Try not to contradict him. Everyone is wrong sometimes, and the Cancer man is no exception. That said, since Cancers are so emotionally reactive, they tend to lash out when directly contradicted or corrected in a harsh manner.
When talking about your current family, focus on the maternal side. Talk about things you have learned from your mother or time you have recently spent with your mother. Cancer is a classic mama’s boy, and if you can show a love for your mother that rivals the love he has for his own, you can connect to him more easily.
Cancer men are too complicated. They make every thing difficult and sometimes impossible for someone to reach out to them and when they actually decide to come out of their shell its to late. The mystery is all nice and stuff but people have to be careful with these types of people because they can really play with your head and heart.
This is a question which is very hard to give a general answer on, as no two Cancer men are totally identical. The key is understanding him and what he finds most attractive in a partner. Astrology can provide a wealth of information to enable this, however natal charts need to be prepared and studied to do so. Please see the article on seduction and astrology for more information on this.
Cancer men can be mama’s boys, so be prepared to meet his (and hope that you pass muster!). And, know that he’s the ideal candidate to bring home to meet your parents: His manners will be impeccable at dinner, and he’ll have already charmed your mom and dad into thinking he’s the best guy you’ve ever dated by the time the appetizers arrive.
Keep in mind, however, that the Cancer man is a little more withdrawn and may resist your affections if he believes that you’re coming on too fast. Inviting him back to your place for a meal the first time you meet him will probably end in rejection. Wait until you have already established some sort of bond with him before you extend an invitation into your home.
I am a Scorpio Women and I am madly, deeply, irrefutably and sadly in love with Cancer men. EVERY WORD, I repeat every single word written in this article is true. Even he can’t refuse this …. If tell you cancer men that you know them and even if you really do, they won’t accept it because of their ego. They don’t like to be known…they like to be understood. This morning I had fight my cancer men and oh my god… they are so difficult.. believe me.. One second he is sad and the other second so angry as if I have betrayed him, which I didn’t. Their mood swings are more than the women in period.. Cancer men are the most moody personalities you will ever find. They will love you and drive you crazy. Don’t dare say a word or argue with them when they are angry or else they will simply go back to their “Shell”. This goes true for cancer men, “You can love ne, you can hate me but you can’t ignore me”. I love my Cancer men so much.. The moment you hate, is the moment they will do something really sweet and you will find your guilty for hating them.. They don’t open up at all.. They want a clean, organized environment. I am Scorpio women and really untidy and so we fight often because of that. They love their MOTHERS like anything… Sometimes its frustrating.. If I say something, my BF doesn’t believe but when the same thing goes through his mother, that things become golden words.. it is annoying but I can’t help it.. I love him and I can’t live without him..
Great read. I’m a cancer man and I do agree with the article. although as I begin to age, I believe that I have either learned to control my mood swings or they have weakened. But I have had some relationships which left me no choice but to grow. I’m also very aware of my connection to the moon. When I feel the ‘low tide’ I know it’s only temporary and keep myself busy with tasks until it passes. Out of the suggested matches I’ve been with a Pisces, was deep spiritual connection but too irrational. A Scorpio, deep sexual connection but lacking in friendship. A Taurus, good friendship but not mature enough. And a Capricorn, probably the best match. Very complimentary in yin yang sense. If woman are trying to impress a cancer man. Be direct! We love being the object of a woman’s desire and want to know it. But be classy about it. If you are trying to keep a cancer man NEVER lie. Don’t flirt in front of us and don’t keep secrets. We notice everything
Hello Hopelessly Confused! Thank you for your comment, and I’m sorry it’s taken so long for me to get a reply to ya. Finally got a newerish computer. So, now that I’m back, just in case you’re still hoping for some of my thoughts, or if someone else comes a long in search of the same info, here’s what I have for you, from both my experience and my cancer man’s thoughts.
Although he utters only four audible words in the entire first season of the show, the Smoking Man eventually develops into the series’ primary antagonist. In his early appearances he is seen in the offices of Section Chief Scott Blevins and Assistant Director Walter Skinner, Mulder and his partner Dana Scully’s supervisors. An influential man working for the powers that be, he is a key member in a government-conspiracy unit known only as the Syndicate, who are hiding the truth of alien existence and their plan to colonize Earth. His power and influence remained strong, even after most of the Syndicate was destroyed.
If he tells you about his feelings. In my experience, Cancer men are able to keep their deepest sides to themselves. They keep a tight rein on those deeper emotions, but if he doesn’t clam up, if he lets you see inside his shell, even just a peek, he’s definitely interested.
Passionate – Cancer men are notorious for their passion, though it does vary depending on their mood and current obsession. He’s got lots of energy to pursue whatever is currently on the to-do list, and If you’re lucky, you might just be on that list.
I think I am falling for a cancer man and nothing intimate happen yet. My birthday is 11/22/68 and his 7/1/73. My sun in Sag, ascendant, moon is Cap and Venus is Scorpio. His sun and moon Cancer and mercury and venus are Leo, not sure ascendant which I think Pisces. One minute I think he’s playing me and not really into me, then he will text me I miss you with hearts on it. The attraction is mutual, we just talking phone and text. Cancer man confuses me with his intentions and I definitely gives him a lot of space. What’s deal with that? Your blog made me join your club.
For Cancer males, specifically, you need to know they also spend money on their man-caves. While the sign itself is very family unit focused, the males need a place to retreat for restorative purposes.
Due to the above in the long term this is an all or nothing man. He often does better with a strong but caring partner, rather than an ultra-sensitive one. This is a man who sometimes needs a partner to tell him to shut up and just kiss him. Debating, analyzing, justifying moods, behavior etc may get the job done eventually, but it’s very counter productive.
Do Cancer men really hate to be teased, even insulted even if only playfully? I’m a Scorpio female who always comes across as a nice girl and oh so predictable, so I tried to opt for the playful insult to shift that perception a bit and build attraction, but something tells me it was more like a turn off for him. How then do I build attraction with him ?
Hello. Normally I don’t comment on these, but I am a Virgo Asc, Virgo Sun, Pisces Moon, Venus Leo. My man is a Taurus Asc, Cancer Sun, Taurus Moon, Venus Leo. My Chinese sign is Horse, his is Tiger. I just wanted to note that his love is the sweetest, most tender love that I’ve ever known in a lover. At first I was kind of turned off by how much he declared to love me, he said I love you after only one month. But now? Our bond has gotten so strong that sometime I tell him “I love you” twice in a row only because there aren’t words beautiful enough to say to someone so wonderful. Earlier today I had a panic attack at work (my Pisces moon makes me feel vulnerable to hectic crowds of adults sometimes) and can you believe my Cancer had me laughing after I came crying to him? I laughed so hard at his jokes. Ah… I love him so much. We make love beautifully, we laugh together about the silliest stuff, we pray together, we love texting all day, we protect each other… He calls me Mrs. — tho we haven’t even made our relationship official. I am waiting until we are both 100% sure that this will be a lifetime commitment. Can you believe he says he’s ready to commit?! I believe him, I’m just waiting to order him a nice chain necklace to wear when we make it official so he’ll always have a token of my love. I adore him. He’ll do anything to see me happy. Cheers to all Cancers, including my beautiful Mama who’s also an adorable shy crab. Lol. Xoxoxoxo
Cancer is an unpredictable sign, with a little of everything at different times. This can make them far more exciting and unpredictable lovers than the standard nurturing image would portray. If you enjoy nurturing your partner it’s a win:win. If you’re the type who often neglects a partner it’s a lose:lose.
Prepare yourself for his possessiveness. Once a Cancer starts feeling attracted to you, he will probably become notably more possessive. If you want to nurture his growing attraction, you’ll need to find ways of coping with his perceived invasion into your personal space. If you push him away, he will probably stay away for good.
A Cancerian man can make a wonderful long-term partner for the right woman. He’s ruled by emotion and matters of the heart, and not by his intellect. Because of this, he’s usually very affectionate, thoughtful, and intuitive of the feelings of others, especially of those he cares about. Home and family are of utmost importance to a Crab, and he can be fiercely protective. Cancer thrives on stability, security, and comfort. You’ll always feel loved, safe, and well cared for with a Cancer partner. Most Cancerian men make faithful, supportive husbands and kind, patient fathers. His relationships are well tended, and he’s often incredibly romantic, while having a great sense of humor.
Translation: Cancer men can tell who is being authentic and who is being fake. If you are transparent about who you are, they’ll trust you. Try to be hide something from them and they’ll know right away. Water signs all have this capability.
I’m definitely thinking about writing another hub just for your question about “is it worth it”. After having been with a cancer man for over 15 years, I’d like to say “YES! Totally worth it!”, just like a fictional romantic lover would say, but it’s just not as simple as that. There are definitely things that I’d wish I had known before we committed, but at the same time, I wouldn’t change a thing that’s happened. So until I get that hub written, all I can suggest to you, is that to be with a cancer man for life, is to have one of the deepest and most connected relationships you’ve ever had, for better and for worse.
If you’re able to pick up on other peoples emotions this is a wonderful, caring and warm sign, and everything you’ve read about them being nurturing and supportive is true. Possibly the most perfect partner you could wish for. If you aren’t sensitive enough, or can’t be bothered to nurture him at appropriate times, then your perfect Cancer lover may become increasingly distant and argumentative as your tally of neglect grows.
This match is usually very good for both partners. Both signs are emotional and compassionate, so they’ll understand each other and there should be few clashes. The Pisces woman is generally upbeat, so The Fish will provide positive juxtaposition to Cancer’s moodiness and will often be able to predict her partner’s mood swings with amazing accuracy.
Your Cancer will have his own unique personality traits. This article talks about sun signs, however there are many other factors. For example his moon sign determines his emotional personality which affects whether he is sensitive, romantic, loyal etc.
Hi, I’ve started a new job and have met this cancer man who is happened to be my manager. I am also a cancer woman. From the day first we had a connection and I think I am in love with him. I know he is also loving me. I see him everywhere I go in the office. He flirts, smiles and make opportunities to talk to me but not telling those three words. I got tierd waiting and stressed emotionally so have decided to stop smiling at him and avoid talking to him but he is not letting me go off but at the same time not telling me his love. What do I do? Any advise pls?
If you are looking for a loyal friend that will be in your life for many years to come, the Cancer male is your guy. Gaining their trust however, takes time. That’s because by nature, this sign is guarded with an eye for sincerity.
Occasionally, you should make it a point to demonstrate that you’ve been actively listening to him. Remember his birthday or any other special days he mentions to you. If he tells you about something he has going on at work in a few days, ask him how it went after the event passes.
The Archer and the Crab are seldom compatible. A Sagittarius woman is a reckless daredevil who thrives on adventure, while Cancer is a careful, cautious homebody. Also, many Archers are incredibly blunt, which will hurt the Crab’s feelings. Sagittarius will likely feel suffocated by Cancer’s emotional needs, and there will be lots of arguments over the archer’s spending habits.
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Cancer is a water sign and ruled over by the Moon. Your Cancer man is going to be most compatible with earth signs or other water signs, though it’s not unheard of for there to be epic romances between a Cancer man and a woman of air or fire nature.
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