When he smiles, it melts my heart. When I hear his laughter I am happy. I love our friendship and the time we spend together. I am falling for him and yes I am a Leo woman. He is considerate and thoughtful, funny, and charming. He is a home body but we have this bubble that is impenetrable. The simplest things are what he enjoys. He has a passion inside him that takes over me when we are intimate so I hope it’s true when they say love and sex are one in the same for these men because I love him. Are there any Cancer men out there that can give me insight on this: a friend of his told me, without prompting from me, that he said he loves me but he hasn’t told me how he feels at all. Do I just wait for him to tell me or should I open up about my feelings to him?
With Mars fallen in his sign, he could have a real problem with initiative and his sex drive. Although he would very much like to be the best lover on the planet, and probably senses he would have a shot, he seems to have trouble showing his talents in the real world. The most important thing to remember here is that there is no real sexual satisfaction for this man without emotion to follow. Although he will rarely admit to this, the fact is he is incapable of being a sexual brute, even if he is all muscles and only speaks of… porn. He needs to feel love, have eye contact, and a partner who challenges his emotional side.
He will take you to a fine, family restaurant where the food is wonderful. He doesn’t need decorations or a fancy image to sweep his partner off their feet. Depending on the situation, he will be perfectly fine with a romantic walk, a cozy restaurant or a dinner at home. This is a man that usually likes to cook, and even if he doesn’t have the habit to do so, with the right partner he might enjoy a romantic date in the kitchen. Dating him is certainly not anything like being in an earthquake, but it can be wonderful, romantic and flattering.
Fiercely loyal and protective, he will do anything to ensure the happiness and security of his loved ones. Cancer men are amongst the most loyal IF they love their partner. If they don’t love their partner then all bets are off (the same as for every other sign).
Share your feelings. Since Cancer men tend to be on the emotional side, they also have a tendency to feel attracted to women who can be equally expressive in their emotions if not more so. Plus, showing your own willingness to open up can demonstrate how much you want him or need him in your life.
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In later seasons, it is revealed that he is a member of a group known as the Syndicate, a shadowy organization within the United States government. The episode “Two Fathers” reveals his birthname or alias as C.G.B. Spender, and that he was formerly married to Cassandra Spender, with whom he had a son, Jeffrey Spender. He recruits FBI Special Agent Diana Fowley to be a subordinate of his because she has a close relationship with Mulder. In “One Son”, Jeffrey finds out that his father, the Smoking Man, forced his mother Cassandra to undergo medical treatments that led to several nervous breakdowns during his childhood years. When the Smoking Man finds out, he seemingly kills Jeffrey. Knowing of the colonization plan, the Alien rebels return to Earth to try to persuade the Syndicate to join their side against their war with the Colonists. Not believing in the strength of the Alien rebels, the Syndicate members meet at El Rico Air Base to be transported to a spaceship to survive the colonization. However, the rebels appear instead of the Colonists and kill all remaining chief members of the Syndicate. Together with Fowley, the Smoking Man escapes the destruction of the Syndicate. Later in the sixth season, there is more evidence that suggested that the Smoking Man is Mulder’s biological father. Eventually in “The Sixth Extinction II: Amor Fati”, Fowley comes in disagreement with him. Because of his plans to kill Mulder, Fowley helps Scully in her investigation to locate Mulder, which leads to her death. After the destruction of the Syndicate, the Smoking Man starts to operate as he wishes. However, his cancer resurfaces, and he begins using a wheelchair and has a tracheotomy. In the end, Alex Krycek and Marita Covarrubias betray him in the episode “Requiem”, throwing him down a flight of stairs, where they presume him to be dead.
Try not to contradict him. Everyone is wrong sometimes, and the Cancer man is no exception. That said, since Cancers are so emotionally reactive, they tend to lash out when directly contradicted or corrected in a harsh manner.
Significant research has been conducted on sex with Cancer men based on narrative reports (Shaughnessy, 1990). When you think of intercourse with Cancer men, the proponderence of evidence suggests the guys relate on an emotional level.
Cancer men can be mama’s boys, so be prepared to meet his (and hope that you pass muster!). And, know that he’s the ideal candidate to bring home to meet your parents: His manners will be impeccable at dinner, and he’ll have already charmed your mom and dad into thinking he’s the best guy you’ve ever dated by the time the appetizers arrive.
No, this article is based only on sun signs. Those are a convenient and fast way to generalize, but far from conclusive at this broad level. There are many other planet placements which all affect someone’s personality.
Moody – If you couldn’t tell already, your Cancer man is a very moody being. His emotions can change quicker than a flash of lightening and back again before the thunder claps. One minute he’s hiding in his shell, the next he’s holding you close, and before you know it, he’s got that pincer hooked into your soft spot, then he’s back to crying in his shell again.
Nurturing – Cancer men are the “mothers” of the zodiac. They need both to be nurtured and to nurture others, which often causes a strong bond with their mothers, making them appear as stereotypical “mama’s boys.” This trait is also the reason most cancer men make great family men.
Should arguments occur, Cancer men will engage in “makeup sex” however, there are limits. Example, don’t look to the bedroom for emotional healing if you cheat on a Cancer guy. He’s not going to go for it.
In truth, psychology and spirituality intersect at a crossroads called psycho-spirituality. This is a ten-dollar term used to describe the relationship between psychological constructs and spiritualism.
You could also try complimenting the relationship he has with his siblings or remarking on how much you think a certain family member might enjoy the great new band/restaurant/book/movie you’re talking about.
Cancer men and Scorpio women just seem to ‘click’. Their watery ways twist and bubble like the intricate swirls in a babbling brook. He is interested in her spontaneous ways, while she is enticed by his sensual charm. These two are highly likely to have a very passionate physical relationship, though it will take a lot of work for their physical togetherness to become more.
His sign is ruled by the Moon, and like the Moon, his emotions shift, change, ebb, and flow in cycles. One thing that doesn’t change is his vulnerability: He wants your unwavering love and affection and doesn’t like to share. If in doubt, he can be jealous and controlling. Some might even call him clingy, insecure, needy, moody, or boring. He’s also a bit reclusive so if you prefer going out and socializing with a crowd, you should probably leave him at home.
For Cancer males, specifically, you need to know they also spend money on their man-caves. While the sign itself is very family unit focused, the males need a place to retreat for restorative purposes.
2. Is it possible that you’re being very clingy or needy? Some signs will find this ultra attractive and endearing, sometimes even a cancer man with the right moon. Though if your cancer man is really fiery or earthy, he’s likely to scuttle away the minute you show any potential for becoming a permanent invader taking over his limited shell space, even if he seriously likes you. Hell, even if you’ve been perfectly sensible in your communications, needs, or pda with him, he could still do that. It just depends on what level of commitment and expectations he’s grown to prefer or at least put up with.
Prepare yourself for his possessiveness. Once a Cancer starts feeling attracted to you, he will probably become notably more possessive. If you want to nurture his growing attraction, you’ll need to find ways of coping with his perceived invasion into your personal space. If you push him away, he will probably stay away for good.
I’m definitely thinking about writing another hub just for your question about “is it worth it”. After having been with a cancer man for over 15 years, I’d like to say “YES! Totally worth it!”, just like a fictional romantic lover would say, but it’s just not as simple as that. There are definitely things that I’d wish I had known before we committed, but at the same time, I wouldn’t change a thing that’s happened. So until I get that hub written, all I can suggest to you, is that to be with a cancer man for life, is to have one of the deepest and most connected relationships you’ve ever had, for better and for worse.
We have a dedicated section for Cancer man gifts with examples of the types of gifts which Cancer men enjoy within various categories from naughty to practical, including reader submitted suggestions.
When talking about your current family, focus on the maternal side. Talk about things you have learned from your mother or time you have recently spent with your mother. Cancer is a classic mama’s boy, and if you can show a love for your mother that rivals the love he has for his own, you can connect to him more easily.
In other words, don’t invite him into your personal space if your desk is covered in papers or if your apartment is covered in dirty laundry. You do not need to have everything labeled and filed away into neat little packages, but some basic cleanliness and a lack of clutter will go a long way.
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This usually is not a good match. The Libra woman is often a “party girl,” while Cancer would much rather spend time at home. The Crab is a penny-pincher, too, while the Scales lady often has extravagant tastes. Libra loves positive energy, so she would have a real problem when the Crab was being, well, Crabby.
This is a man with the Sun in a sign of the heart, love from our mother, our family and our inner feeling of gratitude. Because of this, he may seem weak, or something like a forced opposite of weak, and it is important to realize how hard it can be to be a man with an accented sensitive side. Although civilization is on its way to accept all sorts of human natures, especially the emotional one, it always seems judged by potential partners or wildly misread in general. Cancer always has a family issue to resolve and accept, positive or negative, and it is always best to have a peek into his relationship with his mother in order to understand him better. When he is well raised with a stable sense of security, this is a man anyone who is after a quiet family life would want.
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Avoid spontaneity. The occasional romantic surprise is fine, but as a general rule, avoid making any sudden wild suggestions or demanding something without any warning. Cancer guys like to keep all aspects of their life organized. This includes both physical space and intangible time.
Show off your homemaking skills. After you get to know him a little, take the initiative and show off your ability to keep house in a very traditional manner. One of the easiest ways to do this is through cooking. Cook up a meal or treat for him, or invite him over to cook a complex recipe with you.
Like Scorpio and Pisces, Cancer is a water sign and therefore gifted with empathic abilities. Being exposed to a bunch of people at once can be overwhelming. In turn, this causes the symbolic crab to retreat into his shell.
A man born under the sun sign of Cancer is a very complex machine indeed. He has an intense love for the fine culinary arts, a hatred of instability, and the complete inability to be decisive. This makes him a wonder to behold for any partner lucky enough to be allowed into his inner world.
Romantic and devoted, he takes relationships and his partner seriously, and once settled with a mate he enjoys the home and everything associated with it. Cancer men are also often exceptionally friendly and love to help others and feel needed. That man at your office who offers hugs when you’re feeling down is probably a Cancer… (as a side note, this can be construed as flirting, often where it isn’t intended)
The only exception might be products related to home. Because of their homebody persona, they like to live in safe, restorative and comfortable environments. Spending money on furniture and appliances, even if they cost a ton, are just fine by this sign.
In the traditions of horoscopic astrology, Cancer is considered the “Fourth House” of the astrological universe. A “house” is nothing more than a theoretical construct that holds certain traits. In turn, these traits are gifted to those born under its shadow.
If the relationship leads to marriage, be a wife in whom he has absolute trust. Make your home a safe, cozy haven from the outside world, filled with sentimental mementos, works of art, and comfortable yet stylish furniture. Pamper him with candlelit dinners, bubble baths, and massages, and compliment him often. Your emotional support and approval will be very important to your Cancerian husband.
Taurus: Because Taurus is an earth sign, the goat helps to keep the crab centered. And because Taurus is also a homebody, the two complement one another. Taurus has the strange ability to keep Cancer in its place when emotions run high. Additionally, the centered energy of Taurus translates into Cancer calmness.
I am a Scorpio Women and I am madly, deeply, irrefutably and sadly in love with Cancer men. EVERY WORD, I repeat every single word written in this article is true. Even he can’t refuse this …. If tell you cancer men that you know them and even if you really do, they won’t accept it because of their ego. They don’t like to be known…they like to be understood. This morning I had fight my cancer men and oh my god… they are so difficult.. believe me.. One second he is sad and the other second so angry as if I have betrayed him, which I didn’t. Their mood swings are more than the women in period.. Cancer men are the most moody personalities you will ever find. They will love you and drive you crazy. Don’t dare say a word or argue with them when they are angry or else they will simply go back to their “Shell”. This goes true for cancer men, “You can love ne, you can hate me but you can’t ignore me”. I love my Cancer men so much.. The moment you hate, is the moment they will do something really sweet and you will find your guilty for hating them.. They don’t open up at all.. They want a clean, organized environment. I am Scorpio women and really untidy and so we fight often because of that. They love their MOTHERS like anything… Sometimes its frustrating.. If I say something, my BF doesn’t believe but when the same thing goes through his mother, that things become golden words.. it is annoying but I can’t help it.. I love him and I can’t live without him..
Pisces: Cancers and Pisces are thought to be an extremely good match. Both are empathic and both are intuitive. Pisces will mirror some Cancer traits because Pisces is a mutable sign. Arguments are rare between the two water signs. Additionally, Pisces can handle the Cancer man’s fluctuating moods around the time of full moon; something other signs may struggle with.
Connect to the people close to him. As long as your Cancer man has a functional family, he will probably be very close to them. The sooner you can get to know his family, the sooner you can attract him as a potential mate.
Hello Hopelessly Confused! Thank you for your comment, and I’m sorry it’s taken so long for me to get a reply to ya. Finally got a newerish computer. So, now that I’m back, just in case you’re still hoping for some of my thoughts, or if someone else comes a long in search of the same info, here’s what I have for you, from both my experience and my cancer man’s thoughts.
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