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Ultimately, the Virgo man needs a bigger cause than patching up strays. His astrological duty is to serve humankind. He must find his mission, his life’s work and calling. Unless he is contributing to the greater society, or at least a noble cause, the Virgo man is adrift at sea. He will squander his gifts by playing the enabler and co-dependent hero. He’ll take on women’s problems, when he should really march them to the nearest therapist’s couch. And he will walk away from amazing women—with whom he is highly compatible—simply because they don’t need his rescuing.
From just someone’s sun sign however we can only predict some aspects of their personality and it’s too much of a leap to try and predict behavior from just those. Astrology has fairly precise limits. This is an example of an area where sun signs are just too broad and clumsy to give an answer. A real compatibility reading is required to answer the question.
The most important thing to remember when dating a Virgo man is never, never, be late. Not even a teensy bit fashionably late. For the Virgo man, punctuality is a virtue and lateness an inexcusable vice.
Be ready to be pleased. While you shouldn’t be expecting grand shows or intense theatrics in this relationship, you should expect to be pleased. Virgo loves everything being perfect and will therefore make sure you’re happy. He doesn’t know how to operate if you’re not! If you give him something to do, he will do it to a T and then go a step further. That’s one hell of a partner!
The good thing about Virgo is that if you know your stuff too, he can take it! He is open to debate and loves talking about things he’s learned and experienced. So the next time your Virgo corrects you on something, don’t hesitate to say, “No! I did it this way on purpose!” and explain why.
Are you tired of raising your boyfriends and teaching them how to act like grown men? Hang up your metaphorical nursing bra. The Virgo man needs none of your mother’s milk, thank you very much. Self-sufficient and self-directed, he’s no Oedipus or mama’s boy. However, he can dig in his heels like a headstrong child. Like all earth signs, he’s stubborn. Virgo can plant himself firmly in a position and refuse to budge. “You can’t make me!” He’ll stand by your side just as willfully.
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This can be frustrating when you’re looking for affection and you’re feeling particularly feely. They won’t reciprocate and don’t seem to get it. If that’s the case, you’ll need to relax. Take a step back and realize that’s just not how they operate. They’ll show you their feelings in other ways soon enough.
However, the Virgo man isn’t particularly good at showing his emotions, so you may find it a little difficult to know if you’ve made an impact or not. If in doubt, ask him out. Just remember to keep it simple and unsentimental. He doesn’t need to know what you think of him or how amazing his eyes are: a simple, “Are doing anything Friday night?” will be fine. Or, even better, “I’m going to this charity function on Friday night, do you fancy tagging along?”
This is where the man child part of his personality appears. If something doesn’t go his way, he’ll become critical of absolutely everything in his life. His shirt doesn’t fit right. That movie on T.V. looks lame. That actor can’t act. His soup is too hot. Ten minutes later…his soup is now too cold. It’s like a toddler that doesn’t want to eat his peas. He’ll whine and throw a fit until you give him something else. With the Virgo man, you just have to give him alone time when he behaves badly. He’ll come to his senses and realize that it’s not actually your fault that his shirt doesn’t fit right since he is the one that’s been packing on the pounds lately.
Virgo is not the guy to go to when you need to cry on someone’s shoulder, and he’s not enticed by the “helpless female” act. He prefers a partner who shares his analytical approach to life. He wants to talk about what he considers to be serious subjects, such as life, philosophy, politics, and religion. Try to avoid dumping your emotional baggage on him, or you just might scare him away.
Talking shop with the Virgo man is never a bad idea, as they tend to find it hard to switch from work mode to leisure mode. In fact, they find talking about work at the end of a hard day extremely relaxing.
Still, with Virgo, you can channel your maternal energy where it belongs: toward the children. And he’ll want at least one or two, if not a gaggle. Hillary Clinton may believe it takes a village to raise a child, but to Virgo, it takes a child—his childlike spirit, that is—to raise a village. He’ll spread his seed far and wide, and he tends to start young. Don’t be surprised if your Virgo already has kids from a previous partner or two!
As in all things, he will analyze love and seek perfection. This is of course a difficult area to do either, and as a result he can be particularly hesitant and stand-offish until he’s comfortable with a partner. Just to be clear, this doesn’t mean you need to be perfect as they appreciate imperfection too. For a full description of how a Virgo man acts when in love please see our article on Virgo in love
Take this and value it. Instead of wishing he were more open and confident, realize that this quality makes him down-to-earth, modest, loyal, and way less of a showy megalomaniac than the sign that precedes him, Leo. This sense of insecurity that flares up on occasion can be a relief!
With his date, time and location of birth these other factors can be calculated for a complete picture of his personality. To explore this further please see my article on astrology compatibility readings.
Virgo man is a paradox of sorts because he has very different sides to him. He’s independent and self sufficient, yet secretly really wants someone to take care of him. He wants a relationship, but at the same time he likes his alone time too much. He pays so much attention to the little details in life that he forgets to see the big picture which is all that really matters in the end. Like every Earth sign, Virgo man is very stubborn. He will uphold his position and not waver no matter what. But there’s a silver lining to Virgo man. If he really likes you, he won’t be critical of you.
Virgo men tend to be independent and free thinking, and appreciate the same in a partner. Conversation and intellectual connection tends to be very important to them. They also tend to mesh well with a partner who appreciates their hardworking, down to earth style, and fast and clever mind.
The Virgoan reputation for being a clean freak applies to the men born under this sign who have truly embraced and made room for who they really are – though there are exceptions to that rule. Some male Virgos leave the home to their counterparts to mess with, but their own workspaces and tool-sheds are impeccably set up and usually off-limits to anyone but themselves. You’ll know immediately when you’re dealing with an afflicted Virgo (someone suffering from emotional issues) by his inability to keep his space tidy. Classic Virgo men may get teased for being a bit fussy with their things, but a beautiful and clean home is the sign of healthy Virgo – so just let him do his thing!
Your Virgo lover isn’t a player. He may remind you of someone testing the ice on a frozen lake; he’s going to take it very slowly. He’s methodical and logical. He has to make sure he’s not going to fall through the ice into deadly cold waters. He doesn’t like being exposed emotionally so he must be confident you’re worth the effort and emotional risk.
While often reserved towards strangers, Virgos show a very different side of themselves to friends and loved ones and tend to be highly entertaining and stimulating conversationalists, offering insights on almost any subject. If he seems too serious, it’s likely that will change later!
Keep your conversations down to earth and direct. Excessive displays of “personality” may ultimately lead him to think you’re pretentious. What he’s really looking for is a steady partner with real depth.
Virgos love to collect odd little treasures, especially items found in nature, and so their parlors and offices can come to resemble the wunderkammers (or wonder-cabinets) of 18th century Naturalists, stuffed with interesting shells, bird’s nests, and bizarre taxidermy. Everything must be labeled accordingly, kept immaculate and dust-free (ideally behind glass), and compartmentalized according to his own internal systems. A little reclusive, a Virgo man prefers to stay at home once he’s gotten it all fixed up just how he likes it.
Unfortunately, the Virgo man is often critical of others, leading him to have difficulty in finding a woman to form a solid relationship with. Instead, he is selective in his choice for love, failing to find someone for a long time if at all. His selectivity leads him to release a lack of control in dealing with the situation since so few women meet his specifications.
Be forward. The Virgo man isn’t the most direct, gutsy sign there is, to say the least. You may need to give him some not-so-subtle hints that you’re into him. He may need to know it’s a sure thing before he takes any action. Can you blame him? No one likes rejection!
These men are erudite, brilliant, and love problem solving, and therefore they often end up in relationships with younger people who admire their keen intellect and want to learn from their experience. Do you think you are compatible with your Libra man? Find out here. The mentor/mentee connection can be fulfilling to both parties, but rarely is this a relationship between equals – so it’s important to find balance in areas involving personal boundaries. There can be drastic age differences here, and relations built more on an exchange of information and power rather than a genuine affinity.
Once you have won his heart, you will never again feel unloved or uncared for, in your entire life. His love will burn for you with a steady flame, which will never flicker even for a minute. You will be rewarded with a husband who is totally sincere, patient, dependable and forever loving. You will never have to worry about stability again, whether it is emotional or financial. A Virgo man is not at all prone to wandering and you will never ever have to keep an eye on him. You will practically be showered with care and concern, whenever you need them.
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