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Like a slippery fish, the Pisces man is hard to pin down. He needs to protect his freedom before he’ll commit to anything. No Fish ever wants to be trapped on the hook, after all! At the same time, when the Pisces man has no structure or boundaries, he flails around like a salmon on the dock, gasping for air. “The more you know me, the less I disclose,” says Chris, a Pisces writer.
Pisces men can be found on the edge of town. If they are in the center of things, it is at a church or other service organization. Otherwise, they operate on the periphery. Bars and taverns attract the man born under the sign of the Fish as often as places of worship.
Not just any everyday object will do – it needs to be something that he will feel is imbued with meaning. Usually, a Pisces will not adhere to one mystical path or religion – choosing instead to mix bits of this and that into a hodgepodge of traditions and beliefs that suits him best. “Take what you like and leave the rest” tends to be his philosophy, and he sees all paths as being one anyway, so he has no issues in placing a statue of the Buddha next to a Catholic saint or Pagan goddess image.
These Neptune-ruled visionaries love to dive deep and are never content to stay in shallow water – emotionally, spiritually, or intellectually. Small talk doesn’t interest them at all, and you’ll find that even upon meeting them for the first time, a Pisces man will ask you penetrating questions about yourself and your life for hours. It may take awhile before you notice that, though they know everything about you, you still know almost nothing about them.
A Pisces man is drawn to a Capricorn woman’s subtle sex appeal. She’s nurturing, fun, lusty, passionate, and sensual. A Capricorn woman has no problem initiating sex, and a Pisces man joyfully plays along and adds imagination, passion, and romance to the mix. A Capricorn woman and Pisces man have great sexual chemistry and share an understanding which nourishes their lovemaking.
Pisces, however, will look at that same stretch of ocean and wonder what creatures live in the water and begin to fantasize about life as a dolphin. If you like boating, camping by water or canoing, you can count on Pisces men to be down with it.
Part of the attraction to the sea directly relates to this sign’s sense of imagination. For example, other signs, like Leo, may look upon the Pacific Ocean and see beautiful shades of blues and greens.
To attract a Pisces man you must be like-minded. If you have fundamental lifestyle differences, this is one zodiac sign that is also a “Stop” sign. If you share some of the same interests and frequent the same establishments as this man, you will already be on his radar. Keeping him engaged intellectually means that you must always have another idea to discuss. He only wants absolutes when it comes to the consistencies in his personal life.
We’ll start off with the positive and negative traits of male Pisces. Their characteristics in the chart listed below also include intensity. Having this knowledge will provide a foundation for all that follows.
Based on personal observation, it is my belief that some of this is due to the Piscean ability to empathically communicate with nature. I don’t understand it and am not even sure Pisces men or women do either.
A Scorpio woman and a Pisces man are equally fascinated by the emotional dimension of sex. Their shared sexuality is all about feelings and emotional experience. Whatever a Scorpio woman desires from a Pisces man, he’ll gladly give. She wants to control, and he’s all about surrender. There’s little doubt that this can lead to some exciting, risque, and very satisfying sex for both.
Website visitors to Guy Counseling know that on occasion, I will pen articles about topics that touch upon psycho-spirituality; a term used to describe the blending of psychology and various spiritual teachings.
“You know what I think?” we asked his distraught girlfriend, while Pisces pretended he was only half-listening. “He feels like you’re trying to take away his freedom. Pisces needs space before he’ll commit. He’s afraid you’re going to try to control him. So he’s holding back until you chill out.”
A Pisces man wants to connect with his lover in a deeply meaningful way. He’s romantic, passionate, emotional, and sensitive, and he excels at giving and receiving both pleasure and love. Far from feeling guilt, fear, or pain, he considers sex a beautiful gift from “above” that connects him to the divine.
A Leo woman has a big and lustful sexual appetite and wants to be praised and lauded for her sexual performance. Lovemaking means it’s show time for her. A Pisces man enjoys the costuming and theatrics and is more than willing to play second fiddle, and let her be the star of the show. These two are both incredible lovers, but their roles and characters are perhaps a little too different for them to have a long-term satisfying sexual relationship.
It’s important to note that a Pisces man is not only his Sun sign. The Sun is of utmost importance because it shines its light on every aspect of an individual’s personality, but when trying to define a Pisces man’s sexuality, it’s essential to also look at the signs of his Venus and Mars. Venus and Mars are the planets most associated with love (Venus) and sex (Mars), and their signs will add depth, breath, and nuance to a Pisces man’s sexuality.
If you are connected to a Pisces male, you may need to talk with him if he puts up resistance to your pleasing him. In many ways, the idea of receiving pleasure from others is an anathema to Piscean way of life.
Negotiating the push-pull dynamic of his dual natures can be a lifelong quest for Pisces. A relationship with him can take a lot of patience and understanding. This is the guy who stays with the same woman for twenty years but never marries her. Or, during a lonely spell, he calls the escort service then becomes infatuated with his call girl. Her sheer unavailability gives him so much freedom, he freaks out and tries to hold tight. What a mess.
Dates with a Pisces man are romantic, unplanned and magical. He will treat his partner with tenderness and respect, ready to jump into any new adventure, for as long as he is allowed to be what he is. If he starts feeling pressured and forced into anything at all, he will feel the need to run off and create incredible dates for someone else. Experiences shared with him should be treasured, for nobody knows when the time will come when he won’t feel like being a part of them anymore.
A Taurus woman needs a strong physical connection from sex; a Pisces man needs an emotional and spiritual connection. A Taurus woman may want dinner, music, and romance every time before she’s in the mood for sex, and a Pisces man has all that covered. Both are very sensual, passionate, romantic, and caring. Each takes sex seriously and is looking for a meaningful connection. The sexuality these two share can make their time together in bed like a visit to the Garden of Eden.
We have no idea if they worked things out, but we hope so. If you’re dating a Pisces man, know that if he’s playing the “cold fish,” you’ve probably turned up the heat a little too high. Back away a step or two, and he may just swim right back to you—as long as you don’t back off too far. We realize this could sound dangerously like The Rules, and unfortunately, he does respond to being tortured and teased with mind games. Still, who needs that crap?
There is a unique relationship that Pisces men have with animals of all types. For reasons that seem almost supernatural, this sign forms bonds with dogs, cats and even wild creatures of nature in an uncanny way.
To get a fix on a Pisces man’s sexuality, you have to understand a bit about Pisces. Pisces is a mutable water sign and the most spiritual sign of the Zodiac. A Pisces man has oceanic emotions that are vast, deep, ethereal, and constantly in flux. He’s sensitive and receptive, and he soaks up the emotions and feelings that surround him and echoes them back.
A Sagittarius woman can be as elusive as a Pisces man. However, she’s sexually more primal. A Sagittarian woman and Pisces man can both quickly replace reality with fantasy, so sex between them can be adventurous and exciting. But a Pisces man experiences their lovemaking on an emotional level and wants to take his time and bask in the afterglow, while she’s quickly bored with his slower pace and is ready to move on.
There’s an air of mysticism surrounding a Pisces man. He’s a quiet man with a rich inner world that he doesn’t share lightly. But once trust and an intimate sexual bond are created, he’ll fascinate his lover with talk about his dreams, schemes, and mystical things. He’s a quintessential romantic idealist who believes all things are possible.
Water has no boundaries. It can seep into even the tiniest crack and wreak havoc, melting barriers and dissolving that which was formerly solid. The power of Neptune, god of the sea, is of dissolution – that which seeks oneness. Water is our natural state, from the primordial ooze where we began to the amniotic fluid we swam in while within the womb. This is what Pisces energy is all about: fluidity, unity, and returning to our original source.
Sexuality is all about emotions for all three water signs. A Pisces man wants to become one with his lover. When he makes love with a Water sign woman, they flow into each other, and such a complete merging occurs that it’s difficult for each to know where one ends and the other begins.
Love for a Pisces man is about mind, body, and soul: the whole person. He’s a skilled lover who possesses empathic abilities that allow him to sense a woman’s every need, both in and out of the bedroom. His is the type of love that allows him to experience a spiritual oneness with his lover.
To an Aquarius woman, sex is about experimentation and research into what makes two people tick. A Pisces man’s merging of romance, love, and sex is a riddle for her to solve. Together they are sexually experimental lovers. Their sex life is not just about experiencing love; it’s also about experimenting with each other to reach greater mental and spiritual heights. Their time together in bed will be exciting and colorful, because of their ability to experience something universal and wonderful in the other.
A Pisces man will have little regard for “rules for the sake of rules,” and will defy everything from dress code to issues on tardiness or taking breaks. Rather than marching to the beat of their own drummer, they tend to undulate vaguely to their own internal clarinet. This may infuriate managers, but if the people in charge of a Pisces can recognize the strange genius of the man they’ve employed and just let him do his thing (rules and regulations be damned), they’ll often be amazed by the results he produces and the inventiveness of his work.
You might think a match between a Pisces man and a Pisces woman would be heaven together and their lovemaking would be a delicate moving experience, followed by a sweet kind of intoxication, and it can be. The sad truth is that while each is sensitive to the other’s needs and wants more than anything to make the other happy, neither is a person who likes to take the initiative. However, if the Pisces man is willing to take the lead, their time in bed will be magical.
This is what they most desire: for you to forget that the world outside exists, and to give yourself over to love and the vision of indivisibility. When they lose themselves in love or dissolve into a puddle of tears after a major heartbreak, Pisces men may turn to drugs or alcohol to escape from their intense emotions or to numb their pain. Casual drinking or drug use may seem fun or innocent enough at first, but be on the lookout for the psychedelic daydreamer who can’t seem to handle being sober for any aspect of day-to-day life. Often the idyllic otherworlds of their substance-stimulated imaginations are much more attractive to them than the humdrum doldrums of boring old reality.
Although he looked as serene as Ghandi, we were onto him. He was waging Ghandi’s own favorite tactic: passive resistance. In other words, while smiling like a smug, serene Buddha, he was quietly digging in his heels and refusing to budge. It’s the Pisces man’s ultimate “f**k you.”
Working in tandem, the two planets create a kind of quantum field that transcends space and time. Translation: men born under this sign ride a “Piscean Wave” that causes them to surf between reality and fantasy.
Several years ago, a major aviation incident happened that killed many people. Minutes before the news became public, a friend of mine, who happens to be Pisces (and psychologist), called me on the phone.
He’s eager to please and open to all forms of sexual expression. Slow and easy or raunchy and wild, he’s a chameleon by nature and can synchronize with his lover’s movements and emotions. Plus, he’s blessed with a vivid imagination and can easily blur the lines between fantasy and reality, then wrap both himself and his lover in a blissful romantic haze.
A Pisces man can add an emotional nuance to a fire sign woman’s sexuality, and her vitality and enthusiasm can add spice to their lovemaking. A Pisces man and a Fire sign woman can be one steamy combination for a while and under the right circumstances.
TAURUS: Taurus is an earth sign that is focused and balanced. The sign is also great with money, which is a good thing for Piscean people. Because Taurus can be somewhat dull in the bedroom, Pisces can liven things up and create magic.
This is a man that can easily get lost in opinions of other men around him, and pretend to be what he is not in order to fit in. The society has certain expectations of men, and a Pisces man will use his flexibility and adaptive nature to blend in, acting in a way he is supposed to. Unfortunately, this could make him feel lost as he plays a role until he doesn’t know what the truth is anymore. A true Pisces man will have an objective to show love through sex, and he will sometimes choose to do so without a realistic image of his partner’s desires. He is in a chase for satisfaction, but it rarely has any value if there is no emotion to follow. Still, as a man, he might find emotion in each one of his sexual relationships, identifying romantic love with the love for women in general. This confusion can lead to infidelity, dishonesty, and the constant search for his identity.
The Pisces man and Pisces woman together could really drink the town dry or save more souls than a town full of churches. Finding the balance between excess and avoiding reality will be a great dilemma between you two. But for a temporary partnership, there are few men who will ever intuitively know what you want and how to give it to you.
I’m mentioning this because I want you to know there is no hidden agenda here. Instead, my goal is to simply share insights about Pisces men using tenants of Jungian psychology, coupled with wisdom from the ancients.
In my work as a counselor, I’ve worked with many Piscean men and am here to tell you they are very unique. Gifted with near psychic abilities and a powerful empathy chip, they have the ability to “see” much.
There might be a slight envy of the Piscean personality when a Sagittarius woman starts dating a Pisces man. A Sagittarian girl wants to be wanted. Yet his charm will be in the way he worships you by doing the complete opposite of what you tell him you need.
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