If you have chosen a life with a Gemini man, rest assured you will never be bored. On his good days he will make you laugh and talk your ear off, and on his off days he will lock himself away for a chance to really slow down and appreciate everything he’s got. Or maybe just give that mouth a break because those lips are chapped from all that talking. Two sides of the Gemini man personality come together to form an almost perfect human being. Just don’t let him know you think he’s perfect because after all he is still a man, and we must always keep a man guessing if we are to truly keep our status as a mysterious and alluring woman.
First, the disclaimer: Commitment is not a natural state for the Gemini man. He’s a mutable Air sign, which keeps him in constant flux, happiest in the cooler climate of ideas and intellect, rather than the emotional frying pan. The idea of “forever,” if it doesn’t freak him out, is laughable to Gemini. The only fairy tales he believes in are the ones he writes himself. He watches enough movies to know that just when you think you’ve found happily ever after, the sequel comes out a year later.
The older he gets, the more the Gemini man needs space—especially once he’s married. Take our friend Amanda’s Gemini dad. Every day after work, he retreats to the bedroom where, Amanda says, “He watches crime shows, reads at least eight books, and drinks a six-pack of Diet Coke. He then eats an entire package of ham, which he wraps around hot dogs and shares with the dog.” Another Gemini man built his personal playroom in the attic, where he surfs the Internet, watches TV shows and downloads video games. The Gemini man absorbs so much information that he gets easily overwhelmed. “A giant Whole Foods makes me anxious,” admits one Gemini. “I like defined spaces. I need to know where I am so I can make an informed decision. Besides, I don’t like to waste time.”
You couldn’t exactly say that a Gemini man is dependable or reliable. He has no intention of letting their partner down, but he is not aware of the speed of changes in his feel of reality. When he is in love for real, he will have seasons in his feelings no matter the love. From spring and blossoming desire, to winter and unbearable distance, he is a difficult man to be with if you expect consistency. The only way he can remain in a functional relationship is if he finds a partner who is self-sufficient and fully independent. If he finds a partner who catches a glimpse of his winter and leaves him to boil waiting – someone to love him in the exact same way as he loves, but with a little more patience.
Gemini lives in his imagination, and real-world relationships can be a bit too grounding for his sign. Until then, the Gemini man avoids committing by being a little bit committed to everyone and everything. Like Sagittarius, he’s a dilettante who craves variety, and prefers breadth over depth. He might even marry a very practical or maternal type, just so she’ll handle the everyday reality while he retains his boyish freedom.
Getting involved with a Gemini man means giving him plenty of solitude. If you do not, you’ll have some major issues of resentment and discord with him. Of course, he may not stick around that long if he sees dependency.
To stay interested for the long haul, the Gemini man needs a mate who’s interested—in all kinds of stuff—and interesting by default. When (and if) things get routine, you need only ask him a smart question or solicit his opinion about something happening in the news. The Gemini man always has an opinion. If he doesn’t, he’s lying or being polite. It just means he thinks your question was inane and not worth dignifying with a thoughtful answer.
Usually Gemini is something like a superficial guinea pig to other people. The truth is his nature is not at all light and superficial, but very complex and hard to reach. If you are superficial yourself, you will never get beyond Gemini’s surface that everyone is allowed to see. This is a man distant from his own emotions and needs to get to the burning core of his heart, but doesn’t know how to do that. If he’s been hurt by his family, there is a great chance he will never go deep enough to understand himself and then it is even more difficult for others to actually see him. If someone recognizes the core of a Gemini man they will find that there is a root to all that childish charm and an incredible inner beauty.
Due to Gemini man being so social and friendly most of the time, he can get the reputation of being a flirt and a player, which he can definitely be if he’s not serious about a woman. When Gemini man finds a woman he can see a future with though, his player status will disappear just as quickly as it came. Gemini man can commit, just with the right woman. If he senses you get him like no one else can and appreciate him, then you have just become his one and only and you shouldn’t worry about any ladies he talks to because he’s only got eyes for you sweetheart.
This is a man who gives little meaning to the act of sex. He has a youthful glow around him and will usually be potent for many years, but he doesn’t care about sex as much as he cares about the excitement that goes with it. He wants someone to challenge him but not dig into his insecurities. He needs someone smart enough who says the right things at the right time. He likes sex outdoors and can be quite a pervert, with no ill intention hidden. If he is in a long term relationship, he will expect change in their sexual activities all the time, almost as if he is frightened of the routine and what it represents. Gemini needs to be on the move, always changing partners, positions or locations.
Oh, did we mention that Yas is also 12 years young than Neda? Fairy-tale romances with Gemini, should they happen, always have an interesting plot twist—the more unpredictable the better. And feeling like he’s getting away with something could inspire the Gemini man’s adoration. He loves a challenge! “He knew we would get me—he just waited for me to realize it,” Neda recalls of her courtship. “He introduced me to his mom and family without me knowing what he was up to (because I was filming and in work mode). Then when he confessed to me his feelings and I responded positively. He said, ‘Well then, my last question to you is, shall I wait for you?’ I said yes and the next day, it was as if we were a married couple—that comfortable! No guesses, no games.”
A Gemini man in love will always keep you guessing. This sign’s fluid disposition and dazzling intellect can be utter ambrosia for partners easily bored by earthier, more stable types. Just when you think you have your Gemini man figured out, he’ll have changed his tune – again!
Because Gemini man is a such a good communicator, he might be one of the only zodiac signs who likes to talk on the phone. Most men tend to avoid phone conversations, but Gemini man actually prefers it. If you want to grab the attention of the Gemini man, all you have to do is be able to hold an intelligent conversation with him. He finds conversation more stimulating then anything else. He gets bored easily, so you have to keep his attention through the art of conversation. If you can do that, and stimulate him intellectually, you just might have a chance.
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A Gemini man may move around a lot, and even go through stints of couch surfing or staying here and there when traveling. He tends not to get attached to his possessions or even many of the traditional connotations of home – unless he’s sharing a space with someone else who does, which is often ideal.
Gemini is a paradox, because one side of him is such a social and communicative creature, while the other side is a loner who needs plenty of space. One day Gemini man just can’t shut up and wants to spend all day with you, then the next day, he doesn’t return your phone call and you don’t hear from him for a week. What gives right? Well that’s all part of his charm. With Gemini you get a two for one package. Want a social creature with a side of reclusive? You got it baby.
In addition to that, the Gemini man requires an enormous amount of intellectual stimulation to keep him engaged. Seduce him with your brilliance, learn the dance of a quick-stepping wit, and you’ll lure him in. Sexually, be prepared to try new things, and remember that you may have to encourage him to on one thing rather than move rapidly through the whole Kama Sutra, just because he can.
Understanding Gemini energy has more to do with appreciating our need to see and truly embrace both aspects in ourselves, which we also carry – regardless of our own zodiac sign. It’s an important lesson in life, and a Gemini is the perfect teacher (though perhaps not the most patient one). Constantly holding the juxtaposition of two opposites within the container of your own personality can be a lot to handle, both for the Gemini man himself and for those he encounters as he fleetly flits through life.
Relationships are difficult because he doesn’t have an easy time committing. He loves having lots of different women around him at all times. He’ll often have plenty of female friends (they’re often more than friends).
There is no way to ever know what he’s thinking or doing at any given time. He’s distracted very easily and this could change his behavior or mood. One minute he may be sweet to you and then another moment, he may be very sarcastic.
If you notice darker signs from your Gemini guy; you may need to go ahead and bail before things become too chaotic and you end up really hurt. Now; if you’re one of the lucky ladies that don’t have this type of Gemini then hold onto your guy.
Still, turning into Al Bundy is far from the Gemini man’s dream. He just needs relationships with a single key ingredient: space. He must have distance in order to come closer. His inner Twin needs this contrast, to switch the intimacy button on and off. “I need variety; I don’t want to talk to you all the time,” says John, a Gemini IT specialist. As much as he may seek fame or a public career, the Gemini man needs to slip into the shadows at will, retreating into his own anonymous world to recharge. When he’s not making films, Gemini Johnny Depp lives a private, idyllic life in Southern France with his Capricorn wife and children. These polar extremes are essential to his sanity (a term we use loosely with Geminis).
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Sometimes too easily distractible, the Gemini dad could use the reminder to make lots of quality time for his little ones – giving them his full and undivided attention for playtime that deeply nourishes both parent and child.
The home of a Gemini man is often just a placeholder – somewhere to store his books, papers, and clothes. You may never get an invitation to come over unless he’s having an impromptu gathering – but these tend to be more about the meeting of the minds rather than an elaborate dinner party or cozy to-do.
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