of him is such a social and communicative creature, while the other side is a loner who needs plenty of space. One day Gemini man just can’t shut up and wants to spend all day with you, then the next day, he doesn’t return your phone call and you don’t hear from him for a week. What gives right? Well that’s all part of his charm. With Gemini you get a two for one package. Want a social creature with a side of reclusive? You got it baby.
Quick-witted Geminis seem to wear invisible winged shoes, like Mercury, the god of their ruling planet. These brilliant, silver-tongued angel-devils can be extremely charming and entertaining. Born with a true gift for gab, they are always ready with a fascinating story to tell you. Generally jovial, good-natured, and intellectually energetic, a Gemini man will always keep you on your toes with constantly shifting attitudes and opinions. Extremely cerebral, full of ideas, and always excited about making new discoveries, a Gemini loves to learn and share his knowledge – but, he tends to know a little bit about these subjects without ever truly committing to one field of study in a deeply engaged way. It’s this sponge-like tendency to absorb bits of information that makes him lethal in a game of trivia.
If you enjoy parties and being social, you’ll make a good match for a Gemini man, who finds a quiet night at home unspeakably dull – unless you challenge him to a game involving chance and skill, where he has the opportunity to show off his prodigious knowledge. Are you compatible with your Gemini man? Find out here. A bit of a playboy, this versatile dandy loves to step out on the town with a bit of arm candy to show off to all his friends and acquaintances.
The first thing you should know about a Gemini man is that he’s a friendly guy. I have never met a Gemini man that I didn’t get along with. He has this easy air about him and can get along with just about anyone. He has very developed social skills and his gift of gab is like no other. A Gemini will literally talk your ear off and you won’t be able to get a word in edgewise. You’ll put up with it though, because Gemini man is just that interesting. He seems to know everything about everything. He’s like an information sponge that’s constantly learning more and more only to expel it later into your conversation. One thing you can be sure of, you will never be bored with a Gemini. That’s just not possible. No topic is off limits with Gemini and they tend to give very good advice because they can see both sides to every issue. Listen up, you just might learn a thing or two here.
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