Here’s a better idea: get a life, or keep living the one you’ve got. If you bait your hook with some juicy tackle—in other words, a full, exciting life—he’ll nibble and latch right on. The Pisces man is a follower, and he needs a strong leader. Once he’s sure you’re a queen, he’ll court you like a tenderhearted prince.
From there it’s all about lavish gifts, flowers delivered to your job, opera tickets and romantic picnics. Pisces is like a time-release romantic. He becomes more sentimental and tender the longer you’re together. It’s a trust thing. Make it safer and safer for him to be himself around you—he fears your judgment and craves your admiration more than anyone else’s. The phase of “mature love” is so much more romantic and rich with Pisces than infatuation. He does everything backwards, but that’s precisely what’s so wonderful about him. If divine timing is on your side, you could be lucky enough to experience it.
Pisces guys often like to have aquariums or terrariums full of rare fish, frogs, or unusual plant life. They may raise orchids or just enjoy having plants and animals around them. There is artwork everywhere, usually created by him or by dear friends who he loves to support. There is a sacred atmosphere in his space, and a hush in the air that calls for a sense of reverence. You might instinctively bend to take off your shoes when you enter, regardless of whether or not he insists upon it – or feel awkward about using your cellphone inside.
Not just any everyday object will do – it needs to be something that he will feel is imbued with meaning. Usually, a Pisces will not adhere to one mystical path or religion – choosing instead to mix bits of this and that into a hodgepodge of traditions and beliefs that suits him best. “Take what you like and leave the rest” tends to be his philosophy, and he sees all paths as being one anyway, so he has no issues in placing a statue of the Buddha next to a Catholic saint or Pagan goddess image.
Pisces men can be found on the edge of town. If they are in the center of things, it is at a church or other service organization. Otherwise, they operate on the periphery. Bars and taverns attract the man born under the sign of the Fish as often as places of worship.
Negotiating the push-pull dynamic of his dual natures can be a lifelong quest for Pisces. A relationship with him can take a lot of patience and understanding. This is the guy who stays with the same woman for twenty years but never marries her. Or, during a lonely spell, he calls the escort service then becomes infatuated with his call girl. Her sheer unavailability gives him so much freedom, he freaks out and tries to hold tight. What a mess.
If you are connected to a Pisces male, you may need to talk with him if he puts up resistance to your pleasing him. In many ways, the idea of receiving pleasure from others is an anathema to Piscean way of life.
PISCES (Wildcard): To be blunt, Pisces can be a great match with another Pisces or it can be hell on earth. It depends upon the couples ability to negotiate their people pleasing tendencies. Most longer-term Piscean couples tend to have a high degree of codependency, which isn’t always a bad thing.
There might be a slight envy of the Piscean personality when a Sagittarius woman starts dating a Pisces man. A Sagittarian girl wants to be wanted. Yet his charm will be in the way he worships you by doing the complete opposite of what you tell him you need.
A Scorpio woman and a Pisces man are equally fascinated by the emotional dimension of sex. Their shared sexuality is all about feelings and emotional experience. Whatever a Scorpio woman desires from a Pisces man, he’ll gladly give. She wants to control, and he’s all about surrender. There’s little doubt that this can lead to some exciting, risque, and very satisfying sex for both.
Pisces men aren’t the best with money. That’s not to say they are horrible at financial management. Some are great at it. But generally speaking, the accumulation of wealth isn’t what motivates this sign.
A Tibetan relic or a huge chunk of a crystal will probably please him to no end, earning in a place of honor on one of his altars. You might gift him a piece of black tourmaline, obsidian, or shungite, which will protect against negative energy (which he has a tendency toward being open to absorbing).
Some Pisces folks take their protection from polluting forces even further, installing water filters to get rid of contaminants and fluoride, or blocking wi-fi transmissions. Before you accuse him of wearing a tinfoil hat, remember that a Pisces man will pick up on things that other people aren’t aware of, so if it works for him, don’t knock it.
A Pisces man wants to connect with his lover in a deeply meaningful way. He’s romantic, passionate, emotional, and sensitive, and he excels at giving and receiving both pleasure and love. Far from feeling guilt, fear, or pain, he considers sex a beautiful gift from “above” that connects him to the divine.
As mentioned earlier, Pisces is a water sign. In simple speak, this means people who are of this horoscopic background dive deep. Of the three water signs [Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces] the “fish” sign can dive the deepest; emotionally and spiritually.
Because of this disparity, Pisces men often end up getting hurt and may wear their wounded hearts on their sleeves. It’s easy for them to end up feeling like the victim when their deep feelings aren’t matched, or when their partner suddenly wakes from the consuming spell of singularity to realize they haven’t been home in a week and all their houseplants are dead. It’s tempting to spend all night and day in bed with your Pisces – swimming within their embrace and getting lost in their kisses.
Website visitors to Guy Counseling know that on occasion, I will pen articles about topics that touch upon psycho-spirituality; a term used to describe the blending of psychology and various spiritual teachings.
You might think a match between a Pisces man and a Pisces woman would be heaven together and their lovemaking would be a delicate moving experience, followed by a sweet kind of intoxication, and it can be. The sad truth is that while each is sensitive to the other’s needs and wants more than anything to make the other happy, neither is a person who likes to take the initiative. However, if the Pisces man is willing to take the lead, their time in bed will be magical.
That’s because in their quest to help others deal with emotional trauma and pain, Pisces men often attract drama. Moreover, there is a tendency to care too much, which in turn leads to an unattractive, clingy codependency.
No matter the commitment asked of the Leo woman by the Piscean man, she will do it to remain in his good graces. He has the ability to connect with you beyond language and with genuine emotion instead.
Love for a Pisces man is about mind, body, and soul: the whole person. He’s a skilled lover who possesses empathic abilities that allow him to sense a woman’s every need, both in and out of the bedroom. His is the type of love that allows him to experience a spiritual oneness with his lover.
A Leo woman has a big and lustful sexual appetite and wants to be praised and lauded for her sexual performance. Lovemaking means it’s show time for her. A Pisces man enjoys the costuming and theatrics and is more than willing to play second fiddle, and let her be the star of the show. These two are both incredible lovers, but their roles and characters are perhaps a little too different for them to have a long-term satisfying sexual relationship.
To get a fix on a Pisces man’s sexuality, you have to understand a bit about Pisces. Pisces is a mutable water sign and the most spiritual sign of the Zodiac. A Pisces man has oceanic emotions that are vast, deep, ethereal, and constantly in flux. He’s sensitive and receptive, and he soaks up the emotions and feelings that surround him and echoes them back.
Sexuality is all about emotions for all three water signs. A Pisces man wants to become one with his lover. When he makes love with a Water sign woman, they flow into each other, and such a complete merging occurs that it’s difficult for each to know where one ends and the other begins.
He is caring, tender and sensitive, a kind of man who nurtures his feminine side and because of this he has the ability to listen, compassionately approach his partner and understand the feelings of everyone around him. His biggest minus is his inconsistency and his unpredictable character. No one knows what he will feel tomorrow, and his relationships could fall apart in a day, without any obvious reason.
The Pisces man and Pisces woman together could really drink the town dry or save more souls than a town full of churches. Finding the balance between excess and avoiding reality will be a great dilemma between you two. But for a temporary partnership, there are few men who will ever intuitively know what you want and how to give it to you.
A Pisces man is unique. He’s charming, romantic, and one of the most sexually creative men you’ll ever meet. He’ll do anything and everything his lover desires, as long as he knows his heart is safe. The fact is, a Pisces man understands a woman’s sexual needs in a way that most men can’t. He wants a woman who can be his lover, friend, and lifetime companion, and that’s a tall order to fill. Ask yourself if you can give this man all that he desires. If you can, you’ll be rewarded with a sensually fulfilling relationship in every sense of the word.
A Pisces man will have little regard for “rules for the sake of rules,” and will defy everything from dress code to issues on tardiness or taking breaks. Rather than marching to the beat of their own drummer, they tend to undulate vaguely to their own internal clarinet. This may infuriate managers, but if the people in charge of a Pisces can recognize the strange genius of the man they’ve employed and just let him do his thing (rules and regulations be damned), they’ll often be amazed by the results he produces and the inventiveness of his work.
The home of a Pisces man often feels like a magical realm, a hermit’s cave filled with wonders, far removed from the bland settings of the other homes around it. It may look unassuming from the outside, but once within his domain, prepare to be dazzled.
Money can be an area of difficulty and strife for your Pisces man, who loves to spend profligately and may find that coins spill out of his hands like water. This Fish needs to learn about saving his dollars away for a rainy day.
His visions might finance the dreams of the Aquarius woman, so she should not dismiss the Pisces man’s lack of connection with a structure she understands. It is precisely his fearlessness when venturing into new territory that makes him worth your attention.
We once counseled a very driven, ambitious Capricorn woman and her Pisces boyfriend of thirteen years. Like many Capricorns, she had mapped out a plan for the rest of her life, and was meeting her goals with the precision of a military general. Except…one. She wanted to be married by 32, and her 34th birthday was approaching. The Pisces still wasn’t “ready.” Her biological clock was ticking so loudly, we thought a bomb had been planted.
A Pisces man doesn’t recognize any distinction between romance, love, and sex; they’re all rolled up into one and can’t be separated, as far as he’s concerned. He’s a man who opens his heart and soul to his lover. He idealizes love, and to him, sex is the ultimate expression of love. He yearns for the euphoric feeling of closeness, fulfillment, ecstasy, and losing himself in another that he experiences when making love with his beloved.
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