The man who is ruled by the sign of the Fish is an inspiring and charismatic individual. His passion for conversation and the exchange of ideas is only surpassed by his vision of future conversations. In fact, that vision thing of his, that crystal ball into what will be, is simultaneously the most enchanting and the most frustrating thing about him. He might be able to describe what future generations will think about the world we live in now, but he will not be able or willing to function in that same world today. You might think that he is out of touch with reality, but the Pisces man is simply feeling removed from our day-to-day reality.
Work and career are generally aspects of a Pisces man’s life that (like the rest of him) never conform to typical ideas of what a regular job should be. Often, he will invent a career for himself that you didn’t even know could exist, doing something so intriguing and bizarre that you just want to ask him a million questions about what it’s like to be a poisonous dart frog breeder or private investigator.
PISCES (Wildcard): To be blunt, Pisces can be a great match with another Pisces or it can be hell on earth. It depends upon the couples ability to negotiate their people pleasing tendencies. Most longer-term Piscean couples tend to have a high degree of codependency, which isn’t always a bad thing.
A male Pisces holds his cards very close to his heart – only revealing his true personality to those he feels that he’ll be safe with. It often takes many years to really get to know this guy. He tends to keep his inner circle tight, and though he is friendly and social, only the chosen few will ever get past his internal gauntlet. This is because a Pisces possesses an extreme sensitivity, and everything affects him ten times more intensely than it might with any of the other signs.
We’ll start off with the positive and negative traits of male Pisces. Their characteristics in the chart listed below also include intensity. Having this knowledge will provide a foundation for all that follows.
Here’s a better idea: get a life, or keep living the one you’ve got. If you bait your hook with some juicy tackle—in other words, a full, exciting life—he’ll nibble and latch right on. The Pisces man is a follower, and he needs a strong leader. Once he’s sure you’re a queen, he’ll court you like a tenderhearted prince.
We have no idea if they worked things out, but we hope so. If you’re dating a Pisces man, know that if he’s playing the “cold fish,” you’ve probably turned up the heat a little too high. Back away a step or two, and he may just swim right back to you—as long as you don’t back off too far. We realize this could sound dangerously like The Rules, and unfortunately, he does respond to being tortured and teased with mind games. Still, who needs that crap?
A Pisces man is charming and romantic, and seduction comes naturally to him. He’s a master of all things sensual. He’ll plan romantic dinners and getaways, send his lover flowers and love notes, and use his intuition to discover what tantalizes and pleases her. To a Pisces man, creating love is an art, and he is the artist.
I’m mentioning this because I want you to know there is no hidden agenda here. Instead, my goal is to simply share insights about Pisces men using tenants of Jungian psychology, coupled with wisdom from the ancients.
Sexuality is all in the heads of the three air signs. At their best, a Pisces man can inspire an Air sign woman’s desire to make a deeper emotional connection, and she can help him put his feelings into words.
A Pisces man doesn’t recognize any distinction between romance, love, and sex; they’re all rolled up into one and can’t be separated, as far as he’s concerned. He’s a man who opens his heart and soul to his lover. He idealizes love, and to him, sex is the ultimate expression of love. He yearns for the euphoric feeling of closeness, fulfillment, ecstasy, and losing himself in another that he experiences when making love with his beloved.
We once counseled a very driven, ambitious Capricorn woman and her Pisces boyfriend of thirteen years. Like many Capricorns, she had mapped out a plan for the rest of her life, and was meeting her goals with the precision of a military general. Except…one. She wanted to be married by 32, and her 34th birthday was approaching. The Pisces still wasn’t “ready.” Her biological clock was ticking so loudly, we thought a bomb had been planted.
A Taurus woman needs a strong physical connection from sex; a Pisces man needs an emotional and spiritual connection. A Taurus woman may want dinner, music, and romance every time before she’s in the mood for sex, and a Pisces man has all that covered. Both are very sensual, passionate, romantic, and caring. Each takes sex seriously and is looking for a meaningful connection. The sexuality these two share can make their time together in bed like a visit to the Garden of Eden.
Because of this disparity, Pisces men often end up getting hurt and may wear their wounded hearts on their sleeves. It’s easy for them to end up feeling like the victim when their deep feelings aren’t matched, or when their partner suddenly wakes from the consuming spell of singularity to realize they haven’t been home in a week and all their houseplants are dead. It’s tempting to spend all night and day in bed with your Pisces – swimming within their embrace and getting lost in their kisses.
A Pisces man is drawn to a Capricorn woman’s subtle sex appeal. She’s nurturing, fun, lusty, passionate, and sensual. A Capricorn woman has no problem initiating sex, and a Pisces man joyfully plays along and adds imagination, passion, and romance to the mix. A Capricorn woman and Pisces man have great sexual chemistry and share an understanding which nourishes their lovemaking.
Many Pisces men are extremely sensitive to noise and light pollution, and will often soundproof their homes or block out natural light from the windows, lending further to the sense of being in an insular womb-like cavern, a fairyland away from the normal world. You may lose track of time and forget that there’s even a world outside the beautiful one that he has created.
His visions might finance the dreams of the Aquarius woman, so she should not dismiss the Pisces man’s lack of connection with a structure she understands. It is precisely his fearlessness when venturing into new territory that makes him worth your attention.
A Pisces man does not just have sex; he makes love. He’s flirtatious, romantic, emotionally open, gentle, and passionate. He has no boundaries and is open to experimentation. For him, merging with his lover is heavenly bliss.
AQUARIUS: Pisces is a gentle, loving and caretaking sign. Aquarius is an independent, free thinking sign that marches to its own drummer. As a pair, both can be socially incompatible because Aquarians often speak what they are feeling without a filter. Learn more about Aquarius male personality traits
TAURUS: Taurus is an earth sign that is focused and balanced. The sign is also great with money, which is a good thing for Piscean people. Because Taurus can be somewhat dull in the bedroom, Pisces can liven things up and create magic.
An Aries woman is attracted to the physical act of sex itself, not feelings of intimacy. She can get impatient with courting and cuddling and push for the main event. A Pisces man might find it a formidable challenge to take their sex life beyond a quickie, but on the other hand, if he tells her what he wants and challenges her, he just might find her delightfully willing. If there’s anything that turns an Aries woman on sexually, it’s the challenge of being the best lover a man has ever had. When an Aries woman and a Pisces man hook up, the sex can be hot and steamy.
That’s because in their quest to help others deal with emotional trauma and pain, Pisces men often attract drama. Moreover, there is a tendency to care too much, which in turn leads to an unattractive, clingy codependency.
A Scorpio woman and a Pisces man are equally fascinated by the emotional dimension of sex. Their shared sexuality is all about feelings and emotional experience. Whatever a Scorpio woman desires from a Pisces man, he’ll gladly give. She wants to control, and he’s all about surrender. There’s little doubt that this can lead to some exciting, risque, and very satisfying sex for both.
Website visitors to Guy Counseling know that on occasion, I will pen articles about topics that touch upon psycho-spirituality; a term used to describe the blending of psychology and various spiritual teachings.
Cancer, the cardinal water sign, represents active emotions. A Cancer woman wants to direct the flow of emotions, and a Pisces man is more than happy to take directions. Her sexuality is sensual and fervent, and, just like her Pisces man, she considers lovemaking to be a sacred thing. She believes that it heals all wounds and affirms the blessing of being alive. A Cancer woman and a Pisces Man are sexually in sync. Everything about a Cancer woman’s sexuality is to a Pisces man’s liking.
This is a man that can easily get lost in opinions of other men around him, and pretend to be what he is not in order to fit in. The society has certain expectations of men, and a Pisces man will use his flexibility and adaptive nature to blend in, acting in a way he is supposed to. Unfortunately, this could make him feel lost as he plays a role until he doesn’t know what the truth is anymore. A true Pisces man will have an objective to show love through sex, and he will sometimes choose to do so without a realistic image of his partner’s desires. He is in a chase for satisfaction, but it rarely has any value if there is no emotion to follow. Still, as a man, he might find emotion in each one of his sexual relationships, identifying romantic love with the love for women in general. This confusion can lead to infidelity, dishonesty, and the constant search for his identity.
Like a slippery fish, the Pisces man is hard to pin down. He needs to protect his freedom before he’ll commit to anything. No Fish ever wants to be trapped on the hook, after all! At the same time, when the Pisces man has no structure or boundaries, he flails around like a salmon on the dock, gasping for air. “The more you know me, the less I disclose,” says Chris, a Pisces writer.
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