Take this and value it. Instead of wishing he were more open and confident, realize that this quality makes him down-to-earth, modest, loyal, and way less of a showy megalomaniac than the sign that precedes him, Leo. This sense of insecurity that flares up on occasion can be a relief!
Since he’s naturally stern and fatherly, the Virgo man makes a devoted dad. He doesn’t mind playing papa to you, either, though he has his limits. It’s alright if you’re a little needy, as long as you’re smart and ambitious. His earth-sign nature makes him stable and grounding, a favorite among daddy’s girls and women with absentee fathers. From his melodious voice to his tender gaze, there’s something soothing about the Virgo man. With his firm, athletic body, he can hold you in a way that makes you feel completely safe.
This is where the man child part of his personality appears. If something doesn’t go his way, he’ll become critical of absolutely everything in his life. His shirt doesn’t fit right. That movie on T.V. looks lame. That actor can’t act. His soup is too hot. Ten minutes later…his soup is now too cold. It’s like a toddler that doesn’t want to eat his peas. He’ll whine and throw a fit until you give him something else. With the Virgo man, you just have to give him alone time when he behaves badly. He’ll come to his senses and realize that it’s not actually your fault that his shirt doesn’t fit right since he is the one that’s been packing on the pounds lately.
Then we woke up and smelled the smoke signals. A woman advertising online for an affair is either a) horny, b) bored, or c) (ding ding ding!) sending out an SOS. She’s crying out, “Help! I’m done with this marriage and I don’t know how to get out. Somebody save me!” Bingo. It’s the Virgo man’s sweet spot, and he rushes in for the save. In his own way, the Virgo man feels that he’s performing a public service helping a woman leave a bad marriage. He’d never fancy himself a homewrecker. After all, she was already sniffing around for a side dish. He was just being helpful.
Until this control freak learns to let go and trust, he can never receive. Giving without receiving (and vice-versa) makes for a one-sided relationship. With lots of practice, Virgo might finally loosen his grip and enjoy a healthy relationship, one based on companionship rather than control.
He won’t be so stubborn and will be open to doing things you want to do because he wants to make you happy. He’ll slowly start making that pros and cons list and you’ll be on the winning side. If you really want to blow his mind, do a 10,000 piece puzzle on the second date. He’ll be in heaven and think he’s finally found a woman who understands him. Thinking of having an outdoor date? Well, take Virgo man golfing. Keeping track of all those little balls equals hours of entertainment for that detail orientated little creature.
This is a question which is very hard to give a general answer on, as no two Virgo men are totally identical. The key is understanding him and what he finds most attractive in a partner. Astrology can provide a wealth of information to enable this, however natal charts need to be prepared and studied to do so. Please see the article on seduction and astrology for more information on this.
He is dedicated, intelligent and capable, always ready to make the necessary moves to make more money or a better environment for those around him. He will gladly sacrifice himself for the happiness of those he loves. However, his love for his partner will often last much shorter than you would anticipate and he is not that reliable or trustworthy as Earth signs usually are.
For the Virgo man, sex is a healthy and natural thing, but it isn’t something to be indulged in for its own sake. Hence, a one-night-stand is unlikely to sit well with the Virgo man. He will want to get to know a potential partner first, to feel comfortable and confident with them.
Strong, stable and confident he or she should ideally be comfortable with being fairly dominant at the start of the relationship, both socially and sexually. In the longer term however treating him as a partner and an equal will win more points.
This isn’t to say don’t tell him how you feel, if you’re feeling particularly moody. Just try to be rational and logical about it. Instead of calling him, crying because your best friend is prettier than you are today, take a step back. Hang out with him that night and talk about your struggle with your image. He’ll see that you’re calm and receptive — instead of flighty and incomprehensible.
To get a complete picture of someone through astrology we need to take all those other planets and their interactions into account. To do this we need to create and interpret their unique natal chart. For information on what’s involved in this and the opportunity to obtain one for yourself and your partner please see the compatibility readings page.
He will be a very responsible father and will help sharpen the intellect of the children. He will also imbibe good manners, etiquettes and the quality of helping the needy in them. You will never need to worry about discipline, as he will work on that front too. However, you will have to teach your Virgo husband how to express his love and affection and control his critical behavior. When he becomes a little cranky, just leave him alone and he will again be his usual self pretty soon. With a Virgo man, you will have a tender companion who will shower you all with love and care, even when you don’t look twenty anymore!
A Virgo guy can be just as critical of himself as he is of others, and he may be more insecure than he lets on. You can show him you care about him by supporting and encouraging him in his endeavors, and this should really attract his attention.
Virgo men can be shy and not always easy to get to know, but they make great friends and boyfriends — their perfectionism makes for quite impressive dates! Found one that you have your eyes set on? Easy to see why — they are smart, loyal, and down-to-earth. Here’s what you need to know to date one of these men born between August 23 – September 22.
This is not a man that needs that many surprises. Everyone likes a nice surprise here and there, but the most important thing for him is to honor traditions, birthdays, anniversaries and successes. He will treasure a pen, a notebook, a laptop or anything he can write on, even if he claims he is not into writing. Buy him a transparent, manly watch, with all the gear wheels shown, or any book on how stuff works. He will want to see how things are made or fixed, and he will be thankful for all sorts of fine tools that allow him to do something practical that needs to be done at the moment. If nothing else makes him happy, you can always buy him an enormous puzzle of 5000 little pieces. This should keep him occupied for a while.
Once you have won his heart, you will never again feel unloved or uncared for, in your entire life. His love will burn for you with a steady flame, which will never flicker even for a minute. You will be rewarded with a husband who is totally sincere, patient, dependable and forever loving. You will never have to worry about stability again, whether it is emotional or financial. A Virgo man is not at all prone to wandering and you will never ever have to keep an eye on him. You will practically be showered with care and concern, whenever you need them.
He has a sharp memory and will remember even the minutest of details. You wouldn’t have to remind him about anniversary or birthdays or other important dates. He may not understand why these days are so important to you, but he will remember them nonetheless. Virgo men are not too jealous, but they are possessive in the extreme. They very loyal and will expect the same from you. It is better to burn the love letters of your ex-boyfriends. Once something gets over for them, its over. Emotional appeals and tears wouldn’t budge them an inch.
Get ready for perfection. If there’s one thing this guy is, it’s a perfectionist. He notices every little detail and expects it. He makes sure his linen closet is arranged by color, size, date purchased, and thread count. He can tell when picture frames aren’t exactly centered, when a curry is missing the right amount of spice. This has its ups and downs — so concentrate on the ups!
The Virgo man and Taurus woman are two signs that definitely play well together. They’re both practical, no-nonsense types who will work hard to create a comfortable life. The only problem that might arise is when the Bull smothers Virgo with too much affection.
While often reserved towards strangers, Virgos show a very different side of themselves to friends and loved ones and tend to be highly entertaining and stimulating conversationalists, offering insights on almost any subject. If he seems too serious, it’s likely that will change later!
If you successfully attract your Virgo and he falls in love with you, chances are good you’ll have a partner for life. Virgo men are usually very loyal, and they tend to stay in relationships for the long run. If you can prove you’ll stick with him through good times and bad, he’ll want to keep you by his side.
The Virgin figure that symbolizes Virgo is sometimes depicted as an angel. Although the symbol may be too feminine for a Virgo man’s liking, it’s worth a closer look. Angels hover above us all, watching, protecting and guiding. They only intervene when asked, and never force their help where it’s not requested.
Online relationships and long distance relationships have unique challenges. One of these is that you get to see one side of someone very clearly: their personality. You don’t however get to see anything about other factors such as sexual attraction. My compatibility reports address this by scoring all factors alongside each other so you can see the whole picture, with any strong or weak areas highlighted. To explore this further please see my article on online relationships.
Virgo men tend to be independent and free thinking, and appreciate the same in a partner. Conversation and intellectual connection tends to be very important to them. They also tend to mesh well with a partner who appreciates their hardworking, down to earth style, and fast and clever mind.
Don’t be extravagant and wasteful. Back to that dang practicality. Virgo knows exactly what he needs and exactly that he doesn’t need anything more. Just the same as he doesn’t do showy displays of affection, he’s really not all that showy himself — and wants his partner to have a similar mentality. Things needn’t be complex and unnecessary. That’s just more for him to worry about and sift through in his mind!
Try not to hate him. Virgo simply can’t help himself; he’s a perfectionist. It’s just how he’s wired. So now you’ll have the choice to either endure and overlook his constant critical analysis of your faults or leave him.
The Virgo man experiences life through the eyes of someone who believes in using good rationale and common sense to get through the difficult areas of life. He sees the world in an analytical sense, observing inter-connectivity and the relationship between one entity and another. In fact, the practical nature of any event, circumstance, or product is perhaps the most important aspect for a Virgo man.
If Virgo is cooking you dinner in your kitchen and runs across 6 jars of paprika, 5 of which are unopened, he’ll wonder if you were too lazy to look through your cabinets before you went to the store and know that you’re wasteful with your money. So do yourself and your budget a favor (and the environment!) and take a leaf out of his book.
If you’re interested in a Virgo man, be friends with him first. Virgos are not passionate, ready-to-jump-into-bed creatures. They like to know exactly what they’re getting into. The will not get caught up in a whirlwind of romance. So be friends first! Show him that you’re the real deal and his interest will spark.
The most important thing to remember when dating a Virgo man is never, never, be late. Not even a teensy bit fashionably late. For the Virgo man, punctuality is a virtue and lateness an inexcusable vice.
Virgo is not the guy to go to when you need to cry on someone’s shoulder, and he’s not enticed by the “helpless female” act. He prefers a partner who shares his analytical approach to life. He wants to talk about what he considers to be serious subjects, such as life, philosophy, politics, and religion. Try to avoid dumping your emotional baggage on him, or you just might scare him away.
So, better play on the safer side. A Virgo man doesn’t like dumb females, who are ignorant and stupid. You may be the hottest babe in the block. But, if you do not have brains, he wouldn’t even look at you. Impropriety and rudeness turns him off. So, forget wearing that short, revealing black dress of yours. His kind of female has to be clean – body, mind and soul. If you want to win the love of a Virgo male, make sure that you have impeccable manners, spotlessly clean house, excellent cooking skills and decent dressing sense. He is prone to finding faults in others, but please don’t give him specifics reasons to do so in your case.
They are constantly involved in helping them and have a strong sense of work and duty. Too much display of emotions makes them uncomfortable and too conscious. A Virgo male will stick to you when you need him the most, care for you and dutifully carry out all the responsibilities a husband is expected to do. However, don’t burden him with extreme sentiments, mushy affection and tearful promises. If he doesn’t run away, he will become too cold and even the subtle display of affection from his side may come to a stop.
That being said, shy Virgoan men loathe being made a spectacle of, so think twice before planning that surprise party for them, or telling the waiter to make a scene with the whole restaurant loudly singing to them. Noisy, raucous parties full of messy drunks tend to make these retiring fellows nervous, so maybe consider cooking a lovely meal at home to celebrate instead. Give them their presents in private, and show them that you’ve really been paying attention to what tomes they were lingering over at the bookstore, or the goodies they’ve circled in their favorite catalogs.
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Are you tired of raising your boyfriends and teaching them how to act like grown men? Hang up your metaphorical nursing bra. The Virgo man needs none of your mother’s milk, thank you very much. Self-sufficient and self-directed, he’s no Oedipus or mama’s boy. However, he can dig in his heels like a headstrong child. Like all earth signs, he’s stubborn. Virgo can plant himself firmly in a position and refuse to budge. “You can’t make me!” He’ll stand by your side just as willfully.
Later in life he’s likely to look much younger than he really is. Call it unfair but this is a sign which usually ages very well. One factor in this is that Virgo men are more likely than most to monitor what they eat and drink, how frequently they exercise, and generally to prefer a healthy lifestyle.
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