The Virgo man is usually modest and tends to stay under the radar. He doesn’t care for the extra attention unless it’s absolutely necessary for his job or career. He’s a calming and stable influence in the lives of everyone he encounters. He’s very good at giving good advice and you’d be wise to listen to it. Don’t expect him to be the life of the party either. He’s the wallflower standing in the corner waiting for a familiar face to talk to. The thing is, he doesn’t mind the alone time. He’s not a social creature by any means and is very picky and choosy about the types of people he keeps in his inner circle. He’s one of those people who’d rather be alone than around people whose company he doesn’t enjoy.
The good thing about Virgo is that if you know your stuff too, he can take it! He is open to debate and loves talking about things he’s learned and experienced. So the next time your Virgo corrects you on something, don’t hesitate to say, “No! I did it this way on purpose!” and explain why.
The Virgo man is typically very loyal. One warning however in this area, as with other signs who dislike confrontation Virgos can be known to take action on their own rather than repeat arguments. Especially if you’re overly aggressive or dominant. This isn’t a man who cheats just for the thrill of it, or the ego boost or other shallow reasons, however he may do so when unhappy or dissatisfied for long periods.
A Virgo man tends to approach romance slowly and carefully. He likes to take his time getting to know a person before he decides whether he wants to pursue a romantic relationship. The first and most difficult step on the path to romance is getting this man to notice you, but it’s crucial if you hope to make him fall in love.
Are you tired of raising your boyfriends and teaching them how to act like grown men? Hang up your metaphorical nursing bra. The Virgo man needs none of your mother’s milk, thank you very much. Self-sufficient and self-directed, he’s no Oedipus or mama’s boy. However, he can dig in his heels like a headstrong child. Like all earth signs, he’s stubborn. Virgo can plant himself firmly in a position and refuse to budge. “You can’t make me!” He’ll stand by your side just as willfully.
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The Virgo male is willing to give his all in a relationship, but he expects the same from his partner. Virgo is somewhat of a “neat freak,” so make sure your appearance is tidy. Keep a neat home, and never give him any reason to mistrust you. Virgos generally are not the breakup and make-up type. Once he’s done with a lover, he’s done, and no amount of tears on your part will convince him to give it another try.
Strong, stable and confident he or she should ideally be comfortable with being fairly dominant at the start of the relationship, both socially and sexually. In the longer term however treating him as a partner and an equal will win more points.
This doesn’t mean that a Virgo guy cannot be softened at all. You have to keep the temperature just right. Too much aloofness or too much closeness is not what he wants. A little bit of sensuality, mixed with some intelligence and an interesting disposition is what he desires. To him, quality of time spent with you will mean more than the quantity. He is usually very cautious while forming a relationship. If it still doesn’t turn out to be right, he will bury himself in work, avoid social gathering and be triply cautious with people.
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On the negative side, he can sometimes be seen as picky, aloof, sarcastic, pessimistic or whiny. He assumes everyone views him with the same critical eye that he possesses, which can sap his self confidence. Ironically, he is likely to be more perfect than most of us, yet he’s the only one who can’t see it. This level of self imposed modesty can be particularly endearing.
The Scorpio woman is very intelligent, and Virgo will be drawn to that trait. Both signs are practical, hard-working and courageous. The Scorpion is extremely passionate, so she needs to be careful not to overwhelm the shy Virgo man.
To get a complete picture of someone through astrology we need to take all those other planets and their interactions into account. To do this we need to create and interpret their unique natal chart. For information on what’s involved in this and the opportunity to obtain one for yourself and your partner please see the compatibility readings page.
They will appreciate anything beautifully made, especially if it was created specifically with them in mind. Virgos adore bespoke tailoring, leather-bound journals, and handmade jewelry, especially silver or gold. An antique signet ring in sapphire, Virgo’s birthstone, would make them swoon inwardly while they maintain a decorously impassive external demeanor.
As in all things, he will analyze love and seek perfection. This is of course a difficult area to do either, and as a result he can be particularly hesitant and stand-offish until he’s comfortable with a partner. Just to be clear, this doesn’t mean you need to be perfect as they appreciate imperfection too. For a full description of how a Virgo man acts when in love please see our article on Virgo in love
The Virgoan reputation for being a clean freak applies to the men born under this sign who have truly embraced and made room for who they really are – though there are exceptions to that rule. Some male Virgos leave the home to their counterparts to mess with, but their own workspaces and tool-sheds are impeccably set up and usually off-limits to anyone but themselves. You’ll know immediately when you’re dealing with an afflicted Virgo (someone suffering from emotional issues) by his inability to keep his space tidy. Classic Virgo men may get teased for being a bit fussy with their things, but a beautiful and clean home is the sign of healthy Virgo – so just let him do his thing!
Virgo men tend to make love delicately and with elegance, viewing it almost as an art form or even a skill which can be perfected. Unlike the Leo man, for example, it’s obvious that he isn’t a pouncer by nature. He likes to take his time and prepare.
This is not the kind of guy that’s going to get hot and heavy with you in public, and he may want to keep his relationship with you secret until a formal commitment between you has been made. His old-fashioned ways may seem positively archaic and stiff – but, like many men of the Victorian era, a modest and even parsimonious public persona might serve as a foil for an appetite that swings toward secret kinks.
Don’t show him pretty lip gloss, well-timed hair flips, and batting eyelashes. Show him you. Show him a person that’s awesome and that knows she’s awesome. Be real with him. That’s the only way you can truly gain his respect and loyalty.
Virgo is not the guy to go to when you need to cry on someone’s shoulder, and he’s not enticed by the “helpless female” act. He prefers a partner who shares his analytical approach to life. He wants to talk about what he considers to be serious subjects, such as life, philosophy, politics, and religion. Try to avoid dumping your emotional baggage on him, or you just might scare him away.
This is a man who takes feedback to heart, so it’s also worth noting that criticism can do a lot of harm, while encouragement can pay big dividends. Overall, Virgo men are often more comfortable with a confident lover at the start of a relationship, though that soon changes as they get more comfortable.
Then we woke up and smelled the smoke signals. A woman advertising online for an affair is either a) horny, b) bored, or c) (ding ding ding!) sending out an SOS. She’s crying out, “Help! I’m done with this marriage and I don’t know how to get out. Somebody save me!” Bingo. It’s the Virgo man’s sweet spot, and he rushes in for the save. In his own way, the Virgo man feels that he’s performing a public service helping a woman leave a bad marriage. He’d never fancy himself a homewrecker. After all, she was already sniffing around for a side dish. He was just being helpful.
Understand his hesitancy to act. Virgo, as described earlier, doesn’t jump to anything — from relationships to conclusions. He needs to plan everything out — how else would he know if it’s perfect and, above all, acceptable? So when he doesn’t give you that grand display of love right off the bat, don’t get your heart all a-flutter. He needs time. Allow him that.
If you have a particularly hesitant Virgo man then it’s worth noting he may be more comfortable being asked to do something rather than initiating sexual acts himself the first time or two. In these cases the ‘cleaner’ you can keep his conscience, the less inhibited he will be in the long term.
Whether it’s your home or cubicle he’s examining, this man likes a tidy environment. A messy workspace or home shows him you really don’t have it all together, and this is not the impression you want to make. Most Virgo men appreciate a knack for cleanliness.
A Virgo man is a boon to any workplace, where his intensely focused work ethic and exacting personality will ensure zero slacking or sloppiness in what he produces or achieves. With his analytical and critical thinking skills, Virgo tends to excel at problem-solving, planning, and organizing information. Left to their own devices, these men can be trusted to be efficient in their use of time and counted on to always strive toward perfection.
To sum up the Virgo man in a single word, it would be “practical.” He sees things as they are, with no sugar coating. Virgo is a down-to-earth, hard-working guy who sees no need for unnecessary outpourings of emotion. When he has strong feelings about something, he usually keeps them to himself. Likewise, he tends to prefer the company of others who are similarly reserved.
A common fault of Virgo men is to be highly critical when perfection is not found. This usually applies doubly to himself and his own performance, which can sometimes lead to reduced self confidence. He is likely to have trouble relaxing, and often hates wasting time, or sitting idle.
Virgo will give a Cancer woman the stability she craves, and with her undying devotion, she’ll be able to draw Virgo out emotionally. Virgo will have to curb his criticism as the Crab’s feelings are easily hurt.
No, this article is based only on sun signs. Those are a convenient and fast way to generalize, but far from conclusive at this broad level. There are many other planet placements which all affect someone’s personality.
If you successfully attract your Virgo and he falls in love with you, chances are good you’ll have a partner for life. Virgo men are usually very loyal, and they tend to stay in relationships for the long run. If you can prove you’ll stick with him through good times and bad, he’ll want to keep you by his side.
Ultimately, the Virgo man needs a bigger cause than patching up strays. His astrological duty is to serve humankind. He must find his mission, his life’s work and calling. Unless he is contributing to the greater society, or at least a noble cause, the Virgo man is adrift at sea. He will squander his gifts by playing the enabler and co-dependent hero. He’ll take on women’s problems, when he should really march them to the nearest therapist’s couch. And he will walk away from amazing women—with whom he is highly compatible—simply because they don’t need his rescuing.
This is a question which is very hard to give a general answer on, as no two Virgo men are totally identical. The key is understanding him and what he finds most attractive in a partner. Astrology can provide a wealth of information to enable this, however natal charts need to be prepared and studied to do so. Please see the article on seduction and astrology for more information on this.
A Virgo man can easily turn into an inveterate worrywart without enough tasks and projects to keep his thoughts occupied. People born under the sign of the Virgin take well to owning responsibility for themselves and their work, and love to find ways to be of service to others (though they can easily turn resentful if they continually martyr themselves in situations with no reciprocity).
Virgo often sees the Libra woman as someone he could never take seriously. She’s bubbly and talkative, while he’s quiet and serious. He may be much too critical and judgmental for her. The trick for this couple will be to get beyond these glaring differences.
Your Virgo will have his own unique personality traits. This article talks about sun signs, however there are many other factors. For example his moon sign determines his emotional personality which affects whether he is sensitive, romantic, loyal etc.
That being said, shy Virgoan men loathe being made a spectacle of, so think twice before planning that surprise party for them, or telling the waiter to make a scene with the whole restaurant loudly singing to them. Noisy, raucous parties full of messy drunks tend to make these retiring fellows nervous, so maybe consider cooking a lovely meal at home to celebrate instead. Give them their presents in private, and show them that you’ve really been paying attention to what tomes they were lingering over at the bookstore, or the goodies they’ve circled in their favorite catalogs.
Okay, I’ve probably given you the impression that the Virgo man is some kind of obsessive compulsive and… well, this isn’t too far away from the truth. He likes everything to be just so and views cleanliness as not only next to but above and beyond godliness!
On the one side he is kind, generous, and thoughtful, yet on the other he is critical, stubborn, and uptight. The men born under the Virgo sign tend to be known as the “man-child.” If there was ever a man that needed to be cared for by a woman, this would be him. Virgo is quite the peculiar man in every sense of the word. Don’t be fooled by that virgin maiden either: Virgo man can be quite the womanizer. Hugh Grant and Prince Harry are both Virgos . . . just saying.
Virgo man judges his life by all the little pieces, rather than looking at the big picture. He’s not an all or nothing guy by any means. He examines every situation bit by bit and piece by piece much like a puzzle. In fact, he is one of those people who actually has the patience to sit down and do a 5,000 piece puzzle. He would actually find that activity fun rather than exhausting. If you want to date the Virgo man, you have to show him that you belong in his world and you won’t disrupt it in any way. Order and stability are the two most important things in a Virgo man’s life and that’s something his partner just has to understand.
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