A Pisces man in love will give his entire self to his partner, swooning in the dance of two souls merging as one. That’s his aim, to achieve complete harmony and unity as one being with no firm distinctions as to where his identity ends and his partner’s begins. This can be intoxicating to a fellow romantic spirit, but completely overwhelming for those who are looking to date more casually.
Many Pisces men are extremely sensitive to noise and light pollution, and will often soundproof their homes or block out natural light from the windows, lending further to the sense of being in an insular womb-like cavern, a fairyland away from the normal world. You may lose track of time and forget that there’s even a world outside the beautiful one that he has created.
When you think of Pisces, think of creative types. Here, I’m talking about musicians, artists, writers and story tellers. Much of their creative skill sets come from their ability to feel different emotions, such as sadness and joy.
A Pisces man intuitively knows he needs direction, consistency, and security in a relationship and is attracted to successful women, who are strong and decisive. He’s sensitive to rejection, so he’s also captivated by a woman who’s not timid about making the first move yet also feminine enough to surrender to his charms and shower him with attention and gentle affection.
We once counseled a very driven, ambitious Capricorn woman and her Pisces boyfriend of thirteen years. Like many Capricorns, she had mapped out a plan for the rest of her life, and was meeting her goals with the precision of a military general. Except…one. She wanted to be married by 32, and her 34th birthday was approaching. The Pisces still wasn’t “ready.” Her biological clock was ticking so loudly, we thought a bomb had been planted.
Pisces is also a feminine sign, which means Pisces’ soft-spoken, soft-hearted, and emotional nature is easier for a woman to express than for a man. As a result, some Pisces men will try to prove themselves as men by placing a lot of emphasis on their manliness and strength (particularly earlier in life), and most will act macho at times. Even then, you can see the tenderness and empathy in their eyes.
Several years ago, a major aviation incident happened that killed many people. Minutes before the news became public, a friend of mine, who happens to be Pisces (and psychologist), called me on the phone.
Dates with a Pisces man are romantic, unplanned and magical. He will treat his partner with tenderness and respect, ready to jump into any new adventure, for as long as he is allowed to be what he is. If he starts feeling pressured and forced into anything at all, he will feel the need to run off and create incredible dates for someone else. Experiences shared with him should be treasured, for nobody knows when the time will come when he won’t feel like being a part of them anymore.
Some Pisces folks take their protection from polluting forces even further, installing water filters to get rid of contaminants and fluoride, or blocking wi-fi transmissions. Before you accuse him of wearing a tinfoil hat, remember that a Pisces man will pick up on things that other people aren’t aware of, so if it works for him, don’t knock it.
A Pisces man wants to connect with his lover in a deeply meaningful way. He’s romantic, passionate, emotional, and sensitive, and he excels at giving and receiving both pleasure and love. Far from feeling guilt, fear, or pain, he considers sex a beautiful gift from “above” that connects him to the divine.
In a relationship, Pisces man will be devoted for as long as there is strong excitement over emotions he feels. His relationships don’t last very long unless his partner accepts his romantic impulse and finds a way to create a stable foundation for their relationship to last. He will not be very reliable and agreements with him could change on an hourly basis. This can be annoying or exciting, but the only possible way to deal with it is to be spontaneous and let him choose the direction, however chaotic it might seem.
A Pisces man is drawn to a Capricorn woman’s subtle sex appeal. She’s nurturing, fun, lusty, passionate, and sensual. A Capricorn woman has no problem initiating sex, and a Pisces man joyfully plays along and adds imagination, passion, and romance to the mix. A Capricorn woman and Pisces man have great sexual chemistry and share an understanding which nourishes their lovemaking.
These men are rarely happy or successful trying to adhere to a 9-to-5 schedule. More often than not, they prefer to keep odd hours, maybe as serious night owls who would always rather work the graveyard shift. The freedom of being able to create their own way of doing things is essential – because they’re just going to do it anyway.
Although he looked as serene as Ghandi, we were onto him. He was waging Ghandi’s own favorite tactic: passive resistance. In other words, while smiling like a smug, serene Buddha, he was quietly digging in his heels and refusing to budge. It’s the Pisces man’s ultimate “f**k you.”
A Leo woman has a big and lustful sexual appetite and wants to be praised and lauded for her sexual performance. Lovemaking means it’s show time for her. A Pisces man enjoys the costuming and theatrics and is more than willing to play second fiddle, and let her be the star of the show. These two are both incredible lovers, but their roles and characters are perhaps a little too different for them to have a long-term satisfying sexual relationship.
An Aries woman is attracted to the physical act of sex itself, not feelings of intimacy. She can get impatient with courting and cuddling and push for the main event. A Pisces man might find it a formidable challenge to take their sex life beyond a quickie, but on the other hand, if he tells her what he wants and challenges her, he just might find her delightfully willing. If there’s anything that turns an Aries woman on sexually, it’s the challenge of being the best lover a man has ever had. When an Aries woman and a Pisces man hook up, the sex can be hot and steamy.
Money can be an area of difficulty and strife for your Pisces man, who loves to spend profligately and may find that coins spill out of his hands like water. This Fish needs to learn about saving his dollars away for a rainy day.
PISCES (Wildcard): To be blunt, Pisces can be a great match with another Pisces or it can be hell on earth. It depends upon the couples ability to negotiate their people pleasing tendencies. Most longer-term Piscean couples tend to have a high degree of codependency, which isn’t always a bad thing.
Based on personal observation, it is my belief that some of this is due to the Piscean ability to empathically communicate with nature. I don’t understand it and am not even sure Pisces men or women do either.
Sexuality is all about emotions for all three water signs. A Pisces man wants to become one with his lover. When he makes love with a Water sign woman, they flow into each other, and such a complete merging occurs that it’s difficult for each to know where one ends and the other begins.
Not just any everyday object will do – it needs to be something that he will feel is imbued with meaning. Usually, a Pisces will not adhere to one mystical path or religion – choosing instead to mix bits of this and that into a hodgepodge of traditions and beliefs that suits him best. “Take what you like and leave the rest” tends to be his philosophy, and he sees all paths as being one anyway, so he has no issues in placing a statue of the Buddha next to a Catholic saint or Pagan goddess image.
To attract a Pisces man you must be like-minded. If you have fundamental lifestyle differences, this is one zodiac sign that is also a “Stop” sign. If you share some of the same interests and frequent the same establishments as this man, you will already be on his radar. Keeping him engaged intellectually means that you must always have another idea to discuss. He only wants absolutes when it comes to the consistencies in his personal life.
The Pisces man who is conscious of the day-to-day reality around him understands an obligation that he has, and sets out to fulfill it. He is at his finest when he is performing a service. This may manifest as a grand vision in which he sees himself playing a part, or it might be his response to history. How he interacts with others is based on his comprehension of how we as a society functions. If your experiences or opinions about the current state of affairs differs greatly from his, expect a wild give and take. He might seem a bit ordinary when you first meet. But when given a forum to express his ideas, watch out. His charismatic intellectual analysis will burst forth.
A Pisces man does not just have sex; he makes love. He’s flirtatious, romantic, emotionally open, gentle, and passionate. He has no boundaries and is open to experimentation. For him, merging with his lover is heavenly bliss.
Here’s a better idea: get a life, or keep living the one you’ve got. If you bait your hook with some juicy tackle—in other words, a full, exciting life—he’ll nibble and latch right on. The Pisces man is a follower, and he needs a strong leader. Once he’s sure you’re a queen, he’ll court you like a tenderhearted prince.
There might be a slight envy of the Piscean personality when a Sagittarius woman starts dating a Pisces man. A Sagittarian girl wants to be wanted. Yet his charm will be in the way he worships you by doing the complete opposite of what you tell him you need.
Cancer, the cardinal water sign, represents active emotions. A Cancer woman wants to direct the flow of emotions, and a Pisces man is more than happy to take directions. Her sexuality is sensual and fervent, and, just like her Pisces man, she considers lovemaking to be a sacred thing. She believes that it heals all wounds and affirms the blessing of being alive. A Cancer woman and a Pisces Man are sexually in sync. Everything about a Cancer woman’s sexuality is to a Pisces man’s liking.
Website visitors to Guy Counseling know that on occasion, I will pen articles about topics that touch upon psycho-spirituality; a term used to describe the blending of psychology and various spiritual teachings.
From there it’s all about lavish gifts, flowers delivered to your job, opera tickets and romantic picnics. Pisces is like a time-release romantic. He becomes more sentimental and tender the longer you’re together. It’s a trust thing. Make it safer and safer for him to be himself around you—he fears your judgment and craves your admiration more than anyone else’s. The phase of “mature love” is so much more romantic and rich with Pisces than infatuation. He does everything backwards, but that’s precisely what’s so wonderful about him. If divine timing is on your side, you could be lucky enough to experience it.
The home of a Pisces man often feels like a magical realm, a hermit’s cave filled with wonders, far removed from the bland settings of the other homes around it. It may look unassuming from the outside, but once within his domain, prepare to be dazzled.
The Pisces man and Pisces woman together could really drink the town dry or save more souls than a town full of churches. Finding the balance between excess and avoiding reality will be a great dilemma between you two. But for a temporary partnership, there are few men who will ever intuitively know what you want and how to give it to you.
I’m mentioning this because I want you to know there is no hidden agenda here. Instead, my goal is to simply share insights about Pisces men using tenants of Jungian psychology, coupled with wisdom from the ancients.
Tension between Pisces and the Gemini woman arises from the verbal and literate Gemini impatiently waiting for the gestural and non-verbal Pisces to respond. Neither of you will willingly adapt to the other’s communication style unless there is something irresistible about the other.
Sexuality is all in the heads of the three air signs. At their best, a Pisces man can inspire an Air sign woman’s desire to make a deeper emotional connection, and she can help him put his feelings into words.
Negotiating the push-pull dynamic of his dual natures can be a lifelong quest for Pisces. A relationship with him can take a lot of patience and understanding. This is the guy who stays with the same woman for twenty years but never marries her. Or, during a lonely spell, he calls the escort service then becomes infatuated with his call girl. Her sheer unavailability gives him so much freedom, he freaks out and tries to hold tight. What a mess.
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