Security is very important to this man, and he will prefer a stable and down to earth lover. He often admires those who are hard-working or have ambition over those who are more physically attractive but lacking in ambition. He has very little tolerance for lazy people, and often enjoys the company of optimists over pessimists
Capricorns love dark comedies and, if they can find a way to laugh and find humor in the even the bleakest situations, they’ll be able to manage their innate, melancholic bent for dwelling on the negative aspects of life. They might not display their oddness overtly, but remember that a traditional-looking or acting Capricorn man is actually an extremely peculiar and particular sort of fellow beneath that nondescript veneer.
A Capricorn man will do everything right. He will take you to the right places, respect you, take you home, pay for your cab and hold your door. The ruler of his sign is exalted in Libra, and he knows that his biggest asset is his ability to be tactful, well-behaved and gallant. He will seem like this strong, incredibly mature man who knows exactly what he wants and isn’t afraid to get it. He will love being on a date with someone who admires him, but also keeps a rational distance and remains secretive.
Most Capricorn men believe in quality and are not superficial. They prefer intelligence, integrity and character more than everything else. Besides, they are not the ones too fond of extravagance and materialism. They are self-dependent and sincere, and are happy to be in their worlds where they are surrounded by genuine well-wishers.
You’ve made the first move, caught a Capricorn man’s eye, and gotten your foot in the door. So, what can you expect, and how can you make the most of your opportunity? The best way to let a Capricorn know you’re really interested is by taking another leap.
Outwardly reserved the Capricorn man is a complicated bundle of practicality, endearing modesty and self discipline, often reserving his fun and sexy wild side strictly for those who are very close to him. Capricorn men want to succeed. Goals and a practical viewpoint often characterize this man.
I read this and felt a very strong YES!!! I WANT TO Do THAT TOO!! Can you give some advice on how to start my studies. I know a little bit but not much…I do not study Astrology to predict the future, but I do study it to learn about others. It is extremely fascinating to see a part of one’s behavior come to life once you understand the astrological reason for it. I believe studying astrology makes for a more tolerant attitude towards those that are different from you.
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The Capricorn man is often seen as cold and emotionally aloof, but this is largely a protective mechanism. Once he’s convinced that your motives are sincere he’ll open up to you, although this could take some time. The quality of the relationship will usually improve with age, so hang in there! You’ll discover that the more secure he is in a relationship, the more willing he is to share his deepest feelings.
Once he’s transcended his lowly station, a Capricorn man has to work hard to remember where he came from and stay somewhat humble – as it’s easy for the deadly combination of ego, power, and money to turn Mr. Goat into a bit of a tyrant. These men often end up in positions of power, moving from their rags-to-riches origins into positions where they have control and responsibility over many people. Government roles and work in finance often appeal to these lovers of stability, law, and order.
My cappy guy epxressed to me yhat for 10 yrs he wanted me badly. At first I was very skeptical about giving in but after awhile I said why not. It wad like a match made in heaven and I was for certain he was my guy until I expressed more and more my undying love for him that he started acting differently towards me. Hr stopped answering my calls but when he became ready is when he would reach out which emotionally confused me. On top of me finding out that I wad carrying his baby he still was distant but would text. Im trying to figure him out but im am emotional virgo who wants love and affection not rejection. Most of the characteristics you described suits him well I love this man but i dont know if its emotionally healthy for me.
The Goats are generous and wise, and are admired for their logical thinking and simple outlook towards life. Their concepts are very simple and clear and these men will consciously try not to make matters complicated. They will utilise their energies in the proper direction and come up with practical, acceptable ideas. They take relationships very seriously. They will not commit to a relationship unless they feel they can do justice to it. You will never see them giving half-hearted attempts.
I like the pace you describe here – of getting to know someone before moving forward. For some reason, there are a lot of men who want to get married right away, but haven’t known you that long. I’m the opposite – I at least want to get to know someone before signing the dotted line!
Gain his trust. Capricorns have a hard time opening up to others. Before he lets you in, he will have to know that he can trust you. Be honest and open with him but expect that it will take him a bit longer to share his inner workings with you. Your Capricorn guy will take his time, but with help from you–showing you are supportive, displaying ways you are trustworthy–he will eventually let you into his heart.
The Goat is often a loner who permits few people into his inner circle, as many Capricorns are shy. Because of Capricorn’s suspicious nature, you’ll have to prove your trustworthiness before he accepts you as a friend. Once you’ve accomplished this feat, a Capricorn man will be your loyal, dependable, supportive companion. But if you ever break the bond of trust don’t count on getting a second chance. The Goat will move on and never look back.
Attend some career-oriented functions. The first thing you should know about a Capricorn guy is that he is bound to be very driven. The best places to meet your perfect Capricorn guy include work functions, charity events, or career-boosting functions. Capricorn guys are dedicated to getting to the top of their industries, so putting on your game face and excelling at a career function is sure to help you capture your Capricorn’s eye.
Capricorn men are experts at managing and organizing, and as such, they’re often found at the head of a company or in some other leadership position. A typical Capricorn man may have a job as an administrator, a doctor, an engineer, a “headhunter,” a CEO or a politician. Quiet evenings at home are much more his speed than parties, clubs or crowded restaurants. It may be difficult to find a Capricorn at the usual singles haunts. Instead focus on career-oriented functions, professional organizations, charity events or anything that might help further his career.
Invite him to a quiet evening in. The best way to get to know your Capricorn guy, and show him that you’re the real deal, is by taking the first leap. Invite him over for dinner, on a picnic, or to do something else just the two of you. Inviting him to a big party will generally make him uneasy, while inviting him for dinner will most likely make him open up. This is also your time to shine–bring up topics that you are passionate about and allow him to relaxing into a stimulating conversation.
They often have an intrinsic need to challenge themselves. Pessimistic by nature they sometimes have a slight inferiority complex or fear of failure, which drives them so hard to both succeed, and stand on their own two feet doing so. Respect, recognition and praise are important to them, as is their public image.
Keep the PDA to a minimum. PDA (public displays of affection) are not really the Capricorn’s cup of tea. While holding hands is probably fine (he might even prefer holding hands because of his protective nature) making out in the middle of a busy street will probably make him feel a bit uneasy. Capricorns don’t really like having their private lives become public knowledge, so you may want to think twice before grabbing him by the suit lapels and giving him a smooch in public.
The Capricorn man is as romantic and emotional as anyone else, but can be somewhat inhibited in expressing his emotions, sometimes preferring to perform practical tasks to help loved ones in preference to making purely romantic gestures. If he seems more interested in being your personal handyman than getting you into bed, this is just his way of showing he cares!
The Capricorn woman and Capricorn man will have a deep understanding of each other. With their determination and work ethic, there’s nothing this pair can’t achieve. Their biggest problem is that they’ll become so wrapped up in their responsibilities that they never take time out for fun.
What’s the big deal, you may wonder. Don’t those vows include “for better and for worse”? Besides, you’re a modern woman who doesn’t care if she out-earns her man. It’s all about love. Superwoman doesn’t need Superman. It’s okay if he’s Clark Kent—or hey, how about Louis Lane?
Even if a Capricorn man is attracted to you, you might have to make the first move. A Goat guy will often become close friends with a woman before considering a romantic relationship with her. This gives him a chance to really get to know her before he commits. Keep him interested by complimenting him with sincere praise and never tossing a wrench in his plans. Let him see you as a supportive partner as well as a love interest.
This is always a hard question to answer, as one person’s idea of kinky can be very different to someone else’s. Individuals also vary a lot, so this is a bad area to generalize in. All things being equal though, Capricorn men are amongst the more kinky, yes.
Down to earth, self motivated, patient and responsible. Capricorn men are generally among the harder signs to understand, with a number of personality traits which often confuse partners in the early stages of a relationship.
We have a dedicated section for Capricorn man gifts with examples of the types of gifts which Capricorn men enjoy within various categories from naughty to practical, including reader submitted suggestions.
When you’re officially dating a Capricorn man, all the first date tips still apply. However, probably the most important thing to understand about a Capricorn man is he takes his career very seriously. He’s not a 9 to 5, weekends off sort of guy. So, dating may be catch as catch can. Just don’t take that as a lack of interest and don’t rush him or push him into anything. He’ll think more of you if have a life of your own and even more if you’re also a busy career oriented person. Still, the more available you are to him, the more available he’ll be to you.
Thank you for your comment, Claudia. I took an interest in Astrology several years ago, exactly for the same reason; as an avenue to learn about and understand others. I have a series of hubs on the basics. Learning about the significance of the houses and planets is a good place to start. There are many good books you can buy, as well. I recommend you actually purchase books instead of getting them from the library so you have them to reference at will. Good luck!
I’m an Aries woman my husband of 10 years is a capricorn at first it was a lil difficult to understand him because capricorns are not the types to open up to any they have to feel comfortable they always have their guard up when it comes to a relationship.once he started to notice that it’s okay between us he started opening up more tell me things about him self his secrets even smile because they are very serious ppl but when they smile you have to be special to them they look so cute I love seeing my cap smile.i came to a conclusion to deal with a cap its been working and I been a happy woman.
With a down-to-earth personality, Capricorn men are the most hardworking of all the signs in the zodiac. This is thanks to their ability to focus intently on the work at hand, whatever it may be, and steadily make progress until they attain their goal. Slowly but surely, one cloven hoof in front of the other, the determined Goat man will climb his own personal mountain with a combination of extraordinary perseverance and dedication to duty.
Keep dramatics to a minimum. Capricorns seek stability–they want someone who is devoted and serious about the relationship. Hysterics or mind games will turn a Capricorn off a relationship. If he upsets you, tell him what he has done and why it upsets you. Your Capricorn wants to make you happy and when you tell him directly what you need or what you dislike, he will do everything in his power to make sure he does not upset you in that way again.
Without a doubt, but only if he has made a decision to be faithful, honest and monogamous. In any other scenario, everything can be expected and he will act in the way he thinks appropriate. In general, he fears the feeling of guilt, and as far as his awareness goes, he will not hurt, lie or cheat on anyone intentionally. Still, it is a sign ruled by Saturn, the planet of our unconscious, and he sometimes loses control over his choices, not even aware of it. This is the reason why he likes to control every little thing, thinking he can avoid his own irresponsible actions.
Once you’re in love with a Capricorn man, you might feel that you only see him early in the morning before he heads off to work, or else late at night after he’s pulled a long shift at the office. As long as you have your own thing going on and are comfortable dating a workaholic, this should work out well. All the better if you are a generally optimistic sort of person who can stay happy and cheerful even when dealing with the grumpiest curmudgeon. Are you and your Cap a good match? Find out here.
The creative and adventurous Aquarius woman may find the Goat a little boring. And because of his possessive nature, the Water-bearer will often feel trapped. It may seem that she’s simply too free-spirited for the traditional Capricorn man. Both will need to step out of their comfort zones a bit to find common ground.
Of course, should he become a father before he’s ready, this could be a different story. The unestablished Capricorn can be a total deadbeat dad. His sign can only focus on one thing at a time, and he doesn’t do well when life happens out of sequence. In his mind, the path goes: love, financial security, marriage, kids. When an unscheduled pregnancy messes with the master plan, he’s forced to juggle his duties, something he’s not very good at. To Capricorn, not being able to provide for his kids is the ultimate shame. This is the father who may be estranged from his children until much later in life, when he’s found the wisdom and direction to face them with dignity.
The Aries woman and the Capricorn man will be successful in their careers and individual goals, but these two have few other traits in common. Aries may find Capricorn boring, and he’ll think she’s too erratic. They’ll both have to go against their nature a bit if their relationship can stand the test of time.
Goal-driven and eternally work-focused, Saturn-ruled Capricorn men keep their eye on the peak of the summit they’re climbing. Very little can distract them from achieving their career ambitions. Though they may seem overly serious and gloomy, once you get to know these guys, you’ll discover a raucous sense of humor and lust for life that may seem to come out of nowhere, surprising even those closest to them.
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