I am a scorpion female madly in love with a cancer male who is 14 years younger than I am. In the beginning he acted like he was really feeling me but once we had sex he started distancing himself. Taking long to text/call back, waiting 3weeks to see/have sex again. He says he is focused on making money so he can be set in the next 5 years but he always makes time with his friends. Everytime I try and break it off thinking he’s just not that into me he reels me back in! Ugh I’m so frustrated because I really love him but am I wasting my time!?
He will take you to a fine, family restaurant where the food is wonderful. He doesn’t need decorations or a fancy image to sweep his partner off their feet. Depending on the situation, he will be perfectly fine with a romantic walk, a cozy restaurant or a dinner at home. This is a man that usually likes to cook, and even if he doesn’t have the habit to do so, with the right partner he might enjoy a romantic date in the kitchen. Dating him is certainly not anything like being in an earthquake, but it can be wonderful, romantic and flattering.
Prepare yourself for his possessiveness. Once a Cancer starts feeling attracted to you, he will probably become notably more possessive. If you want to nurture his growing attraction, you’ll need to find ways of coping with his perceived invasion into your personal space. If you push him away, he will probably stay away for good.
If you are answering yes to these questions, you’ve come to the right place. This page is all about Cancer Sun Sign men, including their personality traits, how they love and the way they attach to others in relationships.
Cancer is a naturally nurturing sign. If they care, then they tend to show it fairly obviously and readily. Hugs, questions about your day, troubles, worries, picking up on your moods etc are a good indicator. On the other side of things, withdrawing if offended or hurt is an equally good indicator. If they care about someone they become very easily offended by that person.
You’ll need to be assertive, but indirectly so. Persistence is important here. Show him that you’re genuinely interested in him by continually making the effort to approach him. A Cancer guy can be a little insecure at times, but once you calm those insecurities and demonstrate that your interest is real and lasting, he can feel comfortable enough to develop his own attraction and affection for you in return.
Hi i am with a cancer man (ascendant leo and moon scorpio) i am virgo (ascendant capricorn and moon aries) its a love hate relationship i feel you have mentioned oreviosly that aries is it good for cancer is that true? Even having virgo and capricorn?
Hi, Virgo girl here, and I really like everything it says about Cancer, and I even had a Cancer boyfriend when I was a young teen (15) and I ended things with him because I was young still and unable to stay in a long-term relationship (I’m 47 now) but the qualities are pretty on point about what they are like in a relationship as long as they remain interested. I’ve seen some Cancer men and women in relationships and if someone else piques their interest, nothing holds them back, and the fact that they are involved with someone else doesn’t seem to matter much. They get lifted off the ground very easily like a “follow your nose” kind of thing. Its a scary thought that they could be here today and gone tomorrow and you are left with your heart in your hand as nothing is worse than healing a broken heart. And yes, its a part of life, but one I feel they seem to accept quite easily. It seems a bit cold to me. None of them ever did it to me but I’ve seen their tendency with this.
Try not to contradict him. Everyone is wrong sometimes, and the Cancer man is no exception. That said, since Cancers are so emotionally reactive, they tend to lash out when directly contradicted or corrected in a harsh manner.
Satisfy his craving for affection. Even though Cancers like to assume a traditional male role, they are also fairly in touch with their emotions. They crave love on an emotional level, so don’t be afraid to shower them with affection. The more your actions demonstrate your affection, the more likely your Cancer man is to respond in kind.
Present a traditional feminine aura. Most Cancer men are attracted to women who are highly feminine in a very traditional way. Subconsciously, a Cancer male will be looking for a woman who fits his image of the ideal wife and mother. Everything from your appearance to your mannerisms should ooze femininity.
Cancerian men are natural homebodies, deeply attached to their personal space, which they like to feel cushy and comfy, with a deep, soft sofa to lounge around on. They’ll often prefer to eat their meals here, rather than stand on ceremony and have proper place-settings and sit stuffily at the table in angular chairs.
This is an “iffy” relationship, at best. While Cancer will love the security and stability that the Capricorn woman will provide, the Crab will hate Capricorn’s seeming lack of emotion. The Goat will often think that the Crab isn’t ambitious enough for her. Practical Capricorn will also have a hard time with Cancer’s mood swings.
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Hello. Normally I don’t comment on these, but I am a Virgo Asc, Virgo Sun, Pisces Moon, Venus Leo. My man is a Taurus Asc, Cancer Sun, Taurus Moon, Venus Leo. My Chinese sign is Horse, his is Tiger. I just wanted to note that his love is the sweetest, most tender love that I’ve ever known in a lover. At first I was kind of turned off by how much he declared to love me, he said I love you after only one month. But now? Our bond has gotten so strong that sometime I tell him “I love you” twice in a row only because there aren’t words beautiful enough to say to someone so wonderful. Earlier today I had a panic attack at work (my Pisces moon makes me feel vulnerable to hectic crowds of adults sometimes) and can you believe my Cancer had me laughing after I came crying to him? I laughed so hard at his jokes. Ah… I love him so much. We make love beautifully, we laugh together about the silliest stuff, we pray together, we love texting all day, we protect each other… He calls me Mrs. — tho we haven’t even made our relationship official. I am waiting until we are both 100% sure that this will be a lifetime commitment. Can you believe he says he’s ready to commit?! I believe him, I’m just waiting to order him a nice chain necklace to wear when we make it official so he’ll always have a token of my love. I adore him. He’ll do anything to see me happy. Cheers to all Cancers, including my beautiful Mama who’s also an adorable shy crab. Lol. Xoxoxoxo
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The common advice is to tell Cancer that you love him 20 times a day. While that certainly works, it misses the point that they want to be understood. One genuine and passionate “i love you” at the right time is worth 20 random ones.
When in love, the Cancer man is a dedicated lover. He’s a total dream come true for someone who loves to receive affection. He can come off as the ultimate Prince Charming, making extravagant professions of adoration and writing flowery love letters to court you. But, once comfortably ensconced in a committed relationship, the connection can become more cozy than steamy. Cooking you dinner and settling in for a night of Netflix may become more his habit than hot bedroom action so that chemistry needs to be stoked, and intimacy kept vibrant with lots of touch and the willingness to always go deeper.
On the other hand, if you’re willing to subdue your inner diva a little in exchange for his nurturing and guidance, to offer your appreciation and be wowed by him, he’ll work his ass off to keep the stars in your eyes.
Talk about his family in a positive way. Invite him to talk about his own family and connect other topics of conversation back to his family as often as possible. Always do so in a positive light, though, and avoid anything that could sound like an insult toward those he loves.
When Venus and the Moon coincide, the sparks will fly, and it is obviously so between the Cancer man and Taurus woman. These are two passionate creatures who love the luxuries life has to offer, which gives them much in common (though the male crab must be mindful that even in play, the female bull can be brutal, and he shouldn’t take things too personally). Miss Bighorn must remember not to crush that crab shell when he goes into hiding, as it is the only thing that makes him feel safe, and taking it away will only send him in search of safer waters and another shell.
Nurturing – Cancer men are the “mothers” of the zodiac. They need both to be nurtured and to nurture others, which often causes a strong bond with their mothers, making them appear as stereotypical “mama’s boys.” This trait is also the reason most cancer men make great family men.
For Cancer males, specifically, you need to know they also spend money on their man-caves. While the sign itself is very family unit focused, the males need a place to retreat for restorative purposes.
Ruled by the moon, Cancer men may be uncommonly in touch with their emotions, able to take on roles that many of their male counterparts would be utterly lost in, like romance and parenting. You will find that chivalry is not dead with this sentimental and poetic knight in shining armor – if you can get him to take the armor off.
The Gemini woman is far too logical for emotional Cancer, and the Twin’s independent nature would threaten the Crab’s need for stability. The Twins are like quicksilver – flighty and unpredictable, and this is often just too much for the Crab to take in. Also, Gemini is often somewhat of a flirt, and Cancer would have a hard time dealing with this.
Highly intuitive, he has a natural talent for nurturing, often knowing exactly how to make his partner feel comfortable and secure. Loving, gentle, intimate and understanding he is kind hearted but not soft, and will often know exactly what you’re feeling and how best to support you emotionally.
HI how is it possible my being a cancer july 3 to be in love and get on like a house onfire a with some one born april 11th aries . I have read that we not ment to be compatable together and yet i cant bare being apart from her .
2nd: Cancer’s are very well known amongst astrologers for being one of the most romantic and most ‘clingy’ signs out there in stars. It’s because you care, you’re loyal and you totally believe in love at first sight. Even if you find a partner who is a down right horrible match for you, as a Cancer, you can find a million and one reasons to love her anyways and that will drive you to keep her close to you in any way you can. Just be careful, as Aries and Cancer’s tend to make better business partners than love partners for several very good reasons. One of the most important being that while she will love that you faun over her (anything to boost the ego), she will also demand a high amount of freedom at the same time. Aries want to have their cake and eat it to, by themselves. You might be lucky to get a nibble. If you beg. lol
This is often a match made in Heaven! Although the Scorpio woman and Cancer man have very different personalities, they complement each other well. The jealous nature of the Scorpion would be soothed by the Crab’s total devotion, and both would seek to establish a harmonious family and home.
Ask him for help when you move into a new office or apartment, or if you go shopping for a new car. If nothing quite so dramatic lies ahead of you, however, look for smaller excuses. For example, ask his opinion about a dilemma you have at work, even if you’ve secretly solved the issue yourself.
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His sign is ruled by the Moon, and like the Moon, his emotions shift, change, ebb, and flow in cycles. One thing that doesn’t change is his vulnerability: He wants your unwavering love and affection and doesn’t like to share. If in doubt, he can be jealous and controlling. Some might even call him clingy, insecure, needy, moody, or boring. He’s also a bit reclusive so if you prefer going out and socializing with a crowd, you should probably leave him at home.
Deeply sensitive and easily wounded, your Cancer may not give you another chance to do him wrong once you’ve hurt him. Cancer men have long memories, and never forget once they’ve experienced a slight. Tread lightly and be kind to this Crab, and you will be rewarded with undying loyalty.
Iam friends with a cancer man and just wondering why he won’t invite me to his home we have beenwork mates for the last 2years and friends out side work for the last 8 months.Ihave not had sex with him he has kissed me three times and I kisses him ie peck on the lips twice Ihave spoiled him with buying meals and just loving him Iam I the door mat?
From just someone’s sun sign however we can only predict some aspects of their personality and it’s too much of a leap to try and predict behavior from just those. Astrology has fairly precise limits. This is an example of an area where sun signs are just too broad and clumsy to give an answer. A real compatibility reading is required to answer the question.
Take the example of our Virgo friend Nancy, a wealthy executive and world traveler. On her third date, she invited her Cancer beau Edward to her tasteful, art-filled New York City apartment. Rather than marvel at her rare book collection and African pottery, Edward noticed two things: that Nancy’s living room air conditioner didn’t work, and she didn’t have an anti-slip pad under her tiny kitchen rug.
Cancer men are a pleasure to shop for because they genuinely love receiving gifts and romantic displays of affection – especially if you give them something that has special meaning for you. They adore old things and unusual treasures, especially if they know for certain that no one else has what they have. Ruled by the moon, Cancer men are generally more in touch with their feminine nature and inner anima than most guys – so you can have fun finding them cute clothes and accessories with which to adorn themselves. They usually enjoy receiving jewelry, especially handcrafted silver rings, cuffs, and pendants. These men will often wear scents that seem more flowery or sweet than most guys feel comfortable sporting – so lavender, verbena and all gourmand scents like chocolate or spice will usually go over well here.
No advice will ever apply to every Cancer man as they are all unique in various ways. I specialize in offering tailored advice based on your unique personality and his together, as one without the other isn’t nearly as useful. My astrology readings solve real relationship problems for real people every day. For more information please see the article on relationship advice.
The simplest answer is – yes. You can trust your Cancer man. He does confuse privacy with dishonesty from time to time, and has the excessive need to protect himself from the outer world by keeping secrets, but when he decides to let someone into his world, he will share almost everything with that person. If he does tell a lie, it will usually be about a small thing that could benefit them both. A typical Cancer lie usually involves a secret savings account. Other than that, he is not prone to adultery, the chase of young new partners, or in a desperate need for a constant change of scenery.
This guy is all heart. He’s like a big, sloppy, pulsing heart encased in a hard, protective shell. Although you might not be able to tell just by looking at him (he has an excellent poker face), he needs that tough exterior for protection. He leads with his heart, not his mind, and is therefore extremely affectionate, sensitive, thoughtful, intuitive, caring, and easily hurt. He is an expert in emotions—both his and yours— and makes an excellent life partner.
Translation: Cancer men can tell who is being authentic and who is being fake. If you are transparent about who you are, they’ll trust you. Try to be hide something from them and they’ll know right away. Water signs all have this capability.
Significant research has been conducted on sex with Cancer men based on narrative reports (Shaughnessy, 1990). When you think of intercourse with Cancer men, the proponderence of evidence suggests the guys relate on an emotional level.
Make the first move. Cancers tend to be shy, so gather up your courage and approach him first. The key is to present yourself in a non-aggressive way. Introduce yourself and cement your existence in his mind, but never push or pry your way inside his personal bubble, especially if he seems uncomfortable.
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