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Your relationship may be slow-to-start. This is fine! It’s just how Virgo rolls. It’s not an indicator of a lack of passion or anything negative. He’ll open up in time if you can be patient. Good things are worth waiting for, after all.
While often reserved towards strangers, Virgos show a very different side of themselves to friends and loved ones and tend to be highly entertaining and stimulating conversationalists, offering insights on almost any subject. If he seems too serious, it’s likely that will change later!
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Know that he may need reassurance. Virgos are often caught up in their heads. Because of this, they can get a little out of touch with reality, resulting in an unconscious tendency toward insecurity. When this time pops up, he may need reassurance. When he’s acting inhibited with you, let him know that that’s unneeded (not with your words, necessarily). Be overly welcoming. He may need that extra push.
This is a question which is very hard to give a general answer on, as no two Virgo men are totally identical. The key is understanding him and what he finds most attractive in a partner. Astrology can provide a wealth of information to enable this, however natal charts need to be prepared and studied to do so. Please see the article on seduction and astrology for more information on this.
Then we woke up and smelled the smoke signals. A woman advertising online for an affair is either a) horny, b) bored, or c) (ding ding ding!) sending out an SOS. She’s crying out, “Help! I’m done with this marriage and I don’t know how to get out. Somebody save me!” Bingo. It’s the Virgo man’s sweet spot, and he rushes in for the save. In his own way, the Virgo man feels that he’s performing a public service helping a woman leave a bad marriage. He’d never fancy himself a homewrecker. After all, she was already sniffing around for a side dish. He was just being helpful.
Later in life he’s likely to look much younger than he really is. Call it unfair but this is a sign which usually ages very well. One factor in this is that Virgo men are more likely than most to monitor what they eat and drink, how frequently they exercise, and generally to prefer a healthy lifestyle.
Once you have won his heart, you will never again feel unloved or uncared for, in your entire life. His love will burn for you with a steady flame, which will never flicker even for a minute. You will be rewarded with a husband who is totally sincere, patient, dependable and forever loving. You will never have to worry about stability again, whether it is emotional or financial. A Virgo man is not at all prone to wandering and you will never ever have to keep an eye on him. You will practically be showered with care and concern, whenever you need them.
If you’re interested in a Virgo man, be friends with him first. Virgos are not passionate, ready-to-jump-into-bed creatures. They like to know exactly what they’re getting into. The will not get caught up in a whirlwind of romance. So be friends first! Show him that you’re the real deal and his interest will spark.
First things first: your appearance. The Virgo man is extremely fastidious about his own appearance and applies his own often pathologically high standards to others. Nothing turns a Virgo man off quicker than poor grooming or, even worse, poor hygiene. To even attract the initial glance of a Virgo man, you’ll need to be clean, pristine and not a hair out of place. No biggie, right? If you’re a groomer by nature, no problem, otherwise, you might have to book an appointment at the salon as a first port of call. Look on the bright side, though, it gives you the perfect opportunity to indulge in a little quality ‘me time’!
To sum up the Virgo man in a single word, it would be “practical.” He sees things as they are, with no sugar coating. Virgo is a down-to-earth, hard-working guy who sees no need for unnecessary outpourings of emotion. When he has strong feelings about something, he usually keeps them to himself. Likewise, he tends to prefer the company of others who are similarly reserved.
He is dedicated, intelligent and capable, always ready to make the necessary moves to make more money or a better environment for those around him. He will gladly sacrifice himself for the happiness of those he loves. However, his love for his partner will often last much shorter than you would anticipate and he is not that reliable or trustworthy as Earth signs usually are.
Get ready for perfection. If there’s one thing this guy is, it’s a perfectionist. He notices every little detail and expects it. He makes sure his linen closet is arranged by color, size, date purchased, and thread count. He can tell when picture frames aren’t exactly centered, when a curry is missing the right amount of spice. This has its ups and downs — so concentrate on the ups!
Virgo is a mutable sign, meaning that these characteristics aren’t tried-and-true. But if you want to place ’em all in one category, you’ll find that they’re generally solid people — grounded, have a foundation upon which they build everything (thought or planning), and at their best when they’re balanced.
Analytical, discriminating, precise, considerate and reliable, he is likely to enjoy work of a technical or analytical nature, quite possibly working behind the scenes to ensure the efficiency of an organization, rather than taking center stage or seeking direct recognition for his achievements.
Are you tired of raising your boyfriends and teaching them how to act like grown men? Hang up your metaphorical nursing bra. The Virgo man needs none of your mother’s milk, thank you very much. Self-sufficient and self-directed, he’s no Oedipus or mama’s boy. However, he can dig in his heels like a headstrong child. Like all earth signs, he’s stubborn. Virgo can plant himself firmly in a position and refuse to budge. “You can’t make me!” He’ll stand by your side just as willfully.
A Virgo man almost always prefers a home-cooked meal to a trendy restaurant. If you have decent culinary skills, invite him home for a meal you prepare yourself. It doesn’t have to be a fancy meal, but every dish should be delicious. A successful dinner date like this will show him you’d be a good domestic partner, and that’s another characteristic he’s looking for.
A Virgo man is a boon to any workplace, where his intensely focused work ethic and exacting personality will ensure zero slacking or sloppiness in what he produces or achieves. With his analytical and critical thinking skills, Virgo tends to excel at problem-solving, planning, and organizing information. Left to their own devices, these men can be trusted to be efficient in their use of time and counted on to always strive toward perfection.
No advice will ever apply to every Virgo man as they are all unique in various ways. I specialize in offering tailored advice based on your unique personality and his together, as one without the other isn’t nearly as useful. My astrology readings solve real relationship problems for real people every day. For more information please see the article on relationship advice.
Expect class. You know that thing about perfection? How can things be perfect if they aren’t the best? This Virgo also expects things to be nice. Not necessarily the most expensive (actually quite the opposite — more on that later), but definitely well-put together and thought out. He can take a simple t-shirt and jeans and make it look classy because of the thought behind it. That’s how the relationship will go!
The Virgo man tends to be overly critical of others, events, and of life in general. He finds it difficult to become satisfied or content with life since everywhere that he looks, he is faced with flaws. His own flaw might be the simple fact that he finds flaws in almost every human being, every situation, and every aspect of life. He finds it difficult to perform in a situation that is disorganized and prefers order to disorder every single time. Spontaneity eludes the Virgo man as an inappropriate quality for any circumstance.
The Virgo man is typically very loyal. One warning however in this area, as with other signs who dislike confrontation Virgos can be known to take action on their own rather than repeat arguments. Especially if you’re overly aggressive or dominant. This isn’t a man who cheats just for the thrill of it, or the ego boost or other shallow reasons, however he may do so when unhappy or dissatisfied for long periods.
He may not make a big deal of your relationship turning serious, but know that he’s probably thinking about it. When he’s opening up to you easily, trusting you, allowing you to be his rock, know that you’re in. You may not get your name up in lights, but you’ll get a constant love that is eternal.
Online relationships and long distance relationships have unique challenges. One of these is that you get to see one side of someone very clearly: their personality. You don’t however get to see anything about other factors such as sexual attraction. My compatibility reports address this by scoring all factors alongside each other so you can see the whole picture, with any strong or weak areas highlighted. To explore this further please see my article on online relationships.
On the negative side, he can sometimes be seen as picky, aloof, sarcastic, pessimistic or whiny. He assumes everyone views him with the same critical eye that he possesses, which can sap his self confidence. Ironically, he is likely to be more perfect than most of us, yet he’s the only one who can’t see it. This level of self imposed modesty can be particularly endearing.
Still, with Virgo, you can channel your maternal energy where it belongs: toward the children. And he’ll want at least one or two, if not a gaggle. Hillary Clinton may believe it takes a village to raise a child, but to Virgo, it takes a child—his childlike spirit, that is—to raise a village. He’ll spread his seed far and wide, and he tends to start young. Don’t be surprised if your Virgo already has kids from a previous partner or two!
You won’t win this man by playing games or trying to be someone you’re not. Be straightforward about who you are and what is important you, but have some tact and don’t try to bowl him over. Just be honest about your strengths and let him know you’re willing to work on your weaknesses.
Take this and value it. Instead of wishing he were more open and confident, realize that this quality makes him down-to-earth, modest, loyal, and way less of a showy megalomaniac than the sign that precedes him, Leo. This sense of insecurity that flares up on occasion can be a relief!
Don’t be surprised if one of his close buddies approaches you about the possibility of a first date. Insecure Virgo needs to know he won’t be turned down when he asks you out. Virgo is initially cautious of love. He will first observe his potential partner, watching for any poor indicators. However, once convinced, he’ll move in fast to secure his mate. Love’s newness tends to overwhelm Virgo at first. If you’re the lucky person on the receiving end, be prepared to be:
The Virgoan reputation for being a clean freak applies to the men born under this sign who have truly embraced and made room for who they really are – though there are exceptions to that rule. Some male Virgos leave the home to their counterparts to mess with, but their own workspaces and tool-sheds are impeccably set up and usually off-limits to anyone but themselves. You’ll know immediately when you’re dealing with an afflicted Virgo (someone suffering from emotional issues) by his inability to keep his space tidy. Classic Virgo men may get teased for being a bit fussy with their things, but a beautiful and clean home is the sign of healthy Virgo – so just let him do his thing!
Strong, stable and confident he or she should ideally be comfortable with being fairly dominant at the start of the relationship, both socially and sexually. In the longer term however treating him as a partner and an equal will win more points.
Having too much in common is rarely a good thing in matters of the heart. A Virgo woman and Virgo man may be so critical of one another that discord will often prevail. And since both are reticent with their emotions, things could get pretty boring.
Not always the most ideal team player, a Virgo man can be a stickler for minutiae that may seem unimportant to others and is often frustrated by others’ lack of care or attention to detail. These men are wizards when it comes to the kind of work that confounds most people, and they tend to develop expertise in unusual or specialized fields. Virgos can be insufferable know-it-alls when it comes to the subject they’ve dedicated their lives to. Often, Virgos are creative geniuses whose skillfulness borders on the work of eccentric savants.
Talking shop with the Virgo man is never a bad idea, as they tend to find it hard to switch from work mode to leisure mode. In fact, they find talking about work at the end of a hard day extremely relaxing.
Show up on time. Virgo males are heavy on convention and manners. Showing up late for plans and events tells him you don’t value his time and if you do, that he’ll lose interest in you altogether. He needs to know you respect him, aside from your attraction to him.
The Leo woman is boisterous and flashy, always seeking attention, while Virgo is just the opposite. The Lion is not likely to look kindly on Virgo’s criticism, either, so it would take some work for a match like this to succeed.
A Virgo man can easily turn into an inveterate worrywart without enough tasks and projects to keep his thoughts occupied. People born under the sign of the Virgin take well to owning responsibility for themselves and their work, and love to find ways to be of service to others (though they can easily turn resentful if they continually martyr themselves in situations with no reciprocity).
Virgo wants his partner to be real. Who wouldn’t? While they like nice things, brands don’t mean anything to them. Simple and chic resonate with them much more than accessorized and expensive. You should be the thing that shines strongest, not that shiny bracelet you’re wearing.
There is a misconception about the Virgo sign as a whole with regards to sex. Virgos are not naturally chaste and they don’t find sex distasteful. However, they do find it easier than any other sign of the zodiac to abstain, so you’re unlikely to come across a Virgo man who desperately craves sex.
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