The Libra sign is represented by scales and there is nothing more important to a Libra man than achieving balance and equilibrium in their lives. That’s why there’s no getting a Libra man to settle down before he’s decided that he’s good and ready. The Libra man has to have “all his ducks in a row” before he even considers getting married and starting a family. And if he doesn’t feel like he’s achieved that balance, he simply will not allow himself to a take a woman completely seriously because he knows in his mind that it’s just not going anywhere. On rare occasion, a Libra man has been known to get so swept up in love that he’s raced straight to the alter with his new bride. But that’s only once in a blue moon and more than likely, that marriage didn’t last long because after the initial euphoria of love wore off, the Libra man once again felt like the balance was all off and had to escape in order to fix it again.
The thing about Libra man is that he’s a romantic at heart. He secretly loves a good chick flick and actually thinks he’s got more game than any heart throb on screen. Ryan Gosling from the Notebook has got nothing on Libra man. Having such a romantic side also brings out the idealist in Libra man. He’s got an exact picture of the way he wants his life to turn out in his mind. Maybe he’s seen one too many of those Nicholas Sparks movies, but he knows what he wants and he’s not going to be happy until he gets it. Everything in Libra man’s life must be balanced in order for him to be happy and his love life is right at the top of that list. If he can’t have who he really wants, he’d rather be alone. Well not really alone, because we all know Libras always have many admirers. But alone in the sense that he’s going to close himself off to every woman again until the right one comes along.
To find a Libra guy, you have to think like he does. Since he loves beauty and creativity, look for him at art galleries, arts and crafts fairs, and museums. Because of his altruistic spirit, you might find a Libra man volunteering at a homeless shelter or marching in a protest. The Scales also love luxury, so they tend to frequent fine restaurants, hotels and fashionable clothing stores.
Compliment him. Libra men are usually rather confident and have positive opinions about themselves. A genuine, well-timed compliment or word of praise can go a long way in capturing his attention. When choosing something to compliment on, focus on a typical Libra area of interest, like his sense of taste, style, or justice.
No one trusts an obvious flatterer, not even a Libra man. While he might pardon a blatant appeal to his vanity more than some of the other signs will, a compliment that is clearly untrue or forced lacks the sort of harmony and fairness that a Libra ultimately longs for. As such, any compliments you do make should be as meaningful and truthful as possible.
Vary your hobbies. Libra has a hard time focusing on one thing and may find you less attractive if he believes you to be fixated on only one aspect of life. If you want to look like someone who has a balanced, well-rounded personality, you should try having a few different hobbies to talk to him about.
Womanizing may be a sport to some Libra men, but this doesn’t apply to every single one. In fact, while all Libran men enjoy some form of flirting, not all are cheats. Keep your wits about you, do not get carried away by his charm and seduction, and really investigate his character. Usually you’ll find out exactly what you assumed when you first met him: He’s an affable guy who just happens to be very good looking and knows how to use this to his advantage, but there’s a heart of gold beneath all that just waiting for you to find it.
The Capricorn woman may seem far too serious for fun-loving Libra. The spending habits of the Scales are not likely to go over well with frugal Capricorn. There could be some serious bumps in the road for this pair.
The commitment to know himself and achieve balance in his own life can create a personality not commonly seen in this sign: true mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual equilibrium. Without this dedication to focusing on internal balance, Libra men can wobble and teeter-totter back and forth from one extreme to another like a lopsided seesaw.
Quality isn’t necessarily the most important here – novelty will win out every time for a trend-obsessed Libra man, so it’s probably best not to spend a mint on something that you’re hoping they’ll keep and treasure forever.
Give him space. As social creatures, Libra men love freedom and need to feel unconfined in order to be happy. You can dote on him as much as you want when the two of you are together, but avoid smothering him or forcing your way into areas of his life he hasn’t invited you to on his own.
The combination of the Aquarius woman and Libra man has the making of a wonderful relationship. Both signs love people and intellectual stimulation, along with personal freedom. They’ll both allow the other space, while reveling in each other’s company.
Be feminine and elegant, not frilly or flashy. Visually speaking, women with a notably feminine appearance are the most likely to catch the Libra man’s eye and attract him on a purely physical level. Your style should be classic, clean, and refined. Avoid fashion choices that are excessively bold or those that are too cutesy.
THe is gallant, tactful, well dressed and even better behaved, and of course, in most cases, he chooses a partner that is the exact opposite. This can be a problem if he starts telling you how to dress or behave, because this only speaks of his way to feed his bruised ego. No partner wants to be in this position with a Libra man. With clearly set boundaries and enough respect, he will take you to fancy places, art galleries, theater and occasions where you need to dress up. He likes to create a certain image and the best way to date him is to show an understanding for his need to show your love to the rest of the world. He will want to be looked at, cherished, caressed and touched in public, even though he might have a problem showing his own affection among other people.
Win out over the competition. Libra is friendly—sometimes, a little too friendly. Your Libra man is probably flirty with a lot of other women without necessarily meaning anything by it. For some women, this will be a turn off, but others may not consider it to be a big deal. If you have any hope of winning your Libra man’s affections, you need to belong to the latter group. Hang around long enough until the rest of his admirers lose patience with his flirtatious ways.
Stand out. Since most Libra males have a tendency to be friendly with a lot of people in any given crowd, you’ll need to do more than just hang around him. Instead of lingering in the back of the room where no one can see, you need to make yourself the center of attention, even if only for a few moments.
Although his tough love pays off in the long run, it’s also infuriating. Even though he can be a spoiled brat, he has little tolerance for you being pouty, clingy or childish. Of course, he may foster that very dependence with baby talk, silly voices and cute nicknames. It’s all about moderation and proportion with Libra. If you’re going to be a little girl today, he wants you to be a sophisticated woman tomorrow.
When you extend an invitation, pick a place that your Libra man will probably enjoy, like an art gallery, arts and crafts fair, or museum. You can appeal to him even more by inviting him out during an active time. For instance, ask him to a special one-day-only exhibit instead of inviting him to the museum during a quiet “off” time.
He’ll be quite flattered by your affection and if he likes you, he’ll more than likely return the affection. Even if he doesn’t like you romantically, he’ll probably want to be friends. Just consider whether you can handle hearing about all of his conquests without having your feelings crushed.
Libra loves to love, but you can scare off the Libra man by getting too sentimental. If you want to attract his attention and win his affections, try appealing to his desire for balance and appreciation of beauty. Approach him with confidence, but let him get comfortable with you at his own pace.
An astrologer can help reveal more about what makes your Libra “tick”, and whether the two of you are meant for each other. Using custom astrological charts – specific to the dates, times and places of your births – as well as tools such as tarot cards, an astrologer can provide details about your compatibility. All it takes is a simple phone call to get your astrology reading to guide your path to love.
A Taurus woman may need to go against her nature to make a relationship work with a Libra man. While Libra loves going out and socializing, the Taurus woman is more of a homebody. She also may be a little too clingy for free-spirited Libra.
If you are married to a Libra man, consider yourself lucky because he’s likely to be faithful once he makes that commitment. You can keep him by looking your best, discussing things with him frequently, and constantly improving your mental capacity. This guy finds a wide range of topics interesting and if you speak intelligently on them, he will appreciate your knowledge and depth.
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