If you can gain access to it, trust that all Virgo men have a master wish list of all the things they’ve been hankering for tucked away somewhere, indulgences for which they’re saving up their pennies to purchase eventually.
Generally, cultured, the Virgo man will appreciate the gift of a book. They are not given to financial extravagance, so they will appreciate the monetary restraint of this relatively inexpensive gift. When selecting a book, avoid anything trashy; much better to opt for something that demonstrates good taste, such as a book of poetry or something literary or educational.
Keep your conversations down to earth and direct. Excessive displays of “personality” may ultimately lead him to think you’re pretentious. What he’s really looking for is a steady partner with real depth.
Additionally, the Virgo man is reluctant to expose his inner self to another being. Intimacy is not something that he is comfortable with since he is reluctant to make himself vulnerable and exposed to another. Since he functions on a rational level rather than an emotional one, being intimate is an activity that does not come naturally to him.
Have an open mind with your Virgo man, and you’ll discover a lover who is dexterous and very good with his hands. This is a man that will take his time and be exceedingly exacting in his pleasure-giving.
Virgo is not the guy to go to when you need to cry on someone’s shoulder, and he’s not enticed by the “helpless female” act. He prefers a partner who shares his analytical approach to life. He wants to talk about what he considers to be serious subjects, such as life, philosophy, politics, and religion. Try to avoid dumping your emotional baggage on him, or you just might scare him away.
Until this control freak learns to let go and trust, he can never receive. Giving without receiving (and vice-versa) makes for a one-sided relationship. With lots of practice, Virgo might finally loosen his grip and enjoy a healthy relationship, one based on companionship rather than control.
This man prefers to be in charge of the relationship, and he’s going to make sure you’re the one for him before he takes things to the next level. Don’t jump the gun and try to kiss him; let him be the one to decide if it’s time to kiss you. When that kiss comes, if it comes, accept it gently as though it’s the most natural thing in the world.
The mutable quality of the sign gives him enough sense to make changes that are necessary to always keep the relationship fresh. He will want to take you to a place where the plates are always clean and tablecloths white and ironed, so you can spill your tomato soup on them and feel guilty as hell. He will go with you to any place that doesn’t contradict his convictions, but in time, he might get bored of your choices, always in need for a change, even though he belongs to the element of Earth. He is often too practical, but when he is swept off his feet, he will be surprisingly romantic and tender. He needs someone he can truly care about and dating him becomes a privilege in these situations, at least until he finds your first flaw.
On the negative side, he can sometimes be seen as picky, aloof, sarcastic, pessimistic or whiny. He assumes everyone views him with the same critical eye that he possesses, which can sap his self confidence. Ironically, he is likely to be more perfect than most of us, yet he’s the only one who can’t see it. This level of self imposed modesty can be particularly endearing.
They will appreciate anything beautifully made, especially if it was created specifically with them in mind. Virgos adore bespoke tailoring, leather-bound journals, and handmade jewelry, especially silver or gold. An antique signet ring in sapphire, Virgo’s birthstone, would make them swoon inwardly while they maintain a decorously impassive external demeanor.
Virgo men tend to make love delicately and with elegance, viewing it almost as an art form or even a skill which can be perfected. Unlike the Leo man, for example, it’s obvious that he isn’t a pouncer by nature. He likes to take his time and prepare.
Are you tired of raising your boyfriends and teaching them how to act like grown men? Hang up your metaphorical nursing bra. The Virgo man needs none of your mother’s milk, thank you very much. Self-sufficient and self-directed, he’s no Oedipus or mama’s boy. However, he can dig in his heels like a headstrong child. Like all earth signs, he’s stubborn. Virgo can plant himself firmly in a position and refuse to budge. “You can’t make me!” He’ll stand by your side just as willfully.
Virgos are often portrayed poorly in this area, directly or indirectly considered the least sexual of all the signs. The reality however is that they are amongst the most sexual, they’re just discreet about it, often offering subtle and indirect comments rather than anything too blatant or vulgar. Don’t make the mistake of assuming he’s a prude or you may miss some of the best one liners!
Both the Capricorn woman and the Virgo man have practical natures and tend to be realists. Both are ambitious and will work together to achieve success. A relationship between the two might not be filled with lusty passion, but it will be one of steady commitment.
With his date, time and location of birth these other factors can be calculated for a complete picture of his personality. To explore this further please see my article on astrology compatibility readings.
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If you want to grab the attention of a Virgo, it’s really quite simple. You have to show that you’re stable and grounded. He doesn’t want a woman who goes out of her way to chase him. That would only scare him further away. He just wants a woman that gets him and who is emotionally stable. If you’re loud and out there, don’t expect a Virgo to gravitate towards you. Rather he’ll avoid you because he doesn’t want to risk getting the extra attention just by being associated with you. The Virgo man is one of those people who will make a pros and cons list before deciding to date someone or not. He has extremely high standards and will not lower them for anyone. He will pay attention to every detail and take it into consideration. If you want to have any type of future with a Virgo man, you have to prove to him that you’re not going to disturb the delicate routine of his life.
The Virgo is the sixth sign of the zodiac and is represented by the virgin maiden. This sign starts on August 22 and goes through September 22. The Virgo sign is part of the Earth element which represents stability and dependability. The Virgo man is a unique creature of sorts.
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Don’t be extravagant and wasteful. Back to that dang practicality. Virgo knows exactly what he needs and exactly that he doesn’t need anything more. Just the same as he doesn’t do showy displays of affection, he’s really not all that showy himself — and wants his partner to have a similar mentality. Things needn’t be complex and unnecessary. That’s just more for him to worry about and sift through in his mind!
The Scorpio woman is very intelligent, and Virgo will be drawn to that trait. Both signs are practical, hard-working and courageous. The Scorpion is extremely passionate, so she needs to be careful not to overwhelm the shy Virgo man.
Don’t show him pretty lip gloss, well-timed hair flips, and batting eyelashes. Show him you. Show him a person that’s awesome and that knows she’s awesome. Be real with him. That’s the only way you can truly gain his respect and loyalty.
Your relationship may be slow-to-start. This is fine! It’s just how Virgo rolls. It’s not an indicator of a lack of passion or anything negative. He’ll open up in time if you can be patient. Good things are worth waiting for, after all.
This is where the man child part of his personality appears. If something doesn’t go his way, he’ll become critical of absolutely everything in his life. His shirt doesn’t fit right. That movie on T.V. looks lame. That actor can’t act. His soup is too hot. Ten minutes later…his soup is now too cold. It’s like a toddler that doesn’t want to eat his peas. He’ll whine and throw a fit until you give him something else. With the Virgo man, you just have to give him alone time when he behaves badly. He’ll come to his senses and realize that it’s not actually your fault that his shirt doesn’t fit right since he is the one that’s been packing on the pounds lately.
Okay, I’ve probably given you the impression that the Virgo man is some kind of obsessive compulsive and… well, this isn’t too far away from the truth. He likes everything to be just so and views cleanliness as not only next to but above and beyond godliness!
Having too much in common is rarely a good thing in matters of the heart. A Virgo woman and Virgo man may be so critical of one another that discord will often prevail. And since both are reticent with their emotions, things could get pretty boring.
If you’re compatible, your life together will be a good one because Virgo men have a practical and direct approach to life. There won’t be a lot of incredibly romantic moments, but he’ll work hard to make a good home life for the two of you.
The Virgo man is a particularly loyal person, and gains much satisfaction from building and maintaining a healthy and functional relationship and lifestyle. Treat him well and he will enjoy doing the same for you. If you’re too unstable, unpredictable, immature etc then he may begin to feel like a parent.
The Aries woman and Virgo make for an interesting couple if they can make it work, but the odds are that they won’t. While both are straightforward, the Ram is just too flashy and extravagant for practical Virgo. She’s spontaneous and carefree, while he’s cautious and responsible.
Once you have his attention, you might find it difficult to keep. Virgos are often loners, and they survive bachelorhood better than most men. Keep him interested with stimulating ideas. Let him know that your mind is always working, and that you enjoy learning and sharing new things.
Virgo man is a paradox of sorts because he has very different sides to him. He’s independent and self sufficient, yet secretly really wants someone to take care of him. He wants a relationship, but at the same time he likes his alone time too much. He pays so much attention to the little details in life that he forgets to see the big picture which is all that really matters in the end. Like every Earth sign, Virgo man is very stubborn. He will uphold his position and not waver no matter what. But there’s a silver lining to Virgo man. If he really likes you, he won’t be critical of you.
Virgo man judges his life by all the little pieces, rather than looking at the big picture. He’s not an all or nothing guy by any means. He examines every situation bit by bit and piece by piece much like a puzzle. In fact, he is one of those people who actually has the patience to sit down and do a 5,000 piece puzzle. He would actually find that activity fun rather than exhausting. If you want to date the Virgo man, you have to show him that you belong in his world and you won’t disrupt it in any way. Order and stability are the two most important things in a Virgo man’s life and that’s something his partner just has to understand.
The Aquarius woman and the Virgo male will be attracted to each other on an intellectual level, but that might the extent of the attraction. Both signs are emotionally aloof and the practical Virgo will find the Water-bearer too illogical.
He needs to have a really strict and strong moral compass in order to be valued. He cares for justice deeply and he will act accordingly. As an Earth sign, he is always in search for physical pleasure, or goes to other extremes denying himself of any hedonism because of his religion or a system of beliefs. If he finds too many flaws in his partner, he will, without a doubt, search for another one. Even the most loyal Virgos have this need, and they have trust issues themselves as a reflection of their own behavior. If he stops trusting you even though you gave him no reason to, pay attention for he might be dishonest himself.
Talking shop with the Virgo man is never a bad idea, as they tend to find it hard to switch from work mode to leisure mode. In fact, they find talking about work at the end of a hard day extremely relaxing.
If you have a particularly hesitant Virgo man then it’s worth noting he may be more comfortable being asked to do something rather than initiating sexual acts himself the first time or two. In these cases the ‘cleaner’ you can keep his conscience, the less inhibited he will be in the long term.
This isn’t to say don’t tell him how you feel, if you’re feeling particularly moody. Just try to be rational and logical about it. Instead of calling him, crying because your best friend is prettier than you are today, take a step back. Hang out with him that night and talk about your struggle with your image. He’ll see that you’re calm and receptive — instead of flighty and incomprehensible.
Then we woke up and smelled the smoke signals. A woman advertising online for an affair is either a) horny, b) bored, or c) (ding ding ding!) sending out an SOS. She’s crying out, “Help! I’m done with this marriage and I don’t know how to get out. Somebody save me!” Bingo. It’s the Virgo man’s sweet spot, and he rushes in for the save. In his own way, the Virgo man feels that he’s performing a public service helping a woman leave a bad marriage. He’d never fancy himself a homewrecker. After all, she was already sniffing around for a side dish. He was just being helpful.
Your Virgo lover isn’t a player. He may remind you of someone testing the ice on a frozen lake; he’s going to take it very slowly. He’s methodical and logical. He has to make sure he’s not going to fall through the ice into deadly cold waters. He doesn’t like being exposed emotionally so he must be confident you’re worth the effort and emotional risk.
Since he’s naturally stern and fatherly, the Virgo man makes a devoted dad. He doesn’t mind playing papa to you, either, though he has his limits. It’s alright if you’re a little needy, as long as you’re smart and ambitious. His earth-sign nature makes him stable and grounding, a favorite among daddy’s girls and women with absentee fathers. From his melodious voice to his tender gaze, there’s something soothing about the Virgo man. With his firm, athletic body, he can hold you in a way that makes you feel completely safe.
He won’t be so stubborn and will be open to doing things you want to do because he wants to make you happy. He’ll slowly start making that pros and cons list and you’ll be on the winning side. If you really want to blow his mind, do a 10,000 piece puzzle on the second date. He’ll be in heaven and think he’s finally found a woman who understands him. Thinking of having an outdoor date? Well, take Virgo man golfing. Keeping track of all those little balls equals hours of entertainment for that detail orientated little creature.
When the drunk, emotionally fragile Aquarius teetered off to the smoking lounge in her seven-inch Loubitons, clutching a crystal-embellished phone to her ear, the Virgo man leaned in conspiratorially. “She’s not really my wife,” he announced matter-of-factly. “Sorry she’s such a nut job. She’s just going through a hard time. She had a baby a year ago and fell into some really bad postpartum depression. She’s married to someone else. We’re seeing each other on the side while she gets through it.”
To sum up the Virgo man in a single word, it would be “practical.” He sees things as they are, with no sugar coating. Virgo is a down-to-earth, hard-working guy who sees no need for unnecessary outpourings of emotion. When he has strong feelings about something, he usually keeps them to himself. Likewise, he tends to prefer the company of others who are similarly reserved.
The Virgo man and Taurus woman are two signs that definitely play well together. They’re both practical, no-nonsense types who will work hard to create a comfortable life. The only problem that might arise is when the Bull smothers Virgo with too much affection.
While sometimes opposites attract, the differences between the Sagittarius woman and the Virgo man may be difficult to overcome. Virgo may see the Archer as careless, flighty and irresponsible; while Sagittarius might find him boring and hate his constant criticism.
Virgo is just as responsive to looks as he is to touch. So instead of touching him on the arm like every girl does, give him that look that screams, “Kiss me.” You’ll have him melting in no time flat.
Even if they aren’t passionate about the work they’re doing, Virgoans will still endeavor to excel – not for their own personal gain or to build up their egos, but because they truly believe that anything worth doing is worth doing to the best of one’s ability.
Virgo is a mutable sign, meaning that these characteristics aren’t tried-and-true. But if you want to place ’em all in one category, you’ll find that they’re generally solid people — grounded, have a foundation upon which they build everything (thought or planning), and at their best when they’re balanced.
Strong, stable and confident he or she should ideally be comfortable with being fairly dominant at the start of the relationship, both socially and sexually. In the longer term however treating him as a partner and an equal will win more points.
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Be clean and tidy. Keep your personal hygiene and grooming as clean and neat as possible. And as much as your body should be clean, your living situation should be too! If Virgo walks into your house and finds piles and piles of unsorted garbage, he will not be coming back anytime soon. Have a clean mantra when it comes to your entire life.
Virgos love to collect odd little treasures, especially items found in nature, and so their parlors and offices can come to resemble the wunderkammers (or wonder-cabinets) of 18th century Naturalists, stuffed with interesting shells, bird’s nests, and bizarre taxidermy. Everything must be labeled accordingly, kept immaculate and dust-free (ideally behind glass), and compartmentalized according to his own internal systems. A little reclusive, a Virgo man prefers to stay at home once he’s gotten it all fixed up just how he likes it.
Apparently, the two met on a swingers’ website called Ashleymadison.com, which helps attached people find discreet hookups and affairs. (The taglines: “when monogamy becomes monotony” and “because the best men & women are already taken.”) At first, we were baffled. Why would a germophobic Virgo use the Internet to pick up someone’s sloppy seconds? How could a sign as preachy and puritanical as Virgo be so shamelessly unethical?
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