Libra man is not easy to understand. His role in the world is to find general balance and you have to see how tough an assignment this is. He has to judge, show us the weight of our Souls and give in to absolute justice. Too much responsibility makes him incredibly indecisive, for he understands what many of us don’t – his responsibility for each decision he makes and the set of consequences that might follow. His ego is bruised and his priorities seem to be shuffled, while he might be lost on his own character and wishes, just out of a need to please others. In order to find peace, this man needs to break all his dependencies, be able to be alone, and leave any image or an opinion people might have about him without fear. He needs to become aware of who he is without the influence of others.
Appeal to his love of beauty, art, or music. Most Libra men can really appreciate beauty and culture, so if you want to make his heart skip a beat for you, invite him to the art museum or give him a book with photographs of beautiful scenery. Showing him that you understand what he loves can be a huge plus in your favor.
Libra men love art and design, so beautiful, glossy coffee table books and trips to modern art museums or performance events will delight them. They always want to go see all the shows, films, and musicals that are being discussed in the news and on social media, so season passes or gift cards to their favorite movie theater are sure to please.
A Libra man hates to be alone and fears actually having to deal with himself and his own deeper motivations and emotions; thus, he turns to distracting dalliances with multiple partners to keep his own demons at bay. When in a committed relationship, a Libra man can be a total dream: an attentive lover who will flatter you with compliments and gestures of his deep appreciation for all that you represent to him. As long as he can iron out his own internal conflict between a passionate desire for freedom and a natural longing for partnership, marriage can endure as a true lasting union. If he can be real with himself, and honest with who (and how) he loves, romance with this lovely air sign can be a fantasy come to life.
Between a minimum of 10 Astrological planets, 12 constellations (or Zodiac signs), and the 12 houses that classify your identity into major areas of your life, there is much to consider when getting to know someone based on Astrology. It’s best to have a professional Astrologer interpret your birth chart to further understand your actions, priorities, emotions, and individual personality.
The Libran trait of indecisiveness means they tend to vacillate between three or more vocations might make this man look like a jack-of-all-trades, but read over his resume and you might find the master of none.
His earliest impressions of you should view you as a “mysterious beauty.” Of course, the longer you’re with your Libra, the more that mystery will fade. To pack a strong punch at the start, though, try to be an elusive, nearly inaccessible goal to strive for.
Good with words, flow, and improvisation, Libran men shine when geared toward acting or music. All the world’s a stage for these charmers, who love to have all eyes transfixed on them. As long as there’s a message and meaning behind the facade, a Libra stands a chance of being more than a passing flash in the pan.
The Libra man absolutely does not like drama so if you’re a drama queen, know from the start it’s not going to work out. The Libra man goes out of his way to avoid any sort of confrontation or drama. He will literally walk away and leave the building to avoid conflict. He does not like to engage in pointless drama that goes on and on in a circle with no solution. If you happen to have an issue you want to discuss with him, do so in a non-confrontational manner. Present the problem and offer a possible solution. Libra man does not like to discuss problems endlessly with no solution in sight. Make it short and sweet and he’ll respect you that much more because you haven’t upset the equilibrium in his life.
When the Libra man is ready for a relationship and commitment, you will definitely know it. He’ll treat you differently right from the start. If you decide you want to take your time before you get in bed with him he will wait for you because what’s the rush? He’ll actually respect you more the longer you make him wait, because he’s used to getting everything he wants when he puts on that charm. He’ll be a little surprised that you didn’t fall for his charm which will make him want you even more because you just made him feel vulnerable. When a Libra man feels vulnerable, his needy side comes out. By denying his charms, you’ve just made him question his entire dating strategy and now he’s thinking maybe he just doesn’t have “it” anymore. In turn, he’s going to work that much harder to get your attention. Get ready for calls, texts, flowers, and dinner invitations. Libra man is now on a mission to show that he’s still got it and you better believe it.
Of course, it doesn’t have to take that long. It depends on how well you complement each other. The Libra man craves an interdependent, equally balanced relationship. He wants you to be autonomous and capable of finding your own happiness, with or without him. At the same time, he likes to feel like you’re the missing piece in his romantic puzzle, to create an even higher state of bliss together. A slight contradiction, but that’s Libra. If you provide the counterweight that balances out his bad habits and shortcomings, he’ll gladly join forces.
The thing about Libra man is that he’s a romantic at heart. He secretly loves a good chick flick and actually thinks he’s got more game than any heart throb on screen. Ryan Gosling from the Notebook has got nothing on Libra man. Having such a romantic side also brings out the idealist in Libra man. He’s got an exact picture of the way he wants his life to turn out in his mind. Maybe he’s seen one too many of those Nicholas Sparks movies, but he knows what he wants and he’s not going to be happy until he gets it. Everything in Libra man’s life must be balanced in order for him to be happy and his love life is right at the top of that list. If he can’t have who he really wants, he’d rather be alone. Well not really alone, because we all know Libras always have many admirers. But alone in the sense that he’s going to close himself off to every woman again until the right one comes along.
THe is gallant, tactful, well dressed and even better behaved, and of course, in most cases, he chooses a partner that is the exact opposite. This can be a problem if he starts telling you how to dress or behave, because this only speaks of his way to feed his bruised ego. No partner wants to be in this position with a Libra man. With clearly set boundaries and enough respect, he will take you to fancy places, art galleries, theater and occasions where you need to dress up. He likes to create a certain image and the best way to date him is to show an understanding for his need to show your love to the rest of the world. He will want to be looked at, cherished, caressed and touched in public, even though he might have a problem showing his own affection among other people.
The Capricorn woman may seem far too serious for fun-loving Libra. The spending habits of the Scales are not likely to go over well with frugal Capricorn. There could be some serious bumps in the road for this pair.
Try to understand why he feels uncomfortable with emotion. Feelings are messy, especially once those feelings get deep and complicated. The Libra avoids emotions mostly to maintain the sense of harmony and balance he loves so much.
As the Scales symbol suggests, Libra seeks balance and harmony. He has a deep sense of fairness and justice. He often takes up causes to help right the world’s wrongs. He expects his partner to take on these lofty causes and to fully support his efforts. Libra hates confrontation, which makes him fairly easy to please. On the down side, he may be very indecisive and hard to pin down to an opinion. True to his trademark fairness, he weighs all sides carefully first, and even then he’s likely to change his mind after giving it more thought.
The theme of refinement should also extend into your make-up and accessories. Use your make-up to enhance your natural beauty and avoid caking it on or trying out dramatic looks. Any jewelry you wear should accent your look without competing for attention.
Keep the romance simple. As mentioned earlier, Libra men can be emotionally detached when you first get to know them, and as such, they tend to avoid women who seem manipulative or who live for drama. When you make your move, avoid getting too serious too quickly. Keep things light, and win him over with gestures of traditional romance: candlelight dinners, moonlit walks, and so on.
Libras naturally have somewhat of an airy personality, so they feel most inspired when they are allowed to move about from thing to thing. Fixating on any one topic can quickly make a Libra man feel bored.
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Libra personalities desire equilibrium and harmony above all else, and will feel uncomfortable unless everything in their personal area is perfectly symmetrical. If your Libran domestic partner comes home to find that you’ve moved all the furniture around so that the bed is off-kilter from the window and the dining room chairs are scattered about willy-nilly instead of placed carefully around the table, you may see cracks begin to form in his generally calm and placid demeanor. Mess and disarray offend Venus-ruled Libra men, who prize beauty and appearance sometimes over functionality and basic human needs. If you cook dinner in his kitchen, clean as you go, and don’t leave a pile of dishes sitting until the next day – otherwise, those sensitive Scales may start to twitch.
For this reason, Libra men have a habit of stringing several (or more) people along at once – often without even realizing what they are doing. An artistic or mental connection can easily slide into flirtation or an emotional affair. Because many of these are conducted online or over text and are usually over long distances, most of his fleeting romances (often with several people at once) are never consummated or physically acted upon.
Does the Libran man deserve the reputation of being a womanizer? Well, yes, but in the nicest possible way. He truly does appreciate everything a prospective partner has to offer. From beauty to temperament to opposing viewpoints, a Libra man craves it all.
A Taurus woman may need to go against her nature to make a relationship work with a Libra man. While Libra loves going out and socializing, the Taurus woman is more of a homebody. She also may be a little too clingy for free-spirited Libra.
The ultimate social butterfly, the Libra man may not spend enough time at home to really make it his own. But when you are invited into his living space, you will find it clean and tidy, with lots of clear surfaces and mood lighting. Even in a relatively simple space, this air sign will take pains to create a sense of ambiance that lends itself well to romance.
The combination of the Aquarius woman and Libra man has the making of a wonderful relationship. Both signs love people and intellectual stimulation, along with personal freedom. They’ll both allow the other space, while reveling in each other’s company.
The Pisces woman will need to work on becoming more grounded for this match to stand the test of time. Libra hates making decisions, and it’s often impossible for the Fish to come out of her dream world long enough to do so. This could build tension.
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