“You know what I think?” we asked his distraught girlfriend, while Pisces pretended he was only half-listening. “He feels like you’re trying to take away his freedom. Pisces needs space before he’ll commit. He’s afraid you’re going to try to control him. So he’s holding back until you chill out.”
The Pisces man and Pisces woman together could really drink the town dry or save more souls than a town full of churches. Finding the balance between excess and avoiding reality will be a great dilemma between you two. But for a temporary partnership, there are few men who will ever intuitively know what you want and how to give it to you.
The home of a Pisces man often feels like a magical realm, a hermit’s cave filled with wonders, far removed from the bland settings of the other homes around it. It may look unassuming from the outside, but once within his domain, prepare to be dazzled.
Several years ago, a major aviation incident happened that killed many people. Minutes before the news became public, a friend of mine, who happens to be Pisces (and psychologist), called me on the phone.
His visions might finance the dreams of the Aquarius woman, so she should not dismiss the Pisces man’s lack of connection with a structure she understands. It is precisely his fearlessness when venturing into new territory that makes him worth your attention.
The Aries woman is the one sign that will turn him on by knowing more about his favorite subjects than he does. Meanwhile, he taps deep into your unconscious and the non-verbal communication is well understood between you two.
Pisces men aren’t the best with money. That’s not to say they are horrible at financial management. Some are great at it. But generally speaking, the accumulation of wealth isn’t what motivates this sign.
A Pisces man will have little regard for “rules for the sake of rules,” and will defy everything from dress code to issues on tardiness or taking breaks. Rather than marching to the beat of their own drummer, they tend to undulate vaguely to their own internal clarinet. This may infuriate managers, but if the people in charge of a Pisces can recognize the strange genius of the man they’ve employed and just let him do his thing (rules and regulations be damned), they’ll often be amazed by the results he produces and the inventiveness of his work.
We’ll start off with the positive and negative traits of male Pisces. Their characteristics in the chart listed below also include intensity. Having this knowledge will provide a foundation for all that follows.
As mentioned earlier, Pisces is a water sign. In simple speak, this means people who are of this horoscopic background dive deep. Of the three water signs [Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces] the “fish” sign can dive the deepest; emotionally and spiritually.
The sign of Pisces represents all shady, dishonest activities, adultery, lies and misconceptions. On the other hand, it is also a sign of ultimate trust and faith one has. One of the biggest challenges for a Pisces man is to stay in an awkward situation without pretending to be something he is not. His approach to truth can be quite challenging for his partner, especially if he is dating a Fire sign, proactive and straightforward. In general, he will be careful not to be dishonest about important things, and when he finds himself in a truly intimate relationship, he will have no reason to fear his partner, and it will be easy for him to be honest.
We once counseled a very driven, ambitious Capricorn woman and her Pisces boyfriend of thirteen years. Like many Capricorns, she had mapped out a plan for the rest of her life, and was meeting her goals with the precision of a military general. Except…one. She wanted to be married by 32, and her 34th birthday was approaching. The Pisces still wasn’t “ready.” Her biological clock was ticking so loudly, we thought a bomb had been planted.
A Pisces man can add an emotional nuance to a fire sign woman’s sexuality, and her vitality and enthusiasm can add spice to their lovemaking. A Pisces man and a Fire sign woman can be one steamy combination for a while and under the right circumstances.
It’s important to note that a Pisces man is not only his Sun sign. The Sun is of utmost importance because it shines its light on every aspect of an individual’s personality, but when trying to define a Pisces man’s sexuality, it’s essential to also look at the signs of his Venus and Mars. Venus and Mars are the planets most associated with love (Venus) and sex (Mars), and their signs will add depth, breath, and nuance to a Pisces man’s sexuality.
He’s eager to please and open to all forms of sexual expression. Slow and easy or raunchy and wild, he’s a chameleon by nature and can synchronize with his lover’s movements and emotions. Plus, he’s blessed with a vivid imagination and can easily blur the lines between fantasy and reality, then wrap both himself and his lover in a blissful romantic haze.
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A Tibetan relic or a huge chunk of a crystal will probably please him to no end, earning in a place of honor on one of his altars. You might gift him a piece of black tourmaline, obsidian, or shungite, which will protect against negative energy (which he has a tendency toward being open to absorbing).
There is a unique relationship that Pisces men have with animals of all types. For reasons that seem almost supernatural, this sign forms bonds with dogs, cats and even wild creatures of nature in an uncanny way.
You might think a match between a Pisces man and a Pisces woman would be heaven together and their lovemaking would be a delicate moving experience, followed by a sweet kind of intoxication, and it can be. The sad truth is that while each is sensitive to the other’s needs and wants more than anything to make the other happy, neither is a person who likes to take the initiative. However, if the Pisces man is willing to take the lead, their time in bed will be magical.
A Leo woman has a big and lustful sexual appetite and wants to be praised and lauded for her sexual performance. Lovemaking means it’s show time for her. A Pisces man enjoys the costuming and theatrics and is more than willing to play second fiddle, and let her be the star of the show. These two are both incredible lovers, but their roles and characters are perhaps a little too different for them to have a long-term satisfying sexual relationship.
Fixing his problems and attending to his desires will make the Capricorn woman feel needed by a Pisces man, who seems to need nothing that her world has to offer. The day he says thank you is the day you feel you have him wrapped around your finger, but it may be the other way around.
Pisces, however, will look at that same stretch of ocean and wonder what creatures live in the water and begin to fantasize about life as a dolphin. If you like boating, camping by water or canoing, you can count on Pisces men to be down with it.
Because of this disparity, Pisces men often end up getting hurt and may wear their wounded hearts on their sleeves. It’s easy for them to end up feeling like the victim when their deep feelings aren’t matched, or when their partner suddenly wakes from the consuming spell of singularity to realize they haven’t been home in a week and all their houseplants are dead. It’s tempting to spend all night and day in bed with your Pisces – swimming within their embrace and getting lost in their kisses.
Part of the attraction to the sea directly relates to this sign’s sense of imagination. For example, other signs, like Leo, may look upon the Pacific Ocean and see beautiful shades of blues and greens.
When you think of Pisces, think of creative types. Here, I’m talking about musicians, artists, writers and story tellers. Much of their creative skill sets come from their ability to feel different emotions, such as sadness and joy.
We have no idea if they worked things out, but we hope so. If you’re dating a Pisces man, know that if he’s playing the “cold fish,” you’ve probably turned up the heat a little too high. Back away a step or two, and he may just swim right back to you—as long as you don’t back off too far. We realize this could sound dangerously like The Rules, and unfortunately, he does respond to being tortured and teased with mind games. Still, who needs that crap?
Pisces men can be found on the edge of town. If they are in the center of things, it is at a church or other service organization. Otherwise, they operate on the periphery. Bars and taverns attract the man born under the sign of the Fish as often as places of worship.
From there it’s all about lavish gifts, flowers delivered to your job, opera tickets and romantic picnics. Pisces is like a time-release romantic. He becomes more sentimental and tender the longer you’re together. It’s a trust thing. Make it safer and safer for him to be himself around you—he fears your judgment and craves your admiration more than anyone else’s. The phase of “mature love” is so much more romantic and rich with Pisces than infatuation. He does everything backwards, but that’s precisely what’s so wonderful about him. If divine timing is on your side, you could be lucky enough to experience it.
Like a slippery fish, the Pisces man is hard to pin down. He needs to protect his freedom before he’ll commit to anything. No Fish ever wants to be trapped on the hook, after all! At the same time, when the Pisces man has no structure or boundaries, he flails around like a salmon on the dock, gasping for air. “The more you know me, the less I disclose,” says Chris, a Pisces writer.
A Pisces man doesn’t recognize any distinction between romance, love, and sex; they’re all rolled up into one and can’t be separated, as far as he’s concerned. He’s a man who opens his heart and soul to his lover. He idealizes love, and to him, sex is the ultimate expression of love. He yearns for the euphoric feeling of closeness, fulfillment, ecstasy, and losing himself in another that he experiences when making love with his beloved.
These men are rarely happy or successful trying to adhere to a 9-to-5 schedule. More often than not, they prefer to keep odd hours, maybe as serious night owls who would always rather work the graveyard shift. The freedom of being able to create their own way of doing things is essential – because they’re just going to do it anyway.
SCORPIO: A natural match that is often marked by love at first sight. While Scorpio wants to act as the dominant leader in the relationship, Pisces wants to protect and offer care. More important, Pisces empathic abilities can see through Scorpion logic and get to the center of their feelings. In turn, this disarms Scorpio in an uncanny way.
Tension between Pisces and the Gemini woman arises from the verbal and literate Gemini impatiently waiting for the gestural and non-verbal Pisces to respond. Neither of you will willingly adapt to the other’s communication style unless there is something irresistible about the other.
The partnership between Pisces and a Scorpio woman is quite passionate. Opposites do attract! Understanding how different you are will magnify the things you share in common, creating the strongest bond imaginable.
Many Pisces men are extremely sensitive to noise and light pollution, and will often soundproof their homes or block out natural light from the windows, lending further to the sense of being in an insular womb-like cavern, a fairyland away from the normal world. You may lose track of time and forget that there’s even a world outside the beautiful one that he has created.
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