Virgo is just as responsive to looks as he is to touch. So instead of touching him on the arm like every girl does, give him that look that screams, “Kiss me.” You’ll have him melting in no time flat.
Your Virgo may be something of a perfectionist, but he’s usually not domineering. He will value and appreciate your input, especially when your opinions or suggestions are well thought out and can enhance a goal or activity. He longs for a partner who can be his equal.
Keep your look simple. Wear simple hairstyles, clothes, makeup, and jewelry — stay away from ALL excesses, because Virgo men like natural beauty. You know that practical side of them? That’s coming out here. They’re not into “showy” or “artificial.” What a breath of fresh air!
Relationships are complex things, comprising hundreds of individual elements. Sun signs are one of these, however a detailed analysis of everything is required to find all the strong and weak areas. Please see the article on astrology and soulmates for more information on how astrology can be used to determine if someone is your soulmate.
Don’t be surprised if one of his close buddies approaches you about the possibility of a first date. Insecure Virgo needs to know he won’t be turned down when he asks you out. Virgo is initially cautious of love. He will first observe his potential partner, watching for any poor indicators. However, once convinced, he’ll move in fast to secure his mate. Love’s newness tends to overwhelm Virgo at first. If you’re the lucky person on the receiving end, be prepared to be:
A Virgo male is rather introverted because he just isn’t comfortable with all those emotions. Showing his feelings threatens the image he loves to portray of being calm, cool, and collected at all times. Being in love is the rare time you’ll ever find him unable to contain his feelings and feeling a bit out of control. It won’t last, so enjoy it while it does. He’ll soon be back to his regimented discipline and logical approach to life and love.
Unfortunately, the Virgo man is often critical of others, leading him to have difficulty in finding a woman to form a solid relationship with. Instead, he is selective in his choice for love, failing to find someone for a long time if at all. His selectivity leads him to release a lack of control in dealing with the situation since so few women meet his specifications.
Ruled by the planet Mercury, the Virgo man is incredibly intelligent and is always busy parsing information and finding ways to organize the contents of his own crowded brainpan. He delights in making the world fit his specifications and creating a space around himself that is peaceful, orderly, and utterly tidy – to help quell the over-thinking that is constantly taking place within his mind.
Once you have won his heart, you will never again feel unloved or uncared for, in your entire life. His love will burn for you with a steady flame, which will never flicker even for a minute. You will be rewarded with a husband who is totally sincere, patient, dependable and forever loving. You will never have to worry about stability again, whether it is emotional or financial. A Virgo man is not at all prone to wandering and you will never ever have to keep an eye on him. You will practically be showered with care and concern, whenever you need them.
When the drunk, emotionally fragile Aquarius teetered off to the smoking lounge in her seven-inch Loubitons, clutching a crystal-embellished phone to her ear, the Virgo man leaned in conspiratorially. “She’s not really my wife,” he announced matter-of-factly. “Sorry she’s such a nut job. She’s just going through a hard time. She had a baby a year ago and fell into some really bad postpartum depression. She’s married to someone else. We’re seeing each other on the side while she gets through it.”
Compatible signs usually hold the same ideals and want the same things in life. A Virgo man seeks a love partner who can be his life mate and work by his side. The stability of character and expression of Virgoan traits in such a man will also depend largely on any other dominant astrological signs and their placement in his natal chart. When making attempts to understand the unique makeup of your Virgo male, you will need to take into account any chart nuances and energies that can either enhance or conflict with his Virgo energies.
Virgo men have a penchant for gifts that appeal to their fastidiousness personalities and vanity regarding their appearance – so fancy shaving soap, hand-carved horn combs, and monogrammed cufflinks would go over well.
If you do happen to snag yourself a Virgo man, don’t fool yourself into thinking that you’ve captured his heart and now you can act like your usual neurotic self. The reality is that your work has just begun! One of the negative aspects of Virgo man’s personality is that he can become very critical of everything in his life if things aren’t going his way. That includes you. If you find yourself on the receiving end of Virgo’s criticism, just take a step back. You might be pushing him too hard and his criticism is his way of protecting himself. You need to give Virgo a lot of alone time and let him come to the realization that he needs you in his life. That only way to do that is to give him some time to himself.
Expect class. You know that thing about perfection? How can things be perfect if they aren’t the best? This Virgo also expects things to be nice. Not necessarily the most expensive (actually quite the opposite — more on that later), but definitely well-put together and thought out. He can take a simple t-shirt and jeans and make it look classy because of the thought behind it. That’s how the relationship will go!
The mutable quality of the sign gives him enough sense to make changes that are necessary to always keep the relationship fresh. He will want to take you to a place where the plates are always clean and tablecloths white and ironed, so you can spill your tomato soup on them and feel guilty as hell. He will go with you to any place that doesn’t contradict his convictions, but in time, he might get bored of your choices, always in need for a change, even though he belongs to the element of Earth. He is often too practical, but when he is swept off his feet, he will be surprisingly romantic and tender. He needs someone he can truly care about and dating him becomes a privilege in these situations, at least until he finds your first flaw.
Virgos are often portrayed poorly in this area, directly or indirectly considered the least sexual of all the signs. The reality however is that they are amongst the most sexual, they’re just discreet about it, often offering subtle and indirect comments rather than anything too blatant or vulgar. Don’t make the mistake of assuming he’s a prude or you may miss some of the best one liners!
To get a complete picture of someone through astrology we need to take all those other planets and their interactions into account. To do this we need to create and interpret their unique natal chart. For information on what’s involved in this and the opportunity to obtain one for yourself and your partner please see the compatibility readings page.
No advice will ever apply to every Virgo man as they are all unique in various ways. I specialize in offering tailored advice based on your unique personality and his together, as one without the other isn’t nearly as useful. My astrology readings solve real relationship problems for real people every day. For more information please see the article on relationship advice.
That being said, shy Virgoan men loathe being made a spectacle of, so think twice before planning that surprise party for them, or telling the waiter to make a scene with the whole restaurant loudly singing to them. Noisy, raucous parties full of messy drunks tend to make these retiring fellows nervous, so maybe consider cooking a lovely meal at home to celebrate instead. Give them their presents in private, and show them that you’ve really been paying attention to what tomes they were lingering over at the bookstore, or the goodies they’ve circled in their favorite catalogs.
The Virgo man tends to be overly critical of others, events, and of life in general. He finds it difficult to become satisfied or content with life since everywhere that he looks, he is faced with flaws. His own flaw might be the simple fact that he finds flaws in almost every human being, every situation, and every aspect of life. He finds it difficult to perform in a situation that is disorganized and prefers order to disorder every single time. Spontaneity eludes the Virgo man as an inappropriate quality for any circumstance.
However, if you’re looking to do something a bit more romantic than helping out in a soup kitchen for a couple of hours, the Virgo man is quite cultured and will find an evening at the theatre extremely satisfying
Depending on what you are looking for, Virgo can be a very satisfying man to be with or a very annoying one. He is dedicated to his partner, but he is ruled by Mercury and this leads to a sort of double personality that cannot always be trusted. He can be quite superficial when it comes to emotional closeness and intimacy, but he is intelligent enough not to let go of the partner he is in love with. He likes his routine and needs some healthy choices in his life, whether he is aware of this or not, and it can make him demanding in a relationship. He does live dependent on traditional values, and he would really like if someone would take care of him while he takes care of the world.
No, this article is based only on sun signs. Those are a convenient and fast way to generalize, but far from conclusive at this broad level. There are many other planet placements which all affect someone’s personality.
If you have a particularly hesitant Virgo man then it’s worth noting he may be more comfortable being asked to do something rather than initiating sexual acts himself the first time or two. In these cases the ‘cleaner’ you can keep his conscience, the less inhibited he will be in the long term.
Virgoan men tend to be modest when it comes to their own needs and can be notoriously difficult to shop for because they don’t often trust their loved ones to really pay attention to discerning what will truly please them. When your Virgo says, “Oh, nothing really…” in response to your query about what they want for their birthday, whatever you do – don’t believe them! They do secretly want to be doted on, but will usually never ask.
The most important thing to remember when dating a Virgo man is never, never, be late. Not even a teensy bit fashionably late. For the Virgo man, punctuality is a virtue and lateness an inexcusable vice.
Apparently, the two met on a swingers’ website called Ashleymadison.com, which helps attached people find discreet hookups and affairs. (The taglines: “when monogamy becomes monotony” and “because the best men & women are already taken.”) At first, we were baffled. Why would a germophobic Virgo use the Internet to pick up someone’s sloppy seconds? How could a sign as preachy and puritanical as Virgo be so shamelessly unethical?
Get him to respect you. The traditional Virgo man needs a woman who is classy. She’s smart, can hold her own, and is very mature for her age. She has her act together. She’s not one for gossip or trivial small talk just to hear her own voice. Don’t try to get him to lust after you (the Virgo man knows that’s a dime a dozen); get him to see you as a person worthy of his respect.
Have an open mind with your Virgo man, and you’ll discover a lover who is dexterous and very good with his hands. This is a man that will take his time and be exceedingly exacting in his pleasure-giving.
The Leo woman is boisterous and flashy, always seeking attention, while Virgo is just the opposite. The Lion is not likely to look kindly on Virgo’s criticism, either, so it would take some work for a match like this to succeed.
The Aries woman and Virgo make for an interesting couple if they can make it work, but the odds are that they won’t. While both are straightforward, the Ram is just too flashy and extravagant for practical Virgo. She’s spontaneous and carefree, while he’s cautious and responsible.
Co-dependence is the Virgo man’s co-pilot. Many of his relationships start while he’s helping a “friend” get back on her feet. He has a knack for finding women who’ve fallen on hard times: divorce, death of a loved one, recovery from abuse or alcoholism. He loves to be there, comforting and shepherding you through the grieving process, holding your hair back as you puke up your soul. He’ll listen to your troubles with a therapist’s patience, knowing that his foolproof strategy will work once again. The damsel in distress always falls for the noble knight. And if the knight just happens to gallop off once she’s restored to well-being, that’s just how fairy tale might end. He never promised you Happily Ever After just because he picked you up on a white horse. But he’ll never throw you off the horse before shepherding you safely back home.
If you’re interested in a Virgo man, be friends with him first. Virgos are not passionate, ready-to-jump-into-bed creatures. They like to know exactly what they’re getting into. The will not get caught up in a whirlwind of romance. So be friends first! Show him that you’re the real deal and his interest will spark.
The Scorpio woman is very intelligent, and Virgo will be drawn to that trait. Both signs are practical, hard-working and courageous. The Scorpion is extremely passionate, so she needs to be careful not to overwhelm the shy Virgo man.
Be forward. The Virgo man isn’t the most direct, gutsy sign there is, to say the least. You may need to give him some not-so-subtle hints that you’re into him. He may need to know it’s a sure thing before he takes any action. Can you blame him? No one likes rejection!
Virgo wants his partner to be real. Who wouldn’t? While they like nice things, brands don’t mean anything to them. Simple and chic resonate with them much more than accessorized and expensive. You should be the thing that shines strongest, not that shiny bracelet you’re wearing.
He is dedicated, intelligent and capable, always ready to make the necessary moves to make more money or a better environment for those around him. He will gladly sacrifice himself for the happiness of those he loves. However, his love for his partner will often last much shorter than you would anticipate and he is not that reliable or trustworthy as Earth signs usually are.
The Virgo man is a helper by nature, so in the workplace, you’re likely to find him in a supporting role of some kind, assisting somebody else in getting things done. A great way to get talking to a Virgo man is to ask for his assistance: he likes nothing more. However, he finds helplessness or, more precisely, cluelessness very unappealing. If you go to him for help, it should be because he is the go-to guy for that particular problem and not because you’re all-at-sea and don’t know what else to do.
First things first: your appearance. The Virgo man is extremely fastidious about his own appearance and applies his own often pathologically high standards to others. Nothing turns a Virgo man off quicker than poor grooming or, even worse, poor hygiene. To even attract the initial glance of a Virgo man, you’ll need to be clean, pristine and not a hair out of place. No biggie, right? If you’re a groomer by nature, no problem, otherwise, you might have to book an appointment at the salon as a first port of call. Look on the bright side, though, it gives you the perfect opportunity to indulge in a little quality ‘me time’!
The Virgo man is something of a perfectionist, particularly when it comes to matters of the heart. Indeed, he may have waited literally years for the right person to come along. This puts you in rather a difficult position, because you either are that person or you aren’t. He will probably have a mental photograph of this individual, not to mention a detailed psychological profile.
Both the Capricorn woman and the Virgo man have practical natures and tend to be realists. Both are ambitious and will work together to achieve success. A relationship between the two might not be filled with lusty passion, but it will be one of steady commitment.
The Virgoan reputation for being a clean freak applies to the men born under this sign who have truly embraced and made room for who they really are – though there are exceptions to that rule. Some male Virgos leave the home to their counterparts to mess with, but their own workspaces and tool-sheds are impeccably set up and usually off-limits to anyone but themselves. You’ll know immediately when you’re dealing with an afflicted Virgo (someone suffering from emotional issues) by his inability to keep his space tidy. Classic Virgo men may get teased for being a bit fussy with their things, but a beautiful and clean home is the sign of healthy Virgo – so just let him do his thing!
However, the Virgo man isn’t particularly good at showing his emotions, so you may find it a little difficult to know if you’ve made an impact or not. If in doubt, ask him out. Just remember to keep it simple and unsentimental. He doesn’t need to know what you think of him or how amazing his eyes are: a simple, “Are doing anything Friday night?” will be fine. Or, even better, “I’m going to this charity function on Friday night, do you fancy tagging along?”
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