Take this and value it. Instead of wishing he were more open and confident, realize that this quality makes him down-to-earth, modest, loyal, and way less of a showy megalomaniac than the sign that precedes him, Leo. This sense of insecurity that flares up on occasion can be a relief!
Both the Capricorn woman and the Virgo man have practical natures and tend to be realists. Both are ambitious and will work together to achieve success. A relationship between the two might not be filled with lusty passion, but it will be one of steady commitment.
The Virgo man is something of a perfectionist, particularly when it comes to matters of the heart. Indeed, he may have waited literally years for the right person to come along. This puts you in rather a difficult position, because you either are that person or you aren’t. He will probably have a mental photograph of this individual, not to mention a detailed psychological profile.
Have an open mind with your Virgo man, and you’ll discover a lover who is dexterous and very good with his hands. This is a man that will take his time and be exceedingly exacting in his pleasure-giving.
If you can gain access to it, trust that all Virgo men have a master wish list of all the things they’ve been hankering for tucked away somewhere, indulgences for which they’re saving up their pennies to purchase eventually.
The Virgo man is usually highly intelligent and appreciates and admires this quality in a potential mate. He’s actually a male who will love you for your mind. On the negative side, Virgo can be intensely critical and territorial. Once he learns to completely trust a lover, he’s dedicated, caring and faithful.
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Your Virgo may be something of a perfectionist, but he’s usually not domineering. He will value and appreciate your input, especially when your opinions or suggestions are well thought out and can enhance a goal or activity. He longs for a partner who can be his equal.
Don’t be extravagant and wasteful. Back to that dang practicality. Virgo knows exactly what he needs and exactly that he doesn’t need anything more. Just the same as he doesn’t do showy displays of affection, he’s really not all that showy himself — and wants his partner to have a similar mentality. Things needn’t be complex and unnecessary. That’s just more for him to worry about and sift through in his mind!
Virgo man is a paradox of sorts because he has very different sides to him. He’s independent and self sufficient, yet secretly really wants someone to take care of him. He wants a relationship, but at the same time he likes his alone time too much. He pays so much attention to the little details in life that he forgets to see the big picture which is all that really matters in the end. Like every Earth sign, Virgo man is very stubborn. He will uphold his position and not waver no matter what. But there’s a silver lining to Virgo man. If he really likes you, he won’t be critical of you.
If you’re turned on by intelligent people then beware! Virgo’s are nearly always intellectual, and this man’s fast mind can find humor in most things, and often empathize with others more than his emotions alone would allow. This ability to empathize while still remaining detached makes them some of the best counselors, therapists and psychologists.
A Virgo man can easily turn into an inveterate worrywart without enough tasks and projects to keep his thoughts occupied. People born under the sign of the Virgin take well to owning responsibility for themselves and their work, and love to find ways to be of service to others (though they can easily turn resentful if they continually martyr themselves in situations with no reciprocity).
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For the Virgo man, sex is a healthy and natural thing, but it isn’t something to be indulged in for its own sake. Hence, a one-night-stand is unlikely to sit well with the Virgo man. He will want to get to know a potential partner first, to feel comfortable and confident with them.
That being said, shy Virgoan men loathe being made a spectacle of, so think twice before planning that surprise party for them, or telling the waiter to make a scene with the whole restaurant loudly singing to them. Noisy, raucous parties full of messy drunks tend to make these retiring fellows nervous, so maybe consider cooking a lovely meal at home to celebrate instead. Give them their presents in private, and show them that you’ve really been paying attention to what tomes they were lingering over at the bookstore, or the goodies they’ve circled in their favorite catalogs.
Don’t show him pretty lip gloss, well-timed hair flips, and batting eyelashes. Show him you. Show him a person that’s awesome and that knows she’s awesome. Be real with him. That’s the only way you can truly gain his respect and loyalty.
Later in life he’s likely to look much younger than he really is. Call it unfair but this is a sign which usually ages very well. One factor in this is that Virgo men are more likely than most to monitor what they eat and drink, how frequently they exercise, and generally to prefer a healthy lifestyle.
Virgo wants his partner to be real. Who wouldn’t? While they like nice things, brands don’t mean anything to them. Simple and chic resonate with them much more than accessorized and expensive. You should be the thing that shines strongest, not that shiny bracelet you’re wearing.
Get ready for perfection. If there’s one thing this guy is, it’s a perfectionist. He notices every little detail and expects it. He makes sure his linen closet is arranged by color, size, date purchased, and thread count. He can tell when picture frames aren’t exactly centered, when a curry is missing the right amount of spice. This has its ups and downs — so concentrate on the ups!
Virgos love to collect odd little treasures, especially items found in nature, and so their parlors and offices can come to resemble the wunderkammers (or wonder-cabinets) of 18th century Naturalists, stuffed with interesting shells, bird’s nests, and bizarre taxidermy. Everything must be labeled accordingly, kept immaculate and dust-free (ideally behind glass), and compartmentalized according to his own internal systems. A little reclusive, a Virgo man prefers to stay at home once he’s gotten it all fixed up just how he likes it.
Virgos love their work and are fiercely loyal to their professions and their employers. The Virgo man is absolutely the wrong person to have “I hate my job” or “My boss is an imbecile” conversations with. If you’re not happy with your current employer, best to say nothing for the time being because the Virgo man won’t appreciate it at all.
Generally they don’t. But, this is the type of generic question that often gets asked or answered whenever astrology is discussed. Individual experiences are then quoted back and forth as proof that Virgo men do or don’t. Individuals get offended by general statements that don’t apply to them, and everything goes downhill fast. The diagram below shows the problem here:
This isn’t to say don’t tell him how you feel, if you’re feeling particularly moody. Just try to be rational and logical about it. Instead of calling him, crying because your best friend is prettier than you are today, take a step back. Hang out with him that night and talk about your struggle with your image. He’ll see that you’re calm and receptive — instead of flighty and incomprehensible.
Once you have won his heart, you will never again feel unloved or uncared for, in your entire life. His love will burn for you with a steady flame, which will never flicker even for a minute. You will be rewarded with a husband who is totally sincere, patient, dependable and forever loving. You will never have to worry about stability again, whether it is emotional or financial. A Virgo man is not at all prone to wandering and you will never ever have to keep an eye on him. You will practically be showered with care and concern, whenever you need them.
This is a man that has one mission in life – to fix something. Until he does, it will not be easy for him to relax, smile, dance and be as happy as you might want him to be. He is serious because he has some serious details to commit to, and unless he finds a way to make constructive use of his mind at his work, he might drive you mad analyzing your every word. Let him have those already used things and fix everything around the house. His hands need to be put to good use or he will tell you all about the bad use of yours. Virgo is a sign meant to fix all that was broken and while you get annoyed by him, think if you were maybe chosen to be fixed yourself.
On the negative side, he can sometimes be seen as picky, aloof, sarcastic, pessimistic or whiny. He assumes everyone views him with the same critical eye that he possesses, which can sap his self confidence. Ironically, he is likely to be more perfect than most of us, yet he’s the only one who can’t see it. This level of self imposed modesty can be particularly endearing.
Strong, stable and confident he or she should ideally be comfortable with being fairly dominant at the start of the relationship, both socially and sexually. In the longer term however treating him as a partner and an equal will win more points.
There is a misconception about the Virgo sign as a whole with regards to sex. Virgos are not naturally chaste and they don’t find sex distasteful. However, they do find it easier than any other sign of the zodiac to abstain, so you’re unlikely to come across a Virgo man who desperately craves sex.
Virgo man judges his life by all the little pieces, rather than looking at the big picture. He’s not an all or nothing guy by any means. He examines every situation bit by bit and piece by piece much like a puzzle. In fact, he is one of those people who actually has the patience to sit down and do a 5,000 piece puzzle. He would actually find that activity fun rather than exhausting. If you want to date the Virgo man, you have to show him that you belong in his world and you won’t disrupt it in any way. Order and stability are the two most important things in a Virgo man’s life and that’s something his partner just has to understand.
It may seem the stars aren’t so aligned for these two signs. The Pisces woman lives in a dream world, while the Virgo man is well-grounded. Pisces yearns for romance and passion, which can be tricky with a down-to-earth Virgo love interest.
Your relationship may be slow-to-start. This is fine! It’s just how Virgo rolls. It’s not an indicator of a lack of passion or anything negative. He’ll open up in time if you can be patient. Good things are worth waiting for, after all.
Be forward. The Virgo man isn’t the most direct, gutsy sign there is, to say the least. You may need to give him some not-so-subtle hints that you’re into him. He may need to know it’s a sure thing before he takes any action. Can you blame him? No one likes rejection!
This propensity to be a bit neurotic and even slightly obsessive-compulsive can be the Virgo’s downfall – especially when it becomes hard for others around them to relate to their fussiness. This can manifest in small ways, like being particular about how things are arranged on their desk, or finicky habits around food and eating. On the other hand, a Virgo man is often so full of charm – his good manners and natural elegance do much to make up for his somewhat odd ways.
This doesn’t mean that a Virgo guy cannot be softened at all. You have to keep the temperature just right. Too much aloofness or too much closeness is not what he wants. A little bit of sensuality, mixed with some intelligence and an interesting disposition is what he desires. To him, quality of time spent with you will mean more than the quantity. He is usually very cautious while forming a relationship. If it still doesn’t turn out to be right, he will bury himself in work, avoid social gathering and be triply cautious with people.
Then we woke up and smelled the smoke signals. A woman advertising online for an affair is either a) horny, b) bored, or c) (ding ding ding!) sending out an SOS. She’s crying out, “Help! I’m done with this marriage and I don’t know how to get out. Somebody save me!” Bingo. It’s the Virgo man’s sweet spot, and he rushes in for the save. In his own way, the Virgo man feels that he’s performing a public service helping a woman leave a bad marriage. He’d never fancy himself a homewrecker. After all, she was already sniffing around for a side dish. He was just being helpful.
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