You might think a match between a Pisces man and a Pisces woman would be heaven together and their lovemaking would be a delicate moving experience, followed by a sweet kind of intoxication, and it can be. The sad truth is that while each is sensitive to the other’s needs and wants more than anything to make the other happy, neither is a person who likes to take the initiative. However, if the Pisces man is willing to take the lead, their time in bed will be magical.
PISCES (Wildcard): To be blunt, Pisces can be a great match with another Pisces or it can be hell on earth. It depends upon the couples ability to negotiate their people pleasing tendencies. Most longer-term Piscean couples tend to have a high degree of codependency, which isn’t always a bad thing.
As mentioned earlier, Pisces is a water sign. In simple speak, this means people who are of this horoscopic background dive deep. Of the three water signs [Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces] the “fish” sign can dive the deepest; emotionally and spiritually.
A Tibetan relic or a huge chunk of a crystal will probably please him to no end, earning in a place of honor on one of his altars. You might gift him a piece of black tourmaline, obsidian, or shungite, which will protect against negative energy (which he has a tendency toward being open to absorbing).
Working in tandem, the two planets create a kind of quantum field that transcends space and time. Translation: men born under this sign ride a “Piscean Wave” that causes them to surf between reality and fantasy.
There’s an air of mysticism surrounding a Pisces man. He’s a quiet man with a rich inner world that he doesn’t share lightly. But once trust and an intimate sexual bond are created, he’ll fascinate his lover with talk about his dreams, schemes, and mystical things. He’s a quintessential romantic idealist who believes all things are possible.
To attract a Pisces man you must be like-minded. If you have fundamental lifestyle differences, this is one zodiac sign that is also a “Stop” sign. If you share some of the same interests and frequent the same establishments as this man, you will already be on his radar. Keeping him engaged intellectually means that you must always have another idea to discuss. He only wants absolutes when it comes to the consistencies in his personal life.
We once counseled a very driven, ambitious Capricorn woman and her Pisces boyfriend of thirteen years. Like many Capricorns, she had mapped out a plan for the rest of her life, and was meeting her goals with the precision of a military general. Except…one. She wanted to be married by 32, and her 34th birthday was approaching. The Pisces still wasn’t “ready.” Her biological clock was ticking so loudly, we thought a bomb had been planted.
AQUARIUS: Pisces is a gentle, loving and caretaking sign. Aquarius is an independent, free thinking sign that marches to its own drummer. As a pair, both can be socially incompatible because Aquarians often speak what they are feeling without a filter. Learn more about Aquarius male personality traits
“You know what I think?” we asked his distraught girlfriend, while Pisces pretended he was only half-listening. “He feels like you’re trying to take away his freedom. Pisces needs space before he’ll commit. He’s afraid you’re going to try to control him. So he’s holding back until you chill out.”
Electric passion can be just the beginning between a Pisces man and the Libra woman. If things evolve into a serious relationship, beware of codependency potholes on the road to happiness. Laying a solid foundation early in the relationship makes for wonderful passion later.
That’s because in their quest to help others deal with emotional trauma and pain, Pisces men often attract drama. Moreover, there is a tendency to care too much, which in turn leads to an unattractive, clingy codependency.
This is what they most desire: for you to forget that the world outside exists, and to give yourself over to love and the vision of indivisibility. When they lose themselves in love or dissolve into a puddle of tears after a major heartbreak, Pisces men may turn to drugs or alcohol to escape from their intense emotions or to numb their pain. Casual drinking or drug use may seem fun or innocent enough at first, but be on the lookout for the psychedelic daydreamer who can’t seem to handle being sober for any aspect of day-to-day life. Often the idyllic otherworlds of their substance-stimulated imaginations are much more attractive to them than the humdrum doldrums of boring old reality.
The Pisces man who is conscious of the day-to-day reality around him understands an obligation that he has, and sets out to fulfill it. He is at his finest when he is performing a service. This may manifest as a grand vision in which he sees himself playing a part, or it might be his response to history. How he interacts with others is based on his comprehension of how we as a society functions. If your experiences or opinions about the current state of affairs differs greatly from his, expect a wild give and take. He might seem a bit ordinary when you first meet. But when given a forum to express his ideas, watch out. His charismatic intellectual analysis will burst forth.
Jewelry made of these or other semi-precious stones will often appeal, as romantic, emotional Pisces men usually are not uncomfortable exploring their feminine side. They may enjoy wearing perfume or oils and like to always smell delicious. Based on their innate traits. many Pisces men can be fastidious about their personal cleanliness habits and appearance, so scented bath and body products will be appreciated by this water-loving sign.
Because of this disparity, Pisces men often end up getting hurt and may wear their wounded hearts on their sleeves. It’s easy for them to end up feeling like the victim when their deep feelings aren’t matched, or when their partner suddenly wakes from the consuming spell of singularity to realize they haven’t been home in a week and all their houseplants are dead. It’s tempting to spend all night and day in bed with your Pisces – swimming within their embrace and getting lost in their kisses.
The home of a Pisces man often feels like a magical realm, a hermit’s cave filled with wonders, far removed from the bland settings of the other homes around it. It may look unassuming from the outside, but once within his domain, prepare to be dazzled.
No matter the commitment asked of the Leo woman by the Piscean man, she will do it to remain in his good graces. He has the ability to connect with you beyond language and with genuine emotion instead.
A Pisces man is charming and romantic, and seduction comes naturally to him. He’s a master of all things sensual. He’ll plan romantic dinners and getaways, send his lover flowers and love notes, and use his intuition to discover what tantalizes and pleases her. To a Pisces man, creating love is an art, and he is the artist.
Cancer, the cardinal water sign, represents active emotions. A Cancer woman wants to direct the flow of emotions, and a Pisces man is more than happy to take directions. Her sexuality is sensual and fervent, and, just like her Pisces man, she considers lovemaking to be a sacred thing. She believes that it heals all wounds and affirms the blessing of being alive. A Cancer woman and a Pisces Man are sexually in sync. Everything about a Cancer woman’s sexuality is to a Pisces man’s liking.
A Pisces man wants to connect with his lover in a deeply meaningful way. He’s romantic, passionate, emotional, and sensitive, and he excels at giving and receiving both pleasure and love. Far from feeling guilt, fear, or pain, he considers sex a beautiful gift from “above” that connects him to the divine.
The Pisces man and Pisces woman together could really drink the town dry or save more souls than a town full of churches. Finding the balance between excess and avoiding reality will be a great dilemma between you two. But for a temporary partnership, there are few men who will ever intuitively know what you want and how to give it to you.
The Aries woman is the one sign that will turn him on by knowing more about his favorite subjects than he does. Meanwhile, he taps deep into your unconscious and the non-verbal communication is well understood between you two.
Love for a Pisces man is about mind, body, and soul: the whole person. He’s a skilled lover who possesses empathic abilities that allow him to sense a woman’s every need, both in and out of the bedroom. His is the type of love that allows him to experience a spiritual oneness with his lover.
Several years ago, a major aviation incident happened that killed many people. Minutes before the news became public, a friend of mine, who happens to be Pisces (and psychologist), called me on the phone.
I’m mentioning this because I want you to know there is no hidden agenda here. Instead, my goal is to simply share insights about Pisces men using tenants of Jungian psychology, coupled with wisdom from the ancients.
His visions might finance the dreams of the Aquarius woman, so she should not dismiss the Pisces man’s lack of connection with a structure she understands. It is precisely his fearlessness when venturing into new territory that makes him worth your attention.
A Pisces man is unique. He’s charming, romantic, and one of the most sexually creative men you’ll ever meet. He’ll do anything and everything his lover desires, as long as he knows his heart is safe. The fact is, a Pisces man understands a woman’s sexual needs in a way that most men can’t. He wants a woman who can be his lover, friend, and lifetime companion, and that’s a tall order to fill. Ask yourself if you can give this man all that he desires. If you can, you’ll be rewarded with a sensually fulfilling relationship in every sense of the word.
Not just any everyday object will do – it needs to be something that he will feel is imbued with meaning. Usually, a Pisces will not adhere to one mystical path or religion – choosing instead to mix bits of this and that into a hodgepodge of traditions and beliefs that suits him best. “Take what you like and leave the rest” tends to be his philosophy, and he sees all paths as being one anyway, so he has no issues in placing a statue of the Buddha next to a Catholic saint or Pagan goddess image.
These men are rarely happy or successful trying to adhere to a 9-to-5 schedule. More often than not, they prefer to keep odd hours, maybe as serious night owls who would always rather work the graveyard shift. The freedom of being able to create their own way of doing things is essential – because they’re just going to do it anyway.
Pisces guys often like to have aquariums or terrariums full of rare fish, frogs, or unusual plant life. They may raise orchids or just enjoy having plants and animals around them. There is artwork everywhere, usually created by him or by dear friends who he loves to support. There is a sacred atmosphere in his space, and a hush in the air that calls for a sense of reverence. You might instinctively bend to take off your shoes when you enter, regardless of whether or not he insists upon it – or feel awkward about using your cellphone inside.
The conversation between the Pisces man and Taurus woman is endless. When it does wind down, the physical connection can easily become an addiction. There is a glamorous side to his edgy existence that attracts the bull like a moth to a flame.
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Water has no boundaries. It can seep into even the tiniest crack and wreak havoc, melting barriers and dissolving that which was formerly solid. The power of Neptune, god of the sea, is of dissolution – that which seeks oneness. Water is our natural state, from the primordial ooze where we began to the amniotic fluid we swam in while within the womb. This is what Pisces energy is all about: fluidity, unity, and returning to our original source.
Fixing his problems and attending to his desires will make the Capricorn woman feel needed by a Pisces man, who seems to need nothing that her world has to offer. The day he says thank you is the day you feel you have him wrapped around your finger, but it may be the other way around.
The man who is ruled by the sign of the Fish is an inspiring and charismatic individual. His passion for conversation and the exchange of ideas is only surpassed by his vision of future conversations. In fact, that vision thing of his, that crystal ball into what will be, is simultaneously the most enchanting and the most frustrating thing about him. He might be able to describe what future generations will think about the world we live in now, but he will not be able or willing to function in that same world today. You might think that he is out of touch with reality, but the Pisces man is simply feeling removed from our day-to-day reality.
These Neptune-ruled visionaries love to dive deep and are never content to stay in shallow water – emotionally, spiritually, or intellectually. Small talk doesn’t interest them at all, and you’ll find that even upon meeting them for the first time, a Pisces man will ask you penetrating questions about yourself and your life for hours. It may take awhile before you notice that, though they know everything about you, you still know almost nothing about them.
In a relationship, Pisces man will be devoted for as long as there is strong excitement over emotions he feels. His relationships don’t last very long unless his partner accepts his romantic impulse and finds a way to create a stable foundation for their relationship to last. He will not be very reliable and agreements with him could change on an hourly basis. This can be annoying or exciting, but the only possible way to deal with it is to be spontaneous and let him choose the direction, however chaotic it might seem.
A Libra woman is romantic and wants to be wooed, wined and dined. Sex without romance does not appeal to her; it’s the whole aesthetic experience of lovemaking that turns her on. Eventually, a Pisces man might find that she’s too light-hearted sexually, and she might find he’s not fun or light-hearted enough, but a Libra woman and Pisces man have good sexual chemistry because both are so romantic.
While she talked and talked, her Pisces gazed at her with an amused half-smile—sort of a knowing smirk, though not a rude one. He’d heard this all before. He shrugged and said nothing, just letting her prattle on. He offered no reason for keeping the relationship on cruise control instead of accelerating. “I know he’s committed, and he loves me,” she sighed, exasperated. “So why don’t we just get married? What’s it gonna take?”
From there it’s all about lavish gifts, flowers delivered to your job, opera tickets and romantic picnics. Pisces is like a time-release romantic. He becomes more sentimental and tender the longer you’re together. It’s a trust thing. Make it safer and safer for him to be himself around you—he fears your judgment and craves your admiration more than anyone else’s. The phase of “mature love” is so much more romantic and rich with Pisces than infatuation. He does everything backwards, but that’s precisely what’s so wonderful about him. If divine timing is on your side, you could be lucky enough to experience it.
However social he might seem, a Pisces man is a loner. He needs to spend some time with his thoughts and experiences and if he doesn’t have a chance to do so, he will be driven crazy. Although he will be ready to take on any possible adventure, he will also like to spend some time at home, doing something creative that reminds him who he is. He has a great need to express his creativity. Every Pisces man is a man on a mission, and he has to know that when he is gone, he will leave something behind. There are often too many expectations he sets for himself and he can have trouble meeting any of them, getting lost in irrelevant things to avoid dealing with his own inner disappointment.
Once you and your Pisces man are an item, keeping him faithful will require that you patrol the borders. Incoming temptation must be stopped before it can inspire him. The ultimate goal for you should be to become part of his deeply held belief system. If being faithful to you is as important to him as his artistic and spiritual pursuits, you will have him for life.
To keep it simple, a House in horoscopic astrology, which some historians peg starting around the third millennium, is nothing more than a theoretical building that contains traits of a given zodiac sign.
There might be a slight envy of the Piscean personality when a Sagittarius woman starts dating a Pisces man. A Sagittarian girl wants to be wanted. Yet his charm will be in the way he worships you by doing the complete opposite of what you tell him you need.
He is caring, tender and sensitive, a kind of man who nurtures his feminine side and because of this he has the ability to listen, compassionately approach his partner and understand the feelings of everyone around him. His biggest minus is his inconsistency and his unpredictable character. No one knows what he will feel tomorrow, and his relationships could fall apart in a day, without any obvious reason.
SCORPIO: A natural match that is often marked by love at first sight. While Scorpio wants to act as the dominant leader in the relationship, Pisces wants to protect and offer care. More important, Pisces empathic abilities can see through Scorpion logic and get to the center of their feelings. In turn, this disarms Scorpio in an uncanny way.
Negotiating the push-pull dynamic of his dual natures can be a lifelong quest for Pisces. A relationship with him can take a lot of patience and understanding. This is the guy who stays with the same woman for twenty years but never marries her. Or, during a lonely spell, he calls the escort service then becomes infatuated with his call girl. Her sheer unavailability gives him so much freedom, he freaks out and tries to hold tight. What a mess.
Pisces, however, will look at that same stretch of ocean and wonder what creatures live in the water and begin to fantasize about life as a dolphin. If you like boating, camping by water or canoing, you can count on Pisces men to be down with it.
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