Vary your hobbies. Libra has a hard time focusing on one thing and may find you less attractive if he believes you to be fixated on only one aspect of life. If you want to look like someone who has a balanced, well-rounded personality, you should try having a few different hobbies to talk to him about.
The ultimate social butterfly, the Libra man may not spend enough time at home to really make it his own. But when you are invited into his living space, you will find it clean and tidy, with lots of clear surfaces and mood lighting. Even in a relatively simple space, this air sign will take pains to create a sense of ambiance that lends itself well to romance.
Give him space. As social creatures, Libra men love freedom and need to feel unconfined in order to be happy. You can dote on him as much as you want when the two of you are together, but avoid smothering him or forcing your way into areas of his life he hasn’t invited you to on his own.
For this reason, Libra men have a habit of stringing several (or more) people along at once – often without even realizing what they are doing. An artistic or mental connection can easily slide into flirtation or an emotional affair. Because many of these are conducted online or over text and are usually over long distances, most of his fleeting romances (often with several people at once) are never consummated or physically acted upon.
Libras naturally have somewhat of an airy personality, so they feel most inspired when they are allowed to move about from thing to thing. Fixating on any one topic can quickly make a Libra man feel bored.
An astrologer can help reveal more about what makes your Libra “tick”, and whether the two of you are meant for each other. Using custom astrological charts – specific to the dates, times and places of your births – as well as tools such as tarot cards, an astrologer can provide details about your compatibility. All it takes is a simple phone call to get your astrology reading to guide your path to love.
The combination of the Aquarius woman and Libra man has the making of a wonderful relationship. Both signs love people and intellectual stimulation, along with personal freedom. They’ll both allow the other space, while reveling in each other’s company.
Those born under the sign of Libra are not one dimensional. After all, it takes more than charm and physical attractiveness to rack up all those conquests! That’s where their intelligence and well-balanced temperaments come in handy.
A Libra man hates to be alone and fears actually having to deal with himself and his own deeper motivations and emotions; thus, he turns to distracting dalliances with multiple partners to keep his own demons at bay. When in a committed relationship, a Libra man can be a total dream: an attentive lover who will flatter you with compliments and gestures of his deep appreciation for all that you represent to him. As long as he can iron out his own internal conflict between a passionate desire for freedom and a natural longing for partnership, marriage can endure as a true lasting union. If he can be real with himself, and honest with who (and how) he loves, romance with this lovely air sign can be a fantasy come to life.
Libra men are a rare breed indeed. They somehow manage to be sensitive to their partners but are still seen as a “man’s man.” Their innate intelligence may have a lot to do with the ability to see both sides of an argument and really listen to opposing points of view.
Give him a little mystery. You need to be open and talkative with your Libra, but weaving in a carefully constructed thread of mystery can really catch this inquisitive sign’s curiosity and make him long to know more. If you can trigger this sense of longing, you can capture his attraction more readily.
Libra men love art and design, so beautiful, glossy coffee table books and trips to modern art museums or performance events will delight them. They always want to go see all the shows, films, and musicals that are being discussed in the news and on social media, so season passes or gift cards to their favorite movie theater are sure to please.
Anything too extreme throws Libra out of alignment, turning him into a grouchy ogre, even a tyrant. Our Libra grandfather had two favorite sayings: “Too much!” (when we served him an over-filled dinner plate) and “Q-U-I-E-T!” (he’d bellow out this warning out before taking his daily nap). He needs to retreat and refresh himself, and has a few regular routines that must not be denied. For our grandpa, it was a 1:00 nap, followed by a cup of Lipton tea and two crumbly Pecan Sandies—every single day of his 30 post-retirement years. Our friend Amanda has grudgingly accepted that at 7:00 p.m., her Libra husband will be meeting his cyber-buddies online to play World of Warcraft, a multi-player computer game. Whatever the Libra man requires to unwind and rebalance—a cold beer, a run on the beach, an hour in his model airplane studio—the wise woman learns to let him have it.
Similarly, antiques and heirlooms may feel like too much of a heavy responsibility to them – so maybe skip passing on your grandfather’s engraved pocket watch and instead pick out a bunch of bizarre socks with pineapples and poodles. They’ll get a kick out of gifts with humor and wit – especially something that references a private running joke between the two of you.
These same qualities can sometimes make him fickle in matters of the heart. He loves people, and they love him, so he’s often viewed as a flirt. He wants a perfect relationship. If he doesn’t have that with his partner, he’s not above finding a more suitable mate. But once he falls in love, Libra is faithful and devoted.
As much as he may take the long side roads to the altar, Libra is the sign of partnerships, contracts and marriage. Ultimately, he’s at his best when he teams up with his equal partner. The right relationship can be a wonderful canvas for him to express his finest qualities of diplomacy, love and harmony. Just don’t rush him, okay?
Your Libra man is concerned about health, making his diet and exercise program priorities in his life. He is an optimist who loves life and wants to live it to the fullest. So if you want to hold on to your fun loving Libra, I recommend you share the same priorities. If you treat him well and take care of yourself, he will love you forever.
Keep the romance simple. As mentioned earlier, Libra men can be emotionally detached when you first get to know them, and as such, they tend to avoid women who seem manipulative or who live for drama. When you make your move, avoid getting too serious too quickly. Keep things light, and win him over with gestures of traditional romance: candlelight dinners, moonlit walks, and so on.
Let him talk about himself. It’s not that Libra is narcissistic, but as someone with an outgoing personality, he does have a definite tendency to ramble on about himself and the things that interest him. If you want to impress him, let him talk to his heart’s content and follow along with the conversation sincerely.
Keep the pressure off. Related to Libra’s distaste for emotions is his aversion to conflict. Even though he likes intellectual debate, emotionally-charged debate tends to be a big turn-off. Keep a calm, casual attitude when dealing with your Libra to avoid sending him running.
He’ll be quite flattered by your affection and if he likes you, he’ll more than likely return the affection. Even if he doesn’t like you romantically, he’ll probably want to be friends. Just consider whether you can handle hearing about all of his conquests without having your feelings crushed.
He will probably want something expensive. Even if he doesn’t seem like a material type, a set of fancy headphones, an expensive professional camera or shoes that you’d never by at that price, will make him feel valued and proud. He always wants something that looks fancy, with simple lines and an even boringly moderate shape and set of colors. So go for beige, grey or black and white if you aren’t certain of his preferences. Some moderate green might come in handy too. The perfect gift for him needs to fit his size and his mind. It needs to stimulate his intellect or be truly beautiful and tasteful. It doesn’t have to be practical at all, for as long as is inspires him through beauty or real creativity.
Libra man is interested in a partner who can hold an intelligent conversation. A good looking social butterfly is attractive to your Libra man as well. He loves to love and be loved. Activity is important to Mr. Libra. Being outdoors is usually where he is during his free time. He isn’t your ordinary couch potato; although a romantic cuddle session while watching a movie with his lady is definitely well received. He is one of the most romantic men in the Zodiac.
The Capricorn woman may seem far too serious for fun-loving Libra. The spending habits of the Scales are not likely to go over well with frugal Capricorn. There could be some serious bumps in the road for this pair.
Quality isn’t necessarily the most important here – novelty will win out every time for a trend-obsessed Libra man, so it’s probably best not to spend a mint on something that you’re hoping they’ll keep and treasure forever.
Libra’s can be indecisive, however. They are often easily persuaded. That is until they mature by learning from the hard knocks of life. It is important to understand that Mr. Libra upsets easily if his life isn’t balanced and harmonious. A mature Libra male will learn how to deal with this however uncomfortable it makes him.
Win out over the competition. Libra is friendly—sometimes, a little too friendly. Your Libra man is probably flirty with a lot of other women without necessarily meaning anything by it. For some women, this will be a turn off, but others may not consider it to be a big deal. If you have any hope of winning your Libra man’s affections, you need to belong to the latter group. Hang around long enough until the rest of his admirers lose patience with his flirtatious ways.
Libra personalities desire equilibrium and harmony above all else, and will feel uncomfortable unless everything in their personal area is perfectly symmetrical. If your Libran domestic partner comes home to find that you’ve moved all the furniture around so that the bed is off-kilter from the window and the dining room chairs are scattered about willy-nilly instead of placed carefully around the table, you may see cracks begin to form in his generally calm and placid demeanor. Mess and disarray offend Venus-ruled Libra men, who prize beauty and appearance sometimes over functionality and basic human needs. If you cook dinner in his kitchen, clean as you go, and don’t leave a pile of dishes sitting until the next day – otherwise, those sensitive Scales may start to twitch.
Libra man is not easy to understand. His role in the world is to find general balance and you have to see how tough an assignment this is. He has to judge, show us the weight of our Souls and give in to absolute justice. Too much responsibility makes him incredibly indecisive, for he understands what many of us don’t – his responsibility for each decision he makes and the set of consequences that might follow. His ego is bruised and his priorities seem to be shuffled, while he might be lost on his own character and wishes, just out of a need to please others. In order to find peace, this man needs to break all his dependencies, be able to be alone, and leave any image or an opinion people might have about him without fear. He needs to become aware of who he is without the influence of others.
Equality is a big deal for Libra. He needs you to play fair, and although he denies it, he’s always quietly keeping score. When he needs to win an argument, he’ll pull out his arsenal: “Well, I did the laundry last time and the dishes, so you should take out the trash.” Or, “We went to your favorite restaurant last time, so tonight we have to go to mine.”
Of course, if you want to be with your Libra man for a long time, you and he will eventually need to confront your emotions together. When the times comes, do so in as calm and rational a manner as possible. While you are only in the introductory stages, though, it’s better to avoid heavy emotions as much as possible.
When you extend an invitation, pick a place that your Libra man will probably enjoy, like an art gallery, arts and crafts fair, or museum. You can appeal to him even more by inviting him out during an active time. For instance, ask him to a special one-day-only exhibit instead of inviting him to the museum during a quiet “off” time.
Libra loves to love, but you can scare off the Libra man by getting too sentimental. If you want to attract his attention and win his affections, try appealing to his desire for balance and appreciation of beauty. Approach him with confidence, but let him get comfortable with you at his own pace.
Once you’ve snagged your prize, all you have to do is work on keeping him interested. The plan? Keep him away from all of your pretty girlfriends, co-workers and sisters, and whatever you do, never leave him alone with any of them for any length of time.
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