The Virgo male is willing to give his all in a relationship, but he expects the same from his partner. Virgo is somewhat of a “neat freak,” so make sure your appearance is tidy. Keep a neat home, and never give him any reason to mistrust you. Virgos generally are not the breakup and make-up type. Once he’s done with a lover, he’s done, and no amount of tears on your part will convince him to give it another try.
Once you’re talking to the Virgo man, try to drop into the conversation anything you might have done to help someone less fortunate than yourself, as the Virgo man is very charitable by nature. Ask him to sponsor you for some fund raising activity and not only will he gladly do so, he’ll probably ask how he can take part himself!
Never expect him to fall in love with you at the first sight. He is very cautious about everything and that includes love and relationships. Lying will get you nowhere with him. He wants a genuine and honest relationship and cannot stand dishonesty even for a second. Stirring the emotions of a Virgo male is a very difficult task, because he never consciously looks for a mate. Remember, he does have a heart; you just have to sway it the right way. It may take time, but it will be worth the wait.
Talking shop with the Virgo man is never a bad idea, as they tend to find it hard to switch from work mode to leisure mode. In fact, they find talking about work at the end of a hard day extremely relaxing.
Apparently, the two met on a swingers’ website called Ashleymadison.com, which helps attached people find discreet hookups and affairs. (The taglines: “when monogamy becomes monotony” and “because the best men & women are already taken.”) At first, we were baffled. Why would a germophobic Virgo use the Internet to pick up someone’s sloppy seconds? How could a sign as preachy and puritanical as Virgo be so shamelessly unethical?
This doesn’t mean that Virgo can’t form strong attachments. He can, but does so slowly and carefully. It usually takes him a while to fall in love. But once he’s truly smitten, he’s in it for the long haul. Once the Virgo male has committed to a relationship, he is forever loving, patient and supportive.
Show up on time. Virgo males are heavy on convention and manners. Showing up late for plans and events tells him you don’t value his time and if you do, that he’ll lose interest in you altogether. He needs to know you respect him, aside from your attraction to him.
This is always a hard question to answer, as one person’s idea of kinky can be very different to someone else’s. Individuals also vary a lot, so this is a bad area to generalize in. All things being equal though, Virgo men are about average. Typically they enjoy mental stimulation such as role playing (as long as you’re a worthy opponent!) more than vanilla kinkiness for it’s own sake. Leave the chicken in the fridge and just use a feather…
However, the Virgo man isn’t particularly good at showing his emotions, so you may find it a little difficult to know if you’ve made an impact or not. If in doubt, ask him out. Just remember to keep it simple and unsentimental. He doesn’t need to know what you think of him or how amazing his eyes are: a simple, “Are doing anything Friday night?” will be fine. Or, even better, “I’m going to this charity function on Friday night, do you fancy tagging along?”
It really is no coincidence that some of the best comedians of our time are Virgo men. Their man child status and immaturity can really make them a star in this field. Think Adam Sandler, Kevin James, C.K. Louis, Dave Chappelle, and Jimmy Fallon. And you can’t forget Charlie Sheen. Even though he’s not really a comedian, he did bring the laughs on Two and Half Men. Until he got kicked off for his behavior that is.
Then we woke up and smelled the smoke signals. A woman advertising online for an affair is either a) horny, b) bored, or c) (ding ding ding!) sending out an SOS. She’s crying out, “Help! I’m done with this marriage and I don’t know how to get out. Somebody save me!” Bingo. It’s the Virgo man’s sweet spot, and he rushes in for the save. In his own way, the Virgo man feels that he’s performing a public service helping a woman leave a bad marriage. He’d never fancy himself a homewrecker. After all, she was already sniffing around for a side dish. He was just being helpful.
Virgo men can be shy and not always easy to get to know, but they make great friends and boyfriends — their perfectionism makes for quite impressive dates! Found one that you have your eyes set on? Easy to see why — they are smart, loyal, and down-to-earth. Here’s what you need to know to date one of these men born between August 23 – September 22.
Don’t think of him as a know-it-all. Because he notices every little detail, many people can think of him as a know-it-all. He takes one look at your pie charts and tells you they’re 1% off. Not only does he notice it, but he says something about it too. This can be irksome if you don’t realize he’s just trying to make everything the best it can be. And why shouldn’t it be?
Since he thinks everything out, your dates together will be planned and extravagant in their own way. He’ll take you to a restaurant that he knows is good and knows exactly what to order and what to say to the staff to get the best table. He’ll plan a night with the details so perfected that you wonder how he makes it look so effortless.
Both the Capricorn woman and the Virgo man have practical natures and tend to be realists. Both are ambitious and will work together to achieve success. A relationship between the two might not be filled with lusty passion, but it will be one of steady commitment.
If you want to grab the attention of a Virgo, it’s really quite simple. You have to show that you’re stable and grounded. He doesn’t want a woman who goes out of her way to chase him. That would only scare him further away. He just wants a woman that gets him and who is emotionally stable. If you’re loud and out there, don’t expect a Virgo to gravitate towards you. Rather he’ll avoid you because he doesn’t want to risk getting the extra attention just by being associated with you. The Virgo man is one of those people who will make a pros and cons list before deciding to date someone or not. He has extremely high standards and will not lower them for anyone. He will pay attention to every detail and take it into consideration. If you want to have any type of future with a Virgo man, you have to prove to him that you’re not going to disturb the delicate routine of his life.
Virgo men typically have a fantastic eye for detail and enjoy order, precision and efficiency in all things. This has several implications, for example he is likely to prefer routines to random or chaotic approaches, and is very likely to have a fondness for lists.
With his date, time and location of birth these other factors can be calculated for a complete picture of his personality. To explore this further please see my article on astrology compatibility readings.
This is a question which is very hard to give a general answer on, as no two Virgo men are totally identical. The key is understanding him and what he finds most attractive in a partner. Astrology can provide a wealth of information to enable this, however natal charts need to be prepared and studied to do so. Please see the article on seduction and astrology for more information on this.
This is a man that has one mission in life – to fix something. Until he does, it will not be easy for him to relax, smile, dance and be as happy as you might want him to be. He is serious because he has some serious details to commit to, and unless he finds a way to make constructive use of his mind at his work, he might drive you mad analyzing your every word. Let him have those already used things and fix everything around the house. His hands need to be put to good use or he will tell you all about the bad use of yours. Virgo is a sign meant to fix all that was broken and while you get annoyed by him, think if you were maybe chosen to be fixed yourself.
A favorite of those who prefer the quiet, smoldering intellectual type, the Virgo man has a fantastic eye for detail and enjoys order, precision and efficiency in all things. If you find intelligence and a professional attitude to be sexy, then this is the man for you.
Being in love with a Virgo man means living in a practical world, where there will no be fairytale dreams. If you are too sentimental, then better take a u-turn right now. You will have to wait a long time to get him involved in a relationship. Even when he does, don’t expect him to sing romantic poems for you or stand under your window to serenade you. It is not that Virgo men do not know how to love; just their way of expressing it is different from others. They are extremely dedicated towards their family and friends.
The Leo woman is boisterous and flashy, always seeking attention, while Virgo is just the opposite. The Lion is not likely to look kindly on Virgo’s criticism, either, so it would take some work for a match like this to succeed.
Often their own worst critics, Virgo men can be extremely hard on themselves – often over tiny errors or insignificant infractions. The Virgoan personality has an intense desire to control all outcomes of any given situation, and therefore even relaxing events like vacations and fun trips are meticulously planned out, with detailed lists, schedules, and charts that must be followed to the letter for them to feel comfortable. Switching gracefully from Plan A to Plan B when their carefully plotted plans fall through is difficult for this hyper-organized and careful sign.
The Virgoan reputation for being a clean freak applies to the men born under this sign who have truly embraced and made room for who they really are – though there are exceptions to that rule. Some male Virgos leave the home to their counterparts to mess with, but their own workspaces and tool-sheds are impeccably set up and usually off-limits to anyone but themselves. You’ll know immediately when you’re dealing with an afflicted Virgo (someone suffering from emotional issues) by his inability to keep his space tidy. Classic Virgo men may get teased for being a bit fussy with their things, but a beautiful and clean home is the sign of healthy Virgo – so just let him do his thing!
For the Virgo man, sex is a healthy and natural thing, but it isn’t something to be indulged in for its own sake. Hence, a one-night-stand is unlikely to sit well with the Virgo man. He will want to get to know a potential partner first, to feel comfortable and confident with them.
Whether it’s your home or cubicle he’s examining, this man likes a tidy environment. A messy workspace or home shows him you really don’t have it all together, and this is not the impression you want to make. Most Virgo men appreciate a knack for cleanliness.
A Virgo man almost always prefers a home-cooked meal to a trendy restaurant. If you have decent culinary skills, invite him home for a meal you prepare yourself. It doesn’t have to be a fancy meal, but every dish should be delicious. A successful dinner date like this will show him you’d be a good domestic partner, and that’s another characteristic he’s looking for.
Virgo men do not run after girls and romance. Infact, they do not mind being single at all. So, you will have to make a Virgo realize that he has fallen in love and needs to form a relationship. Remember, subtlety is the key to all this. If he wants, he can seduce you very easily, while being subtle all the time. He is not prone to flirtations, so you have no reasons to doubts his intentions. Infact, he is too sensitive, selective and honest to indulge in such kind of behavior. The love of a Virgo man is clean, innocent and pure, though it may take some time to win it.
A common fault of Virgo men is to be highly critical when perfection is not found. This usually applies doubly to himself and his own performance, which can sometimes lead to reduced self confidence. He is likely to have trouble relaxing, and often hates wasting time, or sitting idle.
This is not the kind of guy that’s going to get hot and heavy with you in public, and he may want to keep his relationship with you secret until a formal commitment between you has been made. His old-fashioned ways may seem positively archaic and stiff – but, like many men of the Victorian era, a modest and even parsimonious public persona might serve as a foil for an appetite that swings toward secret kinks.
He needs to have a really strict and strong moral compass in order to be valued. He cares for justice deeply and he will act accordingly. As an Earth sign, he is always in search for physical pleasure, or goes to other extremes denying himself of any hedonism because of his religion or a system of beliefs. If he finds too many flaws in his partner, he will, without a doubt, search for another one. Even the most loyal Virgos have this need, and they have trust issues themselves as a reflection of their own behavior. If he stops trusting you even though you gave him no reason to, pay attention for he might be dishonest himself.
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He may not make a big deal of your relationship turning serious, but know that he’s probably thinking about it. When he’s opening up to you easily, trusting you, allowing you to be his rock, know that you’re in. You may not get your name up in lights, but you’ll get a constant love that is eternal.
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The Virgo man is usually highly intelligent and appreciates and admires this quality in a potential mate. He’s actually a male who will love you for your mind. On the negative side, Virgo can be intensely critical and territorial. Once he learns to completely trust a lover, he’s dedicated, caring and faithful.
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