To get a fix on a Pisces man’s sexuality, you have to understand a bit about Pisces. Pisces is a mutable water sign and the most spiritual sign of the Zodiac. A Pisces man has oceanic emotions that are vast, deep, ethereal, and constantly in flux. He’s sensitive and receptive, and he soaks up the emotions and feelings that surround him and echoes them back.
Jewelry made of these or other semi-precious stones will often appeal, as romantic, emotional Pisces men usually are not uncomfortable exploring their feminine side. They may enjoy wearing perfume or oils and like to always smell delicious. Based on their innate traits. many Pisces men can be fastidious about their personal cleanliness habits and appearance, so scented bath and body products will be appreciated by this water-loving sign.
We’ll start off with the positive and negative traits of male Pisces. Their characteristics in the chart listed below also include intensity. Having this knowledge will provide a foundation for all that follows.
Many Pisces men are extremely sensitive to noise and light pollution, and will often soundproof their homes or block out natural light from the windows, lending further to the sense of being in an insular womb-like cavern, a fairyland away from the normal world. You may lose track of time and forget that there’s even a world outside the beautiful one that he has created.
A Taurus woman needs a strong physical connection from sex; a Pisces man needs an emotional and spiritual connection. A Taurus woman may want dinner, music, and romance every time before she’s in the mood for sex, and a Pisces man has all that covered. Both are very sensual, passionate, romantic, and caring. Each takes sex seriously and is looking for a meaningful connection. The sexuality these two share can make their time together in bed like a visit to the Garden of Eden.
Several years ago, a major aviation incident happened that killed many people. Minutes before the news became public, a friend of mine, who happens to be Pisces (and psychologist), called me on the phone.
The man who is ruled by the sign of the Fish is an inspiring and charismatic individual. His passion for conversation and the exchange of ideas is only surpassed by his vision of future conversations. In fact, that vision thing of his, that crystal ball into what will be, is simultaneously the most enchanting and the most frustrating thing about him. He might be able to describe what future generations will think about the world we live in now, but he will not be able or willing to function in that same world today. You might think that he is out of touch with reality, but the Pisces man is simply feeling removed from our day-to-day reality.
A Pisces man will have little regard for “rules for the sake of rules,” and will defy everything from dress code to issues on tardiness or taking breaks. Rather than marching to the beat of their own drummer, they tend to undulate vaguely to their own internal clarinet. This may infuriate managers, but if the people in charge of a Pisces can recognize the strange genius of the man they’ve employed and just let him do his thing (rules and regulations be damned), they’ll often be amazed by the results he produces and the inventiveness of his work.
Once you and your Pisces man are an item, keeping him faithful will require that you patrol the borders. Incoming temptation must be stopped before it can inspire him. The ultimate goal for you should be to become part of his deeply held belief system. If being faithful to you is as important to him as his artistic and spiritual pursuits, you will have him for life.
To a Gemini woman, sex is like playing. It has to be fun and nothing too serious. Love has nothing to do with it, and emotional connection isn’t even necessary for her to enjoy the experience. A Pisces man is certain to find sex with a Gemini woman emotionally unfulfilling. There’s a good chance that a Gemini woman and a Pisces man won’t even recognize each other as sexual beings.
There is a unique relationship that Pisces men have with animals of all types. For reasons that seem almost supernatural, this sign forms bonds with dogs, cats and even wild creatures of nature in an uncanny way.
Because of this disparity, Pisces men often end up getting hurt and may wear their wounded hearts on their sleeves. It’s easy for them to end up feeling like the victim when their deep feelings aren’t matched, or when their partner suddenly wakes from the consuming spell of singularity to realize they haven’t been home in a week and all their houseplants are dead. It’s tempting to spend all night and day in bed with your Pisces – swimming within their embrace and getting lost in their kisses.
That’s because in their quest to help others deal with emotional trauma and pain, Pisces men often attract drama. Moreover, there is a tendency to care too much, which in turn leads to an unattractive, clingy codependency.
A Pisces man doesn’t recognize any distinction between romance, love, and sex; they’re all rolled up into one and can’t be separated, as far as he’s concerned. He’s a man who opens his heart and soul to his lover. He idealizes love, and to him, sex is the ultimate expression of love. He yearns for the euphoric feeling of closeness, fulfillment, ecstasy, and losing himself in another that he experiences when making love with his beloved.
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While she talked and talked, her Pisces gazed at her with an amused half-smile—sort of a knowing smirk, though not a rude one. He’d heard this all before. He shrugged and said nothing, just letting her prattle on. He offered no reason for keeping the relationship on cruise control instead of accelerating. “I know he’s committed, and he loves me,” she sighed, exasperated. “So why don’t we just get married? What’s it gonna take?”
To attract a Pisces man you must be like-minded. If you have fundamental lifestyle differences, this is one zodiac sign that is also a “Stop” sign. If you share some of the same interests and frequent the same establishments as this man, you will already be on his radar. Keeping him engaged intellectually means that you must always have another idea to discuss. He only wants absolutes when it comes to the consistencies in his personal life.
Although he looked as serene as Ghandi, we were onto him. He was waging Ghandi’s own favorite tactic: passive resistance. In other words, while smiling like a smug, serene Buddha, he was quietly digging in his heels and refusing to budge. It’s the Pisces man’s ultimate “f**k you.”
A Pisces man is charming and romantic, and seduction comes naturally to him. He’s a master of all things sensual. He’ll plan romantic dinners and getaways, send his lover flowers and love notes, and use his intuition to discover what tantalizes and pleases her. To a Pisces man, creating love is an art, and he is the artist.
A Libra woman is romantic and wants to be wooed, wined and dined. Sex without romance does not appeal to her; it’s the whole aesthetic experience of lovemaking that turns her on. Eventually, a Pisces man might find that she’s too light-hearted sexually, and she might find he’s not fun or light-hearted enough, but a Libra woman and Pisces man have good sexual chemistry because both are so romantic.
Electric passion can be just the beginning between a Pisces man and the Libra woman. If things evolve into a serious relationship, beware of codependency potholes on the road to happiness. Laying a solid foundation early in the relationship makes for wonderful passion later.
These Neptune-ruled visionaries love to dive deep and are never content to stay in shallow water – emotionally, spiritually, or intellectually. Small talk doesn’t interest them at all, and you’ll find that even upon meeting them for the first time, a Pisces man will ask you penetrating questions about yourself and your life for hours. It may take awhile before you notice that, though they know everything about you, you still know almost nothing about them.
Virgo is the mutable earth sign. Pisces is the mutable water sign. Both are adaptable but ever changing. Virgo is mental; Pisces is emotional. A Virgo woman strives for sexual perfection, but the perfection she seeks is technical; her emotions are secondary. A Pisces man’s sexuality is all about emotions. So while their sex could be satisfying in the beginning, it won’t be long before a Pisces man is longing for a woman who is less into the mechanics of sex and more willing to let her emotions dictate her moves.
To an Aquarius woman, sex is about experimentation and research into what makes two people tick. A Pisces man’s merging of romance, love, and sex is a riddle for her to solve. Together they are sexually experimental lovers. Their sex life is not just about experiencing love; it’s also about experimenting with each other to reach greater mental and spiritual heights. Their time together in bed will be exciting and colorful, because of their ability to experience something universal and wonderful in the other.
However social he might seem, a Pisces man is a loner. He needs to spend some time with his thoughts and experiences and if he doesn’t have a chance to do so, he will be driven crazy. Although he will be ready to take on any possible adventure, he will also like to spend some time at home, doing something creative that reminds him who he is. He has a great need to express his creativity. Every Pisces man is a man on a mission, and he has to know that when he is gone, he will leave something behind. There are often too many expectations he sets for himself and he can have trouble meeting any of them, getting lost in irrelevant things to avoid dealing with his own inner disappointment.
As mentioned earlier, Pisces is a water sign. In simple speak, this means people who are of this horoscopic background dive deep. Of the three water signs [Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces] the “fish” sign can dive the deepest; emotionally and spiritually.
He’s eager to please and open to all forms of sexual expression. Slow and easy or raunchy and wild, he’s a chameleon by nature and can synchronize with his lover’s movements and emotions. Plus, he’s blessed with a vivid imagination and can easily blur the lines between fantasy and reality, then wrap both himself and his lover in a blissful romantic haze.
“You know what I think?” we asked his distraught girlfriend, while Pisces pretended he was only half-listening. “He feels like you’re trying to take away his freedom. Pisces needs space before he’ll commit. He’s afraid you’re going to try to control him. So he’s holding back until you chill out.”
If you are connected to a Pisces male, you may need to talk with him if he puts up resistance to your pleasing him. In many ways, the idea of receiving pleasure from others is an anathema to Piscean way of life.
Pisces guys often like to have aquariums or terrariums full of rare fish, frogs, or unusual plant life. They may raise orchids or just enjoy having plants and animals around them. There is artwork everywhere, usually created by him or by dear friends who he loves to support. There is a sacred atmosphere in his space, and a hush in the air that calls for a sense of reverence. You might instinctively bend to take off your shoes when you enter, regardless of whether or not he insists upon it – or feel awkward about using your cellphone inside.
Here’s a better idea: get a life, or keep living the one you’ve got. If you bait your hook with some juicy tackle—in other words, a full, exciting life—he’ll nibble and latch right on. The Pisces man is a follower, and he needs a strong leader. Once he’s sure you’re a queen, he’ll court you like a tenderhearted prince.
Dates with a Pisces man are romantic, unplanned and magical. He will treat his partner with tenderness and respect, ready to jump into any new adventure, for as long as he is allowed to be what he is. If he starts feeling pressured and forced into anything at all, he will feel the need to run off and create incredible dates for someone else. Experiences shared with him should be treasured, for nobody knows when the time will come when he won’t feel like being a part of them anymore.
Negotiating the push-pull dynamic of his dual natures can be a lifelong quest for Pisces. A relationship with him can take a lot of patience and understanding. This is the guy who stays with the same woman for twenty years but never marries her. Or, during a lonely spell, he calls the escort service then becomes infatuated with his call girl. Her sheer unavailability gives him so much freedom, he freaks out and tries to hold tight. What a mess.
Not just any everyday object will do – it needs to be something that he will feel is imbued with meaning. Usually, a Pisces will not adhere to one mystical path or religion – choosing instead to mix bits of this and that into a hodgepodge of traditions and beliefs that suits him best. “Take what you like and leave the rest” tends to be his philosophy, and he sees all paths as being one anyway, so he has no issues in placing a statue of the Buddha next to a Catholic saint or Pagan goddess image.
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