This is a man that has one mission in life – to fix something. Until he does, it will not be easy for him to relax, smile, dance and be as happy as you might want him to be. He is serious because he has some serious details to commit to, and unless he finds a way to make constructive use of his mind at his work, he might drive you mad analyzing your every word. Let him have those already used things and fix everything around the house. His hands need to be put to good use or he will tell you all about the bad use of yours. Virgo is a sign meant to fix all that was broken and while you get annoyed by him, think if you were maybe chosen to be fixed yourself.
The most important thing to remember when dating a Virgo man is never, never, be late. Not even a teensy bit fashionably late. For the Virgo man, punctuality is a virtue and lateness an inexcusable vice.
Sexuality of every Virgo depends greatly on other personal traits, such as one’s ascendant and positions of different planets in the natal chart. In general, the sign of Virgo is everything but sexual and this man can be a truly uninspiring lover. His partner might have to force some creativity. The good thing is in the fact that each Virgo likes to serve, and in search for perfection, most men born in this sign will do their best to understand the anatomy of their partner and be able to truly satisfy them. Still, their insecurities are often disguised by simple boredom, and they can be quite critical toward their lovers. It is often not easy to be with a Virgo man if you don’t obsess about every hair on your body and every scent you might emit, all the time.
When the drunk, emotionally fragile Aquarius teetered off to the smoking lounge in her seven-inch Loubitons, clutching a crystal-embellished phone to her ear, the Virgo man leaned in conspiratorially. “She’s not really my wife,” he announced matter-of-factly. “Sorry she’s such a nut job. She’s just going through a hard time. She had a baby a year ago and fell into some really bad postpartum depression. She’s married to someone else. We’re seeing each other on the side while she gets through it.”
A Virgo male is rather introverted because he just isn’t comfortable with all those emotions. Showing his feelings threatens the image he loves to portray of being calm, cool, and collected at all times. Being in love is the rare time you’ll ever find him unable to contain his feelings and feeling a bit out of control. It won’t last, so enjoy it while it does. He’ll soon be back to his regimented discipline and logical approach to life and love.
Once you’re talking to the Virgo man, try to drop into the conversation anything you might have done to help someone less fortunate than yourself, as the Virgo man is very charitable by nature. Ask him to sponsor you for some fund raising activity and not only will he gladly do so, he’ll probably ask how he can take part himself!
With his date, time and location of birth these other factors can be calculated for a complete picture of his personality. To explore this further please see my article on astrology compatibility readings.
Analytical, discriminating, precise, considerate and reliable, he is likely to enjoy work of a technical or analytical nature, quite possibly working behind the scenes to ensure the efficiency of an organization, rather than taking center stage or seeking direct recognition for his achievements.
On the negative side, he can sometimes be seen as picky, aloof, sarcastic, pessimistic or whiny. He assumes everyone views him with the same critical eye that he possesses, which can sap his self confidence. Ironically, he is likely to be more perfect than most of us, yet he’s the only one who can’t see it. This level of self imposed modesty can be particularly endearing.
Know that he’s an Earth sign. Virgo (along with Taurus and Capricorn) are Earth signs. This means, generally, that they’re very stable and resistant to change. Like the Earth! They are sturdy in their ways and know what they want and need. They’re usually slow to open — but once they do, it’s permanent.
If you’re compatible, your life together will be a good one because Virgo men have a practical and direct approach to life. There won’t be a lot of incredibly romantic moments, but he’ll work hard to make a good home life for the two of you.
The Aquarius woman and the Virgo male will be attracted to each other on an intellectual level, but that might the extent of the attraction. Both signs are emotionally aloof and the practical Virgo will find the Water-bearer too illogical.
Unfortunately, the Virgo man is often critical of others, leading him to have difficulty in finding a woman to form a solid relationship with. Instead, he is selective in his choice for love, failing to find someone for a long time if at all. His selectivity leads him to release a lack of control in dealing with the situation since so few women meet his specifications.
There is a misconception about the Virgo sign as a whole with regards to sex. Virgos are not naturally chaste and they don’t find sex distasteful. However, they do find it easier than any other sign of the zodiac to abstain, so you’re unlikely to come across a Virgo man who desperately craves sex.
Are you tired of raising your boyfriends and teaching them how to act like grown men? Hang up your metaphorical nursing bra. The Virgo man needs none of your mother’s milk, thank you very much. Self-sufficient and self-directed, he’s no Oedipus or mama’s boy. However, he can dig in his heels like a headstrong child. Like all earth signs, he’s stubborn. Virgo can plant himself firmly in a position and refuse to budge. “You can’t make me!” He’ll stand by your side just as willfully.
If Virgo is cooking you dinner in your kitchen and runs across 6 jars of paprika, 5 of which are unopened, he’ll wonder if you were too lazy to look through your cabinets before you went to the store and know that you’re wasteful with your money. So do yourself and your budget a favor (and the environment!) and take a leaf out of his book.
Virgos love their work and are fiercely loyal to their professions and their employers. The Virgo man is absolutely the wrong person to have “I hate my job” or “My boss is an imbecile” conversations with. If you’re not happy with your current employer, best to say nothing for the time being because the Virgo man won’t appreciate it at all.
The Virgo man and Taurus woman are two signs that definitely play well together. They’re both practical, no-nonsense types who will work hard to create a comfortable life. The only problem that might arise is when the Bull smothers Virgo with too much affection.
This doesn’t mean that Virgo can’t form strong attachments. He can, but does so slowly and carefully. It usually takes him a while to fall in love. But once he’s truly smitten, he’s in it for the long haul. Once the Virgo male has committed to a relationship, he is forever loving, patient and supportive.
The good thing about Virgo is that if you know your stuff too, he can take it! He is open to debate and loves talking about things he’s learned and experienced. So the next time your Virgo corrects you on something, don’t hesitate to say, “No! I did it this way on purpose!” and explain why.
Appearance is important for attraction in general, but a Virgo man places a great deal of value on his partner’s appearance. He tends to prefer a neat and coordinated look over trendy fashions, so your hair, clothes and makeup should be simple yet perfect. Avoid heavy makeup or messy hair styles.
This depends on far more than just your sun signs. The complete picture of your personality and his is determined by numerous planet placements at the time of birth. To fully understand someone or how compatible you are with them we need to calculate those other planet placements from their date of birth, and compare them to your own, and then interpret the results. This unlocks the real power of astrology, and gives much more useful and specific information – everything from how they view you and how to turn them on to the best way to avoid arguments.
Virgo men do not run after girls and romance. Infact, they do not mind being single at all. So, you will have to make a Virgo realize that he has fallen in love and needs to form a relationship. Remember, subtlety is the key to all this. If he wants, he can seduce you very easily, while being subtle all the time. He is not prone to flirtations, so you have no reasons to doubts his intentions. Infact, he is too sensitive, selective and honest to indulge in such kind of behavior. The love of a Virgo man is clean, innocent and pure, though it may take some time to win it.
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Talking shop with the Virgo man is never a bad idea, as they tend to find it hard to switch from work mode to leisure mode. In fact, they find talking about work at the end of a hard day extremely relaxing.
A Virgo man is a boon to any workplace, where his intensely focused work ethic and exacting personality will ensure zero slacking or sloppiness in what he produces or achieves. With his analytical and critical thinking skills, Virgo tends to excel at problem-solving, planning, and organizing information. Left to their own devices, these men can be trusted to be efficient in their use of time and counted on to always strive toward perfection.
The Virgo male is willing to give his all in a relationship, but he expects the same from his partner. Virgo is somewhat of a “neat freak,” so make sure your appearance is tidy. Keep a neat home, and never give him any reason to mistrust you. Virgos generally are not the breakup and make-up type. Once he’s done with a lover, he’s done, and no amount of tears on your part will convince him to give it another try.
Online relationships and long distance relationships have unique challenges. One of these is that you get to see one side of someone very clearly: their personality. You don’t however get to see anything about other factors such as sexual attraction. My compatibility reports address this by scoring all factors alongside each other so you can see the whole picture, with any strong or weak areas highlighted. To explore this further please see my article on online relationships.
From just someone’s sun sign however we can only predict some aspects of their personality and it’s too much of a leap to try and predict behavior from just those. Astrology has fairly precise limits. This is an example of an area where sun signs are just too broad and clumsy to give an answer. A real compatibility reading is required to answer the question.
For the Virgo man, sex is a healthy and natural thing, but it isn’t something to be indulged in for its own sake. Hence, a one-night-stand is unlikely to sit well with the Virgo man. He will want to get to know a potential partner first, to feel comfortable and confident with them.
Having too much in common is rarely a good thing in matters of the heart. A Virgo woman and Virgo man may be so critical of one another that discord will often prevail. And since both are reticent with their emotions, things could get pretty boring.
Take this and value it. Instead of wishing he were more open and confident, realize that this quality makes him down-to-earth, modest, loyal, and way less of a showy megalomaniac than the sign that precedes him, Leo. This sense of insecurity that flares up on occasion can be a relief!
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This is a question which is very hard to give a general answer on, as no two Virgo men are totally identical. The key is understanding him and what he finds most attractive in a partner. Astrology can provide a wealth of information to enable this, however natal charts need to be prepared and studied to do so. Please see the article on seduction and astrology for more information on this.
Virgo is not the guy to go to when you need to cry on someone’s shoulder, and he’s not enticed by the “helpless female” act. He prefers a partner who shares his analytical approach to life. He wants to talk about what he considers to be serious subjects, such as life, philosophy, politics, and religion. Try to avoid dumping your emotional baggage on him, or you just might scare him away.
Virgo wants his partner to be real. Who wouldn’t? While they like nice things, brands don’t mean anything to them. Simple and chic resonate with them much more than accessorized and expensive. You should be the thing that shines strongest, not that shiny bracelet you’re wearing.
If you’re not, you risk walking in on this guy organizing your bedroom floor. Suggesting a new soap for you try to get rid of that smell. Throwing out all the expired ranch dressing in your fridge. These are conversations that are better off being avoided!
However, if you’re looking to do something a bit more romantic than helping out in a soup kitchen for a couple of hours, the Virgo man is quite cultured and will find an evening at the theatre extremely satisfying
Often their own worst critics, Virgo men can be extremely hard on themselves – often over tiny errors or insignificant infractions. The Virgoan personality has an intense desire to control all outcomes of any given situation, and therefore even relaxing events like vacations and fun trips are meticulously planned out, with detailed lists, schedules, and charts that must be followed to the letter for them to feel comfortable. Switching gracefully from Plan A to Plan B when their carefully plotted plans fall through is difficult for this hyper-organized and careful sign.
He has a sharp memory and will remember even the minutest of details. You wouldn’t have to remind him about anniversary or birthdays or other important dates. He may not understand why these days are so important to you, but he will remember them nonetheless. Virgo men are not too jealous, but they are possessive in the extreme. They very loyal and will expect the same from you. It is better to burn the love letters of your ex-boyfriends. Once something gets over for them, its over. Emotional appeals and tears wouldn’t budge them an inch.
The mutable quality of the sign gives him enough sense to make changes that are necessary to always keep the relationship fresh. He will want to take you to a place where the plates are always clean and tablecloths white and ironed, so you can spill your tomato soup on them and feel guilty as hell. He will go with you to any place that doesn’t contradict his convictions, but in time, he might get bored of your choices, always in need for a change, even though he belongs to the element of Earth. He is often too practical, but when he is swept off his feet, he will be surprisingly romantic and tender. He needs someone he can truly care about and dating him becomes a privilege in these situations, at least until he finds your first flaw.
He won’t be so stubborn and will be open to doing things you want to do because he wants to make you happy. He’ll slowly start making that pros and cons list and you’ll be on the winning side. If you really want to blow his mind, do a 10,000 piece puzzle on the second date. He’ll be in heaven and think he’s finally found a woman who understands him. Thinking of having an outdoor date? Well, take Virgo man golfing. Keeping track of all those little balls equals hours of entertainment for that detail orientated little creature.
So, better play on the safer side. A Virgo man doesn’t like dumb females, who are ignorant and stupid. You may be the hottest babe in the block. But, if you do not have brains, he wouldn’t even look at you. Impropriety and rudeness turns him off. So, forget wearing that short, revealing black dress of yours. His kind of female has to be clean – body, mind and soul. If you want to win the love of a Virgo male, make sure that you have impeccable manners, spotlessly clean house, excellent cooking skills and decent dressing sense. He is prone to finding faults in others, but please don’t give him specifics reasons to do so in your case.
Your Virgo will have his own unique personality traits. This article talks about sun signs, however there are many other factors. For example his moon sign determines his emotional personality which affects whether he is sensitive, romantic, loyal etc.
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