This usually is not a good match. The Libra woman is often a “party girl,” while Cancer would much rather spend time at home. The Crab is a penny-pincher, too, while the Scales lady often has extravagant tastes. Libra loves positive energy, so she would have a real problem when the Crab was being, well, Crabby.
Hi, Virgo girl here, and I really like everything it says about Cancer, and I even had a Cancer boyfriend when I was a young teen (15) and I ended things with him because I was young still and unable to stay in a long-term relationship (I’m 47 now) but the qualities are pretty on point about what they are like in a relationship as long as they remain interested. I’ve seen some Cancer men and women in relationships and if someone else piques their interest, nothing holds them back, and the fact that they are involved with someone else doesn’t seem to matter much. They get lifted off the ground very easily like a “follow your nose” kind of thing. Its a scary thought that they could be here today and gone tomorrow and you are left with your heart in your hand as nothing is worse than healing a broken heart. And yes, its a part of life, but one I feel they seem to accept quite easily. It seems a bit cold to me. None of them ever did it to me but I’ve seen their tendency with this.
3. Scorpio women and Cancer men are considered a pretty good match up by most astrologers, though that doesn’t mean it’ll be an easy journey. You’re both driven primarily by the element of water, and are ruled by planets with a habit for being very changeable. Depending on your triads, you two could find yourself clashing and fighting around one corner, and then having hot n steamy sex on the next one. Or you could find each other refreshing, peaceful, and enchanting for the most part. There are many scenarios, though I’m sure you get the idea. The main point I’m trying to make, is that it could be that you two might have stars, wants, needs, desires, issues, circumstances, and personalities that are as far a part as your ages. Age isn’t always a barrier, but it can turn a mountain into a mole hill when you aren’t compatible in several other ways.
If the relationship leads to marriage, be a wife in whom he has absolute trust. Make your home a safe, cozy haven from the outside world, filled with sentimental mementos, works of art, and comfortable yet stylish furniture. Pamper him with candlelit dinners, bubble baths, and massages, and compliment him often. Your emotional support and approval will be very important to your Cancerian husband.
Cancer is a highly sensitive and intuitive sign, always aware of the needs and feelings of others. Unless they’re with an equally intuitive and sensitive lover however they need to be very communicative and open (which they typically aren’t) or there’s a danger of them feeling that others can understand them, but simply choose not to care.
This union is difficult but not impossible. A Virgo woman is much too practical to ever understand Cancer’s emotional approach to everything. The constant criticism from the Virgin will hurt the Crab’s tender feelings. On the positive side, both signs love their “creature comforts” and have a strong work ethic.
I’m definitely thinking about writing another hub just for your question about “is it worth it”. After having been with a cancer man for over 15 years, I’d like to say “YES! Totally worth it!”, just like a fictional romantic lover would say, but it’s just not as simple as that. There are definitely things that I’d wish I had known before we committed, but at the same time, I wouldn’t change a thing that’s happened. So until I get that hub written, all I can suggest to you, is that to be with a cancer man for life, is to have one of the deepest and most connected relationships you’ve ever had, for better and for worse.
If you are looking to learn more about Cancer men, there are several resources available online. One book that I highly recommend is: Cancer Sun Sign Series. What’s nice about this read is the straight-forward, easy to understand format the author uses.
Ask him for help when you move into a new office or apartment, or if you go shopping for a new car. If nothing quite so dramatic lies ahead of you, however, look for smaller excuses. For example, ask his opinion about a dilemma you have at work, even if you’ve secretly solved the issue yourself.
Ruled by the moon, Cancer men may be uncommonly in touch with their emotions, able to take on roles that many of their male counterparts would be utterly lost in, like romance and parenting. You will find that chivalry is not dead with this sentimental and poetic knight in shining armor – if you can get him to take the armor off.
Present a traditional feminine aura. Most Cancer men are attracted to women who are highly feminine in a very traditional way. Subconsciously, a Cancer male will be looking for a woman who fits his image of the ideal wife and mother. Everything from your appearance to your mannerisms should ooze femininity.
When first cast for the role, portraying actor William B. Davis thought a show about the paranormal would not last for long. Before joining The X-Files cast, Davis had not smoked a cigarette in twenty years. For the first two episodes he appeared in, he smoked “real” cigarettes, but later changed to herbal cigarettes, giving the reason that smoking was dangerous for his health. In at least one early script draft from the “Pilot”, a Special Agent named Lake Drazen is present at the meeting near the start of the episode, having chosen Scully for an assignment to evaluate the validity of Mulder’s work on the X-Files. The scene was eventually deleted and replaced, and several crew members have hinted that Agent Drazen became the Smoking Man.
A Cancer man is sensitive to his partner’s emotions and has the need to connect on a deep level. If he was badly hurt by his family situation, there is a chance he will be too afraid to open up even with the seemingly perfect partner. He doesn’t like conflict and will in most crazy situations stay calm. When he is irritated by something, he will probably say nothing, but swallowing negative emotions might make him sick, so it is important for a Cancer to find a partner who will support his expression. He is tender and caring, will probably never forget his partner’s birthday, and could bore some of the zodiac signs crazy. If one is for adventure without emotional base or purpose, they definitely shouldn’t choose a Cancer partner.
Kim Manners said that it seemed all the prominent pieces created for The X-Files were created by “accident”. According to Manners, Davis was nothing more than an extra leaning on a shelf. At the start, the producers of the show were not sure about making the Smoking Man the main antagonist. Paul Rabwin commented once that he did not know if Davis could handle the role, because he was not sure if he was a “good enough” actor for the role. Manners later commented that Davis knew that the Smoking Man had two different characters, the first being the one played by Davis and the second was the cigarettes. He further stated that the cigarette smoke could tell a “whole story” by itself, thanks to Davis’ talent.
Deeply sensitive and easily wounded, your Cancer may not give you another chance to do him wrong once you’ve hurt him. Cancer men have long memories, and never forget once they’ve experienced a slight. Tread lightly and be kind to this Crab, and you will be rewarded with undying loyalty.
Fiercely loyal and protective, he will do anything to ensure the happiness and security of his loved ones. Cancer men are amongst the most loyal IF they love their partner. If they don’t love their partner then all bets are off (the same as for every other sign).
Cancer is an unpredictable sign, with a little of everything at different times. This can make them far more exciting and unpredictable lovers than the standard nurturing image would portray. If you enjoy nurturing your partner it’s a win:win. If you’re the type who often neglects a partner it’s a lose:lose.
With his date, time and location of birth these other factors can be calculated for a complete picture of his personality. To explore this further please see my article on astrology compatibility readings.
Satisfy his craving for affection. Even though Cancers like to assume a traditional male role, they are also fairly in touch with their emotions. They crave love on an emotional level, so don’t be afraid to shower them with affection. The more your actions demonstrate your affection, the more likely your Cancer man is to respond in kind.
Cancer is a naturally nurturing sign. If they care, then they tend to show it fairly obviously and readily. Hugs, questions about your day, troubles, worries, picking up on your moods etc are a good indicator. On the other side of things, withdrawing if offended or hurt is an equally good indicator. If they care about someone they become very easily offended by that person.
He is tender, sweet and doesn’t talk too much. Although his sensitivity can stay hidden for most of the time, he will show it when it matters and this guaranties relationships that last, if he doesn’t underestimate himself and choose wrong partners. He is genuinely interested in his partner’s life, rarely says things just to get someone to bed, and is usually a safe choice to start a peaceful family with. On the other hand, he can be needy and insecure, and some more energized signs could see him as weak and boring.
Indecisive – He wants strawberry. No, wait! Make that chocolate… or does he really want vanilla? Second thoughts will plague his decision-making, and if you can’t stand a man who takes forever to make up his mind or who would rather leave most decisions to you, then this guy is probably not for you.
No advice will ever apply to every Cancer man as they are all unique in various ways. I specialize in offering tailored advice based on your unique personality and his together, as one without the other isn’t nearly as useful. My astrology readings solve real relationship problems for real people every day. For more information please see the article on relationship advice.
The Cancer man knows exactly how to a take a woman into his Crabby grip and keep her there forever. We may be setting feminism back a few centuries by saying this, but damn, it feels good to have a man take care of you like he does. Of course, there’s thin line between security and smothering. When he sidles up from behind and puts his arms around your waist, you’ll either hope he never lets go, or make a mental note to call him if a choking victim needs the Heimlich maneuver.
Instead of listing every sign’s compatibility with a Cancer man, I’m going to list the most compatible sun signs. If you’re sun sign isn’t on this list, don’t fret— it doesn’t necessarily mean you aren’t compatible, it simply means it’s time to compare your and your beloved’s Moon signs and see what’s going on there.
Nothing fulfills a Cancer man more than a happy family, with himself at the helm. He rules the zodiac’s fourth house of home and family. Lifelong security is his mission. On a horoscope wheel, the fourth house is located at the very bottom, representing the foundation of the chart. Indeed, the Cancer man builds his love life from the ground up, planting deep roots and nurturing them into a mighty, multi-generational family tree.
When talking about your current family, focus on the maternal side. Talk about things you have learned from your mother or time you have recently spent with your mother. Cancer is a classic mama’s boy, and if you can show a love for your mother that rivals the love he has for his own, you can connect to him more easily.
Passionate, volatile and exciting the Cancer man has an emotional strength and vulnerability which many find to be highly attractive and uniquely sexy. Deeply caring and sympathetic lovers they will do anything for a partner whom they’re in love with.
Before diving in too far, you have a right to know who is authoring this piece. I am not an astrologer nor a “psychic”. Instead, I’m a counselor and educator who enjoys writing about these kinds of topics.
Davis was included in Entertainment Weekly’s list of the 50 Biggest Emmy Snubs, the list’s author saying that the presence of the “Cigarette Smoking Man” was as important as “black oil, alien implants, and Scully’s skepticism”. The Malaysian newspaper the New Straits Times called the Smoking Man one of the most “intriguing” characters of the show. However, Christianity Today said that the mystery behind the Smoking Man had evaporated by the late season episodes. Likewise, Ken Tucker from Entertainment Weekly felt that “the monotonous evil of Cancer Man” had “become actively annoying” in later seasons of the show, being that his lurking presence did not seem as mysterious anymore. Salon reviewer Jeff Stark felt the show was at its best when you “didn’t exactly know the motivations of the Smoking Man”.
In the traditions of horoscopic astrology, Cancer is considered the “Fourth House” of the astrological universe. A “house” is nothing more than a theoretical construct that holds certain traits. In turn, these traits are gifted to those born under its shadow.
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