You won’t win this man by playing games or trying to be someone you’re not. Be straightforward about who you are and what is important you, but have some tact and don’t try to bowl him over. Just be honest about your strengths and let him know you’re willing to work on your weaknesses.
This is always a hard question to answer, as one person’s idea of kinky can be very different to someone else’s. Individuals also vary a lot, so this is a bad area to generalize in. All things being equal though, Virgo men are about average. Typically they enjoy mental stimulation such as role playing (as long as you’re a worthy opponent!) more than vanilla kinkiness for it’s own sake. Leave the chicken in the fridge and just use a feather…
Virgos are often portrayed poorly in this area, directly or indirectly considered the least sexual of all the signs. The reality however is that they are amongst the most sexual, they’re just discreet about it, often offering subtle and indirect comments rather than anything too blatant or vulgar. Don’t make the mistake of assuming he’s a prude or you may miss some of the best one liners!
It really is no coincidence that some of the best comedians of our time are Virgo men. Their man child status and immaturity can really make them a star in this field. Think Adam Sandler, Kevin James, C.K. Louis, Dave Chappelle, and Jimmy Fallon. And you can’t forget Charlie Sheen. Even though he’s not really a comedian, he did bring the laughs on Two and Half Men. Until he got kicked off for his behavior that is.
Virgo man judges his life by all the little pieces, rather than looking at the big picture. He’s not an all or nothing guy by any means. He examines every situation bit by bit and piece by piece much like a puzzle. In fact, he is one of those people who actually has the patience to sit down and do a 5,000 piece puzzle. He would actually find that activity fun rather than exhausting. If you want to date the Virgo man, you have to show him that you belong in his world and you won’t disrupt it in any way. Order and stability are the two most important things in a Virgo man’s life and that’s something his partner just has to understand.
The Virgo male is willing to give his all in a relationship, but he expects the same from his partner. Virgo is somewhat of a “neat freak,” so make sure your appearance is tidy. Keep a neat home, and never give him any reason to mistrust you. Virgos generally are not the breakup and make-up type. Once he’s done with a lover, he’s done, and no amount of tears on your part will convince him to give it another try.
This is not a man that needs that many surprises. Everyone likes a nice surprise here and there, but the most important thing for him is to honor traditions, birthdays, anniversaries and successes. He will treasure a pen, a notebook, a laptop or anything he can write on, even if he claims he is not into writing. Buy him a transparent, manly watch, with all the gear wheels shown, or any book on how stuff works. He will want to see how things are made or fixed, and he will be thankful for all sorts of fine tools that allow him to do something practical that needs to be done at the moment. If nothing else makes him happy, you can always buy him an enormous puzzle of 5000 little pieces. This should keep him occupied for a while.
The Virgo is the sixth sign of the zodiac and is represented by the virgin maiden. This sign starts on August 22 and goes through September 22. The Virgo sign is part of the Earth element which represents stability and dependability. The Virgo man is a unique creature of sorts.
Emotionally, a Virgoan can come off as a little cold, and will often be reticent about what’s really going on with his feelings. He might write a passionate letter or text, but will act totally preoccupied when you see him in person, or behave in a way that belies any interest in you at all.
Whether it’s your home or cubicle he’s examining, this man likes a tidy environment. A messy workspace or home shows him you really don’t have it all together, and this is not the impression you want to make. Most Virgo men appreciate a knack for cleanliness.
Until this control freak learns to let go and trust, he can never receive. Giving without receiving (and vice-versa) makes for a one-sided relationship. With lots of practice, Virgo might finally loosen his grip and enjoy a healthy relationship, one based on companionship rather than control.
The Virgo man is usually highly intelligent and appreciates and admires this quality in a potential mate. He’s actually a male who will love you for your mind. On the negative side, Virgo can be intensely critical and territorial. Once he learns to completely trust a lover, he’s dedicated, caring and faithful.
Know that he’s an Earth sign. Virgo (along with Taurus and Capricorn) are Earth signs. This means, generally, that they’re very stable and resistant to change. Like the Earth! They are sturdy in their ways and know what they want and need. They’re usually slow to open — but once they do, it’s permanent.
This is a question which is very hard to give a general answer on, as no two Virgo men are totally identical. The key is understanding him and what he finds most attractive in a partner. Astrology can provide a wealth of information to enable this, however natal charts need to be prepared and studied to do so. Please see the article on seduction and astrology for more information on this.
Be ready to be pleased. While you shouldn’t be expecting grand shows or intense theatrics in this relationship, you should expect to be pleased. Virgo loves everything being perfect and will therefore make sure you’re happy. He doesn’t know how to operate if you’re not! If you give him something to do, he will do it to a T and then go a step further. That’s one hell of a partner!
A Virgo man almost always prefers a home-cooked meal to a trendy restaurant. If you have decent culinary skills, invite him home for a meal you prepare yourself. It doesn’t have to be a fancy meal, but every dish should be delicious. A successful dinner date like this will show him you’d be a good domestic partner, and that’s another characteristic he’s looking for.
Be stable. Virgo being an Earth sign and all, he expects his partner to be stable, too. Being capricious and prone to anger or mood swings is not his cup of tea. He likes life to be simple, remember? Dramatics don’t have a place in his world. Emotions are fine when in appropriate dosages. Freak outs, gossip, and drama are not!
Sexuality of every Virgo depends greatly on other personal traits, such as one’s ascendant and positions of different planets in the natal chart. In general, the sign of Virgo is everything but sexual and this man can be a truly uninspiring lover. His partner might have to force some creativity. The good thing is in the fact that each Virgo likes to serve, and in search for perfection, most men born in this sign will do their best to understand the anatomy of their partner and be able to truly satisfy them. Still, their insecurities are often disguised by simple boredom, and they can be quite critical toward their lovers. It is often not easy to be with a Virgo man if you don’t obsess about every hair on your body and every scent you might emit, all the time.
Virgo men typically have a fantastic eye for detail and enjoy order, precision and efficiency in all things. This has several implications, for example he is likely to prefer routines to random or chaotic approaches, and is very likely to have a fondness for lists.
Both the Capricorn woman and the Virgo man have practical natures and tend to be realists. Both are ambitious and will work together to achieve success. A relationship between the two might not be filled with lusty passion, but it will be one of steady commitment.
Analytical, discriminating, precise, considerate and reliable, he is likely to enjoy work of a technical or analytical nature, quite possibly working behind the scenes to ensure the efficiency of an organization, rather than taking center stage or seeking direct recognition for his achievements.
On the one side he is kind, generous, and thoughtful, yet on the other he is critical, stubborn, and uptight. The men born under the Virgo sign tend to be known as the “man-child.” If there was ever a man that needed to be cared for by a woman, this would be him. Virgo is quite the peculiar man in every sense of the word. Don’t be fooled by that virgin maiden either: Virgo man can be quite the womanizer. Hugh Grant and Prince Harry are both Virgos . . . just saying.
Virgo is a mutable sign, meaning that these characteristics aren’t tried-and-true. But if you want to place ’em all in one category, you’ll find that they’re generally solid people — grounded, have a foundation upon which they build everything (thought or planning), and at their best when they’re balanced.
This isn’t to say don’t tell him how you feel, if you’re feeling particularly moody. Just try to be rational and logical about it. Instead of calling him, crying because your best friend is prettier than you are today, take a step back. Hang out with him that night and talk about your struggle with your image. He’ll see that you’re calm and receptive — instead of flighty and incomprehensible.
Talking shop with the Virgo man is never a bad idea, as they tend to find it hard to switch from work mode to leisure mode. In fact, they find talking about work at the end of a hard day extremely relaxing.
That being said, shy Virgoan men loathe being made a spectacle of, so think twice before planning that surprise party for them, or telling the waiter to make a scene with the whole restaurant loudly singing to them. Noisy, raucous parties full of messy drunks tend to make these retiring fellows nervous, so maybe consider cooking a lovely meal at home to celebrate instead. Give them their presents in private, and show them that you’ve really been paying attention to what tomes they were lingering over at the bookstore, or the goodies they’ve circled in their favorite catalogs.
Not always the most ideal team player, a Virgo man can be a stickler for minutiae that may seem unimportant to others and is often frustrated by others’ lack of care or attention to detail. These men are wizards when it comes to the kind of work that confounds most people, and they tend to develop expertise in unusual or specialized fields. Virgos can be insufferable know-it-alls when it comes to the subject they’ve dedicated their lives to. Often, Virgos are creative geniuses whose skillfulness borders on the work of eccentric savants.
This man prefers to be in charge of the relationship, and he’s going to make sure you’re the one for him before he takes things to the next level. Don’t jump the gun and try to kiss him; let him be the one to decide if it’s time to kiss you. When that kiss comes, if it comes, accept it gently as though it’s the most natural thing in the world.
If you’re turned on by intelligent people then beware! Virgo’s are nearly always intellectual, and this man’s fast mind can find humor in most things, and often empathize with others more than his emotions alone would allow. This ability to empathize while still remaining detached makes them some of the best counselors, therapists and psychologists.
This doesn’t mean that Virgo can’t form strong attachments. He can, but does so slowly and carefully. It usually takes him a while to fall in love. But once he’s truly smitten, he’s in it for the long haul. Once the Virgo male has committed to a relationship, he is forever loving, patient and supportive.
If you do happen to snag yourself a Virgo man, don’t fool yourself into thinking that you’ve captured his heart and now you can act like your usual neurotic self. The reality is that your work has just begun! One of the negative aspects of Virgo man’s personality is that he can become very critical of everything in his life if things aren’t going his way. That includes you. If you find yourself on the receiving end of Virgo’s criticism, just take a step back. You might be pushing him too hard and his criticism is his way of protecting himself. You need to give Virgo a lot of alone time and let him come to the realization that he needs you in his life. That only way to do that is to give him some time to himself.
Having too much in common is rarely a good thing in matters of the heart. A Virgo woman and Virgo man may be so critical of one another that discord will often prevail. And since both are reticent with their emotions, things could get pretty boring.
Still, with Virgo, you can channel your maternal energy where it belongs: toward the children. And he’ll want at least one or two, if not a gaggle. Hillary Clinton may believe it takes a village to raise a child, but to Virgo, it takes a child—his childlike spirit, that is—to raise a village. He’ll spread his seed far and wide, and he tends to start young. Don’t be surprised if your Virgo already has kids from a previous partner or two!
A favorite of those who prefer the quiet, smoldering intellectual type, the Virgo man has a fantastic eye for detail and enjoys order, precision and efficiency in all things. If you find intelligence and a professional attitude to be sexy, then this is the man for you.
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While sometimes opposites attract, the differences between the Sagittarius woman and the Virgo man may be difficult to overcome. Virgo may see the Archer as careless, flighty and irresponsible; while Sagittarius might find him boring and hate his constant criticism.
The other night, we met a Virgo man and his Aquarius “wife” sitting at an adjacent restaurant table. They were incredibly friendly—almost too eager and forthcoming, raising brows among us. Within five minutes, we heard all about her breast implants, her difficult pregnancy, and her strident efforts to regain her anorexic, pre-baby figure. It became clear she was either drunk or on the verge of a nervous breakdown. The Virgo just watched quietly, as Virgo men do, letting her yammer away about silicone and order a $25 cosmopolitan “for all of us to share.”
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