Take this and value it. Instead of wishing he were more open and confident, realize that this quality makes him down-to-earth, modest, loyal, and way less of a showy megalomaniac than the sign that precedes him, Leo. This sense of insecurity that flares up on occasion can be a relief!
From just someone’s sun sign however we can only predict some aspects of their personality and it’s too much of a leap to try and predict behavior from just those. Astrology has fairly precise limits. This is an example of an area where sun signs are just too broad and clumsy to give an answer. A real compatibility reading is required to answer the question.
Often their own worst critics, Virgo men can be extremely hard on themselves – often over tiny errors or insignificant infractions. The Virgoan personality has an intense desire to control all outcomes of any given situation, and therefore even relaxing events like vacations and fun trips are meticulously planned out, with detailed lists, schedules, and charts that must be followed to the letter for them to feel comfortable. Switching gracefully from Plan A to Plan B when their carefully plotted plans fall through is difficult for this hyper-organized and careful sign.
This is always a hard question to answer, as one person’s idea of kinky can be very different to someone else’s. Individuals also vary a lot, so this is a bad area to generalize in. All things being equal though, Virgo men are about average. Typically they enjoy mental stimulation such as role playing (as long as you’re a worthy opponent!) more than vanilla kinkiness for it’s own sake. Leave the chicken in the fridge and just use a feather…
Emotionally, a Virgoan can come off as a little cold, and will often be reticent about what’s really going on with his feelings. He might write a passionate letter or text, but will act totally preoccupied when you see him in person, or behave in a way that belies any interest in you at all.
A favorite of those who prefer the quiet, smoldering intellectual type, the Virgo man has a fantastic eye for detail and enjoys order, precision and efficiency in all things. If you find intelligence and a professional attitude to be sexy, then this is the man for you.
Having too much in common is rarely a good thing in matters of the heart. A Virgo woman and Virgo man may be so critical of one another that discord will often prevail. And since both are reticent with their emotions, things could get pretty boring.
Strong, stable and confident he or she should ideally be comfortable with being fairly dominant at the start of the relationship, both socially and sexually. In the longer term however treating him as a partner and an equal will win more points.
Virgo men typically have a fantastic eye for detail and enjoy order, precision and efficiency in all things. This has several implications, for example he is likely to prefer routines to random or chaotic approaches, and is very likely to have a fondness for lists.
He may not make a big deal of your relationship turning serious, but know that he’s probably thinking about it. When he’s opening up to you easily, trusting you, allowing you to be his rock, know that you’re in. You may not get your name up in lights, but you’ll get a constant love that is eternal.
A Virgo man can easily turn into an inveterate worrywart without enough tasks and projects to keep his thoughts occupied. People born under the sign of the Virgin take well to owning responsibility for themselves and their work, and love to find ways to be of service to others (though they can easily turn resentful if they continually martyr themselves in situations with no reciprocity).
Then we woke up and smelled the smoke signals. A woman advertising online for an affair is either a) horny, b) bored, or c) (ding ding ding!) sending out an SOS. She’s crying out, “Help! I’m done with this marriage and I don’t know how to get out. Somebody save me!” Bingo. It’s the Virgo man’s sweet spot, and he rushes in for the save. In his own way, the Virgo man feels that he’s performing a public service helping a woman leave a bad marriage. He’d never fancy himself a homewrecker. After all, she was already sniffing around for a side dish. He was just being helpful.
The Virgo man tends to be overly critical of others, events, and of life in general. He finds it difficult to become satisfied or content with life since everywhere that he looks, he is faced with flaws. His own flaw might be the simple fact that he finds flaws in almost every human being, every situation, and every aspect of life. He finds it difficult to perform in a situation that is disorganized and prefers order to disorder every single time. Spontaneity eludes the Virgo man as an inappropriate quality for any circumstance.
The Virgo is the sixth sign of the zodiac and is represented by the virgin maiden. This sign starts on August 22 and goes through September 22. The Virgo sign is part of the Earth element which represents stability and dependability. The Virgo man is a unique creature of sorts.
A Virgo man is a boon to any workplace, where his intensely focused work ethic and exacting personality will ensure zero slacking or sloppiness in what he produces or achieves. With his analytical and critical thinking skills, Virgo tends to excel at problem-solving, planning, and organizing information. Left to their own devices, these men can be trusted to be efficient in their use of time and counted on to always strive toward perfection.
The Virgin figure that symbolizes Virgo is sometimes depicted as an angel. Although the symbol may be too feminine for a Virgo man’s liking, it’s worth a closer look. Angels hover above us all, watching, protecting and guiding. They only intervene when asked, and never force their help where it’s not requested.
Once you have his attention, you might find it difficult to keep. Virgos are often loners, and they survive bachelorhood better than most men. Keep him interested with stimulating ideas. Let him know that your mind is always working, and that you enjoy learning and sharing new things.
Have an open mind with your Virgo man, and you’ll discover a lover who is dexterous and very good with his hands. This is a man that will take his time and be exceedingly exacting in his pleasure-giving.
However, if you’re looking to do something a bit more romantic than helping out in a soup kitchen for a couple of hours, the Virgo man is quite cultured and will find an evening at the theatre extremely satisfying
Don’t be surprised if one of his close buddies approaches you about the possibility of a first date. Insecure Virgo needs to know he won’t be turned down when he asks you out. Virgo is initially cautious of love. He will first observe his potential partner, watching for any poor indicators. However, once convinced, he’ll move in fast to secure his mate. Love’s newness tends to overwhelm Virgo at first. If you’re the lucky person on the receiving end, be prepared to be:
A Virgo man tends to approach romance slowly and carefully. He likes to take his time getting to know a person before he decides whether he wants to pursue a romantic relationship. The first and most difficult step on the path to romance is getting this man to notice you, but it’s crucial if you hope to make him fall in love.
Know that he may need reassurance. Virgos are often caught up in their heads. Because of this, they can get a little out of touch with reality, resulting in an unconscious tendency toward insecurity. When this time pops up, he may need reassurance. When he’s acting inhibited with you, let him know that that’s unneeded (not with your words, necessarily). Be overly welcoming. He may need that extra push.
It really is no coincidence that some of the best comedians of our time are Virgo men. Their man child status and immaturity can really make them a star in this field. Think Adam Sandler, Kevin James, C.K. Louis, Dave Chappelle, and Jimmy Fallon. And you can’t forget Charlie Sheen. Even though he’s not really a comedian, he did bring the laughs on Two and Half Men. Until he got kicked off for his behavior that is.
Relationships are complex things, comprising hundreds of individual elements. Sun signs are one of these, however a detailed analysis of everything is required to find all the strong and weak areas. Please see the article on astrology and soulmates for more information on how astrology can be used to determine if someone is your soulmate.
A Virgo male is rather introverted because he just isn’t comfortable with all those emotions. Showing his feelings threatens the image he loves to portray of being calm, cool, and collected at all times. Being in love is the rare time you’ll ever find him unable to contain his feelings and feeling a bit out of control. It won’t last, so enjoy it while it does. He’ll soon be back to his regimented discipline and logical approach to life and love.
Be clean and tidy. Keep your personal hygiene and grooming as clean and neat as possible. And as much as your body should be clean, your living situation should be too! If Virgo walks into your house and finds piles and piles of unsorted garbage, he will not be coming back anytime soon. Have a clean mantra when it comes to your entire life.
Ruled by the planet Mercury, the Virgo man is incredibly intelligent and is always busy parsing information and finding ways to organize the contents of his own crowded brainpan. He delights in making the world fit his specifications and creating a space around himself that is peaceful, orderly, and utterly tidy – to help quell the over-thinking that is constantly taking place within his mind.
If Virgo is cooking you dinner in your kitchen and runs across 6 jars of paprika, 5 of which are unopened, he’ll wonder if you were too lazy to look through your cabinets before you went to the store and know that you’re wasteful with your money. So do yourself and your budget a favor (and the environment!) and take a leaf out of his book.
A Virgo man almost always prefers a home-cooked meal to a trendy restaurant. If you have decent culinary skills, invite him home for a meal you prepare yourself. It doesn’t have to be a fancy meal, but every dish should be delicious. A successful dinner date like this will show him you’d be a good domestic partner, and that’s another characteristic he’s looking for.
Apparently, the two met on a swingers’ website called Ashleymadison.com, which helps attached people find discreet hookups and affairs. (The taglines: “when monogamy becomes monotony” and “because the best men & women are already taken.”) At first, we were baffled. Why would a germophobic Virgo use the Internet to pick up someone’s sloppy seconds? How could a sign as preachy and puritanical as Virgo be so shamelessly unethical?
To get a complete picture of someone through astrology we need to take all those other planets and their interactions into account. To do this we need to create and interpret their unique natal chart. For information on what’s involved in this and the opportunity to obtain one for yourself and your partner please see the compatibility readings page.
Compatible signs usually hold the same ideals and want the same things in life. A Virgo man seeks a love partner who can be his life mate and work by his side. The stability of character and expression of Virgoan traits in such a man will also depend largely on any other dominant astrological signs and their placement in his natal chart. When making attempts to understand the unique makeup of your Virgo male, you will need to take into account any chart nuances and energies that can either enhance or conflict with his Virgo energies.
If you’re interested in a Virgo man, be friends with him first. Virgos are not passionate, ready-to-jump-into-bed creatures. They like to know exactly what they’re getting into. The will not get caught up in a whirlwind of romance. So be friends first! Show him that you’re the real deal and his interest will spark.
If you do happen to snag yourself a Virgo man, don’t fool yourself into thinking that you’ve captured his heart and now you can act like your usual neurotic self. The reality is that your work has just begun! One of the negative aspects of Virgo man’s personality is that he can become very critical of everything in his life if things aren’t going his way. That includes you. If you find yourself on the receiving end of Virgo’s criticism, just take a step back. You might be pushing him too hard and his criticism is his way of protecting himself. You need to give Virgo a lot of alone time and let him come to the realization that he needs you in his life. That only way to do that is to give him some time to himself.
The Virgo man and Taurus woman are two signs that definitely play well together. They’re both practical, no-nonsense types who will work hard to create a comfortable life. The only problem that might arise is when the Bull smothers Virgo with too much affection.
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