Water has no boundaries. It can seep into even the tiniest crack and wreak havoc, melting barriers and dissolving that which was formerly solid. The power of Neptune, god of the sea, is of dissolution – that which seeks oneness. Water is our natural state, from the primordial ooze where we began to the amniotic fluid we swam in while within the womb. This is what Pisces energy is all about: fluidity, unity, and returning to our original source.
This is a man that can easily get lost in opinions of other men around him, and pretend to be what he is not in order to fit in. The society has certain expectations of men, and a Pisces man will use his flexibility and adaptive nature to blend in, acting in a way he is supposed to. Unfortunately, this could make him feel lost as he plays a role until he doesn’t know what the truth is anymore. A true Pisces man will have an objective to show love through sex, and he will sometimes choose to do so without a realistic image of his partner’s desires. He is in a chase for satisfaction, but it rarely has any value if there is no emotion to follow. Still, as a man, he might find emotion in each one of his sexual relationships, identifying romantic love with the love for women in general. This confusion can lead to infidelity, dishonesty, and the constant search for his identity.
Sexuality is all in the heads of the three air signs. At their best, a Pisces man can inspire an Air sign woman’s desire to make a deeper emotional connection, and she can help him put his feelings into words.
The sign of Pisces represents all shady, dishonest activities, adultery, lies and misconceptions. On the other hand, it is also a sign of ultimate trust and faith one has. One of the biggest challenges for a Pisces man is to stay in an awkward situation without pretending to be something he is not. His approach to truth can be quite challenging for his partner, especially if he is dating a Fire sign, proactive and straightforward. In general, he will be careful not to be dishonest about important things, and when he finds himself in a truly intimate relationship, he will have no reason to fear his partner, and it will be easy for him to be honest.
Virgo is the mutable earth sign. Pisces is the mutable water sign. Both are adaptable but ever changing. Virgo is mental; Pisces is emotional. A Virgo woman strives for sexual perfection, but the perfection she seeks is technical; her emotions are secondary. A Pisces man’s sexuality is all about emotions. So while their sex could be satisfying in the beginning, it won’t be long before a Pisces man is longing for a woman who is less into the mechanics of sex and more willing to let her emotions dictate her moves.
Sexuality is all about emotions for all three water signs. A Pisces man wants to become one with his lover. When he makes love with a Water sign woman, they flow into each other, and such a complete merging occurs that it’s difficult for each to know where one ends and the other begins.
I’m mentioning this because I want you to know there is no hidden agenda here. Instead, my goal is to simply share insights about Pisces men using tenants of Jungian psychology, coupled with wisdom from the ancients.
As mentioned earlier, Pisces is a water sign. In simple speak, this means people who are of this horoscopic background dive deep. Of the three water signs [Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces] the “fish” sign can dive the deepest; emotionally and spiritually.
Although he looked as serene as Ghandi, we were onto him. He was waging Ghandi’s own favorite tactic: passive resistance. In other words, while smiling like a smug, serene Buddha, he was quietly digging in his heels and refusing to budge. It’s the Pisces man’s ultimate “f**k you.”
An Aries woman is attracted to the physical act of sex itself, not feelings of intimacy. She can get impatient with courting and cuddling and push for the main event. A Pisces man might find it a formidable challenge to take their sex life beyond a quickie, but on the other hand, if he tells her what he wants and challenges her, he just might find her delightfully willing. If there’s anything that turns an Aries woman on sexually, it’s the challenge of being the best lover a man has ever had. When an Aries woman and a Pisces man hook up, the sex can be hot and steamy.
It’s important to note that a Pisces man is not only his Sun sign. The Sun is of utmost importance because it shines its light on every aspect of an individual’s personality, but when trying to define a Pisces man’s sexuality, it’s essential to also look at the signs of his Venus and Mars. Venus and Mars are the planets most associated with love (Venus) and sex (Mars), and their signs will add depth, breath, and nuance to a Pisces man’s sexuality.
A Pisces man is an enigma, an enchanter, and a physical and emotional shapeshifter, whose sexuality is subtle and seldom on display. He can be incredibly romantic, under the right circumstances and with the right woman, but he can also be elusive and evasive, which can make it difficult for a woman to know exactly where her relationship with him is going.
Many Pisces men are extremely sensitive to noise and light pollution, and will often soundproof their homes or block out natural light from the windows, lending further to the sense of being in an insular womb-like cavern, a fairyland away from the normal world. You may lose track of time and forget that there’s even a world outside the beautiful one that he has created.
Pisces, however, will look at that same stretch of ocean and wonder what creatures live in the water and begin to fantasize about life as a dolphin. If you like boating, camping by water or canoing, you can count on Pisces men to be down with it.
To attract a Pisces man you must be like-minded. If you have fundamental lifestyle differences, this is one zodiac sign that is also a “Stop” sign. If you share some of the same interests and frequent the same establishments as this man, you will already be on his radar. Keeping him engaged intellectually means that you must always have another idea to discuss. He only wants absolutes when it comes to the consistencies in his personal life.
Cancer, the cardinal water sign, represents active emotions. A Cancer woman wants to direct the flow of emotions, and a Pisces man is more than happy to take directions. Her sexuality is sensual and fervent, and, just like her Pisces man, she considers lovemaking to be a sacred thing. She believes that it heals all wounds and affirms the blessing of being alive. A Cancer woman and a Pisces Man are sexually in sync. Everything about a Cancer woman’s sexuality is to a Pisces man’s liking.
Not just any everyday object will do – it needs to be something that he will feel is imbued with meaning. Usually, a Pisces will not adhere to one mystical path or religion – choosing instead to mix bits of this and that into a hodgepodge of traditions and beliefs that suits him best. “Take what you like and leave the rest” tends to be his philosophy, and he sees all paths as being one anyway, so he has no issues in placing a statue of the Buddha next to a Catholic saint or Pagan goddess image.
TAURUS: Taurus is an earth sign that is focused and balanced. The sign is also great with money, which is a good thing for Piscean people. Because Taurus can be somewhat dull in the bedroom, Pisces can liven things up and create magic.
Electric passion can be just the beginning between a Pisces man and the Libra woman. If things evolve into a serious relationship, beware of codependency potholes on the road to happiness. Laying a solid foundation early in the relationship makes for wonderful passion later.
That’s because in their quest to help others deal with emotional trauma and pain, Pisces men often attract drama. Moreover, there is a tendency to care too much, which in turn leads to an unattractive, clingy codependency.
Several years ago, a major aviation incident happened that killed many people. Minutes before the news became public, a friend of mine, who happens to be Pisces (and psychologist), called me on the phone.
Pisces guys often like to have aquariums or terrariums full of rare fish, frogs, or unusual plant life. They may raise orchids or just enjoy having plants and animals around them. There is artwork everywhere, usually created by him or by dear friends who he loves to support. There is a sacred atmosphere in his space, and a hush in the air that calls for a sense of reverence. You might instinctively bend to take off your shoes when you enter, regardless of whether or not he insists upon it – or feel awkward about using your cellphone inside.
When you think of Pisces, think of creative types. Here, I’m talking about musicians, artists, writers and story tellers. Much of their creative skill sets come from their ability to feel different emotions, such as sadness and joy.
However social he might seem, a Pisces man is a loner. He needs to spend some time with his thoughts and experiences and if he doesn’t have a chance to do so, he will be driven crazy. Although he will be ready to take on any possible adventure, he will also like to spend some time at home, doing something creative that reminds him who he is. He has a great need to express his creativity. Every Pisces man is a man on a mission, and he has to know that when he is gone, he will leave something behind. There are often too many expectations he sets for himself and he can have trouble meeting any of them, getting lost in irrelevant things to avoid dealing with his own inner disappointment.
His visions might finance the dreams of the Aquarius woman, so she should not dismiss the Pisces man’s lack of connection with a structure she understands. It is precisely his fearlessness when venturing into new territory that makes him worth your attention.
A Leo woman has a big and lustful sexual appetite and wants to be praised and lauded for her sexual performance. Lovemaking means it’s show time for her. A Pisces man enjoys the costuming and theatrics and is more than willing to play second fiddle, and let her be the star of the show. These two are both incredible lovers, but their roles and characters are perhaps a little too different for them to have a long-term satisfying sexual relationship.
To get a fix on a Pisces man’s sexuality, you have to understand a bit about Pisces. Pisces is a mutable water sign and the most spiritual sign of the Zodiac. A Pisces man has oceanic emotions that are vast, deep, ethereal, and constantly in flux. He’s sensitive and receptive, and he soaks up the emotions and feelings that surround him and echoes them back.
These Neptune-ruled visionaries love to dive deep and are never content to stay in shallow water – emotionally, spiritually, or intellectually. Small talk doesn’t interest them at all, and you’ll find that even upon meeting them for the first time, a Pisces man will ask you penetrating questions about yourself and your life for hours. It may take awhile before you notice that, though they know everything about you, you still know almost nothing about them.
A Pisces man will have little regard for “rules for the sake of rules,” and will defy everything from dress code to issues on tardiness or taking breaks. Rather than marching to the beat of their own drummer, they tend to undulate vaguely to their own internal clarinet. This may infuriate managers, but if the people in charge of a Pisces can recognize the strange genius of the man they’ve employed and just let him do his thing (rules and regulations be damned), they’ll often be amazed by the results he produces and the inventiveness of his work.
In my work as a counselor, I’ve worked with many Piscean men and am here to tell you they are very unique. Gifted with near psychic abilities and a powerful empathy chip, they have the ability to “see” much.
PISCES (Wildcard): To be blunt, Pisces can be a great match with another Pisces or it can be hell on earth. It depends upon the couples ability to negotiate their people pleasing tendencies. Most longer-term Piscean couples tend to have a high degree of codependency, which isn’t always a bad thing.
The Pisces man and Pisces woman together could really drink the town dry or save more souls than a town full of churches. Finding the balance between excess and avoiding reality will be a great dilemma between you two. But for a temporary partnership, there are few men who will ever intuitively know what you want and how to give it to you.
This is what they most desire: for you to forget that the world outside exists, and to give yourself over to love and the vision of indivisibility. When they lose themselves in love or dissolve into a puddle of tears after a major heartbreak, Pisces men may turn to drugs or alcohol to escape from their intense emotions or to numb their pain. Casual drinking or drug use may seem fun or innocent enough at first, but be on the lookout for the psychedelic daydreamer who can’t seem to handle being sober for any aspect of day-to-day life. Often the idyllic otherworlds of their substance-stimulated imaginations are much more attractive to them than the humdrum doldrums of boring old reality.
Jewelry made of these or other semi-precious stones will often appeal, as romantic, emotional Pisces men usually are not uncomfortable exploring their feminine side. They may enjoy wearing perfume or oils and like to always smell delicious. Based on their innate traits. many Pisces men can be fastidious about their personal cleanliness habits and appearance, so scented bath and body products will be appreciated by this water-loving sign.
SCORPIO: A natural match that is often marked by love at first sight. While Scorpio wants to act as the dominant leader in the relationship, Pisces wants to protect and offer care. More important, Pisces empathic abilities can see through Scorpion logic and get to the center of their feelings. In turn, this disarms Scorpio in an uncanny way.
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