Apparently, the two met on a swingers’ website called Ashleymadison.com, which helps attached people find discreet hookups and affairs. (The taglines: “when monogamy becomes monotony” and “because the best men & women are already taken.”) At first, we were baffled. Why would a germophobic Virgo use the Internet to pick up someone’s sloppy seconds? How could a sign as preachy and puritanical as Virgo be so shamelessly unethical?
If you’re not, you risk walking in on this guy organizing your bedroom floor. Suggesting a new soap for you try to get rid of that smell. Throwing out all the expired ranch dressing in your fridge. These are conversations that are better off being avoided!
Born on the 1st of February 1994, Harry Styles’ birthday falls fairly central in the Aquarius range, with no danger of pesky cusp forces pulling him towards Pisces or Capricorn. All other things being equal, Harry should be the epitome of Aquarian maleness. But is he?…
That being said, shy Virgoan men loathe being made a spectacle of, so think twice before planning that surprise party for them, or telling the waiter to make a scene with the whole restaurant loudly singing to them. Noisy, raucous parties full of messy drunks tend to make these retiring fellows nervous, so maybe consider cooking a lovely meal at home to celebrate instead. Give them their presents in private, and show them that you’ve really been paying attention to what tomes they were lingering over at the bookstore, or the goodies they’ve circled in their favorite catalogs.
Are you tired of raising your boyfriends and teaching them how to act like grown men? Hang up your metaphorical nursing bra. The Virgo man needs none of your mother’s milk, thank you very much. Self-sufficient and self-directed, he’s no Oedipus or mama’s boy. However, he can dig in his heels like a headstrong child. Like all earth signs, he’s stubborn. Virgo can plant himself firmly in a position and refuse to budge. “You can’t make me!” He’ll stand by your side just as willfully.
It really is no coincidence that some of the best comedians of our time are Virgo men. Their man child status and immaturity can really make them a star in this field. Think Adam Sandler, Kevin James, C.K. Louis, Dave Chappelle, and Jimmy Fallon. And you can’t forget Charlie Sheen. Even though he’s not really a comedian, he did bring the laughs on Two and Half Men. Until he got kicked off for his behavior that is.
This propensity to be a bit neurotic and even slightly obsessive-compulsive can be the Virgo’s downfall – especially when it becomes hard for others around them to relate to their fussiness. This can manifest in small ways, like being particular about how things are arranged on their desk, or finicky habits around food and eating. On the other hand, a Virgo man is often so full of charm – his good manners and natural elegance do much to make up for his somewhat odd ways.
Your Virgo lover isn’t a player. He may remind you of someone testing the ice on a frozen lake; he’s going to take it very slowly. He’s methodical and logical. He has to make sure he’s not going to fall through the ice into deadly cold waters. He doesn’t like being exposed emotionally so he must be confident you’re worth the effort and emotional risk.
On the negative side, he can sometimes be seen as picky, aloof, sarcastic, pessimistic or whiny. He assumes everyone views him with the same critical eye that he possesses, which can sap his self confidence. Ironically, he is likely to be more perfect than most of us, yet he’s the only one who can’t see it. This level of self imposed modesty can be particularly endearing.
If you do happen to snag yourself a Virgo man, don’t fool yourself into thinking that you’ve captured his heart and now you can act like your usual neurotic self. The reality is that your work has just begun! One of the negative aspects of Virgo man’s personality is that he can become very critical of everything in his life if things aren’t going his way. That includes you. If you find yourself on the receiving end of Virgo’s criticism, just take a step back. You might be pushing him too hard and his criticism is his way of protecting himself. You need to give Virgo a lot of alone time and let him come to the realization that he needs you in his life. That only way to do that is to give him some time to himself.
The most important thing to remember when dating a Virgo man is never, never, be late. Not even a teensy bit fashionably late. For the Virgo man, punctuality is a virtue and lateness an inexcusable vice.
The Virgo man is typically very loyal. One warning however in this area, as with other signs who dislike confrontation Virgos can be known to take action on their own rather than repeat arguments. Especially if you’re overly aggressive or dominant. This isn’t a man who cheats just for the thrill of it, or the ego boost or other shallow reasons, however he may do so when unhappy or dissatisfied for long periods.
Relationships are complex things, comprising hundreds of individual elements. Sun signs are one of these, however a detailed analysis of everything is required to find all the strong and weak areas. Please see the article on astrology and soulmates for more information on how astrology can be used to determine if someone is your soulmate.
Sexuality of every Virgo depends greatly on other personal traits, such as one’s ascendant and positions of different planets in the natal chart. In general, the sign of Virgo is everything but sexual and this man can be a truly uninspiring lover. His partner might have to force some creativity. The good thing is in the fact that each Virgo likes to serve, and in search for perfection, most men born in this sign will do their best to understand the anatomy of their partner and be able to truly satisfy them. Still, their insecurities are often disguised by simple boredom, and they can be quite critical toward their lovers. It is often not easy to be with a Virgo man if you don’t obsess about every hair on your body and every scent you might emit, all the time.
Your Virgo will have his own unique personality traits. This article talks about sun signs, however there are many other factors. For example his moon sign determines his emotional personality which affects whether he is sensitive, romantic, loyal etc.
Be ready to be pleased. While you shouldn’t be expecting grand shows or intense theatrics in this relationship, you should expect to be pleased. Virgo loves everything being perfect and will therefore make sure you’re happy. He doesn’t know how to operate if you’re not! If you give him something to do, he will do it to a T and then go a step further. That’s one hell of a partner!
Compatible signs usually hold the same ideals and want the same things in life. A Virgo man seeks a love partner who can be his life mate and work by his side. The stability of character and expression of Virgoan traits in such a man will also depend largely on any other dominant astrological signs and their placement in his natal chart. When making attempts to understand the unique makeup of your Virgo male, you will need to take into account any chart nuances and energies that can either enhance or conflict with his Virgo energies.
This is where the man child part of his personality appears. If something doesn’t go his way, he’ll become critical of absolutely everything in his life. His shirt doesn’t fit right. That movie on T.V. looks lame. That actor can’t act. His soup is too hot. Ten minutes later…his soup is now too cold. It’s like a toddler that doesn’t want to eat his peas. He’ll whine and throw a fit until you give him something else. With the Virgo man, you just have to give him alone time when he behaves badly. He’ll come to his senses and realize that it’s not actually your fault that his shirt doesn’t fit right since he is the one that’s been packing on the pounds lately.
The Virgo man is usually modest and tends to stay under the radar. He doesn’t care for the extra attention unless it’s absolutely necessary for his job or career. He’s a calming and stable influence in the lives of everyone he encounters. He’s very good at giving good advice and you’d be wise to listen to it. Don’t expect him to be the life of the party either. He’s the wallflower standing in the corner waiting for a familiar face to talk to. The thing is, he doesn’t mind the alone time. He’s not a social creature by any means and is very picky and choosy about the types of people he keeps in his inner circle. He’s one of those people who’d rather be alone than around people whose company he doesn’t enjoy.
The Virgin figure that symbolizes Virgo is sometimes depicted as an angel. Although the symbol may be too feminine for a Virgo man’s liking, it’s worth a closer look. Angels hover above us all, watching, protecting and guiding. They only intervene when asked, and never force their help where it’s not requested.
Know that he’s an Earth sign. Virgo (along with Taurus and Capricorn) are Earth signs. This means, generally, that they’re very stable and resistant to change. Like the Earth! They are sturdy in their ways and know what they want and need. They’re usually slow to open — but once they do, it’s permanent.
The Scorpio woman is very intelligent, and Virgo will be drawn to that trait. Both signs are practical, hard-working and courageous. The Scorpion is extremely passionate, so she needs to be careful not to overwhelm the shy Virgo man.
This doesn’t mean that Virgo can’t form strong attachments. He can, but does so slowly and carefully. It usually takes him a while to fall in love. But once he’s truly smitten, he’s in it for the long haul. Once the Virgo male has committed to a relationship, he is forever loving, patient and supportive.
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The Aquarius woman and the Virgo male will be attracted to each other on an intellectual level, but that might the extent of the attraction. Both signs are emotionally aloof and the practical Virgo will find the Water-bearer too illogical.
Keep your conversations down to earth and direct. Excessive displays of “personality” may ultimately lead him to think you’re pretentious. What he’s really looking for is a steady partner with real depth.
On the one side he is kind, generous, and thoughtful, yet on the other he is critical, stubborn, and uptight. The men born under the Virgo sign tend to be known as the “man-child.” If there was ever a man that needed to be cared for by a woman, this would be him. Virgo is quite the peculiar man in every sense of the word. Don’t be fooled by that virgin maiden either: Virgo man can be quite the womanizer. Hugh Grant and Prince Harry are both Virgos . . . just saying.
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