When the drunk, emotionally fragile Aquarius teetered off to the smoking lounge in her seven-inch Loubitons, clutching a crystal-embellished phone to her ear, the Virgo man leaned in conspiratorially. “She’s not really my wife,” he announced matter-of-factly. “Sorry she’s such a nut job. She’s just going through a hard time. She had a baby a year ago and fell into some really bad postpartum depression. She’s married to someone else. We’re seeing each other on the side while she gets through it.”
If you have a particularly hesitant Virgo man then it’s worth noting he may be more comfortable being asked to do something rather than initiating sexual acts himself the first time or two. In these cases the ‘cleaner’ you can keep his conscience, the less inhibited he will be in the long term.
Strong, stable and confident he or she should ideally be comfortable with being fairly dominant at the start of the relationship, both socially and sexually. In the longer term however treating him as a partner and an equal will win more points.
To sum up the Virgo man in a single word, it would be “practical.” He sees things as they are, with no sugar coating. Virgo is a down-to-earth, hard-working guy who sees no need for unnecessary outpourings of emotion. When he has strong feelings about something, he usually keeps them to himself. Likewise, he tends to prefer the company of others who are similarly reserved.
This is a question which is very hard to give a general answer on, as no two Virgo men are totally identical. The key is understanding him and what he finds most attractive in a partner. Astrology can provide a wealth of information to enable this, however natal charts need to be prepared and studied to do so. Please see the article on seduction and astrology for more information on this.
They are constantly involved in helping them and have a strong sense of work and duty. Too much display of emotions makes them uncomfortable and too conscious. A Virgo male will stick to you when you need him the most, care for you and dutifully carry out all the responsibilities a husband is expected to do. However, don’t burden him with extreme sentiments, mushy affection and tearful promises. If he doesn’t run away, he will become too cold and even the subtle display of affection from his side may come to a stop.
No advice will ever apply to every Virgo man as they are all unique in various ways. I specialize in offering tailored advice based on your unique personality and his together, as one without the other isn’t nearly as useful. My astrology readings solve real relationship problems for real people every day. For more information please see the article on relationship advice.
Expect class. You know that thing about perfection? How can things be perfect if they aren’t the best? This Virgo also expects things to be nice. Not necessarily the most expensive (actually quite the opposite — more on that later), but definitely well-put together and thought out. He can take a simple t-shirt and jeans and make it look classy because of the thought behind it. That’s how the relationship will go!
Be stable. Virgo being an Earth sign and all, he expects his partner to be stable, too. Being capricious and prone to anger or mood swings is not his cup of tea. He likes life to be simple, remember? Dramatics don’t have a place in his world. Emotions are fine when in appropriate dosages. Freak outs, gossip, and drama are not!
A Virgo male is rather introverted because he just isn’t comfortable with all those emotions. Showing his feelings threatens the image he loves to portray of being calm, cool, and collected at all times. Being in love is the rare time you’ll ever find him unable to contain his feelings and feeling a bit out of control. It won’t last, so enjoy it while it does. He’ll soon be back to his regimented discipline and logical approach to life and love.
Emotionally, a Virgoan can come off as a little cold, and will often be reticent about what’s really going on with his feelings. He might write a passionate letter or text, but will act totally preoccupied when you see him in person, or behave in a way that belies any interest in you at all.
These men are erudite, brilliant, and love problem solving, and therefore they often end up in relationships with younger people who admire their keen intellect and want to learn from their experience. Do you think you are compatible with your Libra man? Find out here. The mentor/mentee connection can be fulfilling to both parties, but rarely is this a relationship between equals – so it’s important to find balance in areas involving personal boundaries. There can be drastic age differences here, and relations built more on an exchange of information and power rather than a genuine affinity.
Your relationship may be slow-to-start. This is fine! It’s just how Virgo rolls. It’s not an indicator of a lack of passion or anything negative. He’ll open up in time if you can be patient. Good things are worth waiting for, after all.
However, if you’re looking to do something a bit more romantic than helping out in a soup kitchen for a couple of hours, the Virgo man is quite cultured and will find an evening at the theatre extremely satisfying
Of course, you shouldn’t be discouraged if your sign doesn’t seem like the best match. Even if yours is, holding the Virgo male’s interest can be a curious challenge. Calling a professional astrologer can help. A great starting point is a detailed astrological chart, detailing traits and compatibility based on the specific birthdates for you and your love interest. Of course, the talents and tools in a professional psychic’s arsenal don’t stop there, but might also include tarot cards and runes. Get in touch with one today to learn more about your potential future with the Virgo man you desire.
A Virgo man in love is a very particular flavor really only meant for those with the most discerning palates. He is the caviar and truffle oil of the zodiac’s lovers. In other words, if you’re more of a meat and potatoes or hot-dog and bag of chips sort of person, this may not be a match made in heaven.
Often their own worst critics, Virgo men can be extremely hard on themselves – often over tiny errors or insignificant infractions. The Virgoan personality has an intense desire to control all outcomes of any given situation, and therefore even relaxing events like vacations and fun trips are meticulously planned out, with detailed lists, schedules, and charts that must be followed to the letter for them to feel comfortable. Switching gracefully from Plan A to Plan B when their carefully plotted plans fall through is difficult for this hyper-organized and careful sign.
Understand his hesitancy to act. Virgo, as described earlier, doesn’t jump to anything — from relationships to conclusions. He needs to plan everything out — how else would he know if it’s perfect and, above all, acceptable? So when he doesn’t give you that grand display of love right off the bat, don’t get your heart all a-flutter. He needs time. Allow him that.
Virgo is a mutable sign, meaning that these characteristics aren’t tried-and-true. But if you want to place ’em all in one category, you’ll find that they’re generally solid people — grounded, have a foundation upon which they build everything (thought or planning), and at their best when they’re balanced.
Virgo is just as responsive to looks as he is to touch. So instead of touching him on the arm like every girl does, give him that look that screams, “Kiss me.” You’ll have him melting in no time flat.
Virgo men tend to be independent and free thinking, and appreciate the same in a partner. Conversation and intellectual connection tends to be very important to them. They also tend to mesh well with a partner who appreciates their hardworking, down to earth style, and fast and clever mind.
Show up on time. Virgo males are heavy on convention and manners. Showing up late for plans and events tells him you don’t value his time and if you do, that he’ll lose interest in you altogether. He needs to know you respect him, aside from your attraction to him.
Once you have won his heart, you will never again feel unloved or uncared for, in your entire life. His love will burn for you with a steady flame, which will never flicker even for a minute. You will be rewarded with a husband who is totally sincere, patient, dependable and forever loving. You will never have to worry about stability again, whether it is emotional or financial. A Virgo man is not at all prone to wandering and you will never ever have to keep an eye on him. You will practically be showered with care and concern, whenever you need them.
This is not the kind of guy that’s going to get hot and heavy with you in public, and he may want to keep his relationship with you secret until a formal commitment between you has been made. His old-fashioned ways may seem positively archaic and stiff – but, like many men of the Victorian era, a modest and even parsimonious public persona might serve as a foil for an appetite that swings toward secret kinks.
A Virgo man is a boon to any workplace, where his intensely focused work ethic and exacting personality will ensure zero slacking or sloppiness in what he produces or achieves. With his analytical and critical thinking skills, Virgo tends to excel at problem-solving, planning, and organizing information. Left to their own devices, these men can be trusted to be efficient in their use of time and counted on to always strive toward perfection.
If you’re not, you risk walking in on this guy organizing your bedroom floor. Suggesting a new soap for you try to get rid of that smell. Throwing out all the expired ranch dressing in your fridge. These are conversations that are better off being avoided!
The Virgo man is usually highly intelligent and appreciates and admires this quality in a potential mate. He’s actually a male who will love you for your mind. On the negative side, Virgo can be intensely critical and territorial. Once he learns to completely trust a lover, he’s dedicated, caring and faithful.
Relationships are complex things, comprising hundreds of individual elements. Sun signs are one of these, however a detailed analysis of everything is required to find all the strong and weak areas. Please see the article on astrology and soulmates for more information on how astrology can be used to determine if someone is your soulmate.
Ultimately, the Virgo man needs a bigger cause than patching up strays. His astrological duty is to serve humankind. He must find his mission, his life’s work and calling. Unless he is contributing to the greater society, or at least a noble cause, the Virgo man is adrift at sea. He will squander his gifts by playing the enabler and co-dependent hero. He’ll take on women’s problems, when he should really march them to the nearest therapist’s couch. And he will walk away from amazing women—with whom he is highly compatible—simply because they don’t need his rescuing.
The Virgo man is usually modest and tends to stay under the radar. He doesn’t care for the extra attention unless it’s absolutely necessary for his job or career. He’s a calming and stable influence in the lives of everyone he encounters. He’s very good at giving good advice and you’d be wise to listen to it. Don’t expect him to be the life of the party either. He’s the wallflower standing in the corner waiting for a familiar face to talk to. The thing is, he doesn’t mind the alone time. He’s not a social creature by any means and is very picky and choosy about the types of people he keeps in his inner circle. He’s one of those people who’d rather be alone than around people whose company he doesn’t enjoy.
You’ll be able to tell if your man’s a Virgo the minute you walk into his abode. Only a Virgo man would live in such a perfectly arranged and meticulously organized home – which usually looks more like something from a film set than a home where anyone actually lives. Nothing pleases a Virgo man more than the opportunity to show off his gorgeously appointed living space to his guests, with every detail tailored specifically to his tastes – though he may ask you to take off your shoes and use a coaster for your drink.
Then we woke up and smelled the smoke signals. A woman advertising online for an affair is either a) horny, b) bored, or c) (ding ding ding!) sending out an SOS. She’s crying out, “Help! I’m done with this marriage and I don’t know how to get out. Somebody save me!” Bingo. It’s the Virgo man’s sweet spot, and he rushes in for the save. In his own way, the Virgo man feels that he’s performing a public service helping a woman leave a bad marriage. He’d never fancy himself a homewrecker. After all, she was already sniffing around for a side dish. He was just being helpful.
Never expect him to fall in love with you at the first sight. He is very cautious about everything and that includes love and relationships. Lying will get you nowhere with him. He wants a genuine and honest relationship and cannot stand dishonesty even for a second. Stirring the emotions of a Virgo male is a very difficult task, because he never consciously looks for a mate. Remember, he does have a heart; you just have to sway it the right way. It may take time, but it will be worth the wait.
Virgo men have a penchant for gifts that appeal to their fastidiousness personalities and vanity regarding their appearance – so fancy shaving soap, hand-carved horn combs, and monogrammed cufflinks would go over well.
The Aries woman and Virgo make for an interesting couple if they can make it work, but the odds are that they won’t. While both are straightforward, the Ram is just too flashy and extravagant for practical Virgo. She’s spontaneous and carefree, while he’s cautious and responsible.
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