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Your Virgo will have his own unique personality traits. This article talks about sun signs, however there are many other factors. For example his moon sign determines his emotional personality which affects whether he is sensitive, romantic, loyal etc.
Keep your look simple. Wear simple hairstyles, clothes, makeup, and jewelry — stay away from ALL excesses, because Virgo men like natural beauty. You know that practical side of them? That’s coming out here. They’re not into “showy” or “artificial.” What a breath of fresh air!
Your Virgo lover isn’t a player. He may remind you of someone testing the ice on a frozen lake; he’s going to take it very slowly. He’s methodical and logical. He has to make sure he’s not going to fall through the ice into deadly cold waters. He doesn’t like being exposed emotionally so he must be confident you’re worth the effort and emotional risk.
You’ll be able to tell if your man’s a Virgo the minute you walk into his abode. Only a Virgo man would live in such a perfectly arranged and meticulously organized home – which usually looks more like something from a film set than a home where anyone actually lives. Nothing pleases a Virgo man more than the opportunity to show off his gorgeously appointed living space to his guests, with every detail tailored specifically to his tastes – though he may ask you to take off your shoes and use a coaster for your drink.
No advice will ever apply to every Virgo man as they are all unique in various ways. I specialize in offering tailored advice based on your unique personality and his together, as one without the other isn’t nearly as useful. My astrology readings solve real relationship problems for real people every day. For more information please see the article on relationship advice.
Unfortunately, the Virgo man is often critical of others, leading him to have difficulty in finding a woman to form a solid relationship with. Instead, he is selective in his choice for love, failing to find someone for a long time if at all. His selectivity leads him to release a lack of control in dealing with the situation since so few women meet his specifications.
The mutable quality of the sign gives him enough sense to make changes that are necessary to always keep the relationship fresh. He will want to take you to a place where the plates are always clean and tablecloths white and ironed, so you can spill your tomato soup on them and feel guilty as hell. He will go with you to any place that doesn’t contradict his convictions, but in time, he might get bored of your choices, always in need for a change, even though he belongs to the element of Earth. He is often too practical, but when he is swept off his feet, he will be surprisingly romantic and tender. He needs someone he can truly care about and dating him becomes a privilege in these situations, at least until he finds your first flaw.
When a Virgo man falls in love, he will ask himself if he is in love for real, all the time. As a mutable sign, he might claim love and discover that it wasn’t really the feeling of love, in just a couple of weeks. He can be very difficult to be with, for his emotions are as insecure as in any mutable zodiac sign, but with the element of Earth that his sign belongs to, he is somehow strict in his expectations. Even though he is quite loyal to his friends, when it comes to searching for the love of his life, he rarely lasts in a loving relationship, until he meets someone who can always give him the perfection he seeks, or until he gives up on that one perfect love.
Ultimately, the Virgo man needs a bigger cause than patching up strays. His astrological duty is to serve humankind. He must find his mission, his life’s work and calling. Unless he is contributing to the greater society, or at least a noble cause, the Virgo man is adrift at sea. He will squander his gifts by playing the enabler and co-dependent hero. He’ll take on women’s problems, when he should really march them to the nearest therapist’s couch. And he will walk away from amazing women—with whom he is highly compatible—simply because they don’t need his rescuing.
With his date, time and location of birth these other factors can be calculated for a complete picture of his personality. To explore this further please see my article on astrology compatibility readings.
Keep your conversations down to earth and direct. Excessive displays of “personality” may ultimately lead him to think you’re pretentious. What he’s really looking for is a steady partner with real depth.
The Virgin figure that symbolizes Virgo is sometimes depicted as an angel. Although the symbol may be too feminine for a Virgo man’s liking, it’s worth a closer look. Angels hover above us all, watching, protecting and guiding. They only intervene when asked, and never force their help where it’s not requested.
Additionally, the Virgo man is reluctant to expose his inner self to another being. Intimacy is not something that he is comfortable with since he is reluctant to make himself vulnerable and exposed to another. Since he functions on a rational level rather than an emotional one, being intimate is an activity that does not come naturally to him.
Be clean and tidy. Keep your personal hygiene and grooming as clean and neat as possible. And as much as your body should be clean, your living situation should be too! If Virgo walks into your house and finds piles and piles of unsorted garbage, he will not be coming back anytime soon. Have a clean mantra when it comes to your entire life.
This is where the man child part of his personality appears. If something doesn’t go his way, he’ll become critical of absolutely everything in his life. His shirt doesn’t fit right. That movie on T.V. looks lame. That actor can’t act. His soup is too hot. Ten minutes later…his soup is now too cold. It’s like a toddler that doesn’t want to eat his peas. He’ll whine and throw a fit until you give him something else. With the Virgo man, you just have to give him alone time when he behaves badly. He’ll come to his senses and realize that it’s not actually your fault that his shirt doesn’t fit right since he is the one that’s been packing on the pounds lately.
However, if you’re looking to do something a bit more romantic than helping out in a soup kitchen for a couple of hours, the Virgo man is quite cultured and will find an evening at the theatre extremely satisfying
Virgo often sees the Libra woman as someone he could never take seriously. She’s bubbly and talkative, while he’s quiet and serious. He may be much too critical and judgmental for her. The trick for this couple will be to get beyond these glaring differences.
Co-dependence is the Virgo man’s co-pilot. Many of his relationships start while he’s helping a “friend” get back on her feet. He has a knack for finding women who’ve fallen on hard times: divorce, death of a loved one, recovery from abuse or alcoholism. He loves to be there, comforting and shepherding you through the grieving process, holding your hair back as you puke up your soul. He’ll listen to your troubles with a therapist’s patience, knowing that his foolproof strategy will work once again. The damsel in distress always falls for the noble knight. And if the knight just happens to gallop off once she’s restored to well-being, that’s just how fairy tale might end. He never promised you Happily Ever After just because he picked you up on a white horse. But he’ll never throw you off the horse before shepherding you safely back home.
Generally they don’t. But, this is the type of generic question that often gets asked or answered whenever astrology is discussed. Individual experiences are then quoted back and forth as proof that Virgo men do or don’t. Individuals get offended by general statements that don’t apply to them, and everything goes downhill fast. The diagram below shows the problem here:
Virgo men tend to be independent and free thinking, and appreciate the same in a partner. Conversation and intellectual connection tends to be very important to them. They also tend to mesh well with a partner who appreciates their hardworking, down to earth style, and fast and clever mind.
This can be frustrating when you’re looking for affection and you’re feeling particularly feely. They won’t reciprocate and don’t seem to get it. If that’s the case, you’ll need to relax. Take a step back and realize that’s just not how they operate. They’ll show you their feelings in other ways soon enough.
On the negative side, he can sometimes be seen as picky, aloof, sarcastic, pessimistic or whiny. He assumes everyone views him with the same critical eye that he possesses, which can sap his self confidence. Ironically, he is likely to be more perfect than most of us, yet he’s the only one who can’t see it. This level of self imposed modesty can be particularly endearing.
Virgoan men tend to be modest when it comes to their own needs and can be notoriously difficult to shop for because they don’t often trust their loved ones to really pay attention to discerning what will truly please them. When your Virgo says, “Oh, nothing really…” in response to your query about what they want for their birthday, whatever you do – don’t believe them! They do secretly want to be doted on, but will usually never ask.
A common fault of Virgo men is to be highly critical when perfection is not found. This usually applies doubly to himself and his own performance, which can sometimes lead to reduced self confidence. He is likely to have trouble relaxing, and often hates wasting time, or sitting idle.
If you have a particularly hesitant Virgo man then it’s worth noting he may be more comfortable being asked to do something rather than initiating sexual acts himself the first time or two. In these cases the ‘cleaner’ you can keep his conscience, the less inhibited he will be in the long term.
Know that he may need reassurance. Virgos are often caught up in their heads. Because of this, they can get a little out of touch with reality, resulting in an unconscious tendency toward insecurity. When this time pops up, he may need reassurance. When he’s acting inhibited with you, let him know that that’s unneeded (not with your words, necessarily). Be overly welcoming. He may need that extra push.
The good thing about Virgo is that if you know your stuff too, he can take it! He is open to debate and loves talking about things he’s learned and experienced. So the next time your Virgo corrects you on something, don’t hesitate to say, “No! I did it this way on purpose!” and explain why.
This is not a man that needs that many surprises. Everyone likes a nice surprise here and there, but the most important thing for him is to honor traditions, birthdays, anniversaries and successes. He will treasure a pen, a notebook, a laptop or anything he can write on, even if he claims he is not into writing. Buy him a transparent, manly watch, with all the gear wheels shown, or any book on how stuff works. He will want to see how things are made or fixed, and he will be thankful for all sorts of fine tools that allow him to do something practical that needs to be done at the moment. If nothing else makes him happy, you can always buy him an enormous puzzle of 5000 little pieces. This should keep him occupied for a while.
Depending on what you are looking for, Virgo can be a very satisfying man to be with or a very annoying one. He is dedicated to his partner, but he is ruled by Mercury and this leads to a sort of double personality that cannot always be trusted. He can be quite superficial when it comes to emotional closeness and intimacy, but he is intelligent enough not to let go of the partner he is in love with. He likes his routine and needs some healthy choices in his life, whether he is aware of this or not, and it can make him demanding in a relationship. He does live dependent on traditional values, and he would really like if someone would take care of him while he takes care of the world.
That being said, shy Virgoan men loathe being made a spectacle of, so think twice before planning that surprise party for them, or telling the waiter to make a scene with the whole restaurant loudly singing to them. Noisy, raucous parties full of messy drunks tend to make these retiring fellows nervous, so maybe consider cooking a lovely meal at home to celebrate instead. Give them their presents in private, and show them that you’ve really been paying attention to what tomes they were lingering over at the bookstore, or the goodies they’ve circled in their favorite catalogs.
Ruled by the planet Mercury, the Virgo man is incredibly intelligent and is always busy parsing information and finding ways to organize the contents of his own crowded brainpan. He delights in making the world fit his specifications and creating a space around himself that is peaceful, orderly, and utterly tidy – to help quell the over-thinking that is constantly taking place within his mind.
A Virgo man tends to approach romance slowly and carefully. He likes to take his time getting to know a person before he decides whether he wants to pursue a romantic relationship. The first and most difficult step on the path to romance is getting this man to notice you, but it’s crucial if you hope to make him fall in love.
A favorite of those who prefer the quiet, smoldering intellectual type, the Virgo man has a fantastic eye for detail and enjoys order, precision and efficiency in all things. If you find intelligence and a professional attitude to be sexy, then this is the man for you.
If you’re not, you risk walking in on this guy organizing your bedroom floor. Suggesting a new soap for you try to get rid of that smell. Throwing out all the expired ranch dressing in your fridge. These are conversations that are better off being avoided!
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