They may not mean to be this way but it does tend to happen because of his dual personality. He will promise you the moon and stars then when it comes time for him to provide it; he will look at you like you’re crazy.
What he does have tends to be haphazardly organized in a manner that may only make sense to him and his personality, but it’s all kept fairly tidy. It’s not carelessness that makes him this way – just more of an attention focused on many other more important things, like what’s happening in the world outside the place where he sleeps and makes coffee. A Spartan, simplistic living space is ideal for this man, and he would do well inhabiting a studio apartment or tiny home.
There is no way of knowing where he will want to take you out. He is not one of those traditional men who has the need to make the first step, and will gladly accept someone’s invitation to any place that sounds interesting. If he develops feelings, he will surprise his partner with different places, presents and all sorts of creative spices to their dating life. It is impossible to get bored with Gemini, unless they talk too much and this is also something that can be changed with one conversation. The best way to describe the dating life of Gemini is – anywhere and anyhow, for as long as it is spontaneous and carefree.
I can’t stress this enough; not all Gemini men are this way. However; there are plenty of them out there that are. I’m just trying to help give you some ample warning so you don’t get tangled up with one of them.
Are you considering dating a Gemini man? Perhaps you’ve started dating one already. Either way; here is the ugly truth about Gemini men and some things you should be aware of that he doesn’t want you to know about.
Quick-witted Geminis seem to wear invisible winged shoes, like Mercury, the god of their ruling planet. These brilliant, silver-tongued angel-devils can be extremely charming and entertaining. Born with a true gift for gab, they are always ready with a fascinating story to tell you. Generally jovial, good-natured, and intellectually energetic, a Gemini man will always keep you on your toes with constantly shifting attitudes and opinions. Extremely cerebral, full of ideas, and always excited about making new discoveries, a Gemini loves to learn and share his knowledge – but, he tends to know a little bit about these subjects without ever truly committing to one field of study in a deeply engaged way. It’s this sponge-like tendency to absorb bits of information that makes him lethal in a game of trivia.
This paints us gemini men as crasy. The real problem is that Gemini loves deep and strong. Its very hard to detach from love feelings. So we need to get away from the person because we love them and its all in our head. So we have to have a stronger detach to truly get over them.
Gemini is the third sign of the zodiac running from May 20 – June 20. Gemini is represented by the sign of twins and the element of air. If you come across a man born under this sign, you will immediately know he is unlike any other. Gemini men are of a different breed and it is obvious to anyone who encounters them. They are friendly, social, and communicative, but also loners who fear commitment and like to have their space. While it is true what they say, that there are two sides to a Gemini and you never know which one you are going to get, there might as well be a hundred because the Gemini possesses many different personalities and you never know which you are going to come across on any given day. Let the circus begin . . .
So often times; Gemini men do tend to tell lies. By lies, I mean making promises he never intends to keep. He has no conscious when he does lie on purpose. If it means he gets what he wants; he’ll do it.
Still, turning into Al Bundy is far from the Gemini man’s dream. He just needs relationships with a single key ingredient: space. He must have distance in order to come closer. His inner Twin needs this contrast, to switch the intimacy button on and off. “I need variety; I don’t want to talk to you all the time,” says John, a Gemini IT specialist. As much as he may seek fame or a public career, the Gemini man needs to slip into the shadows at will, retreating into his own anonymous world to recharge. When he’s not making films, Gemini Johnny Depp lives a private, idyllic life in Southern France with his Capricorn wife and children. These polar extremes are essential to his sanity (a term we use loosely with Geminis).
This is a difficult question to answer, and the answer would most frequently be a simple “no”. You cannot trust your Gemini partner. This is not because he is a pathological liar, but because there is no way to predict what tomorrow will bring to his mind or his heart. There are many things he can say in the heat of the moment, and these are all complex mathematical equations that you have to decipher if you want to know if he meant to say what he said and understand what he actually wanted to say. However, if he shares his life with a partner with real emotional depth, able to feel his inner personality that doesn’t change overnight, he is a lucky man who will never betray his partners trust.
The first thing you should know about a Gemini man is that he’s a friendly guy. I have never met a Gemini man that I didn’t get along with. He has this easy air about him and can get along with just about anyone. He has very developed social skills and his gift of gab is like no other. A Gemini will literally talk your ear off and you won’t be able to get a word in edgewise. You’ll put up with it though, because Gemini man is just that interesting. He seems to know everything about everything. He’s like an information sponge that’s constantly learning more and more only to expel it later into your conversation. One thing you can be sure of, you will never be bored with a Gemini. That’s just not possible. No topic is off limits with Gemini and they tend to give very good advice because they can see both sides to every issue. Listen up, you just might learn a thing or two here.
Understanding Gemini energy has more to do with appreciating our need to see and truly embrace both aspects in ourselves, which we also carry – regardless of our own zodiac sign. It’s an important lesson in life, and a Gemini is the perfect teacher (though perhaps not the most patient one). Constantly holding the juxtaposition of two opposites within the container of your own personality can be a lot to handle, both for the Gemini man himself and for those he encounters as he fleetly flits through life.
You may see more of this fellow on the screen of your phone than you do in real life, and you might have a hard time pinning him down to make plans, as his social calendar is always packed. That being said, he still might be texting or messaging you constantly, keeping up a steady flow of conversation. Keep in mind that you might not be the only one he’s in communication with! The Gemini man is known for dating multiple people at once, or even leading double lives. Not that he’s implicitly duplicitous – he doesn’t mean to deceive anyone or break any hearts. It’s just that his own version of reality is sometimes in conflict with what’s actually happening.
Due to Gemini man being so social and friendly most of the time, he can get the reputation of being a flirt and a player, which he can definitely be if he’s not serious about a woman. When Gemini man finds a woman he can see a future with though, his player status will disappear just as quickly as it came. Gemini man can commit, just with the right woman. If he senses you get him like no one else can and appreciate him, then you have just become his one and only and you shouldn’t worry about any ladies he talks to because he’s only got eyes for you sweetheart.
Truthfully, Neda may have the better end of the deal. The Gemini man is not always easy to live with. Phone relationships suit him well, since Gemini rules the voice and communication. Before he’s gonna reach out and touch someone, or let his fingers do the walking, he needs to know he can talk to you for hours without getting bored. “Back in college, I knew I was in trouble,” says Gemini Bryan, “when I realized I’d rather talk to my wife-to-be than my girlfriend on the phone.” When he noticed he was putting his hometown honey on hold, he decided to mute the relationship and put his new friend on speed dial. Fourteen years later, they’re still married.
The restless mind of a Gemini man requires lots of information to keep him busy, so he’ll enjoy going out to see a play or film that has audiences completely perplexed. He favors mysteries and suspense thrillers with lots of double-crossing and twists and turns to keep him guessing – though he’s always five steps ahead of everyone else in sleuthing the whodunit. Travel with your Gemini man, if you can – he loves visiting new places, and will reliably research all the most interesting, off-the-beaten-path restaurants for you to try. He’ll pore thoroughly over every guidebook, making copious notes about every place you go, and loves feeling prepared to have an incredible time before making a trip. One of the rare people who truly enjoy surprises (the more elaborate the better), if you really want to impress a Gemini, pull one over on him! Or, for a present he’ll never forget, go one step further – plot a scavenger hunt with humorous clues leading to his gift as the prize.
They’ll pretend to be the typical Gemini but then if you decide you’re not into them; they get offended and start going to retaliate by being very nasty toward you. They can become stalkers and they can read you the riot act for not liking him.
Gemini is a paradox, because one side of him is such a social and communicative creature, while the other side is a loner who needs plenty of space. One day Gemini man just can’t shut up and wants to spend all day with you, then the next day, he doesn’t return your phone call and you don’t hear from him for a week. What gives right? Well that’s all part of his charm. With Gemini you get a two for one package. Want a social creature with a side of reclusive? You got it baby.
If you notice darker signs from your Gemini guy; you may need to go ahead and bail before things become too chaotic and you end up really hurt. Now; if you’re one of the lucky ladies that don’t have this type of Gemini then hold onto your guy.
A Gemini man is one of the easiest guys in the entire zodiac to shop for. He adores novelty and technology and goes crazy for those catalogs filled with all sorts of wild new gadgets that scratch your back while making coffee and vacuuming the floor. Finding him lots of fun little doodads may prove to be more satisfying than spending a big chunk of dough on a high-dollar item. Books and music are always winners with a Gemini, and a subscription to a great magazine or gift cards to his favorite bookstore will easily delight him. Puzzles and games make for fun gifts that you can engage in together.
If you meet one of these Gemini men; you’ll be able to spot if he’s one of these darker side Gemini men. Again, not all of them are this way but many are. Watch out for the red flags so you don’t want your time or heart.
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