If you are looking to learn more about Cancer men, there are several resources available online. One book that I highly recommend is: Cancer Sun Sign Series. What’s nice about this read is the straight-forward, easy to understand format the author uses.
Due to the above in the long term this is an all or nothing man. He often does better with a strong but caring partner, rather than an ultra-sensitive one. This is a man who sometimes needs a partner to tell him to shut up and just kiss him. Debating, analyzing, justifying moods, behavior etc may get the job done eventually, but it’s very counter productive.
If you’re able to pick up on other peoples emotions this is a wonderful, caring and warm sign, and everything you’ve read about them being nurturing and supportive is true. Possibly the most perfect partner you could wish for. If you aren’t sensitive enough, or can’t be bothered to nurture him at appropriate times, then your perfect Cancer lover may become increasingly distant and argumentative as your tally of neglect grows.
Cancers can easily get into a vicious cycle of working their butts off for long shifts, and then coming home to collapse and recover before doing it all over again, ad nauseam. When they vacation, they prefer to do so for longer than most people (at least a month at a time) so that they can fully immerse in relaxation. Six months of grueling work with no time for fun is doable for them, as long as they have a dangling carrot luring them toward the promise of lazy days on the beach. This extremism can result in burnout and neglect of their own needs, and friendships outside of their partner and children frequently fall by the wayside when a Cancer man is in work-mode.
No advice will ever apply to every Cancer man as they are all unique in various ways. I specialize in offering tailored advice based on your unique personality and his together, as one without the other isn’t nearly as useful. My astrology readings solve real relationship problems for real people every day. For more information please see the article on relationship advice.
I like what I’m reading about this cancer topics I’m one my self I been to hell an back with this relationship I been in for 20 years and I don’t trust her at all she’s a libra we have kids together but she cross me to many times I’m just waiting for the right time to move on an it want be a libra that’s for sure.
“What was the big f—ing deal?” she throws her hands up, exasperated. “I just wanted to have a glass of wine and talk about life, get to know each other better. It was like he couldn’t get over the damn rug. Who cares?”
You’ll need to be assertive, but indirectly so. Persistence is important here. Show him that you’re genuinely interested in him by continually making the effort to approach him. A Cancer guy can be a little insecure at times, but once you calm those insecurities and demonstrate that your interest is real and lasting, he can feel comfortable enough to develop his own attraction and affection for you in return.
I am and a relationship with a cancer male and I am a cancer female our birthdays are three days apart I just don’t understand him at all he does not have a tight bond with his mother who has always been in his life he lies a lot cheats misleds me I mean this relationship has had me on the point of a nervous breakdown cause I just don’t get it one min he loves me then he turns his back its like out of sight out of mind he cheats flirts with other women still tries to have sex with all of his ex girlfriends in lies about it in these are the same women who cheated on him and dogged him as he say but if he doing this to me it has to be the other way around its weird because I am the complete opposite that he is someone please help my heart is breaking I am lost
Take the example of our Virgo friend Nancy, a wealthy executive and world traveler. On her third date, she invited her Cancer beau Edward to her tasteful, art-filled New York City apartment. Rather than marvel at her rare book collection and African pottery, Edward noticed two things: that Nancy’s living room air conditioner didn’t work, and she didn’t have an anti-slip pad under her tiny kitchen rug.
With his date, time and location of birth these other factors can be calculated for a complete picture of his personality. To explore this further please see my article on astrology compatibility readings.
The Cancer man knows exactly how to a take a woman into his Crabby grip and keep her there forever. We may be setting feminism back a few centuries by saying this, but damn, it feels good to have a man take care of you like he does. Of course, there’s thin line between security and smothering. When he sidles up from behind and puts his arms around your waist, you’ll either hope he never lets go, or make a mental note to call him if a choking victim needs the Heimlich maneuver.
Ask him to help you organize your space. If you do have a cluttered area, tell him about it before he finds out on his own by asking him to help you organize it. The appeal of this petition is three-fold: you’ll make him feel needed, you’ll appeal to his natural love of organization, and you’ll demonstrate a willingness to become less messy and more organized yourself.
The simplest answer is – yes. You can trust your Cancer man. He does confuse privacy with dishonesty from time to time, and has the excessive need to protect himself from the outer world by keeping secrets, but when he decides to let someone into his world, he will share almost everything with that person. If he does tell a lie, it will usually be about a small thing that could benefit them both. A typical Cancer lie usually involves a secret savings account. Other than that, he is not prone to adultery, the chase of young new partners, or in a desperate need for a constant change of scenery.
It is not known how many people are Cancer sun signs however, scientific evidence suggests the number is low. This makes sense when one considers that most births happen in late summer, meaning August and September (Melina, 2010).
Moody – If you couldn’t tell already, your Cancer man is a very moody being. His emotions can change quicker than a flash of lightening and back again before the thunder claps. One minute he’s hiding in his shell, the next he’s holding you close, and before you know it, he’s got that pincer hooked into your soft spot, then he’s back to crying in his shell again.
HI how is it possible my being a cancer july 3 to be in love and get on like a house onfire a with some one born april 11th aries . I have read that we not ment to be compatable together and yet i cant bare being apart from her .
This usually is not a good match. The Libra woman is often a “party girl,” while Cancer would much rather spend time at home. The Crab is a penny-pincher, too, while the Scales lady often has extravagant tastes. Libra loves positive energy, so she would have a real problem when the Crab was being, well, Crabby.
This is a question which is very hard to give a general answer on, as no two Cancer men are totally identical. The key is understanding him and what he finds most attractive in a partner. Astrology can provide a wealth of information to enable this, however natal charts need to be prepared and studied to do so. Please see the article on seduction and astrology for more information on this.
Cancer and Capricorn are polar opposites and because of this, the synergy between them is captivating. He’ll be enchanted by the Capricorn woman and all her might, and she’ll feel like the only time she can relax is in his presence. He needs LOTS of reassurance to feed his insecurity and the Capricorn woman is just the one to provide that to him. She needs a man who will love her for who she is and keep up with her everlasting energy, and he is just the guy to fan the flames.
Great read. I’m a cancer man and I do agree with the article. although as I begin to age, I believe that I have either learned to control my mood swings or they have weakened. But I have had some relationships which left me no choice but to grow. I’m also very aware of my connection to the moon. When I feel the ‘low tide’ I know it’s only temporary and keep myself busy with tasks until it passes. Out of the suggested matches I’ve been with a Pisces, was deep spiritual connection but too irrational. A Scorpio, deep sexual connection but lacking in friendship. A Taurus, good friendship but not mature enough. And a Capricorn, probably the best match. Very complimentary in yin yang sense. If woman are trying to impress a cancer man. Be direct! We love being the object of a woman’s desire and want to know it. But be classy about it. If you are trying to keep a cancer man NEVER lie. Don’t flirt in front of us and don’t keep secrets. We notice everything
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