They may not mean to be this way but it does tend to happen because of his dual personality. He will promise you the moon and stars then when it comes time for him to provide it; he will look at you like you’re crazy.
As Gemini Clint Eastwood once said, “They say marriages are made in Heaven. But so is thunder and lightning.” Well, he has a point. Doesn’t the Gemini man always? And as long as he sees a point to being with you, he’s not likely to go elsewhere—at least, not unless he sees an equally valid point in that. Oh, brother.
Take him somewhere he hasn’t been, buy him a book with practical instructions, give him anything that has letters on it or can be used to write, chat or take pictures. He likes different electric gadgets, strange, small things that can be used for his phone or by his finger. He wants freedom to use his present once and then throw it away. Whatever you decide to give to a Gemini man, top it all with a smile. That might be the only thing you both need.
I can’t stress this enough; not all Gemini men are this way. However; there are plenty of them out there that are. I’m just trying to help give you some ample warning so you don’t get tangled up with one of them.
Understanding Gemini energy has more to do with appreciating our need to see and truly embrace both aspects in ourselves, which we also carry – regardless of our own zodiac sign. It’s an important lesson in life, and a Gemini is the perfect teacher (though perhaps not the most patient one). Constantly holding the juxtaposition of two opposites within the container of your own personality can be a lot to handle, both for the Gemini man himself and for those he encounters as he fleetly flits through life.
Are you considering dating a Gemini man? Perhaps you’ve started dating one already. Either way; here is the ugly truth about Gemini men and some things you should be aware of that he doesn’t want you to know about.
The restless mind of a Gemini man requires lots of information to keep him busy, so he’ll enjoy going out to see a play or film that has audiences completely perplexed. He favors mysteries and suspense thrillers with lots of double-crossing and twists and turns to keep him guessing – though he’s always five steps ahead of everyone else in sleuthing the whodunit. Travel with your Gemini man, if you can – he loves visiting new places, and will reliably research all the most interesting, off-the-beaten-path restaurants for you to try. He’ll pore thoroughly over every guidebook, making copious notes about every place you go, and loves feeling prepared to have an incredible time before making a trip. One of the rare people who truly enjoy surprises (the more elaborate the better), if you really want to impress a Gemini, pull one over on him! Or, for a present he’ll never forget, go one step further – plot a scavenger hunt with humorous clues leading to his gift as the prize.
The Gemini man thrives in a long-distance relationship for that reason. Our Aquarius friend Neda is married to a Gemini who lives almost 6,000 miles away in Iran, while she lives in New York. She met him while producing a documentary film in Tehran called Nobody’s Enemy, about Iran’s first public elections. Yas, her husband, is Iran’s first recorded hip-hop artist. Neda filmed him in the studio reciting his fiery political verses. (Only a Gemini could get away with recording conscious rap under a totalitarian government.) Both passionate about change in their native country, their intellectual chemistry sparked a romantic connection.
You couldn’t exactly say that a Gemini man is dependable or reliable. He has no intention of letting their partner down, but he is not aware of the speed of changes in his feel of reality. When he is in love for real, he will have seasons in his feelings no matter the love. From spring and blossoming desire, to winter and unbearable distance, he is a difficult man to be with if you expect consistency. The only way he can remain in a functional relationship is if he finds a partner who is self-sufficient and fully independent. If he finds a partner who catches a glimpse of his winter and leaves him to boil waiting – someone to love him in the exact same way as he loves, but with a little more patience.
Unfortunately, sometimes they can get overly enthusiastic, and may not let anyone else get a word in edgewise. Mansplaining can be an issue for the Gemini man, so learning how to listen will help them get along. Any vocation that deals with the communication of information is ideal for this sign, especially writing, working in news or social media, or anything to do with new and exciting technology.
The home of a Gemini man is often just a placeholder – somewhere to store his books, papers, and clothes. You may never get an invitation to come over unless he’s having an impromptu gathering – but these tend to be more about the meeting of the minds rather than an elaborate dinner party or cozy to-do.
That’s not to say that Gemini men don’t commit for the long haul, because they do. In fact, this man is capable of becoming the most boring, bathrobe-wearing, remote control clutching cliche of a husband ever. He may marry just to “get it over with.” Once he’s comfortable, he can stay put. The last thing he wants to do is climb the rickety rollercoaster rails of a new relationship all over again. The emotional blowups, the misunderstandings, the soul baring—ugh! He’d rather just put on his favorite sweater and go to the multiplex for the latest action movie, or burrow into a book while you entertain yourself. Sure it’s a snoozefest. But it’s better than being with a needy, attention-hungry Daddy’s girl who distracts him from his dreaming and downloading.
Gemini is a paradox, because one side of him is such a social and communicative creature, while the other side is a loner who needs plenty of space. One day Gemini man just can’t shut up and wants to spend all day with you, then the next day, he doesn’t return your phone call and you don’t hear from him for a week. What gives right? Well that’s all part of his charm. With Gemini you get a two for one package. Want a social creature with a side of reclusive? You got it baby.
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Gemini is the third sign of the zodiac running from May 20 – June 20. Gemini is represented by the sign of twins and the element of air. If you come across a man born under this sign, you will immediately know he is unlike any other. Gemini men are of a different breed and it is obvious to anyone who encounters them. They are friendly, social, and communicative, but also loners who fear commitment and like to have their space. While it is true what they say, that there are two sides to a Gemini and you never know which one you are going to get, there might as well be a hundred because the Gemini possesses many different personalities and you never know which you are going to come across on any given day. Let the circus begin . . .
A Gemini man is one of the easiest guys in the entire zodiac to shop for. He adores novelty and technology and goes crazy for those catalogs filled with all sorts of wild new gadgets that scratch your back while making coffee and vacuuming the floor. Finding him lots of fun little doodads may prove to be more satisfying than spending a big chunk of dough on a high-dollar item. Books and music are always winners with a Gemini, and a subscription to a great magazine or gift cards to his favorite bookstore will easily delight him. Puzzles and games make for fun gifts that you can engage in together.
What he does have tends to be haphazardly organized in a manner that may only make sense to him and his personality, but it’s all kept fairly tidy. It’s not carelessness that makes him this way – just more of an attention focused on many other more important things, like what’s happening in the world outside the place where he sleeps and makes coffee. A Spartan, simplistic living space is ideal for this man, and he would do well inhabiting a studio apartment or tiny home.
There is no way of knowing where he will want to take you out. He is not one of those traditional men who has the need to make the first step, and will gladly accept someone’s invitation to any place that sounds interesting. If he develops feelings, he will surprise his partner with different places, presents and all sorts of creative spices to their dating life. It is impossible to get bored with Gemini, unless they talk too much and this is also something that can be changed with one conversation. The best way to describe the dating life of Gemini is – anywhere and anyhow, for as long as it is spontaneous and carefree.
This is a man who gives little meaning to the act of sex. He has a youthful glow around him and will usually be potent for many years, but he doesn’t care about sex as much as he cares about the excitement that goes with it. He wants someone to challenge him but not dig into his insecurities. He needs someone smart enough who says the right things at the right time. He likes sex outdoors and can be quite a pervert, with no ill intention hidden. If he is in a long term relationship, he will expect change in their sexual activities all the time, almost as if he is frightened of the routine and what it represents. Gemini needs to be on the move, always changing partners, positions or locations.
The first thing you should know about a Gemini man is that he’s a friendly guy. I have never met a Gemini man that I didn’t get along with. He has this easy air about him and can get along with just about anyone. He has very developed social skills and his gift of gab is like no other. A Gemini will literally talk your ear off and you won’t be able to get a word in edgewise. You’ll put up with it though, because Gemini man is just that interesting. He seems to know everything about everything. He’s like an information sponge that’s constantly learning more and more only to expel it later into your conversation. One thing you can be sure of, you will never be bored with a Gemini. That’s just not possible. No topic is off limits with Gemini and they tend to give very good advice because they can see both sides to every issue. Listen up, you just might learn a thing or two here.
Sometimes too easily distractible, the Gemini dad could use the reminder to make lots of quality time for his little ones – giving them his full and undivided attention for playtime that deeply nourishes both parent and child.
This is a difficult question to answer, and the answer would most frequently be a simple “no”. You cannot trust your Gemini partner. This is not because he is a pathological liar, but because there is no way to predict what tomorrow will bring to his mind or his heart. There are many things he can say in the heat of the moment, and these are all complex mathematical equations that you have to decipher if you want to know if he meant to say what he said and understand what he actually wanted to say. However, if he shares his life with a partner with real emotional depth, able to feel his inner personality that doesn’t change overnight, he is a lucky man who will never betray his partners trust.
If you meet one of these Gemini men; you’ll be able to spot if he’s one of these darker side Gemini men. Again, not all of them are this way but many are. Watch out for the red flags so you don’t want your time or heart.
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Due to Gemini man being so social and friendly most of the time, he can get the reputation of being a flirt and a player, which he can definitely be if he’s not serious about a woman. When Gemini man finds a woman he can see a future with though, his player status will disappear just as quickly as it came. Gemini man can commit, just with the right woman. If he senses you get him like no one else can and appreciate him, then you have just become his one and only and you shouldn’t worry about any ladies he talks to because he’s only got eyes for you sweetheart.
Still, turning into Al Bundy is far from the Gemini man’s dream. He just needs relationships with a single key ingredient: space. He must have distance in order to come closer. His inner Twin needs this contrast, to switch the intimacy button on and off. “I need variety; I don’t want to talk to you all the time,” says John, a Gemini IT specialist. As much as he may seek fame or a public career, the Gemini man needs to slip into the shadows at will, retreating into his own anonymous world to recharge. When he’s not making films, Gemini Johnny Depp lives a private, idyllic life in Southern France with his Capricorn wife and children. These polar extremes are essential to his sanity (a term we use loosely with Geminis).
You have to indulge Gemini man’s whims as they come. If you see him being social, join in and enjoy it. If you see that he is craving his alone time, let him have that too. He wants a woman that can understand him on an intuitive level without him having to tell her. He’ll know you are different from the rest when you can give him his space but also be his partner in crime all in the span of a week. That’s when he’ll know he has found his match and you’ll be invited into his inner circle.
Relationships are difficult because he doesn’t have an easy time committing. He loves having lots of different women around him at all times. He’ll often have plenty of female friends (they’re often more than friends).
You may see more of this fellow on the screen of your phone than you do in real life, and you might have a hard time pinning him down to make plans, as his social calendar is always packed. That being said, he still might be texting or messaging you constantly, keeping up a steady flow of conversation. Keep in mind that you might not be the only one he’s in communication with! The Gemini man is known for dating multiple people at once, or even leading double lives. Not that he’s implicitly duplicitous – he doesn’t mean to deceive anyone or break any hearts. It’s just that his own version of reality is sometimes in conflict with what’s actually happening.
To stay interested for the long haul, the Gemini man needs a mate who’s interested—in all kinds of stuff—and interesting by default. When (and if) things get routine, you need only ask him a smart question or solicit his opinion about something happening in the news. The Gemini man always has an opinion. If he doesn’t, he’s lying or being polite. It just means he thinks your question was inane and not worth dignifying with a thoughtful answer.
There is no way to ever know what he’s thinking or doing at any given time. He’s distracted very easily and this could change his behavior or mood. One minute he may be sweet to you and then another moment, he may be very sarcastic.
If you have chosen a life with a Gemini man, rest assured you will never be bored. On his good days he will make you laugh and talk your ear off, and on his off days he will lock himself away for a chance to really slow down and appreciate everything he’s got. Or maybe just give that mouth a break because those lips are chapped from all that talking. Two sides of the Gemini man personality come together to form an almost perfect human being. Just don’t let him know you think he’s perfect because after all he is still a man, and we must always keep a man guessing if we are to truly keep our status as a mysterious and alluring woman.
The Gemini man loves to wheel and deal. He is always in action, moving forward and onto the next new thing. Technology and communications industries are natural fits for a Gemini – and you will often find the offices of new start-ups and networking mixers crowded with men born under the sign of the Twins. They love to rub elbows with the smartest people in the room and get a thrill from name dropping their well-known friends and connections. A Gemini man truly understands the maxim that it’s all about who you know – and they seem to somehow know everyone.
A Gemini man in love will always keep you guessing. This sign’s fluid disposition and dazzling intellect can be utter ambrosia for partners easily bored by earthier, more stable types. Just when you think you have your Gemini man figured out, he’ll have changed his tune – again!
Truthfully, Neda may have the better end of the deal. The Gemini man is not always easy to live with. Phone relationships suit him well, since Gemini rules the voice and communication. Before he’s gonna reach out and touch someone, or let his fingers do the walking, he needs to know he can talk to you for hours without getting bored. “Back in college, I knew I was in trouble,” says Gemini Bryan, “when I realized I’d rather talk to my wife-to-be than my girlfriend on the phone.” When he noticed he was putting his hometown honey on hold, he decided to mute the relationship and put his new friend on speed dial. Fourteen years later, they’re still married.
The older he gets, the more the Gemini man needs space—especially once he’s married. Take our friend Amanda’s Gemini dad. Every day after work, he retreats to the bedroom where, Amanda says, “He watches crime shows, reads at least eight books, and drinks a six-pack of Diet Coke. He then eats an entire package of ham, which he wraps around hot dogs and shares with the dog.” Another Gemini man built his personal playroom in the attic, where he surfs the Internet, watches TV shows and downloads video games. The Gemini man absorbs so much information that he gets easily overwhelmed. “A giant Whole Foods makes me anxious,” admits one Gemini. “I like defined spaces. I need to know where I am so I can make an informed decision. Besides, I don’t like to waste time.”
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Quick-witted Geminis seem to wear invisible winged shoes, like Mercury, the god of their ruling planet. These brilliant, silver-tongued angel-devils can be extremely charming and entertaining. Born with a true gift for gab, they are always ready with a fascinating story to tell you. Generally jovial, good-natured, and intellectually energetic, a Gemini man will always keep you on your toes with constantly shifting attitudes and opinions. Extremely cerebral, full of ideas, and always excited about making new discoveries, a Gemini loves to learn and share his knowledge – but, he tends to know a little bit about these subjects without ever truly committing to one field of study in a deeply engaged way. It’s this sponge-like tendency to absorb bits of information that makes him lethal in a game of trivia.
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If you notice darker signs from your Gemini guy; you may need to go ahead and bail before things become too chaotic and you end up really hurt. Now; if you’re one of the lucky ladies that don’t have this type of Gemini then hold onto your guy.
They’ll pretend to be the typical Gemini but then if you decide you’re not into them; they get offended and start going to retaliate by being very nasty toward you. They can become stalkers and they can read you the riot act for not liking him.
So often times; Gemini men do tend to tell lies. By lies, I mean making promises he never intends to keep. He has no conscious when he does lie on purpose. If it means he gets what he wants; he’ll do it.
He is positive, adventurous and surprising, always on the move and ready to meet any life challenge. When he is truly in love, he shows his childlike heart, pure and untouched. However, there is a lot not to like when he gets distant and simply doesn’t care anymore. He can be unreliable, acting like a spoiled child and scared of his emotions.
Oh, did we mention that Yas is also 12 years young than Neda? Fairy-tale romances with Gemini, should they happen, always have an interesting plot twist—the more unpredictable the better. And feeling like he’s getting away with something could inspire the Gemini man’s adoration. He loves a challenge! “He knew we would get me—he just waited for me to realize it,” Neda recalls of her courtship. “He introduced me to his mom and family without me knowing what he was up to (because I was filming and in work mode). Then when he confessed to me his feelings and I responded positively. He said, ‘Well then, my last question to you is, shall I wait for you?’ I said yes and the next day, it was as if we were a married couple—that comfortable! No guesses, no games.”
Gemini lives in his imagination, and real-world relationships can be a bit too grounding for his sign. Until then, the Gemini man avoids committing by being a little bit committed to everyone and everything. Like Sagittarius, he’s a dilettante who craves variety, and prefers breadth over depth. He might even marry a very practical or maternal type, just so she’ll handle the everyday reality while he retains his boyish freedom.
Because Gemini man is a such a good communicator, he might be one of the only zodiac signs who likes to talk on the phone. Most men tend to avoid phone conversations, but Gemini man actually prefers it. If you want to grab the attention of the Gemini man, all you have to do is be able to hold an intelligent conversation with him. He finds conversation more stimulating then anything else. He gets bored easily, so you have to keep his attention through the art of conversation. If you can do that, and stimulate him intellectually, you just might have a chance.
If you enjoy parties and being social, you’ll make a good match for a Gemini man, who finds a quiet night at home unspeakably dull – unless you challenge him to a game involving chance and skill, where he has the opportunity to show off his prodigious knowledge. Are you compatible with your Gemini man? Find out here. A bit of a playboy, this versatile dandy loves to step out on the town with a bit of arm candy to show off to all his friends and acquaintances.
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Getting involved with a Gemini man means giving him plenty of solitude. If you do not, you’ll have some major issues of resentment and discord with him. Of course, he may not stick around that long if he sees dependency.
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