Libra men are known to love beautiful things and beautiful people. They are the types to wear designer clothes and dress impeccably. Since Libra men pay so much attention to looks, they will also notice what you are wearing and might even offer a few suggestions if they feel like you could benefit from them. Listen to their advice, if there’s one thing a Libra knows it’s how to dress well and look good. Libra men can be the type of guys who may be described as “metrosexual” because they care so much about how they look. Don’t get me wrong, it’s not a bad thing at all, but it may just motivate you to step up your style game a little.
The Libra man absolutely does not like drama so if you’re a drama queen, know from the start it’s not going to work out. The Libra man goes out of his way to avoid any sort of confrontation or drama. He will literally walk away and leave the building to avoid conflict. He does not like to engage in pointless drama that goes on and on in a circle with no solution. If you happen to have an issue you want to discuss with him, do so in a non-confrontational manner. Present the problem and offer a possible solution. Libra man does not like to discuss problems endlessly with no solution in sight. Make it short and sweet and he’ll respect you that much more because you haven’t upset the equilibrium in his life.
The combination of the Aquarius woman and Libra man has the making of a wonderful relationship. Both signs love people and intellectual stimulation, along with personal freedom. They’ll both allow the other space, while reveling in each other’s company.
The Libra man is looking for the one who satisfies him emotionally, spiritually, intellectually and physically. For a Libra man to take notice, you need to stand out from the crowd. He’s drawn to beautiful women who have a sense of style and elegance.
Once you’ve snagged your prize, all you have to do is work on keeping him interested. The plan? Keep him away from all of your pretty girlfriends, co-workers and sisters, and whatever you do, never leave him alone with any of them for any length of time.
Libra is the sign of the judge, so he subjects prospective mates to a lengthy evaluation before committing. During his weighing and measuring process, he’ll examine whether he’s “settling” by being with you. This guy has a breathtaking sense of entitlement—only the best for Prince Libra! Years can pass between his relationships, and he often marries late. Unfortunately, he also has a case of verbal diarrhea, and will babble out his whole messy thought process well within your earshot. Hello, insensitive. You’ll need to develop a thick skin to tough out those times.
Womanizing may be a sport to some Libra men, but this doesn’t apply to every single one. In fact, while all Libran men enjoy some form of flirting, not all are cheats. Keep your wits about you, do not get carried away by his charm and seduction, and really investigate his character. Usually you’ll find out exactly what you assumed when you first met him: He’s an affable guy who just happens to be very good looking and knows how to use this to his advantage, but there’s a heart of gold beneath all that just waiting for you to find it.
The commitment to know himself and achieve balance in his own life can create a personality not commonly seen in this sign: true mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual equilibrium. Without this dedication to focusing on internal balance, Libra men can wobble and teeter-totter back and forth from one extreme to another like a lopsided seesaw.
Libra personalities desire equilibrium and harmony above all else, and will feel uncomfortable unless everything in their personal area is perfectly symmetrical. If your Libran domestic partner comes home to find that you’ve moved all the furniture around so that the bed is off-kilter from the window and the dining room chairs are scattered about willy-nilly instead of placed carefully around the table, you may see cracks begin to form in his generally calm and placid demeanor. Mess and disarray offend Venus-ruled Libra men, who prize beauty and appearance sometimes over functionality and basic human needs. If you cook dinner in his kitchen, clean as you go, and don’t leave a pile of dishes sitting until the next day – otherwise, those sensitive Scales may start to twitch.
Compliment him. Libra men are usually rather confident and have positive opinions about themselves. A genuine, well-timed compliment or word of praise can go a long way in capturing his attention. When choosing something to compliment on, focus on a typical Libra area of interest, like his sense of taste, style, or justice.
A Taurus woman may need to go against her nature to make a relationship work with a Libra man. While Libra loves going out and socializing, the Taurus woman is more of a homebody. She also may be a little too clingy for free-spirited Libra.
Do some volunteer work. Most Libras have a bit of an altruistic spirit, so they might be involved in volunteer work of some sort. Even if your guy does not have a charity or cause he actively takes part in, he will likely find someone who does sacrifice her time for a noble purpose exceptionally attractive.
Of course, if you want to be with your Libra man for a long time, you and he will eventually need to confront your emotions together. When the times comes, do so in as calm and rational a manner as possible. While you are only in the introductory stages, though, it’s better to avoid heavy emotions as much as possible.
Libra men love art and design, so beautiful, glossy coffee table books and trips to modern art museums or performance events will delight them. They always want to go see all the shows, films, and musicals that are being discussed in the news and on social media, so season passes or gift cards to their favorite movie theater are sure to please.
Similarly, antiques and heirlooms may feel like too much of a heavy responsibility to them – so maybe skip passing on your grandfather’s engraved pocket watch and instead pick out a bunch of bizarre socks with pineapples and poodles. They’ll get a kick out of gifts with humor and wit – especially something that references a private running joke between the two of you.
Let him talk about himself. It’s not that Libra is narcissistic, but as someone with an outgoing personality, he does have a definite tendency to ramble on about himself and the things that interest him. If you want to impress him, let him talk to his heart’s content and follow along with the conversation sincerely.
His earliest impressions of you should view you as a “mysterious beauty.” Of course, the longer you’re with your Libra, the more that mystery will fade. To pack a strong punch at the start, though, try to be an elusive, nearly inaccessible goal to strive for.
If you do not have the finances to back Libra’s love of luxury, fear not! These men are interested in refinement, but that refinement does not necessarily need to cost you an arm and a leg. Try inviting him to a fancy restaurant for dessert only to save you the cost of a meal, or go somewhere with an elegant atmosphere but a moderate cost.
Ease up on the emotions. Even though Libras love to be around people, most Libra men have a tendency to be emotionally detached. When he first starts getting to know you, avoid showing too much emotion, either positive or negative.
Fame and notoriety comes naturally to these pretty boys who can make careers based on their charm and their looks, and all the better if they have the raw talent and drive to back it up. Many famous Libra men fashion a persona for themselves to build up around the ordinary man underneath – Sting, Snoop Dogg, Flea, Divine, Meatloaf, Eminem and U2’s The Edge come to mind, men who we know by the icons they project outwardly. Who are the men behind that glittery curtain? Maybe they’re the only ones who know for sure.
The thing about Libra man is that he’s a romantic at heart. He secretly loves a good chick flick and actually thinks he’s got more game than any heart throb on screen. Ryan Gosling from the Notebook has got nothing on Libra man. Having such a romantic side also brings out the idealist in Libra man. He’s got an exact picture of the way he wants his life to turn out in his mind. Maybe he’s seen one too many of those Nicholas Sparks movies, but he knows what he wants and he’s not going to be happy until he gets it. Everything in Libra man’s life must be balanced in order for him to be happy and his love life is right at the top of that list. If he can’t have who he really wants, he’d rather be alone. Well not really alone, because we all know Libras always have many admirers. But alone in the sense that he’s going to close himself off to every woman again until the right one comes along.
Because Libra is represented by the seventh house in the Zodiac, the house of partnership, and ruled by Venus, Mr. Scales is all about romance and love. Fairness and Justice are also extremely important to your Libra. He is cordial, polite, charming, diplomatic, and peaceful. He enjoys socializing. He is a classy guy, and the perfect man to bring home to meet the parents.
Give him space. As social creatures, Libra men love freedom and need to feel unconfined in order to be happy. You can dote on him as much as you want when the two of you are together, but avoid smothering him or forcing your way into areas of his life he hasn’t invited you to on his own.
When you extend an invitation, pick a place that your Libra man will probably enjoy, like an art gallery, arts and crafts fair, or museum. You can appeal to him even more by inviting him out during an active time. For instance, ask him to a special one-day-only exhibit instead of inviting him to the museum during a quiet “off” time.
A Libra man will shamelessly flirt and cajole the object of his affection until she eventually gives in and gives him the attention he has been longing for. However, once that lovely lady gives in, she may want to keep a close eye on just how close her Libra man becomes with all the other ladies in her life; specifically her best girlfriends.
Keep the pressure off. Related to Libra’s distaste for emotions is his aversion to conflict. Even though he likes intellectual debate, emotionally-charged debate tends to be a big turn-off. Keep a calm, casual attitude when dealing with your Libra to avoid sending him running.
Quality isn’t necessarily the most important here – novelty will win out every time for a trend-obsessed Libra man, so it’s probably best not to spend a mint on something that you’re hoping they’ll keep and treasure forever.
A Libra man hates to be alone and fears actually having to deal with himself and his own deeper motivations and emotions; thus, he turns to distracting dalliances with multiple partners to keep his own demons at bay. When in a committed relationship, a Libra man can be a total dream: an attentive lover who will flatter you with compliments and gestures of his deep appreciation for all that you represent to him. As long as he can iron out his own internal conflict between a passionate desire for freedom and a natural longing for partnership, marriage can endure as a true lasting union. If he can be real with himself, and honest with who (and how) he loves, romance with this lovely air sign can be a fantasy come to life.
Keep the romance simple. As mentioned earlier, Libra men can be emotionally detached when you first get to know them, and as such, they tend to avoid women who seem manipulative or who live for drama. When you make your move, avoid getting too serious too quickly. Keep things light, and win him over with gestures of traditional romance: candlelight dinners, moonlit walks, and so on.
With a bruised ego, a Libra man can act like a little, insulted child. It takes a lot of effort and lucky family circumstances in his life, for him to be aware that not everything is a personal insult intended to hurt him. Whatever the situation in the insult department, this is a man who will stay in a relationship for a long time if he decides to be with someone. He will not give up at the first sight of difficulty and he will trust his feelings without a doubt. In most situations he will remain calm and try to show a just way to resolve any issue in his partner’s life or their relationship. When he obsessively gives in, thinking he found the love of his life, there is a great chance he will put too much focus on his partner lacking the ability to turn to himself and build his own life.
He may seem like an insulted child, unaware of anyone else’s feelings on one hand, and fully aware of the world and the way to reach balance in another. He can be disrespectful in the most ridiculous, passive way, sometimes unrecognizable to the person he dates, but he can also show an incredible understanding for his loved ones if he forms a strong emotional bond.
The Pisces woman will need to work on becoming more grounded for this match to stand the test of time. Libra hates making decisions, and it’s often impossible for the Fish to come out of her dream world long enough to do so. This could build tension.
Loving, warm and compassionate, Libra is one of the most charming of all the zodiac signs. Ruled by Venus, the Libra man is a helpless romantic who loves being in love. He’s rarely alone, and will choose a bad relationship over none at all. Libra is upbeat, with a positive outlook on life. He loves beauty, comfort and luxury, even when he can’t afford it.
Join the crowd. Libra is definitely an extrovert who loves to socialize and be around other people. You’ll often find him in groups, standing out as the life of the party. If you want to attract him, your best bet is to cross paths with him as often as possible in his natural setting: a crowd.
THe is gallant, tactful, well dressed and even better behaved, and of course, in most cases, he chooses a partner that is the exact opposite. This can be a problem if he starts telling you how to dress or behave, because this only speaks of his way to feed his bruised ego. No partner wants to be in this position with a Libra man. With clearly set boundaries and enough respect, he will take you to fancy places, art galleries, theater and occasions where you need to dress up. He likes to create a certain image and the best way to date him is to show an understanding for his need to show your love to the rest of the world. He will want to be looked at, cherished, caressed and touched in public, even though he might have a problem showing his own affection among other people.
I believe it depends very much on balance, speaking as a Libra male. Socializing is fun but family life and peace at home is, ultimately, the goal we cannot live without. If we become unbalanced or feel we’re unworthy of taking life to the fullest… often we can become housebound hermits until we feel ready to give it another crack. There are many obvious signs in all the themes you’ve brought up that immediately give away how happy or unhappy a Libra male is, in his own mind.
This chart is divided into sections based on constellations or Zodiac signs. There are 12 houses that represent a specific section of your life. For example, the first house (also known as your Rising sign) represents your outward personality and the way you are viewed by others. Each Zodiac sign is ruled by a specific planet (or two in some cases). Each Zodiac sign is also assigned an element, quality, and symbol. Personality and priority adjustments are made all through life for all of us depending on many things including our age.
The Gemini woman has good chemistry with a Libra man. Both signs love people and social gatherings, along with the finer things life has to offer. The biggest problem will be that neither is good at making sound decisions.
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