Virgos love their work and are fiercely loyal to their professions and their employers. The Virgo man is absolutely the wrong person to have “I hate my job” or “My boss is an imbecile” conversations with. If you’re not happy with your current employer, best to say nothing for the time being because the Virgo man won’t appreciate it at all.
The other night, we met a Virgo man and his Aquarius “wife” sitting at an adjacent restaurant table. They were incredibly friendly—almost too eager and forthcoming, raising brows among us. Within five minutes, we heard all about her breast implants, her difficult pregnancy, and her strident efforts to regain her anorexic, pre-baby figure. It became clear she was either drunk or on the verge of a nervous breakdown. The Virgo just watched quietly, as Virgo men do, letting her yammer away about silicone and order a $25 cosmopolitan “for all of us to share.”
The Virgo man is typically very loyal. One warning however in this area, as with other signs who dislike confrontation Virgos can be known to take action on their own rather than repeat arguments. Especially if you’re overly aggressive or dominant. This isn’t a man who cheats just for the thrill of it, or the ego boost or other shallow reasons, however he may do so when unhappy or dissatisfied for long periods.
Virgo man judges his life by all the little pieces, rather than looking at the big picture. He’s not an all or nothing guy by any means. He examines every situation bit by bit and piece by piece much like a puzzle. In fact, he is one of those people who actually has the patience to sit down and do a 5,000 piece puzzle. He would actually find that activity fun rather than exhausting. If you want to date the Virgo man, you have to show him that you belong in his world and you won’t disrupt it in any way. Order and stability are the two most important things in a Virgo man’s life and that’s something his partner just has to understand.
This propensity to be a bit neurotic and even slightly obsessive-compulsive can be the Virgo’s downfall – especially when it becomes hard for others around them to relate to their fussiness. This can manifest in small ways, like being particular about how things are arranged on their desk, or finicky habits around food and eating. On the other hand, a Virgo man is often so full of charm – his good manners and natural elegance do much to make up for his somewhat odd ways.
This is not the kind of guy that’s going to get hot and heavy with you in public, and he may want to keep his relationship with you secret until a formal commitment between you has been made. His old-fashioned ways may seem positively archaic and stiff – but, like many men of the Victorian era, a modest and even parsimonious public persona might serve as a foil for an appetite that swings toward secret kinks.
Not always the most ideal team player, a Virgo man can be a stickler for minutiae that may seem unimportant to others and is often frustrated by others’ lack of care or attention to detail. These men are wizards when it comes to the kind of work that confounds most people, and they tend to develop expertise in unusual or specialized fields. Virgos can be insufferable know-it-alls when it comes to the subject they’ve dedicated their lives to. Often, Virgos are creative geniuses whose skillfulness borders on the work of eccentric savants.
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Be forward. The Virgo man isn’t the most direct, gutsy sign there is, to say the least. You may need to give him some not-so-subtle hints that you’re into him. He may need to know it’s a sure thing before he takes any action. Can you blame him? No one likes rejection!
Appearance is important for attraction in general, but a Virgo man places a great deal of value on his partner’s appearance. He tends to prefer a neat and coordinated look over trendy fashions, so your hair, clothes and makeup should be simple yet perfect. Avoid heavy makeup or messy hair styles.
Try not to hate him. Virgo simply can’t help himself; he’s a perfectionist. It’s just how he’s wired. So now you’ll have the choice to either endure and overlook his constant critical analysis of your faults or leave him.
Your Virgo lover isn’t a player. He may remind you of someone testing the ice on a frozen lake; he’s going to take it very slowly. He’s methodical and logical. He has to make sure he’s not going to fall through the ice into deadly cold waters. He doesn’t like being exposed emotionally so he must be confident you’re worth the effort and emotional risk.
Virgo wants his partner to be real. Who wouldn’t? While they like nice things, brands don’t mean anything to them. Simple and chic resonate with them much more than accessorized and expensive. You should be the thing that shines strongest, not that shiny bracelet you’re wearing.
Your Virgo will have his own unique personality traits. This article talks about sun signs, however there are many other factors. For example his moon sign determines his emotional personality which affects whether he is sensitive, romantic, loyal etc.
The Virgo man is something of a perfectionist, particularly when it comes to matters of the heart. Indeed, he may have waited literally years for the right person to come along. This puts you in rather a difficult position, because you either are that person or you aren’t. He will probably have a mental photograph of this individual, not to mention a detailed psychological profile.
Unfortunately, the Virgo man is often critical of others, leading him to have difficulty in finding a woman to form a solid relationship with. Instead, he is selective in his choice for love, failing to find someone for a long time if at all. His selectivity leads him to release a lack of control in dealing with the situation since so few women meet his specifications.
This is a man who takes feedback to heart, so it’s also worth noting that criticism can do a lot of harm, while encouragement can pay big dividends. Overall, Virgo men are often more comfortable with a confident lover at the start of a relationship, though that soon changes as they get more comfortable.
Show up on time. Virgo males are heavy on convention and manners. Showing up late for plans and events tells him you don’t value his time and if you do, that he’ll lose interest in you altogether. He needs to know you respect him, aside from your attraction to him.
With his date, time and location of birth these other factors can be calculated for a complete picture of his personality. To explore this further please see my article on astrology compatibility readings.
This is a man that has one mission in life – to fix something. Until he does, it will not be easy for him to relax, smile, dance and be as happy as you might want him to be. He is serious because he has some serious details to commit to, and unless he finds a way to make constructive use of his mind at his work, he might drive you mad analyzing your every word. Let him have those already used things and fix everything around the house. His hands need to be put to good use or he will tell you all about the bad use of yours. Virgo is a sign meant to fix all that was broken and while you get annoyed by him, think if you were maybe chosen to be fixed yourself.
Be ready to be pleased. While you shouldn’t be expecting grand shows or intense theatrics in this relationship, you should expect to be pleased. Virgo loves everything being perfect and will therefore make sure you’re happy. He doesn’t know how to operate if you’re not! If you give him something to do, he will do it to a T and then go a step further. That’s one hell of a partner!
First things first: your appearance. The Virgo man is extremely fastidious about his own appearance and applies his own often pathologically high standards to others. Nothing turns a Virgo man off quicker than poor grooming or, even worse, poor hygiene. To even attract the initial glance of a Virgo man, you’ll need to be clean, pristine and not a hair out of place. No biggie, right? If you’re a groomer by nature, no problem, otherwise, you might have to book an appointment at the salon as a first port of call. Look on the bright side, though, it gives you the perfect opportunity to indulge in a little quality ‘me time’!
The Virgo man is a particularly loyal person, and gains much satisfaction from building and maintaining a healthy and functional relationship and lifestyle. Treat him well and he will enjoy doing the same for you. If you’re too unstable, unpredictable, immature etc then he may begin to feel like a parent.
Virgo is just as responsive to looks as he is to touch. So instead of touching him on the arm like every girl does, give him that look that screams, “Kiss me.” You’ll have him melting in no time flat.
On the negative side, he can sometimes be seen as picky, aloof, sarcastic, pessimistic or whiny. He assumes everyone views him with the same critical eye that he possesses, which can sap his self confidence. Ironically, he is likely to be more perfect than most of us, yet he’s the only one who can’t see it. This level of self imposed modesty can be particularly endearing.
He needs to have a really strict and strong moral compass in order to be valued. He cares for justice deeply and he will act accordingly. As an Earth sign, he is always in search for physical pleasure, or goes to other extremes denying himself of any hedonism because of his religion or a system of beliefs. If he finds too many flaws in his partner, he will, without a doubt, search for another one. Even the most loyal Virgos have this need, and they have trust issues themselves as a reflection of their own behavior. If he stops trusting you even though you gave him no reason to, pay attention for he might be dishonest himself.
Since he’s naturally stern and fatherly, the Virgo man makes a devoted dad. He doesn’t mind playing papa to you, either, though he has his limits. It’s alright if you’re a little needy, as long as you’re smart and ambitious. His earth-sign nature makes him stable and grounding, a favorite among daddy’s girls and women with absentee fathers. From his melodious voice to his tender gaze, there’s something soothing about the Virgo man. With his firm, athletic body, he can hold you in a way that makes you feel completely safe.
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To sum up the Virgo man in a single word, it would be “practical.” He sees things as they are, with no sugar coating. Virgo is a down-to-earth, hard-working guy who sees no need for unnecessary outpourings of emotion. When he has strong feelings about something, he usually keeps them to himself. Likewise, he tends to prefer the company of others who are similarly reserved.
Your relationship may be slow-to-start. This is fine! It’s just how Virgo rolls. It’s not an indicator of a lack of passion or anything negative. He’ll open up in time if you can be patient. Good things are worth waiting for, after all.
The Virgo man is a helper by nature, so in the workplace, you’re likely to find him in a supporting role of some kind, assisting somebody else in getting things done. A great way to get talking to a Virgo man is to ask for his assistance: he likes nothing more. However, he finds helplessness or, more precisely, cluelessness very unappealing. If you go to him for help, it should be because he is the go-to guy for that particular problem and not because you’re all-at-sea and don’t know what else to do.
Don’t think of him as a know-it-all. Because he notices every little detail, many people can think of him as a know-it-all. He takes one look at your pie charts and tells you they’re 1% off. Not only does he notice it, but he says something about it too. This can be irksome if you don’t realize he’s just trying to make everything the best it can be. And why shouldn’t it be?
Generally, cultured, the Virgo man will appreciate the gift of a book. They are not given to financial extravagance, so they will appreciate the monetary restraint of this relatively inexpensive gift. When selecting a book, avoid anything trashy; much better to opt for something that demonstrates good taste, such as a book of poetry or something literary or educational.
Know he’s more practical than poetic. When it comes to romantic gestures, your Virgo man won’t be into writing you songs about your left pinky toe. That’s just not useful. Why would he waste his time doing that? But he will offer you his sweatshirt when you’re cold; he will open the door for you; he will give you the perfect gift on your anniversary because those things actually are meaningful. That’s the good stuff, anyway. Who wants a poem about their toe?
Generally they don’t. But, this is the type of generic question that often gets asked or answered whenever astrology is discussed. Individual experiences are then quoted back and forth as proof that Virgo men do or don’t. Individuals get offended by general statements that don’t apply to them, and everything goes downhill fast. The diagram below shows the problem here:
Once you have won his heart, you will never again feel unloved or uncared for, in your entire life. His love will burn for you with a steady flame, which will never flicker even for a minute. You will be rewarded with a husband who is totally sincere, patient, dependable and forever loving. You will never have to worry about stability again, whether it is emotional or financial. A Virgo man is not at all prone to wandering and you will never ever have to keep an eye on him. You will practically be showered with care and concern, whenever you need them.
Get him to respect you. The traditional Virgo man needs a woman who is classy. She’s smart, can hold her own, and is very mature for her age. She has her act together. She’s not one for gossip or trivial small talk just to hear her own voice. Don’t try to get him to lust after you (the Virgo man knows that’s a dime a dozen); get him to see you as a person worthy of his respect.
The Virgoan reputation for being a clean freak applies to the men born under this sign who have truly embraced and made room for who they really are – though there are exceptions to that rule. Some male Virgos leave the home to their counterparts to mess with, but their own workspaces and tool-sheds are impeccably set up and usually off-limits to anyone but themselves. You’ll know immediately when you’re dealing with an afflicted Virgo (someone suffering from emotional issues) by his inability to keep his space tidy. Classic Virgo men may get teased for being a bit fussy with their things, but a beautiful and clean home is the sign of healthy Virgo – so just let him do his thing!
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