He needs to have a really strict and strong moral compass in order to be valued. He cares for justice deeply and he will act accordingly. As an Earth sign, he is always in search for physical pleasure, or goes to other extremes denying himself of any hedonism because of his religion or a system of beliefs. If he finds too many flaws in his partner, he will, without a doubt, search for another one. Even the most loyal Virgos have this need, and they have trust issues themselves as a reflection of their own behavior. If he stops trusting you even though you gave him no reason to, pay attention for he might be dishonest himself.
If you’re not, you risk walking in on this guy organizing your bedroom floor. Suggesting a new soap for you try to get rid of that smell. Throwing out all the expired ranch dressing in your fridge. These are conversations that are better off being avoided!
Generally they don’t. But, this is the type of generic question that often gets asked or answered whenever astrology is discussed. Individual experiences are then quoted back and forth as proof that Virgo men do or don’t. Individuals get offended by general statements that don’t apply to them, and everything goes downhill fast. The diagram below shows the problem here:
Still, with Virgo, you can channel your maternal energy where it belongs: toward the children. And he’ll want at least one or two, if not a gaggle. Hillary Clinton may believe it takes a village to raise a child, but to Virgo, it takes a child—his childlike spirit, that is—to raise a village. He’ll spread his seed far and wide, and he tends to start young. Don’t be surprised if your Virgo already has kids from a previous partner or two!
Virgo is not the guy to go to when you need to cry on someone’s shoulder, and he’s not enticed by the “helpless female” act. He prefers a partner who shares his analytical approach to life. He wants to talk about what he considers to be serious subjects, such as life, philosophy, politics, and religion. Try to avoid dumping your emotional baggage on him, or you just might scare him away.
Keep your look simple. Wear simple hairstyles, clothes, makeup, and jewelry — stay away from ALL excesses, because Virgo men like natural beauty. You know that practical side of them? That’s coming out here. They’re not into “showy” or “artificial.” What a breath of fresh air!
This man prefers to be in charge of the relationship, and he’s going to make sure you’re the one for him before he takes things to the next level. Don’t jump the gun and try to kiss him; let him be the one to decide if it’s time to kiss you. When that kiss comes, if it comes, accept it gently as though it’s the most natural thing in the world.
He has a sharp memory and will remember even the minutest of details. You wouldn’t have to remind him about anniversary or birthdays or other important dates. He may not understand why these days are so important to you, but he will remember them nonetheless. Virgo men are not too jealous, but they are possessive in the extreme. They very loyal and will expect the same from you. It is better to burn the love letters of your ex-boyfriends. Once something gets over for them, its over. Emotional appeals and tears wouldn’t budge them an inch.
Okay, I’ve probably given you the impression that the Virgo man is some kind of obsessive compulsive and… well, this isn’t too far away from the truth. He likes everything to be just so and views cleanliness as not only next to but above and beyond godliness!
You’ll be able to tell if your man’s a Virgo the minute you walk into his abode. Only a Virgo man would live in such a perfectly arranged and meticulously organized home – which usually looks more like something from a film set than a home where anyone actually lives. Nothing pleases a Virgo man more than the opportunity to show off his gorgeously appointed living space to his guests, with every detail tailored specifically to his tastes – though he may ask you to take off your shoes and use a coaster for your drink.
Virgo men tend to be independent and free thinking, and appreciate the same in a partner. Conversation and intellectual connection tends to be very important to them. They also tend to mesh well with a partner who appreciates their hardworking, down to earth style, and fast and clever mind.
This is a question which is very hard to give a general answer on, as no two Virgo men are totally identical. The key is understanding him and what he finds most attractive in a partner. Astrology can provide a wealth of information to enable this, however natal charts need to be prepared and studied to do so. Please see the article on seduction and astrology for more information on this.
This is a man who takes feedback to heart, so it’s also worth noting that criticism can do a lot of harm, while encouragement can pay big dividends. Overall, Virgo men are often more comfortable with a confident lover at the start of a relationship, though that soon changes as they get more comfortable.
These men are erudite, brilliant, and love problem solving, and therefore they often end up in relationships with younger people who admire their keen intellect and want to learn from their experience. Do you think you are compatible with your Libra man? Find out here. The mentor/mentee connection can be fulfilling to both parties, but rarely is this a relationship between equals – so it’s important to find balance in areas involving personal boundaries. There can be drastic age differences here, and relations built more on an exchange of information and power rather than a genuine affinity.
While sometimes opposites attract, the differences between the Sagittarius woman and the Virgo man may be difficult to overcome. Virgo may see the Archer as careless, flighty and irresponsible; while Sagittarius might find him boring and hate his constant criticism.
A Virgo guy can be just as critical of himself as he is of others, and he may be more insecure than he lets on. You can show him you care about him by supporting and encouraging him in his endeavors, and this should really attract his attention.
Try not to hate him. Virgo simply can’t help himself; he’s a perfectionist. It’s just how he’s wired. So now you’ll have the choice to either endure and overlook his constant critical analysis of your faults or leave him.
The mutable quality of the sign gives him enough sense to make changes that are necessary to always keep the relationship fresh. He will want to take you to a place where the plates are always clean and tablecloths white and ironed, so you can spill your tomato soup on them and feel guilty as hell. He will go with you to any place that doesn’t contradict his convictions, but in time, he might get bored of your choices, always in need for a change, even though he belongs to the element of Earth. He is often too practical, but when he is swept off his feet, he will be surprisingly romantic and tender. He needs someone he can truly care about and dating him becomes a privilege in these situations, at least until he finds your first flaw.
On the one side he is kind, generous, and thoughtful, yet on the other he is critical, stubborn, and uptight. The men born under the Virgo sign tend to be known as the “man-child.” If there was ever a man that needed to be cared for by a woman, this would be him. Virgo is quite the peculiar man in every sense of the word. Don’t be fooled by that virgin maiden either: Virgo man can be quite the womanizer. Hugh Grant and Prince Harry are both Virgos . . . just saying.
The Virgo man tends to be overly critical of others, events, and of life in general. He finds it difficult to become satisfied or content with life since everywhere that he looks, he is faced with flaws. His own flaw might be the simple fact that he finds flaws in almost every human being, every situation, and every aspect of life. He finds it difficult to perform in a situation that is disorganized and prefers order to disorder every single time. Spontaneity eludes the Virgo man as an inappropriate quality for any circumstance.
The Virgin figure that symbolizes Virgo is sometimes depicted as an angel. Although the symbol may be too feminine for a Virgo man’s liking, it’s worth a closer look. Angels hover above us all, watching, protecting and guiding. They only intervene when asked, and never force their help where it’s not requested.
That being said, shy Virgoan men loathe being made a spectacle of, so think twice before planning that surprise party for them, or telling the waiter to make a scene with the whole restaurant loudly singing to them. Noisy, raucous parties full of messy drunks tend to make these retiring fellows nervous, so maybe consider cooking a lovely meal at home to celebrate instead. Give them their presents in private, and show them that you’ve really been paying attention to what tomes they were lingering over at the bookstore, or the goodies they’ve circled in their favorite catalogs.
Virgo men typically have a fantastic eye for detail and enjoy order, precision and efficiency in all things. This has several implications, for example he is likely to prefer routines to random or chaotic approaches, and is very likely to have a fondness for lists.
Virgo is just as responsive to looks as he is to touch. So instead of touching him on the arm like every girl does, give him that look that screams, “Kiss me.” You’ll have him melting in no time flat.
It really is no coincidence that some of the best comedians of our time are Virgo men. Their man child status and immaturity can really make them a star in this field. Think Adam Sandler, Kevin James, C.K. Louis, Dave Chappelle, and Jimmy Fallon. And you can’t forget Charlie Sheen. Even though he’s not really a comedian, he did bring the laughs on Two and Half Men. Until he got kicked off for his behavior that is.
This is not a man that needs that many surprises. Everyone likes a nice surprise here and there, but the most important thing for him is to honor traditions, birthdays, anniversaries and successes. He will treasure a pen, a notebook, a laptop or anything he can write on, even if he claims he is not into writing. Buy him a transparent, manly watch, with all the gear wheels shown, or any book on how stuff works. He will want to see how things are made or fixed, and he will be thankful for all sorts of fine tools that allow him to do something practical that needs to be done at the moment. If nothing else makes him happy, you can always buy him an enormous puzzle of 5000 little pieces. This should keep him occupied for a while.
This is not the kind of guy that’s going to get hot and heavy with you in public, and he may want to keep his relationship with you secret until a formal commitment between you has been made. His old-fashioned ways may seem positively archaic and stiff – but, like many men of the Victorian era, a modest and even parsimonious public persona might serve as a foil for an appetite that swings toward secret kinks.
Virgo men can be shy and not always easy to get to know, but they make great friends and boyfriends — their perfectionism makes for quite impressive dates! Found one that you have your eyes set on? Easy to see why — they are smart, loyal, and down-to-earth. Here’s what you need to know to date one of these men born between August 23 – September 22.
It may seem the stars aren’t so aligned for these two signs. The Pisces woman lives in a dream world, while the Virgo man is well-grounded. Pisces yearns for romance and passion, which can be tricky with a down-to-earth Virgo love interest.
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If you’re interested in a Virgo man, be friends with him first. Virgos are not passionate, ready-to-jump-into-bed creatures. They like to know exactly what they’re getting into. The will not get caught up in a whirlwind of romance. So be friends first! Show him that you’re the real deal and his interest will spark.
Keep your conversations down to earth and direct. Excessive displays of “personality” may ultimately lead him to think you’re pretentious. What he’s really looking for is a steady partner with real depth.
Virgo man judges his life by all the little pieces, rather than looking at the big picture. He’s not an all or nothing guy by any means. He examines every situation bit by bit and piece by piece much like a puzzle. In fact, he is one of those people who actually has the patience to sit down and do a 5,000 piece puzzle. He would actually find that activity fun rather than exhausting. If you want to date the Virgo man, you have to show him that you belong in his world and you won’t disrupt it in any way. Order and stability are the two most important things in a Virgo man’s life and that’s something his partner just has to understand.
Ruled by the planet Mercury, the Virgo man is incredibly intelligent and is always busy parsing information and finding ways to organize the contents of his own crowded brainpan. He delights in making the world fit his specifications and creating a space around himself that is peaceful, orderly, and utterly tidy – to help quell the over-thinking that is constantly taking place within his mind.
To sum up the Virgo man in a single word, it would be “practical.” He sees things as they are, with no sugar coating. Virgo is a down-to-earth, hard-working guy who sees no need for unnecessary outpourings of emotion. When he has strong feelings about something, he usually keeps them to himself. Likewise, he tends to prefer the company of others who are similarly reserved.
If you’re compatible, your life together will be a good one because Virgo men have a practical and direct approach to life. There won’t be a lot of incredibly romantic moments, but he’ll work hard to make a good home life for the two of you.
The Virgo man is typically very loyal. One warning however in this area, as with other signs who dislike confrontation Virgos can be known to take action on their own rather than repeat arguments. Especially if you’re overly aggressive or dominant. This isn’t a man who cheats just for the thrill of it, or the ego boost or other shallow reasons, however he may do so when unhappy or dissatisfied for long periods.
Additionally, the Virgo man is reluctant to expose his inner self to another being. Intimacy is not something that he is comfortable with since he is reluctant to make himself vulnerable and exposed to another. Since he functions on a rational level rather than an emotional one, being intimate is an activity that does not come naturally to him.
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